Chapter 564: Pastoral Life
A lot of things happened during this time, first moving to the island, then there was a struggle between the two groups, and then I went to participate in variety shows immediately after, and my husband was also busy with the company's operation.
Although everything is getting better, but that heart has never relaxed, take this opportunity Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan to relax and enjoy the idyllic life here.
"Husband, when do you say that we can live such a leisurely life like the old lady and the old man next door before, growing vegetables, fiddling with the garden, every day is like this, although it is a little monotonous, but it is very fulfilling, very quiet. ”
Zheng Mengyuan and Ding He lay on a rocking chair together, looking at the flowers and plants in the garden, and couldn't help but envy the old lady she met during the filming of the show before, and envied the old lady's life in her old age, if she could, Zheng Mengyuan didn't mind stepping into this life earlier.
"If we want to live that life, we can go now, honor the elderly according to our assets, raise children without a problem, and we can have food and clothing for the rest of our lives. Ding He said to Zheng Mengyuan very seriously, and then continued: "Do you really want to live like that? If you want, I can live it now with you." ”
Ding He's words are only half of what he said, Ding He wants to say that wanting to live such a life is a very simple thing in terms of his current ability.
But is it really willing to live such a life at such a young age?
Ding He didn't think so in his heart, Ding He felt that while he was young, he should do something he hadn't done before, do some challenges that he hadn't done, experience something he hadn't experienced, and have some wonderful things in his life, this is the life that Ding He wants, these things are used to recall when he is old, so that his later life will be more fulfilling and interesting.
After all, people need to be filled, not blindly quiet and enjoyable, always have to go through some wind and rain, always have to experience some blandness, these are all equal.
"How can you say it......" Zheng Mengyuan was also a little hesitant after hearing Ding He's words.
Zheng Mengyuan knew that if he really wanted to live such a life, Ding He would accompany him, because he had never refused any request he made.
Zheng Mengyuan has some contradictions in her heart, a little complicated, she envies that kind of life, but she doesn't want to give up life in the city, her pursuit of career, and her yearning for the future don't seem to be so much to the point of giving up.
Not only wants to enjoy nature quietly, but also wants to let herself fight while she is young, this complex and contradictory mood makes Zheng Mengyuan feel a little uncomfortable.
Just like I don't want to give up my career and want to give birth to my daughter, that kind of dilemma, I can't give up my own flesh and blood, and I can't give up my career, and I can't let go of both sides, so the dilemma is really uncomfortable.
"Wife, why don't we come here to enjoy this leisurely life as soon as we have time in the future? Let's make an agreement, every month, every season, every year, we will take a certain amount of time to relax here, so that we can be busy at the same time, but also feel the joy of life, and have enough time to sober up and think about what we want. ”
Ding He didn't have to guess, seeing his wife's embarrassed expression, he knew that Zheng Mengyuan's heart had two villains, black and white, with different concepts, and a battle was carried out in her mind, which made his wife not know how to choose.
In fact, Ding He also understands and can understand what his wife is thinking in her heart.
Zheng Mengyuan wants to be able to relax completely like this when she is busy, and to have such an environment and such a time to precipitate and reflect when she is not sure how to move forward.
In fact, this is what life is like, if you blindly move forward, after a long time, you will forget your original goal, you will forget why you are moving forward.
If you can take some time to think about it, these problems will be solved.
Now his wife. has also come to a fork in the road in life, with family on one side and career on the other, and my wife doesn't know how to choose.
To be honest, Ding He wants his wife to stay at home to take care of his children, but he also wants his wife to realize her own ideals and ambitions in life.
Because from the perspective of selfishness and love, Ding He hopes that his wife can focus on her family and have a beautiful and harmonious family. I also hope that my wife can boldly pursue her dreams.
Even he is so entangled, let alone his wife, these Ding He understands.
But Ding He didn't say anything, because Ding He knew that even if he said it, he couldn't help his wife, and he couldn't interfere in many things, and the more he intervened, the more headaches his wife would have, so it was better to let his wife think about it and make a good decision by herself.
Whether to stay at home to take care of the children, take care of the family, or go out to continue his career, this is Zheng Mengyuan's own choice, he has this power, of course, he also has this responsibility.
Because once she chooses, she has to pay for it, and she has to bear all the consequences of this choice.
But the more Ding He didn't ask, the more Zheng Mengyuan wanted to ask what her husband thought.
"Husband, do you want me to stay at home and take care of my family, or do you want to go out and have a career? If you stay at home, you have to give up your career, and if you go out, you have to give up your family, no matter how you choose, you can't seem to have the best of both worlds......
Zheng Mengyuan said as she looked up at Ding He.
Although the husband and wife were on a rocking chair in the garden, they were troubled by these worldly things.
Ding He thought about it, but in the end he still didn't know how to respond to Zheng Mengyuan, because Ding He knew that no matter what advice he gave his wife and what choice his wife made, she would regret it in the end.
Unless this choice is made by herself after some careful consideration, and only in this way can she go on without hesitation.
"Wife, let me tell you a story!" Ding He looked at Zheng Mengyuan as he spoke, and then said: "Maybe after listening to this story, you will know how to choose." ”
Zheng Mengyuan didn't know what story Ding He wanted to tell her, but after hearing his last sentence, she nodded.
Listen to the story, listen to the story, as long as you can help yourself make a choice, there is no problem in listening to ten stories.
"Once upon a time there was a king who had heard of a witch who was very capable and very strong in her spells. If he can get the help of a witch, his country will become stronger. The king wanted his country to become strong, so he wanted to invite witches. But the witch refused the king, saying that she would find a valiant man to marry her, so that she would serve the king. ”
Ding He looked down as he said and saw that Zheng Mengyuan was very engaged, so he looked at the scenery in the distance and continued to tell the story.
Although the witch is super powerful, she is extremely ugly, old and ugly, and has a stench on her body.
No one wanted to marry a witch, so the king had a lot of headaches, and just when the king didn't know what to do, a general volunteered to marry a witch for the sake of his country.
At last he found someone willing to marry a witch, and the king was very happy, so he sent his general to marry the witch with rich gifts.
Seeing that the general was talented, the witch directly agreed to the general's marriage proposal, and the witch also asked the general a question.
"I know you men like beautiful women, and so will I be, but I have limited spells, so I can only choose one or the other. Either I'm beautiful in front of people, close the door, and when it's just you and me, I'll be extremely ugly. Either I still maintain this ugly appearance in front of people, and after closing the door, when you and I are husband and wife, I will become a very beautiful woman, how do you want me to choose?"
The people who followed the general to greet their relatives talked a lot after hearing the witch's words, and some people said that it was naturally important to save face, and it was good to be beautiful in front of people, and after closing the door, only they knew that they were ugly.
Some people also say that what is the use of being beautiful in front of people, it is better to be beautiful when you are a husband and wife, in this case. Whether your wife is ugly or beautiful, it's good to know it in your heart.
"General, please give me a reply, I will make this choice today. ”
Seeing that the general had not spoken, the witch asked again.
"You are a witch with a super strong law, you have the ability to assist the king, I believe you are a woman with brains and talents, I respect your choice, you just choose the one you want. ”
As he spoke, the general looked at the witch and said very seriously, "I respect your choice. ”
When the witch heard the general's words, she didn't speak for a long time.
"I choose to always be pretty. As she spoke, the witch took on the form of a beautiful woman, and lived happily ever after with the general.
It turns out that you didn't ask the general this question, it was just a temptation, no matter whether the general chooses to be beautiful in front of people or beautiful in the back, the witch will not marry the general.
A witch is a witch with a mind and a mind of her own, and she wants to marry a man who respects him and allows her to choose her own life.
The general did it, so the witch agreed to marry the general and assist the king with the general.
"Wife, do you understand what I mean?"
Ding He saw that after Zheng Mengyuan heard the story he told, he didn't speak for a long time, and he was thinking about something with his eyes closed.
The general chose to respect the witch's own decision, and let the witch decide for herself whether she was beautiful in front of people or more beautiful in front of people, and the people that the witch finally chose were beautiful before and after, and Zheng Mengyuan naturally understood the moral of this.
"Husband, I want to try to see if I can take care of my career as much as possible, and I will also allocate a part of my energy to the family and my daughter, although I can't do things on both sides too well, but these two are what I want to choose. ”
Zheng Mengyuan figured it out, why should she embarrass herself? She was worried that her daughter couldn't let go of her career, so why did she have to force herself to choose one of the two?
Even if you don't do both to the extreme, and you don't do your best, isn't it good that you choose the two things you want to do?
The general respects the witch's choice, the husband respects his choice, why should he choose, the question of being beautiful in front of people and beautiful in the future.
Isn't it possible for everyone to be as beautiful as everyone before and after? Although I am a little tired, although I may not do the best, at least I have no regrets.
"Okay, although it's a little hard, but since you have chosen me as your husband, there is no reason not to support it, so I will accompany you to go down and share these with you. ”
Ding He looked at Zheng Mengyuan with gentle eyes, his wife made such a choice, Ding He knew that it was a very difficult road and a very hard one.
I have to take care of both my family and my career, and I must do a good job of my wife's logistics, help my wife share her worries, and strive to make my wife easier.
The short pastoral life has sublimated the relationship between Ding He and Zheng Mengyuan and his wife.
The previous fatigue was also swept away, and the two returned again like chicken blood, hoping to make their careers flourish and hope to achieve the goals they wanted.
"Or say that the boss is good, let's talk about a trip to go, just a trip to go, I didn't even say hello, and I threw all the things in the studio to us who work~"
Mo Tian sighed as he spoke, and then pretended to look at Ding He casually.
Because he was in a hurry, he didn't have time to explain some work things, but he sent a text message to Mo Tian in a hurry, asking him to help him take care of his studio.
Because he has to juggle both his own entertainment journalist studio and the management of his own agency studio, he is busy on both sides.
Especially in some things, there is no handover at all, for Mo Tian, it is even more difficult, Mo Tian can do this, it is really not easy.
"Okay, knowing that you have worked hard, knowing that you have been wronged, isn't this an emergency?"
Ding He leaned on as he spoke, supported the table with one hand on the table, and then tapped his fingers rhythmically on the table, looking at him with a smile, and then said: "Why don't you also have a travel entertainment that you can go, and I will take care of it for you in the reporter's studio, Huya and I." They will definitely be taken care of properly, and you can go on vacation with peace of mind. ”
After Mo Tian heard Ding He's words, he was obviously a little moved, but after touching Ding He's gaze, he hurriedly pretended not to care.