Chapter 117: It Doesn't Take Time to Grow
Guo Digang, who said cross talk, although he has no culture, has to admit that people really have a thorough understanding of human feelings.
This duke has a famous vulgar saying:
Maturity takes not time, but experience. A person who has never experienced it until he is 90 years old will not be able to mature, but if he has experienced it in his teens, he will soon be able to mature.
On the issue of the cultivation of horse style, Gu Biao also realized that it was indeed very beneficial for him to go through all stages of his life. But in terms of age, there is no need to put it in the same way as history for so many years.
If a person is in the same position and does repetitive things, in fact, he will not grow for too long, and he will fall into the psychological comfort zone and become rigid in his work skills.
Taking advantage of the young business and small business, it is acceptable to let Ma Feng be a teacher for two years, but when it is 6 years, it is wasted. The extra 4 years of training are not necessarily ability and insight, at best, patience and character.
Therefore, after a little calculation, Gu Biao used his own network and decided to compress Ma Feng's 7-year experience as a university teacher and a civil servant in the Ministry of Commerce to 3 years.
After all, there are also things that can never be learned in enterprises in public institutions and institutions.
Then, let's fight for Gu Biao wholeheartedly.
In order to better let Ma Feng make good use of the next year or two, Gu Biao couldn't help but combine his own experience and talk about pouring chicken soup in reverse.
Even after arriving at Shichahai and connecting Li Lianjie, he still chattered endlessly.
However, what Gu Biao said was very reasonable, which made everyone admire, and they didn't feel that he was annoyed at all:
"Fengzi, if you go to be a teacher for two years, I will take care of you in advance - to be a teacher, the most exercised talent is how to explain things clearly and persuade laymen.
You used to follow me, and you made too fast progress, and you came into contact with successful people and elites from all walks of life. So you're used to talking to people who understand, and you can understand it at all.
After becoming a teacher, you will find that the higher the research and the more solid the thesis, the teaching level of the academy and the professor may not be good. Because these people are immersed in their own world, they imagine that the communicator is also very awesome, they don't elaborate, they don't empathize.
If a teacher wants to teach well, the most important thing is to put himself in his shoes, empathize, reduce his IQ assumptions to the same level as the person listening, and then study how to say something that people can understand. After mastering this ability, you will be able to thoroughly learn how to hold the team and how to inspire people in the future, so that people can feel that you are genuinely thinking about them and willing to serve you.
I'll set you a goal: after you go to the School of Electronic Engineering, don't pursue any feedback and average grades in big classes, you can practice how to pass the worst student in the class, and then make sure that no matter what grade of students come to you to answer questions, they can solve them satisfactorily. Doing it like this for two years is more rewarding than other people who have been a college teacher for five years. ”
What Gu Biao said is true, and many of the educational research courseware that later generations "got" revealed this principle. Even at Harvard and MIT, in fact, the best quality of teaching is not scientists, and some people even have statistics that the more scientists are, the more they can't teach.
The key is this empathy of "understanding how stupid students are".
And Gu Biao said that he would naturally blurt out some foreign examples.
Immediately, Ma Feng, as well as Xiao Sui, Mina and others were shocked.
How can Brother Gu know a little bit about everything? He is not a normal student, so how can he understand the theory of education and communication better than that of a normal student?
As everyone knows, these are only worthy of being classified as team building and communication skills courses in later generations, and most people in the workplace will glance at them, and they are not normal courses at all.
"Brother Gu, you know a lot, how do you teach at Harvard and MIT, where do you see it? It's like seeing it with your own eyes. Does the Foreign Affairs University have so many first-hand foreign research materials?" Ma Feng simply revered again.
"Almost, there's all in the school. "Gu Biao is used to using the mysterious library of the Foreign Affairs Academy as an excuse.
This time, however, it was a goof.
Mina protested, "No! I scanned all the books you've touched at school, and I didn't talk about it." ”
Gu Biao felt slightly embarrassed.
I forgot that when I bragged about it today, I still brought the elementary school girl from the same school to be as casual as when I usually only had my girlfriend and Ma Zai.
But he could only force his words: "Well, Mina, you must have been not careful in researching the information! I also found out last month when I checked the influence of American universities on politics!"
Mina was a little frustrated, and secretly thought in her heart: "I've worked so hard, but I'm still being thrown farther and farther away by Senior Gu......"
Ma Feng didn't care at all, but was described by Gu Biao, and said leisurely: "I didn't expect a foreigner's university to be like this, I really want to have the opportunity to go abroad to see ......"
As soon as he thought of this, Ma Feng suddenly remembered a chance encounter he had a while ago.
It was a few months ago, during the spring tourist season, when he was engaged in the work of a translation agency in the English corner on the shore of West Lake, he met a young Australian who could talk very well, and the other party also said some kind words, welcoming Ma Feng to have the opportunity to play in Australia in the future.
(Note: Historically, Ma Feng was in 1980, receiving foreign guests by the West Lake and meeting Australians, and then 5 years later, the other party invited him to be a guest, and Ma's father gave him $100 to let him go abroad to see the world.) )
"Brother Gu, we have money now, you have been to the United States, and I only have an Australian pen pal. Do you think I can get a tourist visa if I want to go out?"
Ma Feng now has money, but he has no reason to go abroad. In the first two years, I was led by Gu Biao's nose, but I didn't feel anything. Now that they have graduated, I am still very eager to go on a trip abroad after graduation.
Because once he officially became a university teacher after the start of school, he had no free time.
It's in his nature to want to see people in the outside world.
When Gu Biao heard this, he also realized that he didn't care enough about Ma Zai.
Since Ma Feng has been his junior brother in this life, why do you need to wait until 85 years to have the opportunity to go abroad? That's too much.
"Of course, it's not difficult to go abroad, but we still have no money. Wait for me to help you think of a reason for your business trip! Make sure you can go abroad this summer!"
"Brother Gu is righteous!"
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While the group was playing, they had already arrived at Jingying. found Zhang Yimou first and gave the other party a copy of the videotape of "Hujiang Beach".
Gu Changwei is not at school, and Gu Biao doesn't care.
Beijing Film has a video projector, Zhang Yimou was naturally very excited when he got the sample tape, and pulled everyone to lunch together, then watched two or three episodes, and rested after dinner.
He and Gu Changwei have relied on Gu Biao's support, and since February, they have been able to get the opportunity to intern as an assistant photographer in the crew, and they can also operate high-priced imported photographic equipment, and they are very busy.
Even after the start of school, they also asked for leave from school on the grounds that they had actual combat shooting tasks, and they were busy in Hujiang for two months before returning to the capital to study.
So much so that a lot of basic cultural classes were delayed, and I had to make up for it during the summer vacation.
It's just that the teachers are very sold, and even took the initiative to work overtime during the summer vacation to make up for them alone - even the teachers of the Beijing Film Photography Department are so envious of their circumstances.
That's hundreds of reels of film, and any photographer can squander it.
Not to mention the state-of-the-art equipment that can fiddle with the 100,000-dollar level. The teachers even knocked on the side during the make-up class, asking Zhang Yimou if he could introduce them to the big donor.
Don't want to make money, just have the opportunity to work day jobs, so that you can practice with expensive equipment and consumables.
The plot of "Shanghai River Beach" is naturally addictive, even those who participated in the filming in person are very proud after seeing the finished film in the end.
Especially Ma Feng and Li Lianjie, after all, they appeared on the camera, and they are very concerned about their final image.
"This film is really cool, why don't we just watch him here for a day!" Ma Feng couldn't help but suggest.
Gu Biao stopped this idea very fairly: "Hey, hey, you like to see it tomorrow when you go to my place, but other girls have already finished reading it, and it's rare to take a vacation today." We have to give priority to the ladies and make sure that people have a good time. ”
As soon as Gu Biao said this, Ma Feng and Li Lianjie immediately did not dare to resist.
Ma Feng just muttered objectively: "On a hot day in July, the sun is shining in the afternoon, where is there any fun." It's better to watch a movie, and then go out to surf when it's cool at night. ”
There are also two truths in what he said, which makes Gu Biao unable to refute it.
Zhang Yimou was more familiar with the situation in the vicinity, and proposed: "If it's too hot, why don't you go to the Summer Palace for swimming?" There is a paid park there, you can enter if you buy a park ticket, and you don't charge extra for swimming, it's cleaner than the outside." ”
"Swimming, if I want to swim, I go directly to Yuyuan Lake, where the water is also clean, and I drove so far to the Summer Palace. Gu Biao paused for a moment and felt that it was not cost-effective.
In the end, his girlfriend persuaded him: "Yuyuantan is not very famous, we have come all the way to the capital, we have never traveled, and we are about to go to the Summer Palace." ”
Gu Biao also obeyed the advice: "Okay, then do you have swimsuits? If not, do you have to sell them there?"
"You have to sell it, you want to distribute tickets, but you can take the foreign exchange coupons and it's fine. Zhang Yimou explained.
"What swimsuit do we men wear, boxer boxers swim. Ma Feng and Li Lianjie spoke in unison.
Gu Biao clapped: "Then buy and buy for the girls! How many cloth tickets are used for swimsuits!"
This is the most economical piece of clothing.
In these days, even in the capital, swimming in a natural lake is not a problem. At most, there are some high-end tourist lake areas, which have entry thresholds and do not allow idle people to travel.
For example, before 1958, the relevant departments in Beijing had stipulated: Kunming Lake in the Summer Palace was chartered to three universities in Qingbei to set up swimming lessons in the lake.
At that time, a lake area was specially demarcated, and it was well dredged to ensure that the bottom of the lake was exposed with bluestones and pebbles, and there would be no accidents without silt.
The lake in Yuyuantan Park was once designated as a special swimming area for the Foreign Affairs University 55 years later.
Or during the decade of unspeakable years, university privileges were outlawed, and the lakes were gradually opened up for everyone to swim in. Now that the chaos has been put in order, there is a gradient management again: the lake area is managed by dredging, and the fee is charged or access is based on identity.
As for the natural lake areas that no one has dredged, they can go to all citizens if they want to, and they don't need money.
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