Chapter 81: Parenting Routines

Alexander sat in the first row of seats by the door, and when the car began to slow down, he saw Zeng Lovely waiting at the finish line through the window, "Mommy, it's my Mommy." ”

"Of course it's your mommy, your mommy is going to pick you up. The teacher said with a smile.

"It's Mommye. Alexander smiled and narrowed his eyes, "I'm so happy." ”

As soon as the car stopped and the door opened, Alexander sped out, "Mommy." ”

"Baby. Zeng Cute squatted down and hugged him who rushed over, "Did you enjoy the first day of school?"

"Happy. Alexander put his arms around Zeng Lovely and began to shed tears. "Mommy, I miss you so much. ”

"Because I miss my mother so much, I cry happily when I see my mother, right?" Zeng Lovely stroked his back, picked him up, and handed over to the teacher.

"Here is his school uniform, and today's physical examination report, everything is very good, very healthy, there is a parent interaction book, you put it in your school bag after you finish, this is something to bring every day. ”

"Okay, thank you. Zeng Lovely said, taking the school bag, "Alexander, I have to say goodbye to the teacher." ”

"Goodbye, dear Sally. Alexander said with a hiccup.

"Goodbye, dear Alexander. The teacher said, "See you tomorrow." ”

Because Alexander was crying, Zeng Lovely didn't communicate with other parents, and after his eyes signaled, he hugged Alexander in one hand, his schoolbag and his briefcase in the other, stepped on high heels, and walked forward.

"This professional woman is just different. "There is a grandmother said. "My daughter-in-law is the same, stepping on high heels and hugging the baby, not afraid at all. ”

"Then why don't you let her pick up the baby. ”

"Hey, isn't this where we are, help her with this little thing, she is also relaxed, if someone helps, you think, she is so tired after a day of work, she doesn't want to go back to lie down, and she has to come to pick up the baby?"

"This man is a blind man. ”

"I said that I just came back from a foreign country, and I am not the owner who rents it in our community. ”

"That's pretty good, too. ”

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"Let's go to the supermarket now, what can we buy, can we buy some fruits that Alexander likes to eat?" Zeng Kawai discussed with Alexander.

"Mommy, Alexander doesn't like fruit. Alexander put his arm around Zeng's lovely neck and twitched, "Alexander likes to eat small cakes." ”

"I like to eat small cakes. Zeng Katie asked, "There are no small cakes for children who are still crying." ”

"I didn't cry anymore. Alexander wiped his eyes with the back of his fat hand, and said sadly, "I just miss Mommy too much." ”

"But I saw Mommy after school. Zeng Lovely said.

"However, sometimes I can't see Mommy when I come back. Alexander said sadly.

Zeng Lovely stopped walking, turned up the son in her arms, kissed the top of his head, she tried her best to give him a sense of security, but she can't be like a stay-at-home mother, she has to work, there are always times when she is sparse. Maybe it's just that one or two absences that make the child feel uncertain.

"Mom said to pick you up, and she will definitely pick you up. Zeng Kawai said, "If sometimes your mother works and is too late to pick you up, and you want someone else to pick you up, your mother also hopes that you can forgive." ”

"Hmm. Alexander replied softly.

Zeng Lovely only felt that her heart was about to melt, and she was rolling in her chest with a pool of warm water, eager to hold the whole world in front of him, and kissed him several times on the face, "Mom loves you, do you know?"

"Yes. Alexander went to kiss her, "I love Mommy too." ”

When he went to the supermarket, Alexander's mood stabilized, he sat in front of the shopping cart, and kept talking, what class he took today, meeting new friends, pizza for lunch, apple tarts for snacks, yogurt was too sour and was secretly thrown away by him. Zeng Lovely listened and responded from time to time, this is the mode they get along.

After the day was over, Alexander twisted his ass and refused to sit in the shopping cart, Zeng Lovely put him down, "I can't leave my mother's sight." ”

Alexander came down to find the shelves tall and looked around, "Mommy, this supermarket is so big." ”

"Hmm. Zeng Kawai said, "You go and look for any snacks you usually eat." ”

"Mommy. Alexander was drawn to the dazzling array of toy candies, "Mommy, I think we can try something new." ”

"Want to buy this?" Zeng Cute squatted down and looked at the ingredient list behind her, a little wrinkling her eyebrows, but if she looked closely, most of the toys and only a small amount of candy, she said to Alexander, "As a celebration of your first day in the garden today, you can choose one." ”

Alexander clapped his hands happily, and finally chose a large transparent ball with a blonde doll in it, "I want this." ”

"Okay, put it in the cart. Zeng Lovely said.

"Mom, is that my sister?" asked his mother, who was also looking at the toy, and her mother pulled him awkwardly.

"It's my brother. She motioned for Alexander to walk forward, and Alexander was staring at the boy who said he was his sister.

"How can a boy play with a girl's toy. The boy muttered that when he saw Alexander's selection of toys, he turned back to his mother to agree, "Mom, you say yes, boys don't buy dolls." ”

The mother smiled embarrassedly at Zeng Cute, bowed her head and said to the child, "You still can't buy it, if you don't buy it, I'll leave?"

The boy has a flat mouth.

Zeng Cute led Alexander away, "Mommy, can't boys buy dolls?"

"There is no such rule. Zeng Kawai said, "As long as you like it, you can buy it." ”

"Her hair was curly golden, like a sarah. Alexander said Sarah was the landlady's youngest daughter and the longest-standing friend he had ever been with since he was born. So when he saw the doll, Alexander thought of her.

"Do you want Sarah?" said Tsang, "then on the weekend, we will make an appointment with Mrs. Petit for a video conference, and you can meet and chat with Sarah." ”

Alexander nodded.

When she returned from the supermarket, Yulisa called and asked her if she was off work, her husband was going to work overtime again, she wanted to take her sister out to eat, and asked her if she was going.

"Then you can bring your sister to me. Zeng Kawai said, "Just let you taste my craft." ”

"You know how to cook now?" asked Yulisa, surprised.

"I have to learn a little bit on my own when I am abroad. Zeng Kawaii said, "Come over and talk about it." ”

Yulisa came over with her sister in her arms, "I still can't believe it, you've learned to cook?

"It's okay, foreign stoves, you know, the smoke is not heavy. "Zeng Kaie marinated the chicken wings with garlic and black pepper, brushed them with butter and put them in the oven.

Wash the vegetables, cut and mix a salad, then boil the pasta in boiling water and prepare the sauce at the same time, and while talking to Yulisa, I also boiled the fried fish brought from home in fish soup and sprinkled the chopped coriander out of the pot.

Garlic chicken wings, tomato meat sauce noodles, small fish soup, vegetable salad.

"Just eat it. Zeng Lovely said. Serve soup to the child first, "The fish bones have been fried and crispy, and they can be eaten directly." ”

"You're amazing. Yulisa looked at her adoringly, "I, I've been cooking by nannies since I got married, and I can't cook soup now, even if I can't cook a soup." ”

Zeng Cute looked at her and lowered again, "You see that I also cook simply, and it is not a great thing to be able to cook." ”

"But look at you, you haven't pulled down your studies and work, and your children are well educated and can cook. Yurissa said in a low tone, "I'm a waste mom compared to you." ”

"Do you know that your long-term emotions will affect your sister?" said Zeng Kawai, she got up and poured her a glass of water, Yulisa looked at her sister, she and Alexander sat opposite each other, and ate noodles with him, because they couldn't use a fork, and they would hold a fork in their left hand and grab noodles with their right hand in the middle of eating.

"Sister, it's dirty to eat like this. "Yurissa wants to stop it.

Zeng Lovely stopped her, "You see how happy she is eating, just clean up when she finishes eating." ”

Yurissa watched her eat, her face was dirty, and she smiled at Alexander with her small teeth, "It's so good to eat, I don't eat at home, I want my aunt to chase after her, and I only eat a few bites for her." ”

"Isn't it particularly delicious that you made? ”

"It's that you don't believe that she can eat well, she feels it, so she deliberately doesn't eat well. Zeng Katie said, "If you don't have confidence, if the child feels it, she will also be unconfident, she will be aggressive, and she wants to protect herself." ”

"I'm not. Yulsa said, suddenly bursting into tears and covering her face.

My sister looked at this side suspiciously, and her expression changed.

"Alexander, you take your sister to dinner, and Mom and Aunt Lisa go wash your hands. Zeng Lovely said, "My sister is not afraid, my mother's eyes are stained, just wash it." ”

Zeng Lovely took Yulisha to the sink and wiped her face, "I didn't like to cry when I was a child, why do I love to cry so much now." ”

Yulisa hugged Zeng Lovely and cried, "Cute, I'm such a failure." ”

"You now have a happy family, a lovely daughter, and no worries about food and clothing, but if you fail like this, there are many people who can only die. Zeng Lovely patted her on the back and said.

"Not happy, not happy at all. "I don't have a sense of my presence, cute, I didn't get married by mistake, I shouldn't have gotten married so early." ”

"If you don't get married, you won't have a sister, are you willing to do it?" asked Zeng Kawaii.

"Reluctantly. Yulisa said, "But sometimes when my sister is noisy, I can't wait to jump off the building with her, others say that I am happy, but I am so miserable." ”

"My heart has always been like a stone. ”

"If you come out to work, you won't be idle. Zeng Lovely said.

"But I don't know anything. "I can only find a job for a few thousand yuan a month, so what can I do with that little money? ”

"Who said you don't know anything, you can't learn. ”

"It's good to earn a few thousand and hire a nanny. Zeng Lovely said, "You think, if you don't work, this nanny will have to be hired, and the money will also be spent." ”

"My husband said that. "He said it wasn't worth it for me to miss my daughter's growth for this little money." ”

"Work doesn't miss out on my daughter's growth. Zeng Lovely said.

"But I don't know anything. Yurissa cried again. "I haven't worked a day, I'm afraid. ”

Zeng Cute patted her on the back, "There's nothing to be afraid of, it's like learning to walk and take the first step, even if you can wrestle, you will walk more and more steadily." ”

"Mommy, I'm done. Alexander shouted in the restaurant.

"Don't cry, clean up. Zeng Lovely said, "You are a mother now, it's not okay to be so weak." ”

"I hate myself for being so weak, but I can't help it. Yurissa said.

After eating and playing for a while, Jian Ji'an called and asked where she was, the tone was not good, Yulisha argued with him a few more words, and finally asked to take her sister back with a stinky face.

My sister refused to go back.

Yurisa almost hugged her back, even when she closed the door, she could hear her sister's cry in the stairwell.

"Mommy, my sister doesn't want to go back, why can't she live in our house. Alexander asked.

"Because my sister is going back to her own home, my sister's father wants to see her most when she comes back from work. It's like I come back every day and want to see you for the first time. Zeng Lovely said.

"I'm not going to cry. Alexander suddenly said, "The happiest thing is to see my mother, I don't cry." ”

Zeng Lovely touched his head, "Okay, let's see what homework we left today." ”