It feels like the city has a "March wind", which is really nice!

Whether you're in a good mood or not, it feels rewarding to go there and walk around and sit down. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

That night, as usual, I rode "Little Perfect" over, thinking that there was a lot to write about, but as soon as I sat down, I felt that my head was blank. I just want to look at the night sky, see the men, women and children running, see my shadow in the light, and listen to my favorite music......

Then, I wanted to ride the "Little Perfect" back......

Although it seems to be a meaningless trip for nothing, the meaning is unconsciously generated.

Like, I still wrote about the East and East in "March Wind......

When I came home that night, my aunt and I talked about my future marriage. I can't escape this, because my current age is already an advanced level in my aunt's eyes, and she doesn't know how much she hopes that I will get married and have children as soon as possible and achieve the great cause of inheritance.

I wasn't mentally prepared for all of this.

Whenever I said that I was still young, my aunt would give some examples of being a father when she was so young.

So, I said in the third capacity: "No way, who told your son to be so ugly and no one likes it?"

Then, very well, my aunt also fought back in the third capacity: "My son is ugly? Hmph! I tell you, you will know later! When you have a son, you will see if your son is as handsome as my son!"

I laughed......

In my mind, I have low self-esteem. But in my aunt's heart, I am her pride!

In the past, when I fell out of love, I always felt inferior and thought that I was very poor and had no advantages, but my aunt and the second sister would think that they were not lucky enough to enter our Liu family.

Although it is a bit inappropriate for my aunt and second sister to elevate our Liu family like this, they do love me very much and take into account my inner feelings. So, falling out of love isn't a big deal......

Auntie has been speaking more and more specially recently, and there is more powerful firmness in her tone.

Auntie told me about the topic of human sophistication, and before Auntie started to talk, I complained about the terrible human sophistication......

However, my aunt said to me very quietly, "Listen to me quietly." ”

Later, my aunt told me about the causes and consequences of Uncle Shen's relationship with our family.

Uncle Shen was our neighbor when we used to grow vegetables in Daling Mountain, Dongguan, and his relationship with our family was not bad.

In the past, Uncle Shen would sometimes come to visit us at our house during the Chinese New Year, but our family didn't visit them much.

Once, when their family moved into a new house, they invited us to drink. But at that time, my uncle's health was not very good, and my aunt was also sad about it, so she didn't go.

For more than a year since then, Uncle Shen has never called my uncle and aunt again. My aunt also learned about some deeper human feelings because of some special occasions, and then she realized that she had made an irreparable mistake. That is, even if he didn't personally congratulate Uncle Shen on their new house, he would at least make a phone call to congratulate or ask someone to send a fortune to their family. Unfortunately, there are none.

Therefore, my aunt remembered this lesson deeply.

Since then, when relatives say they want to invite our family for a drink or something, my aunt has tried to take the time to congratulate them as much as possible. Because, if someone else has a happy event, if you don't go, you really won't give face. The reason why a happy event is a happy event is that people want to celebrate more, so it is called a happy event. If you don't come to this or that you don't come, indeed, if you are yourself, your mood will be greatly reduced.

I began to understand why my aunt asked me to accompany me every time she wanted to drink a wedding wine. But, I don't go almost every time......

Auntie said, "I just didn't learn when I was young, and your grandmother left when I was in my twenties and didn't teach me." I've figured it out little by little, and now I'm going to teach my children......"

Well, my aunt is a very good, very good mother!

After that, I talked to my aunt about the situation where I didn't have anything to talk to about the girl......

My aunt said, "Actually, whether there is something to talk about or not, this does not determine anything. Just like when your uncle and I were young, every time I saw him, we both didn't have anything to talk about. When you can't see him, you want to see him. But when I walked past him, and even stood in front of him, I didn't know what to say. I really don't understand what the hell is going on, I can talk to the other boys except him, and I can't finish talking about a lot of topics, and my mouth is drooling when it comes to those boys. But I didn't have anything to say to your uncle. ”

I laughed, "Drooling, Auntie, you were very beautiful when you were young?"

My aunt smiled and patted me: "What are you laughing at, although your aunt and I are not very beautiful, but they are not bad." The most important thing to see if a person is beautiful is to see a person's temperament. ”

I smile.

Although it's a pity that I haven't seen my aunt when she was young, and I don't have any photos of my aunt when she was young, I know that my aunt must have been a big beauty when she was young!

In fact, my aunt taught me a lot, and if I organize it slowly little by little, maybe I can write it into a book.

Time goes on.

In the world, some people live in reality, and some people live in virtuality.

In the virtual world, some people live in WeChat, some people live in buckles, and some people live in Weibo......

Isn't it all a personal choice?

Before I had a mobile phone, I lived in a world of reality and fantasy. At the very least, you don't need to think about whether you care about other people's eyes, because there are no bystanders.

And when I got to high school and got my first mobile phone, learned to surf the Internet, and had my first button, I began to fall into the virtual world.

The virtual world is very tempting, because people can't see my expression in person and quickly see through my mental activity, and there is an inexplicable sense of psychological security. Like, when you're in a bad mood, you send a negative energy message. Your friend may ask you what's wrong, but you just want to vent and don't want others to think what's wrong with you, so you don't reply. Such a reply is simply confusing, and as a result, there is a sense of psychological security. There are some things that you want someone to know, but you don't want to say them clearly, so you use the virtual world to indirectly reveal your heart. Even if someone still doesn't know, their hearts will feel a little comforted because they have expressed it indirectly.

In the virtual world, I first came into contact with buckles, so I preferred them. However, it is not a buckle chat, but a write-up in the buckle space and send photos.

In the buckle space, I have a sense of intimacy. After all, it was the first virtual world to be accepted by my spiritual world after the first real contact with the Internet.

Later, I came into contact with Weibo when I was in college.

At first, it was a bit fresh. But over time, I found that I was just reposting other people's Weibo on Weibo. Or, just take a look at some of the funnier and most popular Weibo posts. Like, in Weibo, I can't find any presence at all.

In my eyes, Weibo belongs to those who have a wide circle of interpersonal relationships, and it is not suitable for lonely people like me. Therefore, Weibo is just a small space for me to occasionally look at jokes.

Later, the more popular WeChat caught up with the trend.

For a while, I don't know how many people shifted their focus from buckle chat and Weibo to WeChat, after all, there are a lot of innovations.

I entered WeChat because Feifei took me in. To be honest, if Feifei hadn't taught me to play WeChat at that time, maybe I wouldn't have been able to use WeChat much now. Again, it's a space that can be chatted. And I'm not very good at chatting. Unless, talk to someone very special......

Later, the boom of WeChat led to a new business opportunity - micro-business. I don't have anything to support this.,Because my WeChat can't be used because I went abroad.,After all, verification requires a mobile phone number to receive a verification code.,However, the mobile phone number is scrapped.?

So, I reopened a WeChat in that country. However, I didn't add my previous WeChat friends back. The reason is that I rarely go to WeChat now. For me, WeChat seems to be completely meaningless without chatting. And I'm really not very good at chatting......

In the end, I chose to be active in the buckle space that I had loved since the beginning. In the buckle space, in fact, if you love to compare too much, it will hurt a lot. For example, I posted a message saying that it is difficult to exceed 100 views, and even if I try it once or twice, the probability is very low. And some friends with good interpersonal relationships, just post a message to say, the number of views is more than 100 or a small number, and some are two or three hundred. Not only the number of viewers, but also the number of comments can be so many that you can swipe the screen. These are the differences. If you care too much, your heart will be extremely unbalanced.

At first, I really cared. But think about it, it's a fact that your interpersonal relationships are really poor. So, after that, I focused on my own spiritual world.

At least, I've written more than 500 journals, which are close to 600,000 words. Although they are all made up of some ordinary words and phrases, I feel that as a person who does not write full-time, I am really proud to be able to write like this than the so-called number of views and comments!

However, virtual worlds are virtual worlds after all. People, after all, still have to survive in reality.

Therefore, sometimes when I see the special light in the innocent eyes of some children, I feel that I have seen a new world.

No matter where you live, as long as you are truly alive and live the feeling you want, it will be worth it.

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