Chapter 103: Psychological Warfare
Solving his own family, Hong Yanwu is one last step away from being completed.
As the saying goes, it's not enough to take advantage.
This kid ate the sweetness, and planned to take the medicine according to the prescription.
So on April 27, he and Shui Qing bought tobacco, alcohol, sugar and tea gifts, and ran to Miyun Reservoir together in Bian Jiangong's car.
If nothing else, he went to invite the only direct blood relative of the Shui family, Shui Qing's uncle Shui Xinsheng, to come forward and protect the media for them.
Shui Xinsheng's family settled in the countryside, and when he saw that his eldest niece was coming with a partner, he naturally wanted to be warmly entertained.
I saw that all kinds of gifts were available, and they were worth a lot of money, and they still came in a car, and they regarded Hong Yanwu as a big man.
Although I later listened to Hong Yanwu's explanation and knew that his job was to be a chef, I thought that this job was better.
Don't forget, all the people in these years have survived the difficult years of material scarcity.
Farm work is labor-intensive, and the countrymen are not afraid of anything, only afraid of not having enough to eat and starving.
According to the rural mode of thinking, almost everyone thinks in their bones that if there is really a relative who is a cook, it is more effective than being an official.
So Shui Xinsheng not only happily agreed to be this matchmaker.
He also felt that his niece and niece-in-law took the initiative to invite him and took the car to pick him up, because he could afford him and felt that he had more face.
So he hurriedly washed his face and changed his clothes, and rushed to the capital with Hong Yanwu and Shui Qing.
But who would have thought that this thing would be so smooth...... Smash the pot.
What's going on?
In fact, this thing is done like this, in the final analysis, it depends on Hong Yanwu's own inconsiderability.
This is because no matter how good a method is, it must be linked to specific objective conditions, and it must not be generalized.
It's just that this kid is lazy, so he invited Shui Xinsheng without thinking about it.
As a result, the matchmaker he was looking for was really dedicated, but the weight was not enough.
The first is that it is a loss of words.
Shui Xinsheng did say good things for Hong Yanwu, but he was kind and a little clumsy.
can't keep up with the mouth, except for the real explanation of the meaning, and some clichΓ©s that are turned over and over, there is no room to play.
To put it bluntly, almost all of them are "Say Qin Qiong, Dao Qin Qiong, Qin Qiong's name is Qin Qiong." Qin Qiong rode a yellow horse, and it was Qin Qiong who rode the yellow horse."
Where can he compare to Aunt Shui'er, the old ladies are outstanding in the pile, and he has practiced eloquence by buying garlic and fighting for onions, pointing at mulberry and scolding Huai.
The second is that the preparation time is urgent, and Shui Xinsheng has little knowledge, so he does not fully understand and understand the situation inside.
He only knew that there was a bit of a gap in age between the two juniors, Shui Qing was a cadre, and Hong Yanwu was an employee.
Although Hong Yanwu also said that he had been in "Chadian'er", he didn't understand that it was "going in", and he didn't expect Shui Gengsheng and his family to be unhappy about it.
It was a complete miscalculation of the situation.
Third, as relatives, Shui Xinsheng and the Hong family are incomparable, and their right to speak is not at all
Like Shou Jingfang who saved Hong Lucheng's life, Yuntai is not only Wang Yunlin's brother, but also Hong Lucheng's uncle.
The two men spoke, and of course it worked.
But Shui Xinsheng, he is Shui Gengsheng's brother, and he has been helped by his brother and sister-in-law in the past.
Then his face is very limited.
When it's okay, the harmony of the family can't be revealed.
But when something really happened, his lack of confidence was revealed.
Aunt Shui was anxious with him, not only did he not speak, but he also had to laugh.
No way, eat other people's mouths are short.
He used to get food stamps, money and goods, but it was all pulled out of his mouth by this sister-in-law's frugality.
So in the end, not only Shui Xinsheng was unceremoniously pouted by Aunt Shui, but he was embarrassed.
Even the pair of "mandarin duck birds" did not fall well, and they all ended miserably.
At that time, Aunt Shui had just finished counting Shui Xinsheng, and in front of everyone, she called Hong Yanwu, who was waiting outside, in.
"For Xiaoying's business, it stands to reason that we should thank you......"
Hong Yanwu thought that there was still room for this matter, so he was naturally polite, and he didn't even say it.
He didn't expect that as soon as his words landed, Aunt Shui began to sneer, and as soon as the conversation changed, she scolded him for being bloody.
ββ¦β¦ But it can't be common sense for people like you. Because you are deliberately pleasing to please you, with bad motives and impure purposes. So no matter what, I can't agree to this family business. You will die of this heart, if you want to marry my daughter, you strangle me first. β
It's not even here, Aunt Shui doesn't care about how uncomfortable Shui Qing is who is screaming at her mother.
actually said that if Hong Yanwu dared to mess around again, he would go to his parents and say that if they couldn't control him. She went to the police station, believing that there would always be a place to take care of him.
Then he scolded loudly "get out" and drove Hong Yanwu out of the house.
After that, she didn't allow Shui Qing to go out with her, and even scolded her daughter for not being angry.
And with her scolding, heads appeared behind the windows of the next-door neighbors, looking out.
One can imagine how embarrassed Hong Yanwu is and how embarrassing Shui Qing is.
But fortunately, no matter how Aunt Shui attacked, Hong Yanwu didn't reply sensibly.
After he left, it was Aunt Shui herself, who was so angry that Shui Qing did not give in and did not give up.
This kind of result, even Shui Gengsheng can't see it.
He couldn't help but persuade his wife.
"Don't you do this, can you? Who are you rushing to? Why are you not forgiving your daughter? Qing'er felt uncomfortable enough. β
Unexpectedly, Aunt Shui, who was on the righteous head, couldn't hear the good words anymore, and when she heard this, she became even more angry.
"Why didn't she think about whether I was uncomfortable or not. Hey, you're against me, aren't you? Oh, you guys have to think that Hong Laosan is good, you go with him. I left this home. β
With a grunt of the old lady's arms, she swept the two thermos that she was going to send to the tailor Su on May Day to the ground.
There was a "bang".
All shattered!
It's so boring to get into this situation.
The end result was that Shui Xinsheng left in disarray.
Shui Qing cried for this all night.
Aunt Shui also went on a hunger strike because of this anger.
The water family is in a big mess.
There are even more rumors in the courtyard.
But fortunately, Hong Yanwu's popularity is okay now, and the preliminary work is also good.
The neighbors are talking, at least nothing unpleasant.
And at this time, the water waves and water ripples begin to play a role.
They can't afford to provoke their mother, but they dare to provoke their father.
Shui Xiaoying also got tired of it, saying that she was willing to be her father by Hong Yanwu.
So they came and went, and with their efforts in turn, Shui Gengsheng's attitude loosened first.
No, Shui Gengsheng met with Hong Yanwu again in private and talked about it once, but he recognized this son-in-law first.
Of course, this is inseparable from Hong Yanwu's wit and sensitivity, and his ability to speak well.
First of all, this kid first pinched the fact that Shui Gengsheng is also a craftsman, and by praising Shui Gengsheng's craftsmanship, he told his experience of learning art and enduring hardships.
It not only improves its own value, but also shortens the distance with its father-in-law.
Then, he expressed his determination again, saying that he had definitely changed his mind and became a serious person, and promised to be good to Shui Qing and his wife for the rest of his life.
and also took the words he had said to Shui Lan to explain why he was suitable for Shui Qing with a well-founded basis to reassure Shui Gengsheng.
In the end, it is even more comprehensive, and all the economic efforts of the marriage service are all taken care of in one go.
It is especially worth mentioning that he said these words beautifully, without the slightest bit of financial publicity.
It's just that from the perspective of sympathy for the old couple, it is said that Shui Qing, as the eldest sister, must think more about the two younger sisters getting married in the future.
What does it mean to understand long live? It's all psychological tactics.
So in the small room of the Chen family, the future Weng and son-in-law chatted more and more, and finally the two of them simply came to a bottle of wine, got some ready-made wine and vegetables and drank it.
However, after drinking less than two glasses, Shui Gengsheng remembered something important and temporarily stopped.
ββ¦β¦ Xiao Wu, wait a minute...... There's one more important thing. What can I do with Qing'er's mother? If your aunt doesn't agree, this thing will still not work. I'll tell you first, there's nothing I can do about her. And this is because the mother and daughter are vindictive, and your aunt is hungry, I can't spare you. β
Hong Yanwu endured his burp and waved his hand, "It's okay, this is easy to do, you listen to me......"
Then he handed Shui Gengsheng a cigarette, lit it, and began to come up with ideas.
"I'm not afraid of hunger strike, my aunt doesn't really want to starve herself, she just wants to make Shui Qing feel distressed. In this way, you go back and say to Shui Lan or Shui Lian, and ask the two of them to pretend to be to their mother, pretend to secretly bring food to my aunt behind their backs, and make sure that people are okay first, so as to delay the army. Follow your side and pretend not to know, and continue to persuade my aunt. You said that Shui Qing was twenty-nine, and she was willing not to say it, and it had already been passed out. After a long time, the eldest girl will reach thirty. What's more, we live together every day and commute to and from work together, so how can we prevent it? We are not afraid of thieves stealing and worrying about thieves. I can't wait for the day when the household registration book will be taken away by us and registered by ourselves. As soon as my aunt heard this, as soon as her suspicion was relieved, I quickly invited a few matchmakers with identity to come to the door to propose again, presumably with this step. It's not that hard. β
Hey, this two, three, one, Shui Gengsheng really can't help but admire.
ββ¦β¦ You kid, yes. This is a serial set, I think this is done...... It's about reliable. But how can I feel that your heart is so lively? If we don't agree, you really plan to steal the household registration book and elope with my daughter? I have to tell you first, my eldest daughter is honest. In the future, you will live together, if you dare to make her head with these tricks, I won't agree, don't blame me for turning my face with you. β
Hong Yanwu nodded hurriedly.
"Yes, yes, absolutely not. In fact, you think highly of me, I am shrewd and exposed. Besides, I just want to elope, Shui Qing doesn't agree, she is still closer to her parents......"
Shui Gengsheng didn't believe it at all.
"Cut, you are still modest and hypocritical. If you want me to say, it's still a girl who is outward, not to mention that the person you fancy is still a bastard. β
Smugness is pride, but this can never be taken again.
Hong Yanwu hurriedly changed the topic and took out five yuan.
"What's that...... Dad, I heard that my mother gave the two of them a newly bought kettle, so I'll pay for it. β
Shui Gengsheng's face eased at this time.
"Hmph, that's a human saying. You should pay for it, but you don't have to give more, it's okay outside, just two guts, five ...... a piece"
But immediately another agitated spirit regained vigilance.
"Hey, what are you calling nonsense? Don't climb like that!"
"Yes, yes...... Let's have another drink!"
(End of chapter)