After the second brother-in-law died of cancer, my father brought this niece from the countryside to our house in the city, she is in her 20s and has lived with us for many years, at that time she went to work every day and took the bus back from the department store!

She eats ready-made at home every day, and her mother bought her a white down jacket for the New Year!

It's very expensive, but she only bought the latest version of a CD player for herself when she made money, and she played Xiaogang and Adu's songs every day, and I occasionally took them to listen to them.

Later, she had an independent shop, and began to fill her pockets, selling things without keeping accounts, and my mother was not used to her as a person, but the eldest sister of the third aunt's family also worked in my house, and bought wine and food for my father during the New Year's holidays, because they were obedient to my father on the surface, and their mouths were as sweet as honey and called uncle, my father liked these two nieces the most, even more than me!

I have never seen him love me so much! The family business is very busy, we are also very busy with school, only the afternoon of the Chinese New Year's Eve to the third year of junior high school, the family can spare time!

At that time, transportation was not developed! Because of all the busyness of the family, there was a need for people everywhere, and we didn't have time to go out to play or go to visit relatives!

I don't have grandparents for a long time, and the only old person in the family is my grandmother. Every Chinese New Year, at the beginning of the New Year, the New Year's money was issued, and the mother gave 100 yuan per person, and then she had to go back in a few days, and then only gave us 20 yuan for pocket money!

Every year during the Chinese New Year, I never heard her say a word of blessing to her children. Auntie and our two families frequently walked around, during the New Year's greetings, my aunt gave us New Year's money, my mother said no, said that it was boring to give to us, you give us our children, I will give your children again, and it will be flat!

On the second day of the Lunar New Year, my aunt bought a bunch of things to go to my grandmother's house and asked us if we would go, but my mother said no!

We wanted to go, and in the end it was my aunt who took our three sisters and brothers to my grandmother's house, and my aunt bought a big bag and a small bag, and made a bunch of food by hand, and also gave each child a New Year's money, look at her mother and my grandmother!

And my family, which is the busiest in the year, rarely goes out to visit relatives, and my mother is reluctant to go back to see her mother, because she is very afraid of spending money and favors, and she will give New Year's money as soon as she goes out, and she does not allow our sisters and brothers to ask for relatives' New Year's money!

In this way, they do not owe each other. At that time, my family was very rich in the whole family, but my mother was so short of money, maybe she thought that she was the water spilled by her married daughter, and all the wealth and things related to interests belonged to her husband's family!

No one wants to get the slightest benefit from her! She never helps her family relatives, nephews and nieces.

At that time, they were really poor, living in mud houses in the countryside, and they didn't even finish junior high school!

On the contrary, my father treated my aunts and their children as much as he could, helping them get rid of poverty and become rich!

Because the aunts love the youngest brother more than their own children! both sides are related by blood, but the mother has no affection for her relatives.