Chapter 445: Suffering
Although Lu Yuehua is the director of women, she is also the daughter-in-law of others, and many things cannot really be implemented, such as the legal age of marriage, cousins cannot intermarry, marriage certificates, and so on.
She also felt that it was not good to intermarry within the brigade this time, but it was legally allowed, and there was no problem in other aspects, and the old rules were not so valued.
Everyone's mood is a little complicated, especially many old people, who still adhere to the rules left by their ancestors and require the children in the family to abide by them.
At the same time, these people are even more disgusted with educated youth.
These two young people will fall in love, and they must be influenced by those educated youths.
Their arrival did not contribute much to the development of the brigade, but caused more trouble.
In fact, from the educated youth to the present, everyone is almost clear that these dolls from the city are actually because there are too many people in the city, and they are sent to the countryside to eat.
For places with little land and many people, it just adds to the local difficulties.
If the Gaoshan Brigade hadn't had their own skills, the side business had developed well, and there were a few researchers here, otherwise their lives would not have been much better.
It didn't take long for the educated youths to find that wherever they went, they would be stared at by some members, and at the same time, they were more cautious.
Of all the people, the calmest one was Granny Lan, who had long expected the outcome.
She was more interested in Lan Liru's dream than the matter of intermarriage.
Lan Liru knew that Granny Lan was magical, in her dream, the old man had lived for a long time, and later it was said that many big people came to her.
So Lan Liru almost didn't hesitate, so she turned her dream upside down.
"You don't have to be afraid, it's just a dream, just say it, and if you have other dreams in the future, just come and talk to me." ”
"Thank you, mother-in-law. Lan Liru's heart was relieved, it was okay, "But is there a way for me not to remember so clearly? Every time I see some members, I feel uncomfortable." ”
The development of the third team no longer needs her to provide any advice, in this case, the things in the dream are really troubled by life because there is no need to keep them in detail.
Granny Lan responded, and Lan Liru woke up from a sleep, only to feel dizzy.
She thought about the things in her dream again, but they were all blurred, she was overjoyed, and hurriedly thanked Granny Lan, and then left happily.
Granny Lan closed her eyes, in fact, Lan Liru's dream was much more detailed than she thought.
Granny Lan knew that it was difficult for her personal strength to shake the course of history, and from the corners of Lan Liru's dreams, she had grasped a lot of major things, and any word she could make the earth tremble.
And even if she knew, she couldn't reveal it to the public, otherwise punishment would come.
I hope the members of the Takayama Brigade are sharp enough.
The news of intermarriage within the clan of the Gaoshan Brigade spread, and many people talked about it.
Qiao Sigu, who lived in the brigade next door, rushed over when she heard the news, "It's incredible, the old man inside actually agreed." ”
Qiao's mother lowered her voice, "It was my mother-in-law who suggested opening the ancestral hall and asked." ”
When Qiao Sigu heard this, her face was instantly solemn, "Then the others really have nothing to say." "No wonder the Alpine Brigade is so quiet.
She didn't know anything else, but in the Alpine Brigade, once the ancestral hall was officially opened, the result could not be changed.
If it is allowed, some people will not openly oppose it, even if they have more opinions in their hearts.
"No, there are still cousins and sisters who are married, but it's okay to have the same surname. "Mother Qiao thinks that the Alpine Brigade has been branching for a long time, and the blood relationship has long been weakened, and the intermarriage is not too contrary to human ethics, and it is acceptable.
The persistence of those old people cannot be said to be wrong, but some things are really uncontrollable.
Qiao Sigu sighed, "This is something I never dreamed would happen. "Intermarriage within the clan is not necessarily a good thing, because the proximity makes it more problematic.
"Life is like that, you don't know what's going to happen in the next second. ”
Fourth Aunt Qiao shook her head, "I hope it's not a bad thing." But I suddenly remembered one thing, there was an intermarriage in the team, did anyone in the team come to the house to ask?"
Seeing Qiao's mother shaking her head, she hurriedly reminded, "My nephews and nieces are all promising, don't delay them." ”
"Let them find their own partners, it's best to stay in the city in the future, our brigade is like this, there is no need to think about getting married. ”
"But if it's a knowledgeable youth, and the whole educated youth is not bad, you can consider it. "Qiao Sigu doesn't think that all the educated youths can't do it, and they still have to divide people.
"If your second brother hears this, he will definitely be angry with you. Qiao's mother said with a smile, now that he is older, Qiao's father is very concerned about the object of the child and is very picky.
Fourth Aunt Qiao smiled, "That's not necessarily." With her understanding of the second brother, maybe there is a satisfactory candidate in her heart.
"By the way, did your Xiaozhi write back?" Qiao Sigu remembered something, "Xiaoyu's child sends us money every month, and sometimes sends packages, I'm embarrassed." ”
"It was the old man who raised him at the beginning, and the old man went and the old lady left, so I sent the things in the package to the old man, and saved the money for him to use in the future to marry his daughter-in-law. ”
Qiao's mother shook her head, "Xiaoyu, that child has filial piety, and he still remembers you." As for my family, I suspect that he has lent out all his money. ”
Based on her understanding of her eldest son, he is a righteous person, and it is strange that he can keep the money on his body, but fortunately, he does not need to subsidize it at home.
"Xiao Zhi is a good boy, but you also wrote to him, let him take care of himself, how much to keep for himself, when he is old, he has to marry a daughter-in-law. ”
Qiao's mother nodded, and did not refute Qiao's fourth aunt's words, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother all had the same opinion on the child's plans, as long as they did not commit adultery, they would not interfere.
They believe in their children's choices.
Fourth Aunt Qiao didn't bother around on this matter, "What about that girl in Qiuyue, did she really go to live in the cowshed?"
Qiao Sigu also admired Qiao Qiuyue's temperament, and divorced if she divorced, and lived in the cowshed.
"Yes, but I think she's probably more comfortable over there. ”
And the people who live there are all learned people, if Qiao Qiuyue can reflect on herself and re-study after the divorce, there are countless possibilities waiting for her in the future.
"If she can endure this hardship, she will definitely be able to survive it in the future. Fourth Aunt Qiao nodded, she had also heard about Gao Yulian's family, and she was really sad.
"There are not many people who can understand the matter of divorce, and Qiuyue's pressure is actually not small. Qiao's mother clearly knew that Qiao Qiuyue was holding a breath in her heart, wanting to prove to her mother's family that her choice was correct.
Many people have to go through a lot of pain before they can be reborn and become a new version of themselves. I want to talk about "Sixty Farming Fields" with more like-minded people, and pay attention to "excellent reading literature" on WeChat, talk about life, and find confidants~