Chapter Ninety-Eight: The Father Who Is Not Good at Expressing Himself
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Feng Zhenchang came back this time, and the treatment was different from the previous one, although it was not a return to his hometown, but it was very popular.
Since he arrived in Meijiayuan, people have been greeting him warmly and asking him about his business in the provincial capital. He knew very well in his heart that these people in the past didn't look down on him, the son-in-law in the mountains, although Mei Jiayuan was also in the mountains.
But we are good at finding all kinds of advantages, the big cities look down on the small cities, the small cities look down on the townships, the towns look down on the countryside, and the countryside close to the townships look down on the countryside farther away from the townships.
Meijiawan is close to the town, next to the provincial road, looking down on the road is not even passable, Fengjiachong in the deeper mountains can also be understood.
But now it is different, Wang Changning's parents will follow him to the provincial capital in a few days. This is different from other people who work in factories and construction sites, taking people from the village out, they only take the young people out of their families, and the family always has to keep people to farm, Feng Zhenchang dared to take Wang Changning's parents to the provincial capital this time, so that they didn't even plant the land, and they didn't leave any way back, and they were not sure that he would dare to do such a thing?
Coming out of Meijiawan and returning to the village, the people he met were more enthusiastic, all of them shouted from their fathers and uncles, and gave him cigarettes one by one, and when he returned home, the cigarettes in his pockets were enough for two packs.
He can clearly distinguish that the people he meets today are definitely different from when they called him in the past, everyone used to call him only out of respect for his generation and age, but today is different, it is respect for him as a person.
This is also very understandable, those children who are now working outside the home have to save 1,000 yuan a year, and they usually have to be very, very saving. Feng Zhenchang can earn at least three or four thousand yuan a year, and it is a thing that can be done for a long time, why don't you want to do it?
The current countryside has not yet been infected with the impetuousness of the later cities, the croppers are very down-to-earth, and no one has the intention of getting rich overnight. conAd1();
Therefore, when Feng Zhenchang arrived home today, his face was redder, his waist was straighter, and his voice was louder.
According to the theory of the American psychologist Maslow, along the way, he has been fully respected and met his high-level needs, so he is more confident. And this kind of self-confidence has a bonus to his behavior, so the aura shown on the outside is stronger.
Of course, he is still a responsible farmer, who has believed in the golden mean for decades, is used to being cautious, and will not put on a show and pretend to be angry.
However, his good mood was inevitably affected when he saw Feng Yuxuan.
Feng Yuxuan diligently brought water to her father, made tea, and fanned him when she was done.
However, seeing her father's sinking face after sending everyone away from the house, she felt the familiar nervousness again.
Sure enough, when everyone left, Feng Zhenchang began to go crazy, "As soon as you go out, you won't go home for a few years, and you usually don't even have a letter, what are you doing when you come back now? Aren't your wings stiff, don't come back if you have the ability!"
Feng Yuxuan was a little disappointed when she saw that her mother didn't come back with her, knowing that her wishful thinking might be in vain this time, but she didn't expect that after not seeing her for a few years, her father would be a roar when she met her.
I went out to work for three years and didn't come home, I knew that my family was in trouble but I still didn't send a penny back; I didn't see her for a few years, and my father didn't ask her if she was doing well, and she yelled when she met,......。
Guilt, grievance, disappointment...... , All kinds of emotions were intertwined, she couldn't help crying, Feng Zhenchang saw her daughter crying, and felt a little guilty in her heart, but she still pretended to be angry and went to smoke outside the gate.
You can vaguely hear Feng Hongbing's mother persuading him, "Yuxuan hasn't been home for a few years, of course it's not right, but she's a girl, it's definitely not easy to be outside all these years, uncle, don't blame her anymore, just come back, besides, she's so old now, you scold her so much, how can she bear it?"
After a while, she came in and said to Feng Yuxuan, "Yuxuan, don't blame your father, you said that you are a girl, you won't come home for three years as soon as you go out, and your parents don't even know what you're doing there, why aren't they worried? conAd2(); It's good to take a few scoldings, it's all over, don't cry anymore. ”
If Feng Yiping was here, he would calmly say to Feng Yuxuan, what is there to cry about? Dad, this is how their generation expresses it.
When Feng Yiping and them were young, Feng Zhenchang would definitely be like Feng Yiping when he first became a father, hugging them when he was free, and pretending to prick them with his hard beard from time to time, making them laugh .......
But when the children grow up, he grew up in the era of believing in "filial piety under the stick", which may be inherited from the influence of his grandparents, or it may be the social division of labor, so that he consciously plays the role of a strict father, pursues "strict love, leniency is harm", and rarely has a pleasant face to his children, except for when he beats you, there will be no physical contact.
He never said to Feng Yuxuan in a gentle and serious manner, we don't expect you to subsidize the family, but you have not come home for a few years, and there is no news, do you know how much we miss you and worry about you?
He wouldn't tell Feng Yuxuan that every year during the Chinese New Year, when he thought of his daughter being alone, in the dead of night, he and Mei Qiuping were worried and couldn't sleep, avoiding Feng Yiping, sighing for a long time, the family was not reunited, and he felt unhappy this year?
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Although parents say that they will not favor one child, in reality, those who are sensible and obedient will of course receive more care.
However, that sentence is also true, "the palms of the hands and the backs of the hands are all meat", obedient or disobedient, sensible and ignorant, worry-free or not worry-free, they are all their own children, how can parents not love?
When he saw the daughter of someone else's family who went out to work with Feng Yuxuan, going home every year and sending money to the family every month, Feng Zhenchang, who had been embarrassed, sometimes complained that his daughter was not sensible, but the moment he saw his daughter today, these complaints disappeared, but he was not good at expressing it. conAd3();
Perhaps, "beating is kissing, scolding is love", "love is deep, responsibility is keen", which is more suitable for parents to Feng Yiping and sister.
This is Feng Zhenchang's unique expression, this is Feng Zhenchang's love.
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