Chapter 443: Insecurity

Fang Yi reluctantly pulled the corners of his lips and sat on the sofa next to Wu Lao.

Seeing that she hung her head and was silent, Wu Lao smiled, "Oh, what are you doing when you talk about it, you will be depressed, I'm afraid that Uncle Fei will let you tell the little secret in your heart?"

His tone was relaxed and playful, not at all like what Fang Yi had encountered, as old and dignified as someone his age.

But it must be said that this attitude is really relaxing.

Fang Yike's face couldn't help but smile.

Wu Lao saw her smile and sighed, "That's right! Such a beautiful little girl, don't be sad at every turn, just smile more!"

After a pause, he asked seriously, "Haven't you heard that sentence?"

Fang Yi looked at him with question marks in his eyes, what kind of sentence?

"Girls who love to laugh won't be unlucky!"

"Poof! Uncle...... Do you often read those chicken soup articles on the Internet?"

Wu Lao stroked his palm, "You also see, haha, you deserve to be a fellow practitioner!"

The two laughed for a while, and then discussed the inspiring words on the Internet, including the poisonous chicken soup that has become popular in the past two years, which was very speculative.

In the end, Wu Lao suddenly changed his words, "It's okay, I won't hide it from you, when that kid in Xicheng called me before, he told me everything about your situation." As for me, because I know that Xinran and Xinfei know you, I also got to know them a little. In addition, I went to your clinic before and talked to your colleagues about you, so I can be considered to have some understanding of you from the side. Of course, the most important thing is that the two of us get along today, which makes my image of you more three-dimensional in my mind. Then I went back and thought about what Xicheng said, and my opinion was that he was thinking things too complicated. ”

"Too complicated?" Is that really the case?

Wu Lao tapped his palm, "It's not just him, but you too, it's too serious to blame the problem." If you have to say that there is a problem, it is that when people encounter injuries continuously, they will have a stress reaction, but everyone behaves differently, and this cannot be generalized! Let's just say that you, what you need now is not the diagnosis and treatment of a psychiatrist, but the most basic work and friends! Of course, given that your body has not fully recovered, you can take your time with both of these things. In terms of work, it is difficult for you to participate in practical work now, and that's okay, taking advantage of this rare break to enrich your professional knowledge is also a good preparation......! It's the same, when you have time, you can ask a friend you can talk to to come to your house for a seat, or go to a friend's house as a guest, no problem. ”

Wu Lao teased at her, "In my opinion, you are a hard worker! After a long break, it is easy to think cranky!"

Fang can also purse his lips and laugh.

Perhaps, it really is!

When she has something to do, she feels a lot more down-to-earth.

Like before in the hospital, she had to rehabilitate every day and work quietly, although she was a little overdose and almost tired and had problems, but at that time, her heart was calm.

Unlike now, my emotions are very unstable, and when I am alone, I often feel lost.

She thought about it, and her eyes finally became crooked.

The gloom in my heart has also dissipated a lot.

Wu Lao didn't bother her until this time, and then smiled, "Have you figured it out, we'll go out, so they won't be in a hurry! Don't you know, that stinky boy in Xicheng is so fierce that he threatens and lures me, an old man, on the phone!"

Fang Ye asked in surprise, "Threat and temptation?"

"Not really!" Wu Lao shook his head and learned Huo Xicheng's tone, "If you can cure her, I'll donate you a library! If not, don't even think about the library!"

Fang Ye covered his face and laughed.

What!

That man is simply generous, okay!

It's like a library at every turn...... It's just the rhythm that makes others want to hug their golden thighs every minute!

She wiped away the tears from the corners of her eyes and said with bad intentions, "Then I'll go out and tell him, Uncle, your treatment is completely ineffective!

"Huh, you bad girl! You can't spoil my good deeds! Go out and tell him that the effect is very good, and you will come back next time! Do you hear it? Of course, I won't treat you badly, you can take those two books to read, and when you finish reading them, you can borrow them again, how about it?"

Fang Yi pretended to be dissatisfied, "Then I'm too disadvantaged, it's better to let him build a library for me directly!"

Wu Lao stretched out his finger and pointed at her, "You're really a bad girl! I also attach a note to comment every time, this is enough!"

"Then it's barely enough......"

"Hey, you're still unwilling?"

"Looks like there's a lack of rewards?"

"Or ...... You try for a while, pass my test, and then accept you as a student!

Hearing this, Fang Yike's eyes lit up, comparable to a light bulb.

"It's a deal!"

"It's hard to chase a horse!"

The two made an agreement, but after going out to the living room, they didn't say a word.

While the two were not paying attention, the old man and the young man secretly looked at each other and gave each other a thumbs up.

At this time, Mrs. Wu stood up, "You talk, I'll go to the kitchen to take care of the lunch, Xicheng and Yi are not allowed to mention the matter, you must have a meal!"

Horsie City answered.

Fang Ye also stood up, "I'll come with you!"

Wu Lao hurriedly waved his hand, "Go quickly, the kitchen is your territory, Xicheng is here to play chess with me!"

Fang Yi followed Mrs. Wu to the kitchen, guessing that Wu Lao must have told Huo Xicheng about her, so he didn't know how he would react when he heard it.

It's hilarious to think about!

She thinks so, but in fact?

Huo Xicheng not only couldn't laugh, but frowned.

Wu Lao also swept away the relaxed freehand in front of her, and the two sat on the sofa in the study, and he said cautiously, "That kid ...... She is very insecure, you can't let her rest at home for so long, whether it's studying or whatever, find something to do for her. Plus, she needs friends, she needs to socialize. She is able to gain a considerable sense of satisfaction and accomplishment at work and in interpersonal interactions, as well as self-confidence, and at that point, she herself will be able to regulate her negative emotions. ”

His hands were on his knees, and his fingertips tapped lightly, "Her psychology has a lot to do with her experience in the orphanage, as far as I know, a large number of children who come out of the orphanage will have this kind of problem to a greater or lesser extent. On the one hand, they have a strong self-esteem and tend to make too much distinction between 'mine' and 'other people's', and on the other hand, they are very persistent in accumulating things under the concept of 'mine', both material and spiritual. The more they accumulate, the more their sense of security and the affirmative curve of self-worth will be pushed to the peak, and on the contrary, they will regard it as a failed life! This mentality has a tendency to develop to the extreme, and you should pay special attention to this. ”

Huo Xicheng was silent for a moment, and said with difficulty, "So, did she regard the accidents she encountered one after another, which caused her to be unable to go to work, as a huge failure, and her mentality will become more and more unbalanced?"

Wu Lao nodded slightly, "You can also say that." Don't you notice? She is in a very agitated state right now, and the slightest movement will make her body tense and unable to look at people for a long time, and the long silence will make her more and more depressed...... In this state, it is difficult for her to communicate well with people, and she is even easily so emotional that she can't control it!" he paused, then continued, "I don't want to increase her pressure, so I didn't mention these words, and you don't have to mention them to her." I lent her two books as an excuse to make an appointment for her to come and return them, along with a reading note. They are all professional books that she is interested in, and I believe she will calm down and read them. Next time, you don't have to be with her, you're not there, and she will subconsciously be a little more relaxed. ”

Hearing this, Huo Xicheng suddenly raised his head.

"You're saying that my very existence stresses her out?!"

"That's right!" Wu Lao affirmed his statement. But then he said, "Don't think that this is because she is not close to you, the truth is the opposite, because she values you more than others, so she also cares about her image in your heart." She has realized that sometimes, she can't control her emotions, so in front of you, she will obviously become more cautious and careful. Even if it wasn't a good thing for her, she did it. ”

Horsey's hand resting on his lap clenched tightly, "She's ...... Will it go on forever?"

"Of course not!" Wu Lao couldn't help but feel sympathy when he looked at him, but in his opinion, the so-called "accidents" that Fang Ye suffered must be inseparable from Huo Xi City, in other words, he was affected by Huo Xi City. Thinking about it this way, he felt that the most sympathetic thing was not Horsey City.

He reassured, "When her injury heals, her life is on the right track, and there are no other accidents, she will naturally be able to adjust her emotions, and she will be the same as you were before!"

After hearing this, Horsey City did not relax as he expected.

On the contrary, a bitter taste slowly appeared in his eyes.

In other words, I can only show up when her life is going well, and when she is restless, restless, and insecure, my presence will only bring her more pressure...... How do you make me accept this outcome?"

Wu Lao was also silent.

After a long time, he said slowly, to the point, "If this situation occurs, you yourself will also be very responsible." If you keep convincing her, then it is likely that things will not develop this way! If you make a mistake, it will take several times, or even dozens of times, to win back her trust...... I hope you can understand that sometimes the human heart can be very tough, but sometimes it can also be very fragile, and if you are not careful, you will never be able to recover the original. ”