The other four people in their dormitory are one from xxx mountain, one from x qing, and two from x south.

The youngest is Xqing, his hometown is also in the countryside, and the family has not yet built a house, but it is still a three-room earthen house.

He is the only one in his family, his parents are also farming, and he also studied in a high school, and he stopped studying if he was not admitted to a key university.

If he is admitted, he may also take out a loan to study, although he is the only son.

Parents don't urge him to find a girlfriend, knowing that his family conditions are average, where can the girls see it, and his parents are very happy to go home for the New Year, so he can save the money from his part-time job and go home to repair the house when the time comes.

He smiled and nodded in agreement, his mother told him not to look for a girlfriend now, he was still young, and he found a girlfriend who couldn't get married and used the money, or it was for nothing, what should he do then?

He kept it in mind, in fact, he thought the same way, at least another four years, and he was only twenty-two years old.

So when he usually rests, he doesn't go to the girls to go out to play, and washes his dirty clothes and cleans the dormitory by himself in the dormitory.

The rest of the time is to sleep, go to the TV room of the canteen below to watch the news and learn about the people's livelihood at that time.

Most of the boys like to watch it, and when they have dinner during the break, everyone sits there and watches.

The girls don't like it that much, and they only go back to their dorms after watching the news.

He usually saves money, saves most of his salary, and rarely smokes and drinks, and his mother tells him at home that he must develop good habits so that girls will like them.

The other two x Nan, one is twenty-seven years old and the other is twenty-six, neither of whom is yet married.

Knowing that they are already married, they are a little envious.

The twenty-seven-year-old brother has three brothers in the family, and he is the second in line, and the eldest brother is already thirty years old and only got married this year.

My younger brother is twenty-four years old, and he doesn't study anymore, so he has come out to work.

Of the three brothers, only the younger brother studied in a vocational high school, and he and his brother only studied in one junior high school.

When they turned eighteen, they came out to work, and the three brothers all saved, and the money they earned from working was already building a new house at home.

He and his eldest brother stayed at home, and if the younger brother wanted to be a son-in-law, they would agree.

The burden on parents with many sons is heavier, and they need a sum of money to build a house and marry a daughter-in-law.

The eldest brother only went home on a blind date this year, and after working for eleven years, he can finally get married. Mom and Dad cried happily at the time.

The son is already so old, and he finally got married, and he finally put his heart at ease, and his sister-in-law is also local, two years younger than the eldest brother, and gave 30,000 yuan in gift money.

The eldest brother and sister-in-law are all thrifty, and now they have opened a snack bar on the street of their hometown, and the business is average, and they are ready to have a child, so they have not come out to work.

After the money that the X Nan brother saved himself to build three new houses, there are still some left, and he wants to give gift money for marriage, and he doesn't want to get married yet.

Now that the marriage is paid, what should I do if my wife doesn't want to come out to work, and what if she asks to have a child now?

After thinking about it again, he was going to work for another two years, or go back to his hometown to find a girl to marry, which was a bit inappropriate to find outside.

I'm afraid that girls will use their own money, and they don't want to start a family with themselves, it's not in vain.

My brother now has a girlfriend, the family conditions are okay, she is the only daughter, and her parents ask the man to come to her house.

My brother liked that girlfriend very much, so he agreed.

The other twenty-six-year-old X-Nan brother is two brothers, he is the eldest, and the second brother is still studying and is about to graduate from college.

My parents also farm at home, and my second brother's grades are okay, he is studying in two universities, and he also came out to work at the age of eighteen.

In fact, his grades in reading were also very good, and considering the heavy burden of his parents, he took the initiative to give up studying.

Half of the money he earned from his part-time job was sent home and given to his younger brother to study.

He himself was also very frugal and never smoked or drunk.

Later, when the second brother was admitted to university, his parents asked him how much money he still had? He said that because he still had to repair the house, he must have to save money himself.

His parents asked him if he could lend it out for his second brother to study, and when the second brother made money from his work, they would return it to him.

He thought about it for a while, so he had to agree, no matter whether the second brother would return him in the future, he still had to help him, and he was his eldest brother.

The second brother was very grateful, thanked him, and took the initiative to write an IOU to him.

He had to smile and say, "Anyway, you just don't let us down." When you have money, don't forget about me, big brother. ”

Mom and Dad actually feel a little sorry for the eldest son, after all, they are their own sons, and the eldest son pays more.

Now that the second brother is about to graduate, he is also relieved that only half of his salary this year has not been sent home.

His parents also told him not to send money and save it himself, after all, he was almost twenty-six years old.

His situation is a bit similar to that of Dechang and them, except that his money is given to the second brother.

Dechang and they sent money to their sister, and they could also find them as wives, and they didn't suffer a loss.

In fact, he thought in his heart that he hoped that his second brother would have a good job in the future, and he could pay back the money to himself when the time came.

The twenty-six-year-old brother planned to talk about a girlfriend at the age of thirty, and he had a little money at that time.

When he was resting in the dormitory, he told him about his situation, and they all said that he was righteous, and now many of his brothers may not necessarily help him.

In fact, it is difficult to be fair to be a parent in these things, so it is better for each family to have only one child, don't sacrifice one, fulfill the other, and some people still complain about their parents in their hearts.

Whether it is rural or urban, only children can be raised a little better, and most people understand this truth, but few people will abide by it.

People go their own way, and in the end they make themselves very tired.

The eldest xx eldest brother's hometown is also rural, and he has a younger sister at home, and his parents don't ask him to send money home.

He only sent a little during the Chinese New Year, and he saved all his money and went back to build a new house four years ago.

His parents felt a little sorry for him, because he gave birth to a daughter, so after the child was weaned, he immediately took the initiative to take his grandson and let them come out to work.

My sister has long since stopped studying, she is twenty-five years old, and she also talked about a boyfriend this year.

His parents were very good to their sons, knowing that they worked hard, and the chickens and ducks raised at home would be sold for money to save some pension money for themselves.

Usually he will send some money back every month, his son will need some money at home, and his parents will also save some money at home, so as not to let their little grandson get sick.

Although I didn't buy toys for my grandson to play with, I was okay with the food.

My son rarely gets sick and is in good health, so they can only rest assured that they are working outside.

It's just that when I went home in the past two years, my son didn't know himself and his wife, and he would get close to him after a few days.

When he came out to work, his son would hold his thighs and persuade him for a long time so that he would not cry.

took out the candy he bought for him to eat, slurred and said that I want my father, and my wife shed tears next to him.

had to go out in order to live, but his grandparents had to take him away and let him cry tired and sleep by himself, and the two couples hardened their hearts and left.

After more than ten days of getting along for the New Year, I took my son to sleep together, and my son's little face was very happy, and he called his parents inarticulately.

After a short time and then leaving, no child will want to.

So this xx eldest brother wants to save his own money to start a small business in his hometown, so that he can see his son at any time, so that it will be better.

Although my parents brought it very well, I was afraid that the child would be rebellious when he grew up, and he would not be obedient to recognize himself, which was really sad.

When I repaired the house and got married, I basically ran out of money, because my parents only gave 5,000 yuan, and the rest was all paid by myself.

gave 38,000 gift money, repaired four houses, and my sister rarely sent money back, and she also went out to work for five years.

Maybe she wants to start a family herself, so she saved it herself.

So this xx big brother told them that it is best to have children later, and it is best to save more money, even if the parents don't help bring it, the wife can not go to work for a few years, and it will be better when the child can study.

After hearing this, the brothers could only sigh, it is so difficult to get married, and it is even more difficult to get married.

They each talked about how much money they would give in the countryside and how much money they would pay in the countryside, what other money and six silver would they ask to buy, and what prices might increase in the future.

The consequence of preference for sons over women is that there are more men than women, and it takes a lot of effort and financial resources to get married.

In their hearts, they were very envious of prosperity, and they got married without giving gift money.

Prosperity they have to say it's luck, and you'll get married slowly.

They didn't dare to say that they forced their two younger sisters to marry them at the beginning, for fear that saying it would make them laugh off their big teeth.

They are also discussing how much gift money is appropriate, too much to give, too little to be unhappy, and too little.

There are also girls who are too snobbish and can't be found, because people are not all the way with them, and they can't get together.

If you want to find the kind of girl with a good heart, they won't be too difficult for you.

They all sighed at the current prices, what will happen in a few years? Everyone has only one thought in their hearts, and it seems that the high wages are not enough.

In fact, there is no way to do this, prices are not rising, the enthusiasm of the people is not high, and other countries are also rising.

Most of the brothers in the dormitory also said what they wanted to do in the future, and most of them thought that the construction industry made more money, but the wages were not as stable as those paid in the factory.

There is also a drinking industry that makes more money, but it is very tired.

Everyone thinks that they can open a restaurant together in the future, but they need to find a place.

You can't open the industrial area with food, only in the tourist area, or in the commercial street, these rents are very expensive.

Everyone sighed, it is difficult to work, and it is even more difficult to do business.

It is really not easy for people to live for decades, and survival should be the most difficult.

Other loves are nowhere near as difficult as this.

Go for it, the brothers encourage each other.