Blind date, acceptance or rejection?

For me, let it be......

I heard others say that most of the people who will go on a blind date are the kind that no one wants, because a good one doesn't need a blind date to have a result. I don't express any right or wrong opinion on this......www.biquge.info

I'm going my own way straight on this statement.

Well, I've already started to embark on the starting point of the blind date avenue, and I'm almost there. Looks like I'm the kind that no one wants......

Oh, I didn't expect me to be so bad. Fortunately, I'm a 2B optimistic talent! As long as I treat myself as a treasure, then I am a treasure, a treasure in the blind date world.

I also believe that there are many treasures in the blind date world, see if I can meet them.

At that time, on the car back to his hometown, he chatted with Ying on WeChat about some blind dates.

She said that she had been on a blind date several times, and all she met were strange men, either because she was not tall enough, or she loved money like her life......

Hahaha, I can't understand her thoughts because I haven't been on a blind date yet.

During the two days in my hometown, my aunt asked someone to introduce me. I heard that there was a rural girl who was one year younger than me, who was quite fair, hearty, and smart, but when she was a child, she injured the bottom of her eyelid, had four stitches, and left a little scar...... The aunt who introduced the girl asked me if I minded.

Actually, I don't really care much about that. What I care about is, feelings.

At first glance, whether there is a natural feeling or not, of course, is only the first impression. It doesn't determine whether I like a girl or not, it's just that the feeling of nature will make the likability increase.

The second feeling is the most important thing! After a period of communication and familiarity, the feeling that comes from the heart. If this feeling touches my heart, that's what I like.

Not minding, I left my buckle for the aunt. After that, I don't know if that girl added me......

I think even if you don't feel like we're not together, it's okay to be friends. Besides, this is not the kind of lover who breaks up and then become friends.

Now, in addition to continuing to make myself stronger, I want to continue to make myself stronger. I'm a living treasure! Whoever gets me will live happily!

Blind date, for me, is also a waiting process. Wait for the person who understands me in terms of treatment, and I also understand her, and then we will go to the future together.

In fact, there is no need to exclude blind dates too much. It's not that you have to pick a random one on a blind date, you can really look at it with your heart, perhaps, the real right person is in it.

Sometimes I also fantasize about what kind of happy picture it will be when I go on a blind date and become a person who loves each other?

The moon that night was so hazy...... Learn the words of the philosophical beast and say: "I watch the stars at night, pinch my fingers, well, the marriage will soon come." ”

Time went on and went back to work.

"I don't think you have a future here. You are not like us, you are not only young, but you are also a free person, and you can choose a good job, while we are old and young, and we have to do this work as a last resort. The fat beast said these words to me inexplicably.

I was stunned for a moment after listening to what he said. A boulder in my heart smashed heavily into the already calm heart, setting off layers of huge waves and ruining the peace......

This is indeed a big blind spot in my mind. I wanted to have a future, but the work I was doing at the time didn't look like it was promising. It's easy for me to get caught up in this contradiction.

Whew, it was almost a year since I entered Xidesheng. July, a confused and unstable July.

In July of the previous year, I had given up my second job without saying a word, leaving myself.

At that time, I made such an impulsive choice because I couldn't get rid of that contradiction.

What does it mean to leave before the time is ripe? It means that I have betrayed myself, that I have allowed myself to break my word, that I promised myself what I wanted to do but did not do it. Obviously, it will take a few months, and he has not yet completed the task he gave himself, but he ......

So, I was punished too. If I hadn't impulsively left my second job, I would have paid off my debt in October of the previous year. However, it took almost a year for the self-departure in July, the fall in August, the indulgence in September, and the restart in October, before I could pay off my debt.

Carrying debt, it feels so heavy, I can't feel that I am free. There is always a chain in my heart that binds me, I want to fly, but I can't......

So after having that impulse, I told myself to remember this lesson before I was impulsive in the future!

So why am I impulsive? That contradiction is one reason, and the other is the influence of interpersonal relationships. In layman's terms, it is possible to have impulsive thoughts because of other people's self-righteous intentions or intentional persuasion......

Therefore, those words of the fat beast made me feel that impulse again. Of course, at that time, I also hadn't gotten rid of that contradiction.

I understand myself, though. If I can't make my heart stronger, then no matter what job I change, I won't have a future.

Perhaps, in the eyes of the big beast brothers, I went to college and was a very cultured person. But that's just from their own point of view. You know, from the perspective of being a college student, I don't have any education, and I haven't even graduated from university.

Big Brother Beast felt that the work we were doing at that time was a chorre and had no future. Indeed, if you work with such a mentality, I think, it really has no future. Because, without light in the eyes, how can we see the future?

That's right, the work we were doing at the time was relatively basic, and it looked like a chore. However, the world is a whole made up of many parts, and each part has a meaning for each part. The same is true for work, it is impossible for everyone to only sit in the office, there are always some positions that need to be done. And, not everyone likes to sit in the office.

Yes, I went to college and didn't sit in an office. However, I find the happiness I want in my job.

The future is important, but it is sad to only see the future in our eyes and ignore some essential things.

Great oaks from little acorns grow.. I have always been like a snail, slowly moving forward step by step, and every step of mine is steady. I didn't aim too high, and I didn't want to take one step to the sky. That's not realistic at all, and it doesn't mean what I want. It's like playing a game, and you blow up the machine all of a sudden, what's the point?

The work I was doing at that time, if I wanted to have a future, I needed to accumulate strength, and I had to wait for an opportunity, and that opportunity would come sooner or later, maybe not. It is possible for a month, half a year. It is also possible that seven years and eight years. However, that does not affect the accumulation of strength. Imagine that when you accumulate more strength than that opportunity requires, you will find that you can create opportunities yourself...... So, while I was accumulating strength, I was racing against time. And, plant the seeds of hope in your heart.

Even if I say so, the future is unknown. Who can see what the future holds? So, unlike before, I don't rely too much on a job, I care about growth at work!

And the reason why I can't get rid of that contradiction is because my heart is not strong enough, and I still care about other people's opinions.

Whew, but then again, it's my motto: nothing is in vain.

I've really grown a lot in the year that I've experienced because of my impulsiveness.

Sometimes, I can't help but smirk and say to myself, "That's a good impulse!"

It's not bad to listen to others more, because there may be a lot of surprises in other people's words!

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