"I'm a little in pain, but I can still bear it, whether I love you or not, I'm still a little talented. "From Xue Zhiqian's "Talent".

The song I liked recently represents my mood at that time.

In the middle of Xiaoshi's pregnancy, my relationship with her belonged to the mood mode of sometimes sunny days and sometimes rainy days.

So, I still have some experience about how to get along with husband and wife.

At eleven o'clock one night, my second brother-in-law suddenly called me: "Jin Long, did your second sister go out to look for you?"

I was puzzled: "No, what's wrong with my second sister?"

He replied a little angrily: "She's been out for an hour, and she hasn't come back yet! I called her, but she didn't answer! You call and tell her to come back quickly." ”

Me: "Oh, okay. ”

After hanging up, I immediately called my second sister: "Hey, where are you now?"

She was a little depressed: "I'm outside, what's the matter?"

Me: "Why are you out there if you don't come home so late?" My brother-in-law called me and asked me to tell you to go back. ”

She was a little angry: "He knows he's looking for me now? You don't have to pay attention to him, you can sleep well." ”

Me: "Are you arguing?"

She: "He always doesn't listen to me, he thinks everything is right and others are wrong." You can't really communicate with someone like him, okay, you can sleep with you. Ignore him. ”

Me: "But it's so late, you have to go back, it's a big night, it's dangerous to be alone outside." ”

Her: "Got it, I'm almost back." Sleep. ”

Me: "Okay. ”

After hanging up, I went downstairs to a nearby big tree and called my second brother-in-law: "Hey, brother-in-law, my second sister has gone back." ”

Him: "Yes, I didn't see her all the way." ”

Me: "How is that possible?" But she said she had already gone back. ”

Him: "Come out, I'll look for you." ”

Me: "Okay, I'm under a big tree near my downstairs right now. ”

Him: "Okay. ”

After hanging for about five minutes, the second brother-in-law came over on an electric car.

Him: "Your second sister said she had already gone back?"

Me: "yes." ”

Him: "There's no reason, you can call her again." ”

I picked up my phone and dialed my second sister's number: "Hey, are you home?" ”

She: "You've returned, in the house on Auntie's side, haven't you slept yet?"

Me: "Come on, just get home, you can sleep." ”

She: "Okay, bye-bye." ”

After hanging up the phone, I turned to my second brother-in-law and said, "She's home, but it's just in Auntie's house." ”

Him: "Oh, she is. ”

Me: "What's wrong with you? Is there a quarrel?"

He lit a cigarette, took a puff, and then sighed a little: "I just said a word to her, and then she came out without saying a word, never came back, and called her and didn't answer." Alas!"

Me: "Women are meant to be coaxed." ”

He: "I used to talk about coaxing when we first started together, but now that we have been married for so long and our two children are in school, where can we still use coaxing? ”

Me: "Xiaoshi and I also have conflicts from time to time, but every time she cries, I will coax her back." After all, women are the ones who get married. ”

He took another puff of cigarette and exhaled the smoke: "Alas, your second sister just thinks that her own is right, and what others say is not right." Can you talk well like that?"

Me: "I think it's because your understanding is not at the same point. ”

Him: "Sometimes, when I go out late at night, she talks about me. I'm a big man riding an electric car, what are you afraid of?"

Me: "My second sister is worried about you, it's still more dangerous to come out at night." ”

Him: "How dangerous? Now that the law and order are so good, is it possible that someone will rob me? Besides, I don't have any money." ”

Me: "Maybe she's worried about the danger of riding an electric bike, after all, driving at night is inherently more careful." ”

Him: "No, it's not like I can't drive." ”

Me: "Well, I mean the ship of ten thousand years with care. ”

Him: "Huh. ”

Me: "Actually, my second sister is very satisfied. Usually, as long as you buy a flower for her, she will be happy for a long, long time. Definitely!"

Him: "Hehe, how can I send flowers at my age?"

Me: "What's that? Maybe even if you suddenly complimented her, she'd be happy." For example, praise her for becoming beautiful or something. ”

He took a few more puffs of his cigarette and exhaled the smoke......

We talked until about 0:30 a.m., and he didn't seem to accept my suggestion......

Anyway, everyone has their own way of getting along with each other, and I don't have to have to ask him to accept my advice.

Every time I have a conflict with a little poem, my heart is sad......

After the sadness, try to cover up my wounds, and then coax her to admit my mistakes, although I don't feel that I am at fault......

Slowly, it became a habit......

That feeling, like, I'm a little painful, but I can still bear it, do I love you, I'm still a little talented......