Chapter 395: Set a good example for your son

The uncle who hooked up with the little girl, if everything you did today was known to your son, then have you ever thought about what the consequences would be? What will your son think of you? Will he think that you are a special cow? Or will he think that you are a basket, an unqualified father? I think you will think that you are an unqualified father, a basket.

Maybe he will also say to you, I will be like you in the future, when I am nearly forty years old, I will have a salary of 3,000 yuan, and then I will drive a small car of 100,000 yuan, smoking a pack of cigarettes for more than 20 yuan a day, and holding a bottle of Coke in my hand, which is a bottle a day.

I don't need to achieve much, even if I finish high school, even if I pull down, I don't want to work hard in a better place, a higher education, because I feel that that kind of life is not suitable for me, and it delays my time to play, I feel that play is the most important, the happiest, the most energetic.

And then like you, I went outside again and again to break my shoes, hooked up with a little girl younger than me, the kind of guy I could be his father, so it was very energetic, and put my daughter-in-law at home, anyway, it's been so long, I'm tired of it, I should try it and have some fun.

The most important thing is that I want to go to work in a factory, I want to get this salary, I don't want to do any big business, I just want to live for myself, I spend all my money for myself, or for the little girl I hooked up with, I should use my money for this kind of place that makes me happy, not like other families.

Spend money on my daughter-in-law, buy her clothes, buy cosmetics, take her out to play? Hehe, that's impossible, how boring it is, it's not exciting at all, I like a stimulating life, the life I want now is what I want, the life you plan for me, what kind of stuff is it, it's not interesting at all.

I don't give my own money to my son to spend, I don't think it's useless, isn't he my son, he can go his own way, and he has a mother, he should be taken care of by his mother, not me, how can I have so much time, if I have so much time, I still have to hook up with the little girl, go out with the little girl.

The most important point is that my daughter-in-law must earn more money, not to mention making too much money, how can she be higher than me, I have three thousand yuan a month, she has to earn at least six or seven thousand yuan, this kind of life is right, otherwise how will I live in the future?

The money I earn is not enough for me to spend on myself, not enough for me to be chic, not enough for me to take the little girl out for a walk, so how can I be? People, live a lifetime, what is the most important? Of course, happiness is the most important, if happiness is not important, then what are you still alive for? It is better to die, am I right?

What daughter-in-law, what child, let me get out of the way, don't affect my life, my life can only be my master, who has time to accompany the daughter-in-law all day long, around the children all day long, take them out to play during the holidays, there is that time I might as well drive a car, lead the little girl I hooked up with to go out to play, this is what I should do, this is what a man should do.

I think, if your son talks to you like this, and analyzes his life for you clearly, then you can't be angry with your nose crooked, angry with a few special spirals, angry with your brain all smoking, and the aisles are straight to your head, right?

No one wants their son to be like this, they all want their son to have a good family environment, be able to go to school very comfortably, be admitted to a famous university in the future, find a very good job after graduation, and get ahead in this life, this should be what every father expects, right?

But is all this really so possible? Can it really be as beautiful as you think? If it is an ordinary family, a happy family, there is absolutely nothing wrong with thinking like this, people can be said to be very energetic, very motivated, and full of energy.

In fact, children need a very good learning environment to learn, the choice of environment is very important, not all environments can be learned, there is no good learning environment, how do you let your children learn? What can you learn from that thing? You can't learn anything, you will only achieve nothing.

Maybe that uncle you are a little unhappy, so many people who have not studied in a bad environment? You have also studied in the middle of the growth, what's wrong with people, don't you still become a great man, not only our great man in China, but also in the world is also the attention of thousands of people, many people admire and abundant, just because of the achievements he has obtained by studying.

There is nothing wrong with what you said in this sentence, which great man has not been in a difficult environment, but not all people are great men, not all of them have the end of their suffering, may I ask how many people can reach the great man now Some of the things they have done and some of the hardships they have suffered?

It seems that there is no, there are only a few minority, but it will be a matter of time whether it will be successful or not, what is said here is that there is no persistence, if you can persist in all these things, not a day or two, not a year or two, but keep doing it repeatedly, do you feel that you can persevere?

Definitely not, if you can really persevere, then what's the point, will you still be the person who is holding 3,000 yuan now? You have already become a big official, or you are an entrepreneur indicated by one party, so not all people have the strength to endure hardships in them, and not everyone has that kind of consciousness.

Maybe the uncle who hooked up with the little girl will say, what's wrong with my son, what's wrong with my son, aren't they all people? Aren't they all grown up eating whole grains? Although the two people were born in different times and experienced different things, they seem to learn the same thing, and I believe that my son will definitely be able to.

As soon as I heard such words, I was so eager to pick up the big kitchen knife and hit your ass with a "slash", "Why are you so shameless, you are too thick here, it seems to be the skin on the ass of a donkey, it is so thick that it can't be pierced with a needle."

As the father of your children, what kind of force do you yourself are, do you have no idea in your own heart? When you were in school, how good your grades were? Did you get into college? Do you have a good job? It seems that you have not achieved any of these things, you are just an ordinary worker.

You yourself are so finished, and you are so unmotivated, every day you know that you are loaded with that big basket, pull the calf, you are embarrassed to ask your son for this and that? Can you still pee and take a picture of your face that looks like a few handfuls? It seems that the old Wang Bayi in the sea is in a state of shrinking his head, and he can laugh to death with a person, grass.

He even said that he threw your son into the vegetable market to study, like a great man, and you didn't have water in your head when he said this? Ah? Why didn't you throw yourself into the vegetable market to study? When you were young, you went to the vegetable market to study? Just like you, if you were thrown into such a quiet place in a coffin, you would not be able to learn well, and you would have to suffocate to death.

With your current family environment, economic situation, and a salary of 3,000 yuan, what can you give your child? Can you enroll your child in a good cram school? Are you willing to spend money on your child?

Just like you, I don't think you have to spend money on the little girl, deduct and search, so much money, you don't have enough to spend yourself, maybe you have to spend the little girl's money, and you don't spend money B, you have to spend other people's money, you are also a gentleman, vulgar to say, that is*** go, you have to spit on the young lady, saying that you have epilepsy, isn't it?

The woman who can live with you for a lifetime must love you very much, like you very much, and give you everything she has, but I didn't expect you to be a basket, a family has to rely on women to support it, women earn more money than you, and they don't have any ability at all, and they don't treat your daughter-in-law well?

Just you are so tormented, your daughter-in-law will take you one day sooner or later, and then find someone better than you, richer than you, don't think that people can't live without you, what are you doing, are you air, or are you special RMB? You are a dog.

You may say, well, what are you afraid of if you don't have money now, there will be one in the future, I bah, you have a few handfuls, just like you, you don't have money to buy paper to wipe your butt when you go to the toilet, and you still have money, you can pull it down.

You will definitely not be happy when I say this, and you will continue to say: I still have my son, my son will definitely be able to in the future, the poor children in the family will get ahead, and they will definitely not be wrong, I advise you, go home and take your son to do DNA, your dead appearance, can your son be yours?

However, things are far from being so simple, the cold kiln produces talents, this sentence is not wrong at all, only the poor family, people will know how to work hard, will know how hard a good life is, how enviable, so that people will work very hard, to achieve their own goals.

But now the current society, it should not be the same as before, everything needs money, needs connections, needs your ability, some people may not believe it, but life is really like this, everything is based on the material foundation, not by your poor family background.