Chapter 448: Let's Get Married (7)
The program team asked Ding He and his entourage to go to the welfare home and accompany the children in the welfare home for a day.
This is only the first day of the mission, and it is only part of the mission.
After a whole day with the children in the orphanage, select a child with whom they have the deepest relationship and the best relationship to participate in the next activities and tasks.
"Oh my God, these children are really super cute~ big watery eyes, meat, and little faces, they look really cute, older children, and they are so sensible and obedient, and they can take care of younger children while taking care of themselves, and they are cute and sensible children~"
"I don't know why, but seeing these children feel so sad, watching them play by themselves reminds me of my miserable childhood. My father and mother worked hard to make ends meet, and I was alone at home. Thinking about those days, playing with myself alone, without my parents by my side, my heart is very sad and sad. But compared to these children, I am lucky because I have a home. ”
"This welfare home is not bad, the children here are so cleanly dressed, so tidy, they don't look malnourished, I hope they can live happily here, waiting for someone to adopt them." ”
As soon as the camera turned, Ding He and his party had already come to the welfare home, and in the camera were a group of cute children.
When netizens saw this scene, they were both happy and sad.
Joy is that these children are really likable, and sadness is because these children are really pitiful, and they should have grown up healthy and happy in the company of their parents, but they have become orphans.
"Now that we have come to the welfare home, everyone can move freely, and when accompanying the children, we should maintain an equal status with them as much as possible, and do not look like they are superior or overly enthusiastic. ”
Before the host came, he had already asked the dean for a lot of advice on how to get along with the children quickly.
So after coming to the welfare home, he directly told Ding He and his party about these suggestions.
If you want to get in touch with your child quickly, you can't be on top of your child and appear in front of him, because then the child will be afraid of you and dare not come near you.
But if you are too enthusiastic, the children will also be vigilant, because these children are orphans, and they have a strong sense of psychological defense, and they are especially afraid of strangers approaching them.
Therefore, if Ding He and some people, if they want to get together with the children as soon as possible, they should do their best to stand on an equal footing with the children, treat themselves as children, communicate with them, and mingle with them as much as possible.
Only in this way will the children let down their vigilance, play happily with them, and slowly cultivate their feelings.
Ding He has rich experience in parenting, because of Niu Niu, so Ding He quickly got into a mess with several children.
Among them, there is a child named Xiaodouding, who likes Ding He very much and always follows Ding He.
Hua Shao, who looks very cold on weekdays, and Internet celebrity Xuanxuan, are also very gentle with their children at this time.
is completely different from her usual image, Internet celebrity Xuanxuan usually gives people a sense of beauty that is not close to fireworks, an unrealistic beauty.
But at this time, Xuanxuan became a gentle aunt.
The ruthless Hua Shao, the ruthless rich second generation, also became an easy-going uncle at this time.
The two of them are together, giving people a very warm feeling, so there are many children around them, and one of them is a little girl named Huanhuan with pigtails, who is very close to the two of them.
Maybe it's because Huanhuan is beautiful and likable, maybe it's because Huanhuan's smile is too sweet, in short, no matter what the reason, Huanhuan's appearance rate in front of Xuanxuan and Hua Shao is very high.
However, Xueba Jiahui seemed a little helpless at this time.
"Jiahui, don't stand like this all the time, how can the children get close to you? Follow my example, let's squat down and communicate with the children, and play with the children. ”
Li Yun said as he looked at Jiahui who was standing aside, and sighed helplessly.
This Jiahui is good at everything, but he has a bad place, that is, when facing children, he doesn't know what to do.
It's not that I don't like children, but I don't know how to communicate with children, and I always feel that such a young child, in terms of IQ, has too big a gap with myself.
In Jiahui's words, if the IQ gap is too large, there is no way to communicate.
"I ...... I'm still standing on the sidelines, watching you play with the child, if you call me, I'm better not to participate......"
Sure enough, after Jiahui heard Li Yun's words, he began to speak incoherently nervously, because Jiahui really didn't know how to communicate with children.
Jiahui couldn't understand how such a magical creature as a child had spent all these years.
IQ is not well developed, EQ is not well developed, and the perception of things is not well developed, how to communicate with them......
Jiahui doesn't know, Jiahui only knows that he wants to express his own thoughts, and he is not responsible for whether other people understand or not.
Because when you say your arguments, you can get people to support or refute them.
Supporting yourself means identifying with yourself. If you oppose yourself, it means that you do not agree with your own point of view, or that there is something that you do not understand your point of view. At this time, the other party will put forward his own point of view, or the place of doubt, Jiahui will answer.
However, the little one is a creature that he doesn't know how to give you this information.
So in this case, it's equivalent to having already handed in a paper, but no one has changed it for you, and you don't know how many points you have scored.
Jiahui felt that it was better to give up, because it was more difficult than engaging in scientific research.
Even though Jiahui was standing so blankly, he still attracted the attention of a child.
"Uncle, why are you here alone?"
A little boy with a mushroom head said as he blinked at Jiahui with big watery eyes.
Jiahui was asked this question by him, and he suddenly didn't know how to answer, but just looked at the little boy in a daze.
"Uncle, are you like me, don't you like to play with other people, do you like to be alone in a daze?" Mushroom Head tilted his head as he spoke, tilted his head to look at Jiahui, and then asked with a curious face: "Uncle, when I am alone in a daze, I like to think about why the sky is blue and why the clouds are white." Uncle, when you are alone in a daze, do you also think about these questions?"
After Jiahui heard these words of the child, he was surprised and curious, this child is really different from other children!
"Then do you want to understand why the sky is blue and why the clouds are white?"
Jiahui did not answer the child's words, but directly asked the questions he was thinking about.
Hearing Jiahui's words, the little boy shook his head helplessly, and then made an expression that did not match his age, sighed and said: "No, it's just that I read too little, so I can't understand the reason, but I believe that when I go to school in the future, I will definitely understand what the reason is." ”
When he said this, the little boy seemed to remember something, blinked at Jiahui with big hopeful eyes and said, "Uncle, you must have gone to school, do you know why the sky is blue and the clouds are white?"
Looking at the little boy's eyes full of curiosity, Jiahui's heart trembled as if it had been touched.
I don't know why Jiahui involuntarily squatted down, took the little boy's hand with his hand, looked at him at eye level, and then said: "Uncle knows why, but the truth is too complicated, if you don't mind, uncle can start with you from the beginning." ”
"Really, that's great, thank you, uncle!" said Mushroom Head with a big smile when he heard Jiahui's words.
At this time, it is the age of changing teeth, so it is the two front teeth that laugh a little funny, with a childlike appearance.
"Oh my God, this little boy can't be a prodigy, a future school bully, such a young child, actually listening to Jiahui talk about such a profound truth, and listening to it very carefully and seriously, I ...... What the hell should I say?
"I'm already dizzy, and I can't help but doze off when I hear such knowledge, and the little boy is still standing here, and although I don't know if he can understand it, he seems to be happy to hear it. Is it predestined to learn this? Well, I gave up...... Child, you have to work hard, you are the hope of the future of the motherland!"
"I originally thought that Jiahui would not take children, but I didn't expect that the guy would be so patient. Jiahui is just interested in learning things, so we misunderstood him, Jiahui when telling children about these knowledge, he is really careful and serious, starting from the most basic, slowly guiding the knowledge, selecting or being able to understand, as detailed as possible. For such a class, I said that I would like to spend 10,000 yuan for a class, and I am willing to spend it for my children, such a teacher is really too patient!"
Netizens on the Internet were attracted by the scene of Jiahui giving a lesson to the mushroom head.
Although the scientific principles told by Jiahui started from the simplest at the beginning, they will slowly introduce a lot of profound things when they listen to it.
Many netizens were already dizzy just from the video, but the little boy listened to it with relish, and many netizens expressed their amazement, and even thought that the little boy was a prodigy.
In the welfare home, everyone had a lot of fun with the children, time flew fast, and the time of the day passed in a blink of an eye.
Then ushered in the second day of the competition, on the second day, Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan took Xiaodouding, Xuanxuan and Hua Shao took Huanhuan, Jiahui and Li Yun took the mushroom head, and started the game.
This competition is mainly a parent-child activity, allowing couples to experience life with children and let them feel the warmth of home.
In the same way, the children also felt a lot of joy in this game.
In this regard, everyone was immersed in happiness and did not pay so much attention to the result of the game.
In this way, the game is played at the same time.
"I don't want the day to end, I don't want the game to end, because I can't imagine what these kids are going to do after the game, what is the short time with these couples? ”
"I hope none of this has happened, Ding He and his party can pretend that nothing happened, and they can quickly forget. But these are the happy memories of the children, they are what the children yearn for in their hearts, and they will be given back later, and the children will be beaten back to the valley again, and I can't imagine the life of the children after returning to the welfare home! ”
"I think Ding He is really super patient, super good at getting along with children, and he will definitely be a very great father in the future!"
"I don't know why, all my attention was drawn to the mushroom head. This kid with mushroom head is really different, judging from his every move, he is really very similar to Jiahui. I really want to know what the IQ of the mushroom head is, I really think he's a prodigy!"
The happy time of the second day is still fleeting. At the end of the game, netizens talked a lot.
Many netizens questioned the significance of this event, because they felt that it was a harm and a short-term happiness for the children in the orphanage, and then they were released back to the orphanage again.
It was just a small event for the couples, but for the children, it was a very happy time, and even a time that they will never forget for the rest of their lives.
They don't know how to control their emotions and don't know how to distinguish between truth and falsehood, which is invisible and hurtful to them.
Whether it was happiness or harm, no one could tell, but after the game, Jiahui did not end his contact with the little mushroom head.
Because of the two days of being with Little Mushroom Head for a short time, Jiahui found that the child Little Mushroom Head was really different from children of the same age, and many of his ideas were very similar to himself.
So Jiahui decided to sponsor Little Mushroom Head and let him receive a special education and higher education, so while Jiahui participated in the competition, he sent his friend to take Little Mushroom Head away on the other side.
"In the past few days, everyone's performance in the show has been very good, every time they perform a task, every time they participate in the competition, everyone is very positive and active. During this time, everyone experienced all kinds of things that they had never encountered before, parents sat together to eat, and children participated in competitions together, and it seemed that they could imagine their married life. ”
In a blink of an eye, the show is about to end, and the host summarizes what happened during this time.