Chapter 496: Birth Plan (Part I)
"My cousin has given birth, isn't it? The last time you mentioned it to me, didn't you say that the due date was on Valentine's Day?"
Ding He received Zheng Mengyuan's phone hall to Zheng Mengyuan and said that his cousin Zheng Xiaomin had given birth, and he couldn't help but be very surprised by this matter, because the last time Zheng Mengyuan mentioned it to himself, he smiled and said that the due date was still on Valentine's Day.
"I don't know what's going on. I was born prematurely, but fortunately the child is healthy, and my cousin is safe, you can come back after work today and make arrangements. We're going to see my cousin in the next few days!"
"Okay, I know, you can rest assured about the company's affairs, I'll arrange as many days as possible. ”
After Ding He hung up the phone, he hurriedly arranged the next plan, because he had to leave to see Zheng Xiaomin in the next few days, so he had to complete all the work plans in advance, and delay them in the future.
Zheng Mengyuan and Zheng Xiaomin have a very good relationship, and Ding He also likes his cousin and cousin-in-law very much, so when his cousin gives birth to a child, Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan put it in the most important position, after all, family affection is the most important work, and these things can be lined up in the back row.
"Mom, didn't you mail some of the children's clothes to my aunt before? Why do you have so many at home......?"
Zheng Mengyuan frowned and looked at the pile of things for children that her mother had cleaned up.
"This thing was originally prepared for you by me, but the two of you refused to have a child, there is no way, your cousin has a child, so I will use it for his child in advance, and then I will continue to prepare~"
When it comes to having children, Zheng's mother is a little unhappy, her own girl has not moved for a long time, and she refuses to express her position with herself, it seems that there is no shadow of this matter.
"Who said we don't want children......" Zheng Mengyuan pursed her mouth very aggrievedly, and stopped talking after finishing speaking.
"Do you two plan to have a child?" Zheng's mother couldn't help but turn around when she heard what Zheng Mengyuan said, looked at Zheng Mengyuan with a surprised face, and then said: "Girl, tell your mother the truth, what do you two think!"
Zheng's mother suspected that she had heard it wrong, or that she had misunderstood what her girl said, and she couldn't believe that her girl had just said that she wanted a child.
"What else can you think, let it be, after all, this matter can't be forced......"
Zheng Mengyuan was a girl when she mentioned having a child, and she couldn't help but feel a little shy, so she said vaguely.
"Girl, don't lie to your mother, your mother is too old to stand the toss, is it really natural to have a child?"
After Zheng Mengyuan's mother heard Zheng Mengyuan's words, she was quite excited, so she hurriedly walked over to Zheng Mengyuan, held her hand tightly, and looked at her expectantly.
Zheng Mengyuan couldn't cry or laugh, and looked at her mother helplessly and then said, "Mom, I'm such a big person, how can I tell you such a joke?"
Zheng Mengyuan can't help but complain about her mother here, is it necessary to be so exaggerated?
I have already discussed the matter of having a child with my husband, so I let it be, but I felt that this was the privacy of the husband and wife, and I didn't talk about it with my mother.
After Zheng's mother heard Zheng Mengyuan's words, she patted her chest as if she had taken a reassuring pill, and then then said: "This time I went to your cousin's house, you and Xiaoding hugged the child more, touched their joy, and got pregnant!"
Zheng's mother's smiling eyes closed into a slit, not to mention how festive it was, she patted Zheng Mengyuan's hand while laughing, and then twisted her bucket waist and continued to clean up the pile of children's things.
"These children's clothes, after your cousin's children have finished wearing them, it just so happens that our children can continue to wear them. When the time comes, I will tell your cousin that you must not lose these clothes, and our children will still use them when the time comes~"
Zheng's mother was chattering while packing up her small clothes, thinking in her heart that she would make a few more things when the time came, and prepare the child's things neatly!
"Mom, why are you so happy today~"
At this time, Ding He also packed his things and pulled his suitcase to the first floor. I saw that Zheng's mother was happily cleaning up the pile of children's clothes on the sofa.
Ding He didn't think much about it, thinking that Zheng's mother was so happy because of her cousin's childbirth.
"Xiao Ding, come and help me, these clothes don't look like much, but it's very troublesome to tidy up~"
Hearing Ding He's words, Mama Zheng smiled and beckoned to Ding He and asked Ding He to come over to help.
Ding He didn't say much about the current situation, so he hurriedly sorted out his clothes with Zheng's mother.
I don't know why, Ding He always felt that his mother-in-law was a little different today, because his mother-in-law looked at her with a smile today, and her happy expression was a little different from her attitude towards herself in the past.
Although my mother-in-law liked herself very much and was very enthusiastic about herself before, I always felt that there was an indescribable gaze in my eyes today......
"Looking at the fat boy, where is the shadow of premature birth? It's so good~"
Zheng's mother looked at the chubby little doll lying in the stroller, her whole heart melted, although the child was born prematurely, but it looked chubby, not at all as thin and small as a premature baby.
"Originally, I was also very worried about the child, the health problem, and the worry that Xiaomin would not be able to do a good job in confinement, but I thought that after coming here, I found that I had thought about it all too much. Their mother-in-law is very attentive to us and has invited the highest level of care directly from abroad~"
Zheng Xiaomin's mother looked at the girl lying on the bed to her grandson as she spoke, and then said, "Seeing that they are both so good, I am also down-to-earth." ”
Zheng Xiaomin's mother is also very worried about Zheng Xiaomin, after all, a woman gave birth to a child and went on such a trip, not to mention that she was born prematurely, and she came in a panic after hearing the news, but because the distance between home is too far away.
In addition, Zheng Xiaomin gave birth to a child, and Zheng Xiaomin didn't care about sending a helicopter to pick up his mother, so when he came, Zheng Xiaomin had already been discharged from the hospital, and it was good to see the child and the girl, and Zheng Xiaomin's mother was also much more down-to-earth.
Through this incident, Zheng Xiaomin's mother was completely reassured, originally thinking that her daughter was married highly, and her in-laws would look down on and bully, these things have always been taken to heart and are very worried. But today I am completely relieved, because my mother-in-law's side is very attentive to their own girls, from food and clothing, including medical staff, all of them are the best.
"How's it going, do you feel particularly relaxed after giving birth?"
Zheng Mengyuan said as she gently combed Zheng Xiaomin's hair.
"Don't mention it, when I first gave birth to the child, I thought the same thing, but then I found out that his coming out of the belly was simply the beginning of a disaster......"
Zheng Xiaomin was talking and talking, and Zheng Mengyuan remembered what she had been tossing by her children these days.
"Sister, let me tell you, the matter of having a child is nothing compared to the matter of raising a child after giving birth. Originally, when I was pregnant, I was always afraid of how painful it would be to give birth, but after you give birth, you will find that the pain of giving birth is not pain at all, and it is the real pain when the child cries and wants to drink milk every night!"
Zheng Xiaomin said vividly, Zheng Mengyuan also listened carefully and seriously, a first-time mother, I complained about one of all, and I haven't given birth to a child yet, but I don't know that I shouldn't learn from Zheng Xiaowen so far, because Zheng Xiaomin is just a novice mother.
"What do you want to do if you don't have a child, who doesn't have a child like this, and your own child doesn't take care of you? Could it be that you still want to sleep until dawn and let him cry there alone? Really, you young people are not at all the same as we were back then, and it is tiring to be idle day by day, and it is tiring to even raise a child......
After Zheng Xiaomin's mother heard Zheng Xiaomin's words, she couldn't help but sigh, thinking that her daughter had already become a mother, and she was still such a child, and it was too troublesome to even take care of the child.
"Mom, don't talk about me, I didn't know your ...... after I became a mother."
Zheng Xiaomin pouted as she spoke, looking at her mother with a very gentle gaze.
After Zheng Xiaomin became a mother, she really understood that it was not easy for her mother, when she heard her mother's complaints, she always felt that her mother was exaggerating, but now that she is careful, it is really not an exaggeration at all!
"It's true, I'm a mother, and it's not too numb to say these words like a girl at home, okay, okay, I'll go see if the hen soup is stewed~"
Zheng Xiaomin's mother was very embarrassed to hear her girl's affectionate confession, so she found a reason to leave the bedroom.
Zheng Ma, Zheng Mengyuan and Zheng Xiaomin looked at each other and smiled.
At this time, Ding He and his cousin-in-law were busy greeting guests outside, and the two of them also started to communicate in their spare time.
"Brother-in-law, although it is a woman who gives birth to a child, we men must also be mentally prepared. ”
Akai clenched his fists as he spoke, with an impassioned and generous expression, and then said: "From conception to childbirth, and the birth of a child later, this is a road of no return! Women will have a great psychological burden from the beginning of pregnancy, and it is very likely that they will be depressed when they are pregnant. Especially in the months before and after childbirth, you must pay extra attention, because if you are not careful, you will get postpartum depression!"
"I think what you said is very reasonable, giving birth to a child is a very painful thing, and it is also a very long thing, as a man, we play an indispensable role, we must take good care of our wives, so do you have any special experience or extra attention? cousin-in-law, you have to teach me well!"
Ding He nodded while listening, and said very solemnly.
The two of them are like a motivational speech, one speaks with relish, and the other listens attentively.
Although giving birth to a child is a woman's business, as a husband, Akai, despite being busy outside, despite socializing, still finds time to accompany his wife, because Akai has specially asked the doctor for advice on things that need special attention during pregnancy and before and after childbirth, that is, mental health problems.
"Brother-in-law, these are the experiences I have summed up. ”
Akai patted Ding He's shoulder very solemnly as he spoke, and then continued: "I haven't studied too much about the education of children and the companionship of the family in the later stage, and when we have children in the future, we will communicate with each other, and we will strive to be the best husband and the best father!"
"Okay, no problem!" Ding He nodded solemnly and said.
This trip is really not a loss, after seeing my cousin's children, and taking so many scriptures, Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan have gained a lot.
"Although your dad and I are old, our legs and feet are still very neat, we can only be regarded as just entering the ranks of the elderly, don't worry, let me and your dad go back by ourselves, the two of us are better than the world of two~"
When she went back, Zheng's mother refused to go with Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan, and strongly asked herself to act alone with Zheng's father.
"Okay, you guys go back, your mother and I haven't gone out to play since we retired, so let's go out and see the world~"
As Zheng Dad spoke, he waved his hand at Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan, and then left without looking back with his luggage and Zheng Ma.
Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan looked at each other, and couldn't help but burst out laughing.
"Where are the two of them going to the two-person world, it is clear that they want the two of us to go to the two-person world~"
Zheng Mengyuan said while laughing, feeling that her parents were really cute, and the smiles on her parents' faces had not disappeared since she knew that she had planned and planned to have a child naturally.
This time, the old couple proposed to act alone, I am afraid that they also want to give themselves and their husbands more opportunities to be alone, so that the two of them can strive to have children as soon as possible.
"Okay, just let Mom and Dad go by themselves, and call if there's anything. As he spoke, Ding He gently hugged Zheng Mengyuan and whispered to Zheng Mengyuan: "The two of us have to make persistent efforts, don't let down our parents~"
"Nasty~"
After Zheng Mengyuan heard Ding He's words, she couldn't help but feel shy, although the two had long been husband and wife, Zheng Mengyuan was always very easy to feel shy.
Because before coming, things were completed in advance or postponed, and Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan were idle these days. After leaving their cousin's house, the two planned to relax as well.
(End of chapter)