“…… Had a great day. On the way back, Luo Shenxing smiled for the first time, "That savage Meng Xishan never talked to us before. I really didn't expect that someone would be able to be friends with him. ”

Saying this, he looked at Jiang Yankong with admiration, "In you, it seems that there is always a way to make the impossible possible, it's really amazing." ”

Jiang Yan smiled indifferently: "Actually, it's very simple. It's just that you want others to do to you how you want others to do to you. ”

"In basketball, for example, if you want someone to run to the left to catch the ball, you need to throw the ball to the left first. If you want someone to run to the right, you have to throw to the right. You can understand this concept, right?"

"And what if," his tone said, with a gratuitous hint of mystery, "divide every direction into orbits?"

This somewhat "stream of consciousness" metaphor made Luo Shenxing seem to understand something, but he still didn't understand anything.

Let's put it this way, the relationship between people and people is inherently one-to-one. Jiang Yankong patiently explained, "For example, if you pursue a girl, if you treat her as a goddess, then your own positioning can only be what modern people often call 'licking dogs'." ”

Because there is a god, there must naturally be a believer who exalts him to the altar, and the two correspond to each other. ”

For example, if you treat others as big brothers and flatter them everywhere, of course you can only be a junior brother; if you treat others as superiors, behave in front of them, and only talk about official affairs, then you can only be a subordinate. Because what you are doing is what you should do in line with the younger brother and subordinates. ”

"Sometimes, it's not that two people are born with a relationship, it's that you choose what relationship you want to be. ”

When Luo Shenxing heard this, he seemed to have an understanding: "Does this mean that I first found a position for others, and then in the subsequent contact, I will do something to make him more in line with this identity, but in this way, I will also divide myself into the corresponding gear?"

Jiang Yankong nodded appreciatively: "That's right, that's it." But the most interesting thing about the relationship between people is that it is ever-changing, and it can be completely manipulated by artificial. ”

"For example, if you want to become a couple with a goddess, first you have to treat her as an ordinary girl, then she can only treat you as an ordinary boy. If you are not in a hurry to ask for anything from her, she does not need to think about whether to give you anything. The choice will not be held by her, you are equal between you, and there is no difference between active and passive. ”

"Once you have an initial sense of familiarity, you position your relationship as a good friend and do what you can do with her. Next, position yourself as her boyfriend and do what your boyfriend can do. Each positioning must be based on your existing relationship, and then take it to the next level. ”

"Remember one thing, it's not about your relationship that you can do something. It's what you do that makes it a relationship, you know?"

"It's the same thing with any kind of relationship. He said these words casually, as if he could easily cite a thousand examples, "Whatever relationship you want you to become, it is up to you to guide you in the corresponding direction." ”

"For example, your superior, he is your superior during working hours, and you have to complete the tasks he assigns to you. But at other times you can treat him as a friend. ”

"Since you're a friend, do what a friend should do. How you get along with other friends, how you get along with him. Talk about whatever you need to talk about, and don't have any scruples. ”

"Be friends with your superiors?" Luo Shenxing couldn't help but question, "Can this kind of thing really be done?"

Although he heard him say it simply, it was still difficult for him to imagine what it would be like to hook up with Sikong Sheng, who was the eldest brother in the past. Not to mention that it is really on an equal footing with Yan Yueqi and Feng Qiwu.

Jiang Yankong replied: "What's wrong with that? If you have an interesting personality, a rich spare time, and the same hobbies as your superiors, then apart from the relationship between your superiors and subordinates, what is the difference between you and your real friends?"

"Besides, why does the relationship between superiors and subordinates necessarily become an obstacle to communication? If you perform well in your own work, you are also his nobleman. He can lift you, but you are also helping him, and you are still equal. ”

"By the way, that's the next thing I was about to tell you. Speaking of this, he naturally led the topic over, "I know why you will be willing to be inferior when you face your superiors, or people with better conditions than you. Because you think that only you need to ask for something from him, but he doesn't need to ask for anything from you, you can't give him anything, and you don't deserve to be his equal, do you?"

These words were simple, and Luo Shenxing immediately nodded. He used to follow Sikong Sheng because he needed to be protected by him and get the resources he rewarded, but he couldn't give him any resources. He is important to him, but he is dispensable to him. In such a relationship, of course, he can only bury his head in being a junior brother, how dare he have any arrogance?

Jiang Yankong struck while the iron was hot and added: "Yes, so no matter at any time, skill is only support, and one's own strength is the most important. ”

"For example, if you are asked to negotiate business with others, even if you can quote scriptures and talk wildly, but you can't even get a little start-up capital, will the other party still sign a contract with you?"

This is the case in shopping malls, and the saying that "weak countries have no diplomacy" is exactly this reason.

If you don't have the military strength worthy of the other party's fear, why should the other party accept your land cession and repair, even if he directly takes over all the land, you have no ability to resist.

Without capacity, there is no capital to negotiate.

"Being friends with your superiors is also on the premise that you can do your job well. Otherwise, everything in your work will be a mess, and your superiors will already be tired of looking at you, and in your spare time, even if you go to get close to him, do you think he will ignore you?"

"It's not because of the limitations of your superiors, it's just because you can't bring any value to him. ”

"If you pursue a girl, but you don't have any sparkle in your whole body that can attract her, and you just rely on 'not liking', it may make her think that you are special, but it will never make her really choose to date you. ”

Luo Shenxing nodded again and again when he heard this. This makes a lot more sense. It's not that people can't afford to force themselves to pursue what they can't get, but that when your own strength is satisfied, your horizons must be broad enough and you must have the determination to climb up.

If you can only slap the horse, then of course you can only be a little brother; if you can give the eldest brother ideas, then you are his brainstorm; if your strength is better than the eldest brother, then you don't need to let him agree, and you will naturally no longer be a little brother.

Thinking of the experience of the past few days, all the things that Jiang Yekong has done seem to be "miracles", but in fact, they are all closely related to his own strength.

If it weren't for the fact that he took out the antidote of the plug-in, and only said a few words of "all the people win", it would be impossible for anyone to buy it.

If it weren't for the fact that he really understood the habits of all kinds of demonic beasts, and just relied on the sentence "I like animals", Meng Xishan would not have been impressed by him. Even if he is eloquent and can coax others to be happier, his value is only a coaxing.

Throwing the ball left and right is just an auxiliary skill, and if you want others to be interested in playing basketball with you all the time, you must first be able to play basketball.

To put it simply, it is "iron still needs its own hardness".

"With strength, every word that comes out of your mouth is the truth. Without strength, even if you tell the truth, you will not be recognized. ”

"My ...... back then" Speaking of this, Jiang Yankong, who was talking eloquently all the way, paused unexpectedly and changed his words bluntly, "There is a person who is very important to me who said that only when you first hold the opportunity in the competition can you have the right to decide whether to kill the other party or 'point to the end' to him." It's all built on the winners' side. ”

Although most of his ideas seemed very extreme to me at the time, at least I agree with this sentence. ”

"The first thing you have to do is to be a winner and become a human being. If you don't have the strength to save all peoples, then your compassion for all beings is just a joke in the eyes of the world. ”

Looking at Luo Shenxing, who had already comprehended, he smiled faintly.

"So I don't need to say anything more about what to do next, right?"

……

As the standings that determine the status of each student, it has always been the most concerned by the people.

And the names on the list also change from time to time.

But the recent changes have taken everyone by surprise.

A name that has been forgotten and should have fallen into hell completely has become a shining new star, constantly climbing.

"Have you noticed that Luo Shenxing has risen so fast in the standings recently!"

Now, no matter where you go, what you hear the most is the discussion of this name, this person.

"How did he do that? It can't be cheating, right?"

"How can you cheat in the ranking of Tiangongmen?

"But he has no background and no background, where do he get the cultivation resources?" It's really strange......"

In this way, everyone talked about suspicion or jealousy, but no one could see through the mystery.

……

At the beginning, Luo Shenxing was able to get the weight of Sikong Sacred Weapon, not that he was good at sycophancy, but mainly because of his strength, his mind (self-worth) was first-class. Coupled with the family status (background value), the combination of the two makes up his total value.

Most of the other younger brothers' scoring criteria are the same, and Luo Shenxing's total score is among the best among the younger brothers, so he naturally becomes the right-hand man of the eldest brother's side.

When the Luo family announced that he would cooperate with the Two Lakes Chamber of Commerce, his own value did not change, but his background value soared infinitely, making the total score increase significantly, which attracted a group of stammers.

After the collapse of the family, his background value was directly reduced to zero. And when his own value has not changed, the total score has naturally shrunk sharply, attracting a lot of bullying.

The background value can no longer be changed, and all he can do now is to double his own value in order to return the total score to the average.

However, Luo Shenxing's mentality is now much more balanced. According to Jiang Yankong's statement, in fact, all the students of Tiangongmen are this set of scoring criteria, that is, the sum of their own value + background value.

Some of them may be of very low value, but their background value is very high, and their overall status is equally high. Some candidates have average background value, but their own value is extremely high, so everyone should be respectful.

If you want to be a master here, you have to concentrate on improving the total score, and if the score increases, who cares if you are an orphan of the collapse of some family?

Luo Shenxing sometimes really admired Jiang Yankong, and when he said a few words, it seemed that everything really became very simple.

During this time, he has been practicing in virtual illusions.

This is one of the basic functions of microspace-time. Cultivators can enter the virtual space and practice a variety of martial arts. The damage you have received here will be all cleared after you return to reality, but the improvements you have gained and the secret methods you have comprehended are all real.

Once you enter the system, you can choose between two-player battles and man-machine battles. In a two-player battle, two cultivators also establish virtual characters in micro-time and space to compete against each other, while in human-machine battle, the cultivators fight against the opponents virtualized by the system.

Here, all the data is simulated according to the cultivator's own conditions. If it is not debugged, what level is in reality, it is still what level is here, and the degree of simulation reaches 100%. It can be said that everything else is true except that this environment is not true. Therefore, the enemies that can be defeated here can also be defeated in reality.

In the trial mission of Tiangongmen, there is such an item. Students don't need to go outside to hunt Warcraft, as long as they use the original simulation data to defeat the enemy of the corresponding level in the virtual space, and provide a combat data report, they can receive points and rewards. Because it means that you already have the strength to earn the same number of points.

As an aside, in the virtual space, you can debug your own model data at will, make yourself a top powerhouse, and enjoy the pleasure of abusing everything like chopping melons and vegetables, but it is meaningless for your own improvement. Back in the real world, it's still as it should be. This function is most widely used by office workers to vent their dissatisfaction with their bosses.

……

There are two ways to show strength.

One is to grab a few random people around you, fix them fiercely, and make a name for yourself, so that others don't dare to bully you anymore.

But in this way, those who are used as "stepping stones" can be regarded as having a big feud.

As the ruler of Tiangongmen, Jiang Yankong naturally would not favor one over the other like this, ruin the future of some students, and create a certain student. Therefore, what he recommended Luo Shenxing to choose was to practice in the virtual space and earn points. At that time, his ranking in the standings will increase, and he will not have to say anything, and others will naturally know that he is not to be underestimated.

。 Romance m.