"During that time, our family was full of laughter and laughter, until, when we went to the hospital for a B-ultrasound, they told me that I was pregnant with a malformed fetus, and that if I was born in the future, it would make everyone miserable, and I was told to do it. The smile stopped abruptly, and the woman's face showed sadness.

"I don't believe it, I don't have any bad habits, and even for this baby, as soon as I was sure to be pregnant with a baby, I quit my job to raise the baby at home, and I don't touch mobile phones, computers, and other radiated objects, they took me to do four-dimensional color ultrasound deformity, after the examination, the doctor with a kind face took the film to explain to me, saying that the child is not well formed, there is no right arm, and he was born with a disability. ”

"Dr. Xu is a trusted friend of my mother-in-law and an old expert in the gynecology hospital, I have no reason not to believe her, I was stunned at that time, I am sorry for my child. "Women don't know how to heal, but of course they still listen to doctors.

Hearing her say this, Tong Xinlan guessed, "Is there something wrong with that Dr. Xu? You said that she and your mother-in-law are friends? Could it be that she was bought by your mother-in-law who knew that you were pregnant with a baby girl, and showed you the color ultrasound of the other malformed fetus?"

"Yes, but I didn't know it at the time, she is a respected gynecological authority, my mother-in-law's family also trusts her so much, and the four-dimensional color ultrasound will not be wrong, the accuracy is very high, and my mother-in-law also advised me not to waste time, so as not to do it later, the greater the damage to my body. So, I didn't go to other hospitals for follow-up, I was just sad at that time, I felt sorry for my child, and the deformed child grew up and looked different from others. He's going to be miserable, he's going to have low self-esteem, and he's probably going to blame me for giving birth to him, woo. ”

"I'm afraid I can't guarantee happiness for him, I'm cowardly. ”

So, I said yes. The woman closed her eyes in pain, she was regretting and repenting of her decision.

However, Tong Xinlan doesn't feel that she is guilty of being deceived, parents will think about their children's health and future, who would have thought that the husband, mother-in-law, and trusted doctor who she regarded as her family were all lying to her?

"I recuperated for most of the year. This half a year. My mother-in-law always said to me, saying that I would not take care of the fetus, that I was not a qualified daughter-in-law, and that I was bitter in my heart. You can only swallow it yourself. I can't say that my husband's smoking caused me to conceive a malformed baby. Actually, I'm stupid. Explanations are useless, as long as I'm not pregnant with a boy who satisfies them, she'll talk about it. I'm still thinking about helping my husband hide his smoking, are you stupid about me?" The woman didn't need Tong Xinlan's answer, she just wanted to tell her grievances.

"My husband was doubly good to me during that time, it can be said that it was better than the love period, so good that I couldn't bear to complain that he caused me to conceive a malformed fetus, and now that I think about it, he should be very guilty, guilty for deceiving me. However, I didn't know at the time, I just thought that it was not a big mistake for a man to smoke, he changed it, and I should forgive him, thinking that he repented of this, but in fact, he was making up for the mistake of deceiving me. With a self-deprecating smile, the woman's eyes gradually became cold, as if she was not talking about her husband, but her enemy.

"Finally, half a year later, I was pregnant again, I was expectant, nervous, and scared, but I still went to the hospital with hope to have a B-ultrasound. The woman's expression was cautiously hopeful.

But soon, her soft expression was broken again, and she said bitterly, "This time they said that I was ectopic pregnant, and the child was in the fallopian tubes, and the fallopian tubes could not bear the growth of the child, and it would endanger my life in the later stage, so I was told to do it." ”

"It's still the same old thing, and of course I've done it. The woman's face was numb, and her eyes were sad.

"From this time on, my mother-in-law didn't speak coldly to me, when she came home, she would curse me, saying that I was weak, and she wouldn't agree to marry Akai if she knew about it, not only complaining about me privately at home, but also embarrassing me at the family banquet, holding my relatives' children and counting me down. The nest was painful, but so what? It was my fault that I didn't conceive a 'healthy, normal' child, and I thought so at the time. "Because after resigning from the job of the first child, in order to get pregnant, she has been detained at home to raise her body, and the woman has lost her self-confidence and gradually lost her voice at home.

"This time the operation was done early, I recovered quickly, and within half a year, I was pregnant again, this time, it was the third time, they were too lazy to lie to me, they directly anesthetized me and did an abortion. The woman's numb face showed a look of grief.

"I asked them why, my husband buried his head and didn't speak, my mother-in-law just looked at me with disdain, scolded me for not laying eggs for chickens, accused me of always carrying a daughter, did I come to ruin their incense, and asked my husband to divorce me, I was really scared at that time, I suspected that the previous child was also deceived by them, my mother-in-law didn't hide it from me, and told me directly, because the child I was pregnant with was a female fetus, so it would be killed, there was no abnormal fetus at all, and there was no ectopic pregnancy, hehe. ”

"I was dizzy by this fact, this disease, my body and bones are not good, I called my parents and told them, I want a divorce, I don't want to continue, I can't stand such a family. ”

"But my father just advised me to be patient, which family didn't have a little contradiction after getting married? My parents-in-law are both well-known people, and they won't agree to my divorce from Akai, which will discredit them. Dad said that my mother-in-law just said to scare me, not seriously, and told me not to be willful. I also persuaded that my mother-in-law and father-in-law were actually very good to me, and my husband was also very good to me, only having children was a little obsessed, which was much better than other families who quarreled over messy things and had conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, telling me to calm down, I can always have children, and I can always have a boy. If I get divorced, 28 divorced women will marry even worse, and maybe it will be more bitter in the future, so I should not be impulsive. ”

"Dad said that, I also think I'm too impulsive, my husband is actually very good to me, never eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, take good care of me, it's just that my mother-in-law wants a son, he just doesn't want to oppose his mother, he has never beaten me or forced me. ”

Tong Xinlan used to hear many female colleagues or girlfriends who quarreled and fought with their husbands after marriage, and knew that this client should also be in a state of entanglement that women after marriage would have, although they were bullied, but they were still reluctant, unable to let go, and unwilling, for this reason, women will always choose to be patient, for thousands of years, whether ancient or modern, most women are like this. (To be continued......)