Aren't you all curious, why am I with my current boyfriend?" Liu Yiwei smiled lightly, lifted a strand of broken hair from his cheek and pinned it behind his ear, "I think he is not handsome enough, and he is not smart enough, do you think I chose the wrong person?"

Jin Siqi was a little embarrassed. This is what she discussed with other colleagues when she first saw Liu Yiwei's boyfriend. At that time, it was because of this incident that Liu Yiwei was annoyed. In order to avoid the contradiction again, she smiled dryly and looked away, thinking about how to bring the topic over.

However, Liu Yiwei's reaction was very generous. Bathed in the evening breeze of the sunset, my eyes seem to have fallen into memories.

"It's okay, I understand your confusion. I wouldn't have made that choice in the first place. But what happened later made me realize that I had chosen the right person. ”

"Let me tell you my own story. Perhaps it was parting that made her open the conversation, looking at the traffic in front of her, she spoke in a soft voice.

"A few years ago, I was actually just like you and Lily, judging people by their appearance. At that time, because I had just entered the college, I was a good looking girl in the same class, so there were still many suitors around me. My current boyfriend is also one of them.

At first, I also disliked him, thinking that he didn't understand my mind, and he couldn't take it out, so he only knew that he was chasing me stupidly. So he was kind to me, I have always been perfunctory, and I don't even want to let my friends know that I still have such a suitor.

Later, I got involved with the graders in our grade. He is very handsome, good at coaxing girls, and he is also a popular figure in the grade, and there are not a few people who like him. Walking with him, I think it's quite face-saving. At that time, I thought that this was the kind of relationship I wanted.

The family background of the grass is not as good as mine, so when we go out to play, it is usually AA, plus the various small gifts I usually buy for him, in general, I spend more money. But because I like him and I enjoy the feeling he brings me, I am also willing to spend the money given by my family to maintain this relationship that seems to be beautiful.

Although there will be some small conflicts when we first get together, in general there are more happiness. But after dating for a while, he slowly became cold to me, and he began to interact with other girls frequently. I know that it is difficult for a boy like them to settle on a girl, because the more suitors you surround you, the more attractive they are.

Because of this, I quarreled with him a few times, but he always held a disapproving attitude. Gradually, I got tired of arguing, so I went with him. At least in the eyes of others, I am still his real girlfriend.

But he's really getting worse and worse for me, I can feel it. I told him I was sick, and he just coldly told me to rest early. When I wanted him to stay with me, he said he was busy and didn't have time. Before we were together, his kindness to me seemed to be all fake.

I've checked some information, and they all say that men are like this, and they don't cherish when they get it. Judging from the experience of my friends, this is indeed the case. So I tried to comfort myself that there will always be a quiet period in the relationship, and even if it is a different person, I will still experience it all again. In this case, it's better to endure it, maybe he will change his mind when he gets tired of playing outside.

He is a very stingy person with his girlfriend, but he is very generous to his brother, and he always rushes to pay when he eats with his brother. Sometimes he doesn't have enough money, so he comes to me and asks me for money, and he always takes it for granted.

I've discussed this with my friends. Because I didn't want to be laughed at, I didn't say that it was my own experience, but only the story of a friend of mine. At that time, they all said that this kind of man should not be wanted. He refused to invite his girlfriend to dinner, and all the money was spent on his brother, not with his brother. Besides, don't invite if you don't have money to entertain, what does it mean to ask your girlfriend for money to invite your brother?

Their opinions were all about asking me to persuade "that friend" to break up. But I like him, and I know I can't live without him. Besides, he is my boyfriend, if he has no face, I have no face, and helping my boyfriend maintain a face in front of his brother is indeed what my girlfriend should do, anyway, my family can afford this money, at most I buy a little less cosmetics and bags every month.

In addition to taking money for treats, he would also ask me from time to time for a small amount of money as living expenses, and I gave it to him. He took it and didn't plan to return it, he felt that there was no need for lovers to bother.

At that time, I may indeed be very coaxing, because he would always treat me for a few days after taking the money, as if he was back in love. I enjoyed the warmth he felt towards me, so I didn't bother with him. Thinking about it later, I was so stupid at that time, I was simply using money to buy him for my kindness, completely ignoring that my boyfriend should be friendly to her in the first place.

My current boyfriend consciously distanced himself from me after he found out that I had a date. But when I need it, he is still the first to be there for me. When I was sick, he would go to a distant pharmacy to buy medicine and bring it to me, and when I said I wanted to see the exhibition, he would stay up late and queue up to buy tickets for me. When I was released with pigeons, I said that I wanted to find someone to accompany me, and he would accompany me to eat without regrets, really just eating, without any unruly behavior.

Actually, he did this, and I still ...... I'm impressed. Sometimes I wonder if he could be a little more handsome and smarter, and I would be happy with him. Alas, I can only say that I was still too naïve at that time, and I still disliked him from the bottom of my heart that I couldn't take him out. But I coveted his kindness to me, and his presence completely filled the void left by the grass. I...... It's like being in a relationship with two people at the same time, one is more handsome and has a façade, and the other is not good-looking, but it is very good to me.

Sometimes I also think that I am hanging on to him like this, so that he cannot find his own happiness, I am quite selfish. But at the same time, I thought that now he is good to me, just because he hasn't really gotten me yet. If I had been in a relationship with him, it might not be long before he would have changed his mind and become cold. Thinking about it this way, I don't feel guilty again.

And so it went on for a while. Suddenly, one day, I found out that the expenses of the grass have been getting bigger and bigger, and he asked me for more and more money, but he never told me what I was doing with the money, and I was embarrassed to ask. It wasn't until I felt that my pocket money was finally no longer enough to cover his expenses that I had to talk to him seriously.

That's when I learned that he was addicted to gambling because he mingled with a few fox friends in the society, and the most frequent place he went to every day was the casino. He lost a lot of money, but he always wanted to turn the tables, so he kept asking me for money, and of course he lost it all again.

I have known since I was a child that gambling is like a bottomless pit, once you fall into it, you can't get out, and there are too many examples of bankrupting your family in order to gamble for money. I was scared to hear that he had embarked on this path, so I reasoned with him and hoped that he would think about our future and stop wasting himself like this. He was ...... I also agreed. He cried and apologized to me, saying that he would never gamble again. Seeing that his attitude was very sincere, I forgave him and believed that he would really change. ”

"You see, I was really stupid at that time, right?" Liu Yiwei said this, with a somewhat self-deprecating wry smile, "Even if I am beaten with ten sticks, as long as I am given a piece of candy, I will be coaxed immediately, and I will obediently return to him." Because I really liked him at the time, I always wanted to save the relationship. ”

"It wasn't until later that he did something that I really couldn't forgive. That's when I made up my mind to leave him—"

Jin Siqi nodded and listened to her continue in silence.

"It didn't take long for the days of peace to come, and his old problems were repeated. In fact, he didn't quit gambling at all, and he would always play two tricks behind his back from time to time. Because I was afraid that I would know, he didn't ask me for money this time, but he was behind my back...... Something even more terrible was done!"

"Do you know a popular 'routine loan' on campus? You can borrow a large amount of money in a short period of time, and the loan procedure is also very simple, girls only need to give their 'photos' to the other party...... Not so ordinary photos, of course. I didn't expect that he would take a photo of me secretly and borrow a routine loan with my identity!

At first, I didn't know about it until the repayment deadline was approaching, and I received a text message on my jade slip, urging me to repay the loan as soon as possible, otherwise I would have to 'pay the debt'. I thought it was a scam text message, and I showed it to him, and it was only then that he confessed to me.

He said that he originally wanted to take the opportunity to turn the tables on the loan, and if he turned the tables around, he could have a large amount of money to live a good life with me, but he didn't expect that as soon as he entered the casino, all the money he borrowed was lost. He didn't have the money to pay it back now, and then he begged me...... Just go and spend the night with those people, so that the loan is settled.

I was shocked by his shamelessness. At that moment, I truly realized that the person in front of me had no hope at all. I slapped him in the face, told him to pay the money he owed, and then turned around and left. But he caught up with me and said that he had registered with my identity at the time, and that I was the one who owed the money in the contractual sense, and that I had to be responsible for paying it back.

Later, the debt collectors began to find the academy, and he immediately hid without a trace, leaving me alone to face them. At that time, I was really scared, and if I had to pay back the money, I couldn't take out that much money at all, and I didn't dare to tell my family. I was afraid that they would actually spread my pictures, but I would never agree to their terms...... It was really the most desperate period of my life, and I even thought about dying!

Then...... It's my current boyfriend. Originally, this matter had nothing to do with him, but after he found out, he insisted on helping me carry it. He went to work everywhere, and together with all his savings since he was a child, he helped me pay off the money.

After we got together, I learned from his family that he was actually a very disciplined child since he was a child. All the pocket money given to him by the family, except for the most basic daily expenses, will be saved in the piggy bank. He said that his dream is to save money on his own and buy a house of his own as a home for his future and girlfriend.

Let's not mention whether the money he saved was enough to buy a house, but he was for me after all...... I asked him, don't you regret that your house is gone for me? He just smiled and said, you can save again when the money is gone, but he can't watch me fall into the hands of those people. He said that where there was me, it was his home.

I was very moved, really, after I was treated like that, I was moved to tears to see that there was someone who was so kind to me by my side. At the same time, I felt that I could not owe him this money, and I said that I would definitely pay it back to him, but he hugged me and said, fool, to get you is the greatest treasure of my life.

It's really the first time, and I think his honest smile has become so cute. Although he doesn't understand the amorous feelings, he has really been kind to me in a down-to-earth manner. That's what I'm really going to do with my life, isn't it?

Although I had just experienced a wrong relationship, I was a little apprehensive about a new relationship, but he cured me with his meticulousness. We've been dating for a while, and he's always been nice to me, and there's no 'sure going through' dull period between couples. That's when I realized that people who truly love you won't be willing to be cold to you. When you meet the right person, he will give you all the security and will never let you suffer from gains and losses.

That's when I realized that appearance is not the most important thing, what matters is a person's character. You can't go through the whole life by coveting someone's looks.

Since then, I have been working part-time in my spare time. Because I don't want to rely on my family all the time, I want to train myself and be a more independent girl, so that I can be worthy of him.

After being with him, because I have been pampered by him, my complexion is getting better and better, and my whole person is more beautiful. When my ex-boyfriend saw this, he came to me again, and he wept and confessed to me, saying that if I could give him another chance, he would definitely give me happiness.

Looking at him, I felt for the first time that he was just a wreck with an empty skin, what was it that supported me to love him for so long? But I didn't hate him, because I knew that in a person's life, there will always be some people who will teach you to grow. Maybe they will bring you some negative experiences, but as long as you are not crushed by these tribulations, you can achieve true rebirth from the cocoon. ”

"I don't hate him, and if it weren't for him, I wouldn't be the better person I am today. So I won't take revenge on him, but I won't forgive him either. Since then, there has been no intersection in this life, and I think this is my last reward for him. ”

After telling this story, she looked at Jin Siqi and seriously put a hand on her shoulder.

"Eyes, if you are blind once, don't be blind a second time. ”

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