458 Praise Kuawu's three-year-old classmate
Suspicious, irritable, and small-bellied men have not been very popular since ancient times.
But Xiaobai knows that Wushan is not such a person in essence, he is just extremely fragile and sensitive during this time, just like a little pot friend who needs more care.
This is understandable, it is difficult for anyone to encounter such a strange life plot, and his duty is to give him double the warmth and comfort.
Xiaobai feels that there are 3 relationships between himself and Wushan:
The first is that he is like his own child, rolling around and playing coquettish, he needs to coax and hug him high, and he will be so happy that he doesn't want to give him a little sweetness, of course, it may be that he pretends to be happy to make himself feel relieved;
Second, he is like his father or brother, cherishing words like gold and serious, but he always uses his broad chest to shield himself from the wind and rain and send charcoal in the snow, becoming his support when he is helpless, and can also point out technical problems and the maze of life;
The third is like his favorite ice cream, so sweet that his teeth are about to fall out, and his heart is about to melt.
At this time, Wushan's mobile phone rang.
As the leader of a super business group, his mobile phone rings almost every few minutes on average, but he uses intelligent diversion software to filter out useless ads, and some calls are forwarded to messages, and some are directly forwarded to the company's relevant personnel.
In the end, he will pick up the calls from his family, such as Ma Yang and the secretary, an expert in aiding Africa like Bao Dacheng, and a call from his family.
The call was from Mayang, and Wushan answered it with a headset.
After answering, his expression was a little strange, and he only listened to what he said: "Yes, I forgot, I will personally take full responsibility." β
Xiaobai couldn't hear what Ma Yang said, but he could vaguely hear Mr. Ma Yang's tone was very stern, as if he was reprimanding Wu Shan for any mistakes, and Wu Shan didn't mean to defend himself at all.
It's just that the two of them can get along like this regardless of their superiors.
"Is something wrong?"
As soon as the call ended, Xiaobai asked anxiously.
Wu Shan was silent for a long time before he said slowly: "Yesterday, when I went to sign a cooperation agreement, I was confused for a while, and mistakenly signed a piece of adjacent land that was 10 times larger than the other party, causing huge losses to the company. β
"Can you sign like this?" Xiaobai was surprised, "It's the first time I've heard that you can make this kind of mistake, but didn't the other party find out that you made a mistake?!"
This is extremely unlikely.
"Didn't the other party take the initiative to say something?" Xiaobai asked suspiciously, "Isn't it okay to communicate with the other party?
She was so naΓ―ve. If he could, the other party would not have been eager to accept this accidental pie from the sky at that time.
Now the name of Wushan is signed in black and white, and there is no evidence to prove that it is not Wushan's original intention......
In Xiaobai's silence, Wu Shan sighed lightly: "I think, can I retire early?"
At first, Xiaobai didn't know where Wushan came from, and with an invincible spirit, no one looked down on him, but now, Xiaobai realized that Wushan's psychological problems were far more serious than he imagined.
It is necessary to untie the knot in his heart and make him believe that he can work as well as he used to be and loved by his family, and he must help him regain that self-confidence.
But what about the current problem of the wrong agreement?
Xiaobai's eyes rolled, and a question suddenly came to mind: "Is it right not to wear gloves when signing a business contract?"
"Huh?"
Wushan is inexplicable.
Xiaobai said confidently: "Then what evidence do they have to prove that it is a valid contract and not a fake contract signed by someone else on your behalf?"
Wushan still has some corners to turn around.
Xiaobai: "If you signed it, it should have your fingerprints on it." β
Wushan suddenly realized. Because of the special structure of super bionic skin, it will not leave fingerprints on the paper.
"Just let me have a black belly once," Xiaobai blinked smartly, "Since they know that there is a big mistake in the contract and do not point it out, and they are greedy for huge interests that do not belong to them, then such a partner is not trustworthy and will not deal with it again in the future." So, breaking the contract is not only not a loss, but a blessing, right?"
It was almost the first time that Wushan looked at Bai Yunnuan with adoring eyes. This woman is getting more and more sophisticated, more and more elusive, and more and more flavorful.
I have to admit that her suggestions in this matter are not bad at all.
Integrity is the basis of mutual cooperation, if there is no integrity, cooperation is meaningless, and follow-up communication must be difficult.
Although one side of the villain has won a windfall, it will not bring more benefits to both parties in the long run, but will only make the conflict more intense, and at the same time give other competitors an opportunity to take advantage of.
Some people can kick away in order to keep the flying windfall. Not to mention partners, friends, fathers and mothers can kick them away.
How could Wushan not understand these truths? I didn't expect it for a while, because his mind was really not on work recently, and he was in a trance every day, wandering out of the world.
To be precise, his mind has been focused on low self-esteem and the fear of losing the love he loves.
Wu Shan: "Okay, tomorrow I'll try to negotiate between the two parties to revise the mistakes and re-sign the contract." If the negotiation fails, the only option is to file a lawsuit. β
Xiaobai smiled: "Well, I'm sure you'll handle it beautifully." β
Wu Shan: "I found that you have been praising me lately. β
Xiaobai hugged his neck: "I praise you because you're good, do you think I'm like the kind of person who has no bottom line and slaps horses?"
Wu Shan didn't answer again, but a heartfelt smile appeared on the corner of his mouth, which was looked at by Xiaobai.
To rebuild his self-confidence, to be honest, she has no more good methods, and the only practical thing now is to praise him often, which is also the experience summed up when she was a teacher.
Those who have been counted down by their parents since childhood, who are always compared with "other people's" children, and who rarely receive praise from their parents, are obviously more timid and inferior than those who have been praised by their parents since childhood, and dare not deal with strangers, are afraid to do things and dare not try new things.
Once, Xiaobai passed by a football field and saw a group of boys around 6 years old playing a decent football game. Outside the stadium were a group of excited parents, many of whom were eager to roll up their arms and sleeves to kick themselves.
Each team has 11 small pot friends, and when 5 go up to play, the other 5 sit on the bench and watch.
I saw that a few parents of one of the teams took advantage of the opportunity of their children on the bench to rush up and count their babies all over the place -- why don't you play well? Why don't you run faster? Why don't you go to defense? Why do you keep falling on the big horse? And look at the ugly posture of your fall, you can't fall with a little temperament?!
The few children who were counted down stared at the innocent big eyes with a look of panic, and they were a little overwhelmed, and the next time they played on the field, they couldn't bear to look at them directly.
In the other team, there is a little boy Tommy, to be honest, that is the most miserable game in the team, probably the youngest, after going up most of the time squatting on the ground to pull weeds to play, sometimes leisurely put the grass in his mouth to taste a taste, a comfortable face, not even touched the hair of the ball.
How many times, he sat comfortably on the grass, watching the opponent kick the ball into his own goal with a cute face.
However, every time it was his turn to sit on the bench to rest, his father would come up to him and applaud and say, "Tommy, you did a great job, I counted it, and you finally took more than 20 seconds to see the ball, and you even tried to chase the ball twice!
Tommy listened to the praise, smiled so much that he couldn't see his eyes, and when he played in the next round, although he also played grass, although he still ate grass, his eyes were really on the football for 30 seconds!
It turns out that the president of the United States praises children without a bottom line like this, no wonder it is said that American self-confidence is the most indestructible!
Bai Yunnuan, a melon-eating crowd, was dumbfounded at the time, but he was also very inspired.
Later, I also read a report that there are two pots of the same plant, and they enjoy the same amount of sunlight, water, temperature and air every day. But every day there are people who constantly praise one of the pots and insult the other.
As a result, a few months later, the pot that was praised continued to grow green, and the pot that was insulted withered and died......
So Bai Yunuan also adopted the method of more praise and less criticism in her work, and the results were very good, the little children she taught have established a strong self-confidence, and they also prefer the lessons she teaches, and now she uses bottomless praise on Wushan.
Xiaobai suddenly said: "Have you heard of Wushan, the Prince of Denmark belongs to the inverted son-in-law who 'married' into the royal family, according to the royal family, the crown prince's husband can only be called the prince or the prince cannot be called KING." The Prince of Denmark felt that he was being sexist and depressed for half his life. Every time I was angry, I ran back to my 'mother's home' France. But as soon as the Queen's wife flew over to coax her, the Prince immediately followed her home happily. β
Wu Shan wondered: "What are you trying to explain?"
Xiaobai smiled: "Don't you think it's very similar to you's 'Wu San-year-old'!"
"Wu Gao Leng" she loves, "Wu is three years old" still loves, if you love a person, you should love everything about him, love all his appearance.
Love his strengths and accept his shortcomings, love his smile and feel sorry for his pain, love his well-dressed and like his laziness and relaxation.
No one can always maintain the same high profile and completely avoid emotional ups and downs.
Wu Shan has such emotional ups and downs, which shows that he is not a thoughtless robot.
Xiaobai suggested: "There is an artificial intelligence expo the day after tomorrow, let's go and see it together?"
Wushan is a little reluctant to this topic, and does not want to be reminded that he is different from others, but he doesn't want to ruin her interest, besides, Wu's has a special artificial intelligence project, and the relevant personnel have been arranged to participate in this exhibition in batches, and as the chief helmsman, he should learn more about the industry trends, so he finally went.
On that day, there was a large and eye-catching sign at the entrance of the fair, which read: "In the future, maybe we are all cyborgs!"
It's not sensational, a circle of exposition turns, and the amount of information is too great to be wanted.
Experts predict that it is likely that in the 21st century, chips will be added to the human brain to directly improve memory and mental arithmetic ability.
The artificial intelligence prosthetic can be perfectly compatible with the human body, and the brain-controlled manipulator can not only easily lift the weight of a thousand pounds, but also gently pick up the egg.
Tiny electrodes and sensors can be connected to the heart to automatically monitor heart rate, body temperature, blood pressure, blood pH value, etc., and the monitoring results are automatically transmitted to the mobile phone for viewing.
Not to mention what bionic contact lenses are, clairvoyance and downwind ears will not be a problem......