"Okay, brother. I am afraid that I am still the first one in the capital who can eat your mouthful! Be content! Beat me out, and you are the only one who does not give me blind chess. That's interesting......"

"It's a big fit" laughed first, half-jokingly laughed at himself, and then spoke to "You San".

"Alright, don't get tired of it. You, you're never on the same level as others! You don't have the blessing of drinking with others! Remember, this is called master! Since people are annoying you, you will stay away from a distance in the future, get out of you. Don't delay our brothers from drinking. ”

This is called just going down the slope of the donkey, there is such a rhetoric, the benefits are there, and the face is passable. It's all good, the only one who ate the deflated one is "You San".

At this time, it has to be said that "You San" is very sensible, with a sneer, and he quickly withdrew without arguing. The atmosphere at the table gradually returned to normal.

However, although "You San" did such a good job, his exaggerated expression of nodding and bowing when he left still made Hong Yanwu feel awkward, and he was as disgusted as if he had eaten a fly.

This is because Hong Yanwu suddenly realized that there are few people who can always maintain this smile in the face of insults.

Who is willing to be lowly? Even if they dare to be angry and dare not speak, they have to inadvertently show a little dissatisfaction. But "You San", who looks like a eunuch with a spring breeze, is like being scolded, which is too unreasonable.

So this kid must have something hidden in his heart. There are eyes behind those eyes, which is definitely standard wolf ambition. The more this happens, the more it proves that such human nature is insidious and dangerous.

It seems that this is a bed bug that can make waves without wind and waves, and such a person must not be allowed to gain power! I want to be remembered by this kid, and I don't know when I will find you a little uncomfortable.

Seriously, he's quite worried about "Big Fit" right now. With such a master who can hide his heart by his side, one day he will play with him again, and it will be enough for him to choke!

Two awkward things are in the past, right? But as the saying goes, again and again, again and again.

On September 10, 1980, the third thing that made Hong Yanwu uncomfortable came again.

On this day, the Third Session of the Fifth National People's Congress passed the new "Marriage Law of the Republic," which immediately caused an uproar in society.

The new Marriage Act was formulated on the basis of the Marriage Act of 1950 and on the basis of practical experience and new circumstances and issues in the field of marriage and family at that time.

While reaffirming the principles of the original Marriage Law, it has added many supplementary policies that are in line with the new social situation. Among them, "emotional breakdown" as a legal ground for divorce is also written into the new Marriage Law.

Article 25 of the new Marriage Law stipulates that: "When a people's court hears a divorce case, it shall conduct mediation, and if the relationship has indeed broken down and the mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted." ”

Now it seems that what is this? Of course, the "relationship breakdown" should be divorced, but at that time, how difficult was it? How earth-shattering?

This provision not only clarifies the legal grounds for deciding divorce, but also gives the judge discretion. It not only has the practical significance of legislation, but also has the advanced nature of the concept.

But at the same time, this regulation also shook the traditional concept of "marriage is a lifetime" that has been ingrained in Chinese people since ancient times.

So much so that many people think that it is a law that makes good people angry and bad people succeed. Later, many people attributed the increase in the divorce rate and the involvement of third parties in 1981 to the revision of the Marriage Law.

But these people didn't think about it, a large number of unreasonable marriages at that time were caused by historical problems, and it was with this provision that people had the opportunity to correct their mistakes.

In fact, even if one party is indeed at fault, it deliberately creates a "relationship breakdown". But being able to separate from such a person as soon as possible is also good for themselves in the final analysis.

More importantly, the crucial significance lies precisely in the fact that the denial of divorce must never be used as a means of punishment against people.

But then again, in reality, this humane adjustment of the law does have undesirable side effects. That is, for many families, it will also exacerbate mental worries, and even cause conflicts between husband and wife.

For example, Yang Weifan is the most typical example, and he is a member of the "poison".

After the introduction of the "Marriage Law", when the society formed a debate about what could be considered a "relationship breakdown", his life began to be sad.

Due to the emotional asymmetry between him and Zhou Manna before marriage, Zhou Manna became nervous because of this, and began to guard him strictly without confidence.

Not only did she follow Ah every day, but she began to carefully search every part of his coat as she washed his clothes, hoping for any clues.

Her most common words became "Are you also worried about 'breaking' with me?" Say, which little girl in your group do you like? Say it, and I'll give you ...... land."

The kind of joke that is by no means a joke is really disgusting.

In this case, it is impossible for two people not to quarrel.

Once, because of an inadvertent joke between Yang Weifan and a female colleague, Zhou Manna lost her temper in their "small home" for a night and smashed a lot of things at home.

But when Yang Weifan couldn't bear it anymore, he was angry and said, "If you don't want to leave, just leave." She was scared again, crying and hugging, apologizing and admitting her mistake.

As a result, when there was a lot of trouble, it was just in time for Minister Zhou and his wife to come to the door. After figuring out what was going on, the old couple gave each of the younger two fifty boards. On the one hand, criticizing Zhou Manna for being really messing around, on the other hand, Yang Weifan should not be unscrupulous, and this matter passed in a daze.

It's useless to calm down temporarily, but this kind of similar form of noise may become a norm between husband and wife in the future, which is what makes the young couple miserable.

That's right, this is the bitter wine they brew, and they have to drink it themselves.

Of course, Hong Yanwu is different from Yang Weifan, and his life is not affected by the adjustment of divorce regulations. What really caused him mental anguish was another provision changed in the Marriage Law - the age of marriage in China was adjusted from 20 years for men and 18 years for women to 22 years for men and 20 years for women.

Needless to say, the reason for this is self-explanatory. If nothing happened at the end of last year, Hong Yanwu and "Sugar Heart" would have been married now. How fitting it would be that they would be able to get ahead of the new Marriage Law.

But now, there is no news from the Yiren, that is, "Sugar Heart" will come back soon, and he will have to wait for another two years.

This is called not being able to catch up with one step, not being able to catch up with one step at a time.

How can this make Hong Yanwu not think that all this is due to fate not seeing him too happy, so he deliberately played tricks?

How could this not make him think of "Sugar Heart" again, and not feel sorry for the happiness that the two of them deserved to get?

This is like a song that sings, Hong Yanwu really wants to ask God, "I have been waiting for a thousand years, why didn't my lover come back."

At the same time, he really "touched the soul of sadness".

The second group has been opened, group number: 608640021

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