"Hey!"

Sighing first, Shui Qing explained a little meaningfully.

"Xiao Wu, thank you for your concern. But you're still young and you don't have children, so you can't understand my heart as a mother. For the sake of the child, I can't help but do this......"

But these words made Hong Yanwu laugh.

Because in his previous life, the only emotional contribution he had without any conditions was probably to the daughter who once thought she was his own flesh and blood. Although he has no experience in love, he has experience as a father. How can you not understand the water clear?

Even strictly speaking, he can be extremely considerate of his parents in this life and know how to cherish family affection. I also have a special love for children, and I am afraid that this factor plays a role.

"Sister, I understand your insistence, and I agree with your point of view, children should go to nursery. It's good to learn to draw, sing, and know one, two, three, four. It can broaden children's horizons and learn how to get along with their peers. Children learn to follow the rules in the nursery and adapt to group life, so that they can better integrate into the school and social environment in the future. It's just that I think your approach is a bit too rough and too eager, and you don't take into account the feelings of children and the elderly. It's kind of a bad thing. ”

"First of all, since the child is already scared, you can't force him to send him to the nursery. Think about it another way, from day one, you throw your child here and leave. How can a three-year-old child who is guarded by an adult at home every day and stays in a familiar environment all the time adapt to an unfamiliar environment and a strange person? Fear is inevitable. Especially there is no child as big as Xiaoying in the West Courtyard, and she is considered to be transferred halfway, no one knows anyone, and the loneliness is certain. ”

"On the other hand, it would be nice if you guided it step by step. For example, first take the children to the nursery yard to play with slides and swivel chairs, and see the indoor activities and living environment of the children in the nursery. When she understands what's going on here, you can let Xiaoying participate in the child's play. As long as Xiaoying is familiar with other children and knows her aunt, there will be no sense of fear and strangeness at all. If you leave at that time, most children will not be so resistant. ”

Hearing this, Shui Qing immediately had a sudden sense of enlightenment.

Yes, Hong Yanwu's words are on point. But she didn't think of these problems, but she was too careless and anxious. It's really a bystander.

She no longer treats Hong Yanwu as a layman, and can't help but ask. "Xiao Wu, what do you think I should do next? What can I do now to make my child like the nursery?"

Hong Yanwu had already thought about it and suggested unhurriedly.

"Now, the child's bad feelings have been formed, and they can only be slowly eased and adjusted. In my opinion, you should actually shorten the amount of time your child spends in daycare right now. Because when I went to deliver food to the nursery, I asked the people at the nursery. They said that Xiaoying was obedient in the morning, but she started to make trouble uncontrollably from noon. This is caused by the child's lack of patience and your long absence. Besides, you are busy with work, and you are the last one to pick her up almost every day, so can the child be happy? Therefore, it is unrealistic for you to expect her to become good all at once. Why don't you stay for half a day in the future, the child ......"

Shui Qing admits that Hong Yanwu's suggestion is reasonable, but reality does not allow it. She couldn't help but interrupt with a look of embarrassment.

"I have to go to work, pick up the child at noon, then I ......"

Unexpectedly, Hong Yanwu smiled again, it turned out that he had already made a decision.

"Don't worry, since I brought it up, I will definitely think of a solution for you. I don't work the morning shift, so I leave work as soon as lunch time is over. Wouldn't it be over if Izumiko and I picked up the child for you and sent it back to your house?

But this thing is good, but Shui Qing still didn't look open-minded, but lowered his head hesitantly.

"Xiao Wu, I thank you for thinking so much about me. But I came to live with my children because ...... Because my mom and I ......."

"Angry, isn't it?"

Hong Yanwu pierced the window paper and took over. "Sister, in fact, this is the second article I wanted to tell you just now, but I didn't have time to say. You really don't understand the old man's heart. ”

"You see, you go to school, you go to school for three years, and you come back once a week. For such a long time, Aunt Shui was all alone with Xiaoying. Even when she goes out to sell something every day, she pushes a small bamboo cart and takes the child with her. She is alone, she has to be busy eating, drinking, and Lazar with a large family every day, and she has to take care of the children.

"Who is she for? It's not for you that she's so good to a child who is not related by blood. And she's kind-hearted. I have been taking care of my children for a long time, and I have feelings for the children themselves. Don't listen to what she talks about and complains about, she actually loves children more than anyone else, and to put it bluntly, she is a little used to it. She was never hungry or frozen. On the contrary, the children were cleaned up neatly, and the neighbors heard the children's laughter every day. It's not easy to do this. ”

"So, when you take the child away, she is empty, and she will definitely not be able to accept it emotionally. Can you blame her? As you told me just now, I can't understand your heart as a mother. But with the same reason, since you are Xiaoying's mother and Aunt Shui is your mother, you should be able to understand her. Anyway, I think that as a parent, there are difficulties in all eras, and there is no child in the world who makes parents really worry-free. ”

Shui Qing's face flushed, she was indeed touched by Hong Yanwu's words. The expression was ashamed and ashamed, and he regretted it. But the attitude is still a little hesitant.

Hong Yanwu certainly knows why. Prescribe the right medicine and continue to persuade.

"Sister, go home and take the initiative to be soft with Aunt Shui. Don't feel embarrassed, what's embarrassing to talk to your mother. I know you're not wrong, it's a bit aggrieved to do so. But it's hard for a clean official to cut off family affairs. Is it necessary to distinguish between right and wrong in family affairs? Harmony is the most important thing, and the most important thing is not to hurt feelings. ”

"In addition, I think people often have a common problem, that is, it smells far away and smells near it. People tend to be tolerant of strangers, but they are harsh on those who care about them the most. We will always unconsciously hurt the people who love us, but when we do, we will also hurt ourselves. I dare to say that not only you feel uncomfortable, but Aunt Shui is also very uncomfortable now. ”

"Because you don't know, since you moved out with Xiaoying, Aunt Shui has always liked to talk to me and Izumiko, obviously wanting to inquire about the situation of the two of you. Neither of us dared to say anything bad, and her eyes were red. Then he sighed and walked away, and whoever saw it was sad. ”

"Another thing, we have an aunt in our cafeteria who is forty or fifty years old, surnamed Luo, you know? She is about the same height as Aunt Shui, and I was with her the other day to deliver food to the children in the nursery. Xiaoying saw the back of the person and the apron he was wearing, ran over and hugged him and called grandma, and never let go. Presumably, the child is not less talking to your grandmother in front of you. Don't you know what adults and children think? Why do you think this is all about it? Go back, you can go back and relax yourself, and it's a good thing for everyone. ”

When it came to this, Shui Qing couldn't help but be moved, she was completely moved.

Of course, in addition to thanking Hong Yanwu, she also has sincere admiration. Because she never expected that Hong Yanwu would have such insights in family ethics. It actually taught her a lesson.

This is like the bastard boy who was cold and unscrupulous when he was a child, making the neighbors frown. It seems that living in the world is really not something that can be learned by reading a few books.

"Xiao Wu, thank you. I'm ashamed that you know more about the world than I do. ”

"Ouch, don't say that, you can't talk about it, just a few more words. ”

"Really, I don't only thank you for your reminder today, but also for the adoption certificate you issued for me at the police station. If you hadn't helped me get this, I would have taken it out when Xiaoying was 'enrolling in the nursery', and what gossip would have to be passed on if the unit couldn't get it right. ”

"Sister, that's all a gesture. Don't take it personally. But at this point, I really have to tell you something else. In the future, when you go to the cafeteria to eat, don't serve the public soup. If you want to drink soup and find me, I'll go to the kitchen and make it for you. ”

Shui Qing couldn't help but be curious when he heard it. "Why?"

Unexpectedly, Hong Yanwu's answer was extremely shocking.

"Hey, you don't know. Last week, I watched a man stand there and beat the soup for more than a minute, holding a spoon and scooping for half a day. I thought to myself, what's the matter? Hey, just as I wanted to ask, I saw that he actually fished out a pair of glasses from the soup bucket. Well, I dared to fall into it when I took a spoon to make soup. Later, Izumiko and I took notice. It can scare you when you say it, and so far, we have found three similar incidents. Glasses, pens, strings of keys! The soup bucket is not a soup bucket, it's a cornucopia. You said you could still drink it?......"

Brush, Shuiqing's face turned white. Digging into the bottom of this matter made her regret it a little.