Chapter Ninety-Five: The Helplessness of Marriage
Mommy, that grandma is so fierce. ”
"Mommy, that grandma only gives me candy, not my sister. ”
"Mommy, grandma scolded Aunt Lisa, and Auntie was in tears. ”
Zeng Lovely led Alexander all the way, and Alexander read all the way, "My sister refused to eat egg custard at night, and grandma didn't allow my sister to eat, and I also saw my grandmother quietly pinching my sister, and my sister cried so loudly, and my grandmother scolded Aunt Lisa for not keeping her husband's way and taking my sister badly." ”
"Mommy, what do you mean by not keeping your husband's way?"
Zeng Kawaii looked down at her son, "That's not a good word." So you've been hugging your sister since then, and you want to protect her, don't you?"
Alexander nodded, "Mommy, I don't think Grandma is a good person. ”
Zeng Cute touched his head, "Not all grandmothers are good people, of course, there are more good grandmothers." ”
"You're still young, and you occasionally hear adults talking, but you don't understand the meaning, so don't just talk to adults who are told you heard. "Just like what you heard at Aunt Lisa's house today, if you say it to someone casually, Aunt Lisa will be sad." ”
"I don't say it. Alexander said, "I only talk to Mommy." ”
Zeng Cute put the child to sleep, looked at the mobile phone and thought about whether to call You's mother, but there was no need to hesitate, You Lisha called, "Cute, don't call me my mother today, she already has a lot of opinions about my mother-in-law, and if she knows her like this, she will be angry again." ”
"Can she not be angry?" said Zeng Kawai, "I'm angry too." ”
"You are our baby, how can you be despised by them like this, it doesn't seem to be the first time, you are so good. ”
Yulisha was a little moved, "I know you are for my good, although my mother-in-law is not good, and my sister-in-law is also a troublemaker, but my husband is still okay, he has already returned, and he said that my mother-in-law will go back tomorrow." ”
"Why don't you go back, stay and wait for me to invite you to dinner. Zeng Lovely said, "Such a person just has to be ridiculed without giving face, and she knows how many pounds and taels she has." ”
"Okay, don't be angry, my husband is teaching them outside, wait for him to come in, I'll hang up first, don't call my mother." Yurisa explained again and again.
Jian Ji'an came back after answering Zeng Cute's call, and when she came home, she saw her mother and sister sitting in the living room, his wife and children in the bedroom, and a cake box on the coffee table, which had almost eaten.
"This cake is not boring. Jane's mother said, "Go back and ask your sister-in-law to buy a few for you to eat." ”
"I don't eat it, I'm afraid of getting fat. Jian Jiyue said, "But you can let her buy a few, and I will take them back for my roommates to eat, and I usually have to invite them back once or twice once or twice." ”
Jian Ji'an knew that his mother and wife were unhappy again, "Mom, why are you here today." ”
"Son, you're back. Jane's mother smiled and got up to greet her son, "Hungry or not, Mom will order you some noodles, stewed beef at night, I didn't let your wife and sister eat it, I kept it for you." ”
"No, I'm not hungry. Jian Jian said, "Why are you here again today, is it bullying Lisa again, she now has a friend who lives in this community, and when the wind blows, she will come to the door immediately, you restrain yourself." ”
"Where did I bully her. Jane's mother said, "You called her out, did you sue you again, I came here on purpose, I was educating her, her mother didn't teach her well, people who are married and have children still go out with men, isn't this a disobedience to women's morals? ”
"What is this?" said Jian Ji'an, tugging at his tie irritably.
"You don't know yet?" said Jane's mother, "Ji Yue, show your phone to your brother." ”
Jian Jiyue didn't want to, Jane's mother took her mobile phone, opened the circle of friends, found the circle of friends posted by Yu Lisa, and clicked on the photo in the middle of the real to show Jian Ji'an, "Look, she went out with a man, and she was so close to take pictures, she was bringing you a green hat." ”
Jian Ji'an glanced at the photo, he glared at Jian Jiyue, lest the world would not be chaotic, Jian Jiyue's eyes fluttered, and he sat down and pretended to watch TV seriously.
"Mom. This is an ordinary group photo, this man is her high school classmate, they are not two people who go alone, Zeng Lovely also went, originally the two families went to play together, I worked overtime on the weekend, I couldn't go, Lisa took her sister to play, the man was responsible for driving, nothing else. ”
"That's not good, you work hard to earn money for their mother's dual use, and they leave you to go out to play, do you have a conscience?" Jane's mother said.
"It's just normal communication. "Lisa rarely goes out with her children, and if it weren't for her friends coming back from abroad, she wouldn't have had so much contact." ”
"Her friend who had children out of wedlock wasn't a good person. Jane's mother said.
"Alright, you can go back tomorrow. Jian Ji'an said, "Jian Jiyue, don't always say something in front of your mother." ”
"I didn't. Jian Jiyue said, "I just happened to brush it and show it to my mother." ”
"I just came, and you let me go?" said Jane's mother in surprise.
"If you don't leave, you're really waiting for the woman who came today to invite you to dinner, let me tell you, people like her, scolding people without dirty words, you let me go and scold with you." Jian Jian said.
"I think she's very polite. ”
"What's the matter, she still turned around today and said that I have no quality. Jian Jiyue said.
"That's not what you did first. Jian Ji'an glared, he suddenly sighed, "Mom, I'm really tired from working every day, don't let me worry about family affairs anymore, okay, you feel sorry for your son." ”
"Okay, well, I feel sorry for you, and I'm the only one who feels sorry for you. Jane's mother said.
Jian Ji'an went back to the bedroom to change clothes, Jane's mother sighed, and said sadly, "If you have a daughter-in-law, you will forget your mother." ”
He didn't want to think about it, who in the village doesn't live with his son and daughter-in-law now, we live in the countryside, and we have to tell our neighbors that we are reluctant to be at home and help him turn face. ”
Jian Jiyue's eyes rolled, "Mom, you go to my place first." ”
"How big of a place are you?" Jian Jiyue's mother said disgustedly, Jian Jiyue had just graduated, and she rented a house to find a job, and she shared a small house in two bedrooms and one living room.
"Every day, when my brother goes to work, you come over, and when I go to work, I come over too, and when we have dinner, we will go back together. Jian Jiyue said, "I also save money for dinner." ”
"That's fine. Jane's mother said, "Tell your mother what you want to eat, and your mother will ask your sister-in-law to buy it and make it up for you." ”
When Jian Ji'an entered the bedroom, he saw Yulisa with her back to him watching her sister sleep, and she didn't turn back when she heard the movement.
"I told my mom that she would be back tomorrow. Jian Jian said.
"You should have listened to what your mother said to me today. Yulisha choked up and said, "I just went out with my classmates, what kind of water-based poplar, uneasy in the room, not abiding by women's morals, pointing at my nose and scolding me for bringing you a green hat, did I bring it to you?"
"She hasn't read, she's uneducated, and she's from the old times, I told her. Jian Jian said. "Don't worry about her. ”
"You're going to tell me not to mess with her. ”
"Okay, I'll let her go back tomorrow, what are you going to do, who doesn't live with her son and daughter-in-law now, she lives alone with my dad in the countryside, I don't feel distressed, it's not for you, in order to take care of your feelings, I haven't let them come." ”
"Isn't it nice for your mother to point at my nose and scold me?" said Jian Ji'an, "Aren't I also careless." ”
Yurisa was speechless.
"Also, our own family affairs, don't always let cuteness get involved. Jian Jian said, "You are too dependent, either rely on your mother, or rely on me, now you rely on cuteness, you have to be independent." ”
Jian Jian went to take a bath, and Yulisha sat on the edge of the bed in a daze, feeling cold on her face, wiping tears on her hand, but Yulisha didn't feel sad.
Probably too many times to be sad, and I have long been numb.
There are still two weeks left before the eleventh, and You Ziyou released the countdown to the party in the group every day, determined the list, and then sent the event arrangement, as well as the step of the party planning, some people laughed and said, [Squad leader, if you swipe the screen like this again, I won't go. 】
[I'm rolling the broadcast, so that those students who haven't signed up can see that the first party after graduating from our class, it's a pity to miss it, and it's still too late to sign up now.] You Ziyou made a cheap expression, but had a private chat with Zeng Cute,
[Why did Yurisa suddenly have the confidence to tell me that she couldn't come, saying that there was something at home, what was the matter?]
Zeng Lovely replied, [I don't know, she has definitely rejected you and said that the eleventh party will not go?]
[Hmm.] 】
[But she said that the party money she paid should not be refunded, as her heart, so if she is sure that she will not come, the money will still be returned to her, and we will not lack that money.] 】
[I'll ask her first.] 】
[Don't persuade you to come, just to wait for you to return to China, the first meeting of our class was only held so late. You Ziyou said nervously.
[Don't worry, I'll go.] Zeng Kawaii said, she called directly and asked Zeng Kawai, "The squad leader suddenly said that you are not going to the party? Why? ”
"I can't say two or three words clearly, I'll go to your house in the evening and say it. Zeng Lovely said.
Zeng Cute got off work, ordered a roast duck in the restaurant to go back, and then fried a mapo tofu at night, lettuce shredded meat, open a winter melon and clam soup even if Qi lived, the rice is bean rice, Alexander likes to count the beans and eat before eating, and my sister takes her own small fried food very seriously, Yulisha said, "Only eat with your brother, you will be good." ”
"A child has a company. Zeng Lovely said, after eating, go out for a walk, and then let Alexander take his sister to the toy circle to play, they sat in the living room and watched from afar, whispering children can't hear.
"Let's talk about it. Zeng Lovely said.
Yurissa swallowed her saliva and decided where to start.
"Last time we went to Wuzhen to play, you remember, I took a photo with Ouyang and sent it to Moments. ”
"Yes. Zeng Kawaii nodded, "Is there any problem?"
"Originally, I deliberately took a photo with Ouyang, just to make my husband jealous and jealous, so I let him know that there are young and handsome men around me. ”
"That's fine. Zeng Lovely said.
"But my husband didn't react when he saw it, my sister-in-law showed this photo to my mother-in-law, and it was fried, and she quickly came up to accuse me, saying that I was not in the room and wanted to give her son a green hat. "The last time you came to my house to see them," said Julisa. ”
"Is she not in her right mind? Take a picture and wear a green hat. Zeng Lovely is incredible, "She is restricting your normal communication." ”
"It's my sister-in-law who is doing something inside, talking about something in front of my mother-in-law. Yurisa said, "It's because I bought a new Dior bag last time, she saw it, said she wanted it, I just bought it, I didn't carry it, naturally I just refused, she held a grudge, just waiting for me here." ”
"Your mother-in-law was instigated to come up and trouble you with two sentences, and she is not a good person in essence. Zeng Kawai said, "This can only show that her family is not a good person." ”
"No, didn't you say they would go back the next day? What does that have to do with whether you go to the class reunion or not?" Zeng asked Katie.
"She went back the next day, but she didn't go back to her hometown at all, she lived in her daughter's rental house, and during the day, when my husband went to work, she would come over and stay at home for a day, and in the evening her daughter would come over, eat together, and then go back. Yulisa said helplessly, "They also asked my aunt to go to her daughter's rental house to clean up." ”
"No, why don't you tell me about this situation?" Zeng Cute said air, the volume was not controlled, it was a little loud, and Alexander looked over here.
Zeng Lovely drank water from a cup, calm and calm, "Then does your husband know?"
"He didn't know, I didn't say. Yulisa said, "What's the use of saying it, when the time comes, my mother-in-law will cry pitifully, and she will say that she misses her granddaughter, but it seems that I can't tolerate people, they are all parents and sons and daughters-in-law live together, I, my mother made a big fuss, and my husband said that they won't come and live with us until they have the ability to move." ”
"He's conceded so much, it's not good for me to be careful. ”
"And then. Zeng Lovely pressed the fire and said.
"They have been here for three or five days, and then I gave my bag that I carried once to my sister-in-law, my mother-in-law said okay, said that I don't want the old things to my sister-in-law, and asked me to buy a new one, I said that this kind of bag is not in stock in China, you register one with the counter sister, there is one, and now you buy nothing. ”
"My sister-in-law got the bag and sent it to the circle of friends, Mei Zizi said that it was a new gift, she was still doing things, and then she persuaded her mother to go back, and she didn't come again, and I stopped. Julisa sighed, "I should have spent money to eliminate the disaster." ”
Zeng Cutie's face was very ugly, "What about all, what does this have to do with you not going to the class reunion?"
"You see, it's just a group photo, and so many things will be brought out later, I'm going to a class reunion, there are so many male classmates, and I can't get into trouble. "I don't think I'm going to go for the sake of the family atmosphere." ”
"My mother-in-law came once, my sister had a nightmare, I slept at night, my husband went to sleep in the study annoyingly, and my sister's meat that finally grew up was thin again. ”
"I really want to open your head and see what's inside?" Zeng Lovely laughed angrily, "You are still used to such people, they will not know well, they will only become more and more excessive, what will you use to satisfy them at that time?"
"My husband is still fine. Julisa said pitifully. "My mother-in-law, in fact, when I first got married, my mother-in-law was not like this, she only changed after I gave birth to a daughter. ”
"She has a serious old mentality, she must have a son. ”
"I originally wanted to wait for my sister to have a second child when she went to kindergarten, but now I think, why don't I conceive another child, and when I give birth to a son, my mother-in-law won't listen to my sister-in-law, she actually knows, but she just finds a reason to torture me, because I don't want to have a second child. ”
"Do you still want to have a second child in such an environment?" Zeng Lovely shook her head and said, "Lisa, your marriage is your own choice, I have always respected your choice, including your mother, I also said please ask her to give you more confidence, you will live your life well." ”
"But now, I really doubt it. Zeng Lovely said, "Your mother-in-law secretly lived in your house for a few days, and you didn't find out if you didn't say anything about your husband, what is the difference between such a husband and death? You still hypnotize yourself, and he's fine? He doesn't care about you at all." ”
"Don't do that. Yulisa said, "When I complained to my mother, she came to make trouble, and later, I didn't dare to tell her that I was not doing well, and I said it was good." I'll tell you now, if you persuade me to divorce, then I'll really, there's no place to pour bitter water. ”
"Do you know that this is not good, since it is not good, then leave, break up, why do you want to stand still and let those knives be stabbed in yourself?" Zeng asked Kawai. "Do you really love him that much, so much so that you don't have self-esteem?"
"If the Ouyang family doesn't agree that Ouyang is with you, will you let Ouyang and the family break away from the relationship and be with you?"
"He can at least do something. Zeng Lovely said. "I don't believe it, he lost his temper at home,, his sister is still doing this to you. ”
"He's caught in the middle, it's hard to get in the middle. Yulisa cried and said, "When my mother made trouble, she also let me divorce him, he was worried in the company, and he didn't go home for a whole month, so his mother compromised and went home and promised not to come again." ”
"What can he do?"