Chapter 848: The Father-Son Gap
After returning to the car, the three of us discussed it and decided to go to the local Big Buddha Temple tomorrow to find Qu Xinghua.
So after that, the three of us found a small hotel and slept for one night, and went straight to the Big Buddha Temple in the west of the city early the next morning......
The day we went happened to be a weekend, so there were many tourists in the temple who came to burn incense and worship the Buddha. When we asked a little monk at the gate of the temple about Qu Xinghua, his expression was obviously stunned, and it seemed that no one usually came here to find Qu Xinghua.
When Qu Xinghua appeared in front of us, I saw his full head of silver hair, and he seemed to be much older than he should be. People lose their wives and children in middle age...... Maybe it's really only by taking refuge in my Buddha that we can have the meaning of continuing to live.
Qu Xinghua told us that he is now leading the hair practice, because the abbot here Master Ran said that his fate is not over, so he cannot be shaved for the time being......
When we handed him the mobile phone we picked up at his house, Qu Xinghua said with a surprised expression, "Why is this mobile phone in your hands?"
As soon as I heard this, I sighed and said, "That's a long story...... and then I briefly told him the purpose of our trip.
After hearing this, he said with a confused expression, "Are you saying that there is a girl who met a boy who claims to be Xiao Lang when she was playing the game of Natural Pair......s? How is this possible?"
I didn't expect Qu Xinghua to open his mouth and say the name of the game, it seems that there are many things we don't know...... So I said to him helplessly, "We are also very surprised about this, so the purpose of our visit this time is to learn from you about Qu Lang back then......
Qu Xinghua still remembers the events of that year, although he has entered Buddhism, he still can't figure out why things have developed to such a point......
Before the incident, it happened to be the stage when Qu Lang was preparing for the sprint in the third year of high school, the child has been good since elementary school, and he will always be a good student in the eyes of teachers and parents, Qu Xinghua and his wife Jiang Xiulan also have high expectations for him, and they feel that their son will definitely be admitted to Tsinghua University.
But who knew that just a few days before the accident, when Jiang Xiulan was checking her son's mobile phone, she suddenly found that he had downloaded a small game called "Natural Pair". When she clicked in and took a look, she was immediately angry!!
She didn't expect that Qu Lang, who had always worked hard and was only dedicated to being admitted to Tsinghua University, would download such a "degenerate" game on his mobile phone? So Jiang Xiulan scolded her son fiercely, and then confiscated his mobile phone.
It was also from that time that Qu Lang's mood began to change, he began to be more and more unable to concentrate, and sometimes even had mild anxiety......
For this reason, Qu Xinghua once discussed this issue with his wife, is it that they are too strict with their son's discipline! After all, Qu Lang is now seventeen or eighteen, and it is normal for him to have this idea, if he blindly suppresses it at this time, will it have the opposite effect?
Unexpectedly, Jiang Xiulan resolutely disagreed with Qu Xinghua's idea after hearing this, she thought that now was the most critical time for Qu Lang, and she couldn't slack off a little, as long as he could be admitted to Tsinghua University, wouldn't things like falling in love come naturally? !
Because of his wife's insistence, and Qu Xinghua also feels that his wife also has her reasons, and now it looks like there are less than three months to take the college entrance examination.
But what happened later made Qu Xinghua regret it, if he could have had a good talk with his son at that time, maybe things would not have turned out now. In fact, Qu Lang had already developed a serious mental illness because of the excessive pressure of the college entrance examination at that time.
If the parents found out in time at this time and gave correct guidance, Qu Lang would not have done such an extreme thing anyway. But at that time, Jiang Xiulan just put away his mobile phone arrogantly, thinking that there would be no mobile phone to play, so naturally there would be no more external things to interfere with Qu Lang's study. But I never expected that this would become the last straw that broke the camel's back......
On the day of the incident, Qu Xinghua was attending evening classes at school, when he suddenly received a phone call from his wife, Jiang Xiulan, saying that his son was now being rescued in the hospital.
A bad feeling slowly floated in the bottom of his heart...... Although he didn't have time to ask what happened on the phone at that time, he felt that this matter might be related to taking away Qu Lang's mobile phone before.
As a result, when Qu Xinghua rushed to the hospital, the death notice in the emergency room had been issued, and Qu Lang died of a serious head injury...... When Qu Xinghua learned that his son committed suicide by jumping off the building, he excitedly grabbed his wife's arm and asked her, "Are you scolding him again?!" I felt that my son's emotions were problematic before, why don't you know how to restrain yourself!!!Why?!
Although Qu Xinghua also felt that he was a little too much at that time, after all, his wife's sadness would not be less than his own, but when he was extremely sad, there was no way to control his emotions.
In fact, Qu Xinghua had already found that his wife's emotions were a little wrong, but because he had been busy with his son's afterlife, he ignored the seriousness of his wife's problem for a while, so until now...... He couldn't forgive himself for hurting his wife at the time.
Qu Xinghua once tried hard to reflect on whether he was a good husband and a good father for his wife and son, and why he used all his strength to love them, but the result was that the family was ruined now?
In fact, I really sympathize with Qu Xinghua, I believe that his love for both his son and his wife is selfless, but perhaps it is because this love is so thick that the couple has a serious misunderstanding on how to educate their children, which led to the final tragedy.
As for the password of the mobile phone, Qu Xinghua said that he didn't know either, but he gave me the date of birth of their family of three and asked me to go back and try it, if all of them couldn't be opened, then he would have no choice.
Because there is always an unbridgeable gap between him and his son, so that there is no real communication between their father and son, maybe this is the so-called father does not know the son, and the son does not know the father......"