Regarding the discussion of marriage, Hong Yanwu and Shui Qing are all sincerely thinking about each other.

The hearts of the two people are getting closer and closer.

But despite this, they still feel that there is still a lot of pressure.

Because in the end, everyone knows that how to lift the lid and how to get the recognition of both families is the biggest problem in their marriage.

If this cannot be solved, no matter how well they plan for the future, it is meaningless.

"Otherwise, let's let it go again. When we're really ready, find a good time to ......."

Shui Qing pondered hard about this and felt clueless.

She frowned and lost confidence first, and made a negative suggestion.

But although Hong Yanwu was not sure enough, he insisted on facing the difficulties.

"No, no. As the saying goes, you can't hold fire in paper. If we want to drag it out, we will really wait for the family to inquire about us, then we will be passive. You see, unsuccessful lies can sometimes turn what is justified into something that is not justified. If this is the case, as if we consciously take care of the loss, they will become more and more straightforward, which will increase the resistance. Besides, you're not in a hurry, I'm in a hurry, now every night I dream of marrying a daughter-in-law. I'm afraid of long nights and dreams, and you can't bear to let me suffer?"

Okay, the last joke burned Shui Qing's face again.

But this is also a kind of happiness, which invisibly alleviates her worries.

"Can you be serious? You have to do it...... Just say it. ”

Hey, this kind of complaint is a bit coquettish.

Hong Yanwu is naturally not good at selling off the guanzi and playing the edge.

"Okay, listen to me. I mean, since we have to take this step, it is better to see the battle sooner. If there are any problems, they can only be solved if they are exposed. As the saying goes, soldiers are fast, at least they can be caught off guard, and they don't have time to think of too many reasons for opposition. ”

"Of course, there may be a lot of people who oppose us being together, and it's not just our parents. But that's fine, because not all the people who oppose it think the same thing, and there will always be some people who are more resolute, some people who are not so resolute, and the reasons for their opposition will not be the same. ”

"So my idea is to take advantage of the fact that they are still scattered, from easy to difficult, and it is better to break each one. In this way, not only can you keep secrets to the greatest extent, but you can also win over the alliance to the greatest extent and win the support of friendly forces. ”

"If most of us were to talk to us, our parents would be much easier to talk about. Even if the parents still disagree, they are annoyed by this. There are also people behind the scenes who can help us continue to do our work. What do you think?"

Not to mention, Hong Yanwu's this is really an empirical statement, with very practical benefits and operability.

Isn't Shui Xiaoying the first to be pulled over, and it plays a big role in it.

When Shui Qing heard this, although no one could guarantee that if he did so, he would definitely succeed, but he really couldn't find a more feasible way.

So she nodded.

"You're right, then let's do it. ”

However, although she raised her hand in favor, Hong Yanwu did not become complacent, but said with some concern.

"Qing'er, to be honest, I'm not afraid that this matter will have any twists and turns, repeats, or even drag on. But I'm afraid of one thing, that is, you yourself may change your mind because of the opposition of your family. ”

Shui Qing hurriedly confessed.

"No, I won't. It's our own business. Not to mention that in the present age of marital autonomy, it is the so-called 'parent's order. The matchmaker's past can't change my own choices. Why do you think that? Don't you believe me?"

Hong Yanwu sighed.

"It's not that I don't believe you. But reason is reason, and emotion is emotion. The dilemma in the world is that there is a contradiction between emotion and reason, and it is difficult to have both. It's easier to just take the same problem. ”

"To be honest, in life, there will be many things that we can't help ourselves, like our relatives can't choose. Friends can be left behind, and husbands and wives can divorce, but the blood relationship will never change. But which one is more important, family affection or love?"

"What should you do if your parents insist on beating the mandarin ducks? If you don't agree to separate from me, they will cut off relations with you, or even take more extreme measures to force you, what will you do?"

"And when relatives fight, it is often more difficult to compare who is hard-hearted. Even if the winner is divided, it is the result of losing both, and the palms and backs of the hands are full of meat, which hurts feelings. ”

Not to mention, obviously Hong Yanwu thought of the front again this time, and he still saw it most comprehensively.

So as soon as these words came out, Shui Qing suddenly fell silent, and after thinking about it for a long time, he could only continue to ask him.

"So what do you say you should do?"

"I need your complete trust and faith, you leave everything to me, you don't care what I do. But you have to believe that I will solve all the problems. And before the problem is resolved, you must not be in a hurry, you must not give up, and you must not have a hard time with fellow relatives. Can you do it?"

This time, Shui Qing didn't hesitate, and in just a few seconds, she looked into Hong Yanwu's eyes, exuding a gentle and trusting look.

"I can, I believe in you. ”

At this point, Hong Yanwu and Shui Qing's thoughts finally reached complete unity.

Next, it is time for the two of them to work together to face and overcome difficulties positively.

For them who are apprehensive and uneasy, how good it would be if they could encounter an auspicious omen at this time?

It definitely gives them great encouragement.

But it backfired, such a good thing didn't happen, but made them in a big hurry first.

Dare to love is that they sit for too long and talk too devotedly.

As a result, Shui Xiaoying was completely ignored by them, and the child ran farther and farther away by himself, and he didn't know when he suddenly disappeared.

When the two of them realize this, how can they not be in a hurry?

Although there are many good people and few bad people in these years, there are no cars, and even human traffickers are also dedicated to abducting and selling boys, relatively speaking, it is much safer for children to get lost.

But what's worse, it's Kunming Lake nearby.

In these years, the public facilities are not perfect, there is no fence by the lake, how can the child fall?

So Hong Yanwu immediately went to look for Shui Qing separately, he asked Shui Qing to run to the East Palace Gate, and he ran to the Seventeen Hole Bridge by himself.

As a result, as soon as he saw the lake in the distance, he was startled.

Because there are older people gathered near the copper bull on the shore, it seems that something big has happened.

He hurried over in a hurry.

But soon he was relieved again, because before he could run over, he had already heard Shui Xiaoying's loud voice howling in the crowd.

This at least shows that she is alive and well.

And then when Hong Yanwu took a closer look, he was only left with an unbelievable stunnedness.

Because what he didn't expect was that he really drowned.

A man and a woman rowed and fell into the lake, and the man choked to death, and when he was fished out, he lay on the ground with bruises and his face covered with a coat.

The girl who came with him was sitting on the steps crying.

And what he didn't expect was that the woman was crying, and Shui Xiaoying was actually crying with her on the side.

Snot and tears are sprinkled vigorously, how sad and sad you are.

Many people who watched the excitement regarded Shui Xiaoying as the family of the deceased and persuaded the woman.

"Don't cry, you have to think about the children around you. ”

Some people said, "Well, the child is still so young, and the father drowned, it's really miserable!"

Now the woman naturally cried even more aggrieved, crying and arguing at the same time.

"We're not married. Who...... Who knows who this kid is......? I don't know her......"

When Hong Yanwu heard this, his head was big.

Without saying a word, he squeezed in and quickly pulled Shui Xiaoying away.

When he was far away, he turned his head and asked the child again.

"Hey, you girl. You don't know anyone, why are you crying?"

As a result, Shui Xiaoying's answer simply made him want to jump into the lake.

The girl claimed with tears in her eyes that she was infected by the woman's cry.

I wonder if the family would be so sad if it wasn't the man but her who was lying under the mat.

So, she really hopes that she can die again, not for anything else, just to let everyone cry for her, so that she will seem very important.

Then he asked Hong Yanwu, "When I die, will you still miss me, and how long will you cry for me?"

Good guy, at such a young age, he is cranky and misty.

is still alive and dead, it's just a young sister Lin, what a fragile little glass heart.

The point is that this kind of thinking is really dangerous.

So Hong Yanwu solemnly issued a warning.

"I'm telling you, death isn't fun. If you're really dead, there will be no more you. There is only a piece of black, a black that can never be walked out. So you have to stay away from the danger and don't think about it anymore. ”

I didn't expect this girl to say, "I'm not afraid of the dark, I'll turn on the light." ”

Gotcha, the heartless single's true colors have come out again, all in vain!

Hong Yanwu suddenly realized that compared to everything else, being a qualified father is the most difficult and difficult.

(End of chapter)