The desire for money, the desire for success, and the morbid pursuit of a house are just the complexes of the Chinese?

Is it simply because our economy has been recovering for decades that this sense of security is still tightly in control?

It's not right, Lao Mei is also said to be a successful chaser, and many upper-class people rely on taking medicine every day to regulate their bodies.

Is it worth it?

Yuan Changwen looked at the green and secluded mountains and forests in the distance, wanting to get an answer, but no one answered.

There is no difference between choosing to pursue success and choosing to pursue health.

It's just the pursuit of life, and it is illogical to say that health is noble and financial success is belittled.

There are countless words that can be used to describe the importance of health, but don't these importance vary from person to person?

Some people think that health is a lifelong thing, but some people feel that it is more important to trade their lives for success, who can convince whom?

Making fun of others is often an inferiority complex in the heart and a cover for inner fear.

And then what?

Yuan Changwen couldn't help but ask himself, I know all this, and then what?

Why can't I get rid of the entanglement of money and can't kill the grasp of money?

At this moment, no emotions came, and Yuan Changwen naturally felt that he should let go and kill his desire for money.

However, he also knew that he had not done this.

[Why do you always want to hold on to money?]

(Is there anything wrong with money?? You can buy things at will without thinking about it, you can go wherever you want, why do you have to kill money?)

[Money is good, I admit. But it's the same thing as air and water. Why do I have this pathological sense of need for it?]

(Because you don't have enough money, no one thinks you have too much money.) ）

[That's right, it's never enough.] But in fact, it is very contradictory, I feel that I don't have enough money, and I feel very uncomfortable, and it seems that I have to have more money. But at the moment I don't have that much money, but I'm still alive. So what is this kind of "must"?

(Think about the future!Enough now, but later?)

[Future intimidation is meaningless to me. But why can't I let go of my desire for money and my imagination for my career?]

[No, imagining the success of your career, in the final analysis, is to make money. Even if you don't have a career and money falls from the sky, you will be very satisfied. So, it's still money!]

(If you can't let it go, you can't let it go, so why force yourself?)

[I know that money is not me, money is false, but it just can't kill the pathological need for money! It makes me feel uncomfortable and disgusting, and makes me mistakenly think that money is me. 】

[What makes me still hold on to my money? Is it still the fear of the future?]

(Don't think about it, there's a beautiful woman standing next to you!)

[If it is still the fear of the future, then I have not gotten rid of the influence of the future at all. Also, if you really don't care about the future, then you won't have the idea of "not enough money". 】

[Only when time exists and you look to the future, will you think that the current money is not enough, and you will work hard to earn money. So, you still have to remove the time?]

(What if I don't have enough money to buy something now?)

[But why should I buy something I can't afford now?]

(Because I want to buy it, but I can't afford it, I have to work hard to make money!) This is such a natural thing, I don't understand why I want to kill it.) ）

【Why do you want to buy it?】

(If you want to buy, you want to buy, why do you want to buy?)

[No, this is a very important and crucial point, and it is not okay to fool the past. Why do you want to buy it?】

(Maybe it's because of the necessities of life.) ）

Suppose life requires it, I want to buy something that I can't afford, and then I don't buy it because I can't afford it, and life goes on. 】

[Since I buy it or not, life goes on, what kind of life needs is this?]

(Life needs to improve, it can't be static, right? It has to get better and better.) ）

[In other words, I am not satisfied with my current life, and I must have something I can't afford before life can go as planned?]

(It doesn't have to be, but people have to have a thought and a goal to strive for, right?)

[This is a morbid pursuit, not a simple goal. I value money so much that I dream about how to make money, how to be free and arrogant after making money. When you don't make money, you are depressed, uncomfortable, panicked, and afraid, isn't this pathological?!]

[Don't go far, answer me, why am I not satisfied with my current life?]

(Because people go to higher places, they always want to become a better version of themselves and live a better life.) ）

[Why go to a higher place, why live a better life?]

(Because I'm not satisfied with my current life!)

[Why are you dissatisfied with your current life?]

(because...... Damn!The problem is back!)

[So, please answer.] 】

(uh...... I don't know!)

[I don't want to say it, because of low self-esteem, because I see others doing well, so I feel inferior and ashamed. 】

Some people have money and some people don't, this is the normal development of society and the basic structure of society. Who makes me keep comparing myself to others? And who keeps making me a better version of myself?]

[Is it the "self"? No, there is something deeper. 】

Fear of being despised by others, and then gain a sense of accomplishment from despising others. So, you don't want to be despised and ridiculed by others, and then go crazy and work hard to make money?]

[That is to say, it has nothing to do with money, but with contempt?] What society admires, then what I will strive to obtain. If honor is admired, then I will pathologically pursue it for the sake of honor?]

(Fart!Can honor be eaten as a meal?)

[Well, it seems that it has to be linked to matter...... No, in ancient times, people who risked their lives in order to leave a name for themselves in history, were they only a small number of people? And in the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China, were they only a few people who sacrificed everything for the country?

(That's just the result of being brainwashed.) ）

[How can I be sure that I am not brainwashed by money now?]

(Fart!Can't you see the benefits of money?Big house, good car, no worries or no anxiety, these benefits are obvious!)

[Why do you want these benefits?Do you still envy others and want to be envied?]

Depend on!

Or "self"!

It wants to be noticed, it wants to be recognized, money is the perfect way to convince itself that it's a meaningful goal.

But at the end of the day, it's nothing more than the "ego" that wants to survive.

It makes me think that this is me, and it enjoys interacting with reality and letting emotions pull at me.

Yuan Changwen smashed his fist on the windowsill, and the aluminum alloy window frame made a crisp sound.

I can't let go, is it because I have too many emotions invested?

Or is it because I identify too deeply with this self-definition?

It's all fear.

Fear of being looked down upon, fear of the future is not enough, fear pretends to be hard work, so that you can find an excuse to overcome your fear.

But "overcoming fear" itself is driven by fear!

Cut!

Yuan Changwen pursed his lips, as if he was born to fight with the world. It's like the whole world is just going to keep killing itself, and then it's going to keep struggling against it.

Interesting?

Yes, surrender.

I've been talking about it for a long time, but I just haven't done it. For more than 20 years, no one has taught them to surrender, and everyone has been encouraging them to fight hard against them.

Demon, is it your ghost?