He Bo still couldn't figure it out.

An old man fell on the road, and he helped send him to the hospital to save people out of kindness, and he had always thought about getting something in return from the other party's family, and it would be a good thing not to lie to him.

However, after the family members of the old man went to the hospital to understand the situation, they insisted on giving something in return, and if you don't want to do it, Uncle He couldn't figure out whether they were repaying the good people or repaying this kind of moral conscience.

After following Xu Ran out of the hospital, Uncle He couldn't help but say: "Xiao Ran, I just feel that I have done a trivial thing, but they have to repay me, and I am embarrassed as if I am trying to repay me......

Xu Ran said: "Uncle He, let me ask you a question, when you were helping the old man to get up and send him to the hospital, did any idlers take pictures with their mobile phones?"

He Bodao: "It seems that there is, and there was a young man who reminded me to be careful at that time, saying to help me shoot a video as a witness!"

Xu Ran said: "That's right, Uncle He, if you don't say what you want them to do if they return this favor, and once someone puts that video on the Internet to have an impact, they will feel even more embarrassed, don't you see that the two middle-aged people talk and behave with some leadership style, according to me, the one who never speaks should be the real leader, and the younger one next to him should be the secretary."

Maybe you think that helping a little favor is a trivial matter, but for others, you are saving the lives of other people's families, especially as leaders, the most afraid is to owe human debts, you don't want honorarium, and don't want other benefits, don't let them pay back their peace of mind, what will they think?

On the contrary, they will worry that after you understand their identity, what will you ask to come to the door, so do you say that they will help you do it, or not help you, you have to repeatedly pretend to make them feel uneasy, and some idlers took a video of you helping the old man at that time, which made them feel uncomfortable, which invisibly did not work well but offended people......"

"What is a debt of affection, this is, otherwise Uncle He, you think I am idle and panicked, and I will help you sing this white face?"

After saying this, Uncle He understood it, and couldn't help but smack his tongue: "I didn't expect that there are so many Taos, according to what you say, I do good deeds without trying to reciprocate, and if I don't do it, I will offend people?"

Xu Ran was a little helpless, this kind of thing would always be taught to Uncle He when he was young, why would Uncle He himself be confused about this kind of thing now.

Xu Ran said: "Uncle He, didn't you often teach our three brothers before, this good deed should also be divided into what is the situation, what kind of person, for ordinary people, you don't want to reciprocate for helping others do a good deed, others will be grateful to you from the bottom of their hearts, respect you, usually shush the cold and ask for warmth, and care a little more, if there is something delicious, it will be good to you inadvertently, we encounter this kind of thing in our life the most, and we are also willing to often help these people do more good things."

For people who have money, they may wonder if you will do it for their money, and if they give you money in return and you don't accept it, then they may think that you are intentionally trying to make them owe you a favor, and they will worry that you will plan more.

As for those who are in power, what are they afraid of, then do you need me to repeat what you said when you taught us before?"

He Bo felt a little hot on his face at this time.

He used to often teach these little children to do more good deeds, be willing to help others, and be rewarded for their kindness, and always tell them some of the truths, but he didn't expect that after the matter fell on his head, he couldn't see through it.

Maybe this is the so-called obsession with the authorities.

As the saying goes, good intentions are rewarded, and it depends on the situation.

This afternoon's incident, both sides were originally strangers, and there was usually no intersection, but suddenly there was an intersection because of one thing, think about it, if he repeatedly prevaricated just now and did not let the family pay off the favor on the spot, if there is an intersection in the future, then it may really offend people invisibly.

Moreover, after Uncle He walked out of the hospital for a long time, he thought of who the middle-aged man was, and couldn't help but pat his forehead and said, "Xiao Ran, I want to thank you for this matter, or do you sing neatly and simply with a white face, give both sides face and down the steps, and the matter will pass smoothly, otherwise I may really be uneasy from now on?"

Xu Ran said curiously: "Uncle He, have you guessed the identity of that middle-aged man?"

He Bo nodded and said: "I usually have the habit of reading newspapers, that is a high-ranking official in the province, in charge of politics and law, although he does not often appear on TV media, but the photos of attending some important meetings reported in local newspapers have this person!"

Xu Ran couldn't help laughing and said: "That's just right, you used to always complain that there were no relatives who were officials in the family, and your niece didn't graduate from the regular police academy to fall into a formal establishment, and she was still a temporary worker.

He Bodao: "Yes, people are in charge of this, a compilation is really a matter of words for a character of this level, I am really glad that you sang white face to help me mention it at that time, and people will repay this favor on the spot, otherwise if you are desperate to ask others for the establishment of your niece in the future, it will not be the same thing, if you offend people, it may affect the future of your niece!"

Xu Ran thought deeply about these words.

People don't want to owe you a favor, and want to repay the favor on the spot, but you repeatedly shirk your hypocrisy, and wait until something happens afterwards to find someone, which will only make people disgusted, and it is inevitable that you will think too much, thinking that you don't mean to let people owe you this favor, so that it can be used on the blade in the future.

This is similar to an incident encountered by Xu Ran in college, when Xu Ran's economic conditions were relatively poor, and he had to pay the registration fee for the driver's license test, so he borrowed 2,000 yuan from a classmate, and later he earned 2,000 yuan from his work-study and said that he wanted to return it to that classmate, and the other party generously said that he didn't need to pay it back in a hurry, so Xu Ran used the money to do other things, and indeed improved the poor living conditions, and felt that he owed the classmate a favor.

However, every once in a while afterwards, Xu Ran would take the initiative to repay the money, but the other party always said that the money was not tight, and Xu Ran was not in a hurry to return the money.

Until a CET-6 exam, Xu Ran wanted to repay his classmates' money, but the other party told Xu Ran that the money did not need to be returned, but he made a small request, that is, to ask Xu Ran to help the other party pass the sixth-level exam smoothly.

At that time, that incident disgusted Xu Ran, it turned out that the other party had been asking Xu Ran to owe that favor, just wanted to use it in the sixth-level exam, and afterwards Xu Ran used some methods, but he still paid back the favor and helped that classmate pass the sixth level, but since then, he has been completely estranged from that classmate and cut off contact.

On the contrary, a few classmates who will help when they have something to do on weekdays, and no longer care about any favors in return, Xu Ran will keep the favors owed to them in his heart, when they passed the sixth level, even if they don't open their mouths to ask for help, Xu Ran will take the initiative to help them, which is completely different from the previous student who dragged Xu Ran's favor to the sixth level exam before offering to repay.

Maybe that classmate felt that borrowing Xu Ran 2,000 yuan was a kind help, and he was sending charcoal in the snow, Xu Ran owed him a favor, and if he wanted to repay it, he would use it on the blade, so it was understandable that he would bring it up during the sixth-level exam, and Xu Ran would definitely repay this favor, but he didn't take into account Xu Ran's feelings, this kind of scheming approach would only make people more disgusted, and he still offended Xu Ran.

In society, this kind of kindness helps others, but inexplicably offends people, and it happens in these inadvertent small details.