Chapter 821: A letter of faith is better than no book
While smiling and agreeing with Hannah's words, Zhao Mu secretly thought to himself, but unfortunately many women in Huaxia don't think so.
Zhao Muxiao asked: "Do Western women advocate women's freedom, are you ......?"
Zhao Mu didn't know what to say next, but Hannah guessed what Zhao Mu wanted to express, and said with a smile: "I know, what you want to say is that I don't need to pay attention to these family trivialities at all, right?" ”
Zhao Mu smiled: "Yes, this is exactly what I want to say. ”
Hannah said: "Pastor, I have to say about the meaning of the female freedom that we Western women pursue, the freedom we pursue is the right to freely choose our own life, the right to refuse what we don't like, not the right to refuse the responsibility that we should have fulfilled. ”
"Our freedom is that if we don't want to, we can refuse to be a housewife and spend our days wandering around household chores, and if we want to, we can choose whatever we like. ”
"Freedom, the most important thing for us, is that we can choose our own way of life according to our own ideas, not that we can refuse our responsibilities. ”
"Oh, so freedom = the right to choose. Zhao Mu was thoughtful.
"Yes, that's what freedom means to us the most. ”
"In fact, because men and women are inherently different, it's common for Western women to choose to be housewives and take care of the children and let their husbands work to earn money, and women who choose to work also need to fulfill their responsibilities in other ways," Hannah said. ”
"But it's all your choice. ”
"Yes, it was our own choice. ”
After listening to Hannah's words, Zhao Mu felt that he had a better understanding of the freedom pursued by the West, and it seemed that the freedom they pursued was not the same as the freedom imagined by many people who did not understand.
Hannah looked at the thoughtful Zhao Mu and asked, "Mu, do you think that Western women's pursuit of freedom means that Western women are very chaotic in their sexual lives." ”
"Ugh. ”
Zhao Mu was embarrassed, he didn't know how to answer Hannah's question, and chatting with a woman about this topic made Zhao Mu feel a little strange.
Looking at Zhao Mu's embarrassed smile, Hannah showed a knowing smile: "Mu, are you shy about this topic, hehe, are you still an innocent little boy, or is it because of the implication of the Chinese people?"
When it comes to the country and the nation, this can't be tolerated, Zhao Mu said: "I think I'm not the only one who thinks like me." ”
Hannah showed a somewhat angry expression and said: "Yes, there are indeed many people who think the same way as you, but I have to say that this understanding is one-sided and inaccurate. ”
"Oh?"
"Freedom gives us women more choices, so that girls in the West have more choices about sex, resulting in many girls being very wanton in this regard, which is the right of choice given to them by freedom, but they will also suffer the consequences for their choices. ”
But this is all the result of choice, but there are also many women who choose to finally love, choose to give their first time to the man they want to stay with for a lifetime, and even some of them have not met their satisfactory love at the age of thirty or forty and become old virgins. ”
"The customs of our country are relatively strict, and the proportion of real wanton disorder is very small, but as far as I know, even in the United States, which is considered to be the most liberal and open country, such a proportion is not exaggerated. ”
"But as far as I know, that's not the case. ”
"As far as you know? Do you really know what life is like in the West, I lived in the United States for five years, what about you?"
Zhao Mu was speechless when asked, and then continued: "But that's not what the media says." ”
"Media?"
Hannah smiled disdainfully, "What does the media do? The media is dedicated to reporting new and new things that attract people's attention, and they don't report at all now when they are really ubiquitous because it's not news at all." ”
Zhao Mu couldn't help nodding, often the news of the media misleads people's cognition and choice, just like the news of a few old people in China, which makes many people look at which old man looks like he touches porcelain.
While the news has served as a wake-up call in many cases, it has often been overkill, with more serious consequences.
Just like the news of a few elderly people who touched porcelain, it made more elderly people in need of help fall into a pitiful situation where they needed help but no one dared to take the initiative to help, and even made experts and scholars cry out that this is a crisis of trust in the country.
Looking at the thoughtful Zhao Mu, Hannah continued: "And people should know the most about entertainment stars in the media news, but the life of an entertainment star cannot replace the life of ordinary people at all, these are completely different things." ”
Zhao Mu is embarrassed, could it be that Hannah's words are the "really messy in your circle" in the mouths of the people? Sure enough, no matter what country you are in, is the image of the entertainment industry so unbearable in people's hearts?
After pondering seriously for a while, Zhao Mu raised his head and said apologetically to Hannah: "Hannah, I apologize to you, you are right, you have not seen it in person, you have not experienced it in person, you can't make conclusions casually, maybe what you said is right, I have misunderstood you Western women in some aspects." ”
Looking at Zhao Mu's sincere apology, Hannah showed a knowing smile and said, "I accept your apology." ”
Exhaling lightly, Zhao Mu secretly reviewed his mistakes in his heart.
The ancients have long said that "it is better to believe in books than to have no books", and even the most important books that carry human knowledge are wrong, not to mention the commercial media news that pursues fame and fortune.
I know that most media news often deliberately sensationalize or exaggerate facts in order to create focus, but I still let the news spread by the media affect my judgment, which is really undeserved.
Secretly awake in his heart, Zhao Mu had an idea in his heart.
It is often said that "it is better to read 10,000 books than to travel 10,000 miles", I have read a lot of books, but I still lack a lot of things, it seems that I should walk more, pay more attention to life, and combine the knowledge I see in books with the things I see, in order to truly transform my own wisdom.
Thinking of these, Zhao Mu had a strong expectation in his heart.
It must be a very interesting thing to walk through different places, see different landscapes, and appreciate different customs and people.
It is said that a man's insight determines his vision, and perhaps after seeing different scenery everywhere, he can really appreciate a lot of things and gain a lot of things.