Looking at the room full of smiling people, the confidence in my heart suddenly returned, and I couldn't help but think of my school days. In fact, my emotional intelligence has always been not very good, since I was a child, every time I see my elders, my mother will say: "It's stupid to read, and I don't know how to call people when I see them." "And I really don't have anything to say to those elders, or because of rebellion, I really see that the elders don't know what to say except nod. I'm very afraid of the smell of smoke, my father's friend comes, once I smoke, I will lock up in my room and not come out, in the eyes of the elders, I am a nerd who does not understand the world.

But it was different at school, from childhood to adulthood, because I had an easy-going personality, studied well, and never lacked friends around me. From childhood to adulthood, except for my tablemate who bullied me at the beginning of the first year of junior high school, the rest of the time was smooth. When I was in college, it became the center of communication! Now I look at a room full of smiling friends, and I suddenly realize! I began to understand a little bit of what emotional intelligence is and what communication is. Yes, I can't get emotionally intelligent, but I've never been bad at communicating, I'm not as unsociable as my mother said, it's just that my emotional intelligence dictates that I can't get along with everyone. I heard that Tencent's little brother Ma is also a person with a weak personality and few words, so it should be regarded as my mother said that he doesn't know how to communicate. But he was not as unsuccessful as my mother and father-in-law said.

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We sat down for a while because it was just time to eat, and my dad suggested that we go out to eat together. Dad has always had the momentum of being virtuous and respectful, and Mr. Lin nodded and agreed after a little excuse. Originally, my mother asked me to go with me, but as soon as we walked to the door, we ran into Liu Fang, who was about to come in.

I was a little surprised because I didn't tell Liu Fang that my wife was born today.

Boss Liu was also surprised to see Liu Fang and asked, "Dong Liu, why are you here?"

Liu Fang smiled and pointed at me, "I'm senior." Then he looked at me with a straight face and said: "Senior Li Yi, you are not interesting enough, if you don't see Boss Liu's circle of friends, I don't know, you can, forget if you don't invite me to get married, you have to hide it even if you have a child." ”

I smiled a little awkwardly and said, "My fault, come, come in and sit down first." Then he said to his father and Mr. Lin: "You go eat first, I'll be later." ”

Mr. Lin didn't mean to stay, so he nodded directly in agreement, and Huang Xiaoya also smiled and said, "Help you pack." Then he took his son and left.

Liu Fang walked to his wife's bed very naturally and smiled at his wife: "Sister-in-law is so beautiful, no wonder the senior has been hiding it from us." After speaking, he looked at the second treasure in his wife's arms and exclaimed: "Senior, you are really a winner in life!"

My wife smiled and said, "You sit!" and then said coldly to me, "Li Yi, pour water for your classmates." ”

I answered with an "ahh My wife used to call me often, but in front of outsiders, I rarely gave me so faceless, I suddenly realized that she should be hostile to Liu Fang, and said while pouring water: "My classmate, Liu Fang, is 3 years younger than me, but it is much more powerful than me, and now he is the boss of a listed company, with a net worth of hundreds of millions, and he is self-made." ”

The wife was really surprised: "What does Liu Fang's sister do?

My mother was also very curious and asked, "The girl is not yet thirty years old, right?"

Liu Fang took my water, sat down on the sofa and said, "Auntie, you can sit too." Then he took a sip of water and said: "I'm twenty-eight this year, and I opened a game company and an electronics factory, but I'm not self-made, but my father's resources are better." After speaking, he turned his head to look at me and said: "It was a friend of my father who invested in my game company back then, hehe, unlike the seniors, now they are all great composers, and the seniors are really self-made." ”

My mother sighed: "Li Yi can't compare to you, he only turned over when he came to the magic capital, and he was still moving bricks on the construction site at the beginning of the year, you said that he was a college student......"

"Mom!" The wife interrupted her mother's words very timely, and the mother took a sullen sip of water, and then changed her words: "But he is okay now, writing songs for Huang Xiaoya, he can earn six or seven hundred thousand yuan a year, of course, it can't compare to you." ”

Liu Fang said with a smile: "Auntie, don't you know how powerful Brother Li is, he must have gone to move bricks to experience life, and then become a generation of music godfathers like Li Zongsheng, you don't know, he is already a man of the hour in our school, and he didn't go to any number of companies that wanted to recruit him at that time." ”

Liu Fang is quite good at talking, and after chatting for a while, there is nothing for me in this room, and the three of them have a hot chat. In fact, Liu Fang is quite good at talking nonsense, which seems to be the standard for chatting, and the nonsense that can be said in chat always makes people feel particularly "real" and difficult to refute. In fact, when I was in school, although I was well-known, I was not sensible, and our counselor recommended me to a large company to do network management. At that time, the Internet was just starting, and although the company laid out the Internet, it didn't pay attention to it, but just made a website, and then did bidding ranking on Qiandu. I'm almost reduced to a customer service, and I don't have anything to do every day, and I'm constantly being called around. At that time, I felt that I was not taken seriously and was very depressed, so when my mother asked me to go to my father's construction site, I naturally agreed.

Speaking of which, in the past eight years, I have lived like this, and a large part of it is because of my arrogance, I will always be angry because others do not pay attention to it, and then I will be discouraged, and the job introduced by the counselor is like this, and the job introduced by my sister last time is also like this. Now this job, if it weren't for Huang Xiaoya's drastic help for me, I think I would probably be disheartened because I couldn't write a song, and then it would be a tiger-like ending.

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After staying in the hospital for three days, we went back to the residence, and my father took a look at our residence and said that he had to go back to Jin Province, and said before leaving that we would go back to our hometown in ten days, and when the child was registered, by the way, I would do a full moon wine.

Actually, I didn't really want to hold this banquet, but my father couldn't, and with his reputation in the village, if his grandson didn't hold a banquet at the full moon, others would laugh at him. Joke that his first grandson is a grandson, and the second grandson is not a grandson? Joke that he is such a big boss that he is reluctant to even do his grandson's full moon wine. I understand my father's difficulties, but I haven't finished my studies yet, and I still need a full moon for ten days and a half, and I don't want to waste so much time.

I thought about it and said: "It's better to hold a 100-day banquet, at that time, it was just the end of the year, everyone went home to be more lively, if the full moon is held, I still have classes here, and I can't leave for too long." ”

Dad thought about it and nodded, and said, "The 100-day banquet is indeed more suitable, okay, then I'll leave first, your mother is here to help you, and then let her go back to prepare first in two months." "My dad has always been a good man, but I didn't expect him to agree with me so easily this time.

I was a little happy and answered with an "um". Although with my father's communication, it is estimated that there will be hundreds of tables for this 100-day banquet at the end of the year, and the cost will definitely be more than 300,000 yuan, but I still agreed. My wife once said that we rural people should follow the world of rural people, although I think this is a bad habit, but I can't invite *** to come to the house to take a lesson in changing customs, so the banquet should still be done.

In fact, in addition to academic problems, there is another reason why I don't want to go home so early, and my hometown is my sad place. I was scared that what would I do if my bald head suddenly appeared during the banquet? I was desperate to make money and wanted to move out of my hometown. But the reality is that trees can't do without their roots, and people can't do without their homes. I'm going to have to go back and face it after all, but after these two months, I think I'll be able to face it more calmly when the time comes.