Chapter 359: The Cultivation of a Husband (6,000 Chapters)
The so-called guest visit was originally to ask questions related to "Journey to the West", but I never expected that in the end, it would become a family routine, and what these students were most concerned about was not Director An's next movie, nor the upcoming "Journey to the West", but Chen Ange's private life.
Director An's private life doesn't have any big waves, he doesn't have much interest in socializing, and even his friends are just actors who he picks up, but he doesn't have regular gatherings with those people, and it can even be said that two or three parties a year are very good.
After all, he himself doesn't really like to be lively.
Nephrite smiled and said, "I feel like Director An is living well...... Well, I don't know how to describe it!"
"Good Buddha, isn't it?"
"Ah, yes, yes, Buddha, Buddha!"
"I don't know what kind of pastime An Dao usually has at home, after all, you can't always sit in a daze!"
Chen Ange thought for a while: "Actually, I shoot a lot of the time, and everyone should know that I am a prolific director, but if I am free, I probably play and sing, and play by myself!"
Nephrite's eyes immediately lit up: "An Dao seems to be still a composer, everyone must want An Dao to come to a song!"
Nephrite said and raised her hand at the student, and then the whole venue was in a commotion.
"Let's do it!"
"Let's do it!"
Seeing this, Chen Ange smiled: "Then help me get a guitar!"
Soon, Nephrite called the staff to bring a guitar.
When Chen Ange was holding the guitar, there was no sound in the entire venue, and all the students were staring at Chen Ange, while Nephrite was holding the microphone and waiting.
At this moment, Chen Ange suddenly didn't know what to sing.
The following students are about 20 years old, and they are about to enter the society at this age, although the university is originally a small society, but compared with the real society, it is still a big difference.
Is there a long way to go?
That seems too confusing and decadent.
Everyone must be working hard to rush up, and in this group of people, most of the family situations are good, after all, if they can afford to engage in art, they naturally don't need to work hard for three meals a day.
Love!
Camaraderie!
Maybe that's what they value the most, of course, there must be some people who have awakened their minds, and there are also some people who are trying their best to climb up.
Otherwise, universities are a condensed society.
Everyone has their own ambitions, some people want to be famous after graduation, and some people may not take the road of acting after finishing school.
But no matter what, if these people disperse, it is estimated that it will be the Year of the Monkey and the month of the Monkey when they are reunited.
And those memories hidden in the heart will probably be hidden deeply.
Now that a guitar and a love song are no longer popular in this era, Chen Ange still remembers that when he was in high school, he had a guitar, a love song, and a good voice, and he didn't know how many young beauties he could charm.
Chen Ange started playing.
With the prelude finished, the singing began.
It's hard to forget seeing you for the first time
A pair of charming eyes
Your figure in my mind's eye
Lingering
Hold your hands and feel your tenderness
It's a bit breathless
……
"Love has to be a last resort", this kind of simple love song, as written in the lyrics, feelings are uncontrollable, just like the sentence in "Journey to the West".
When you fall in love with someone you hate, the relationship is the most fatal.
No one can swear to veto, and no one can sway emotional fluctuations.
The so-called innocence and hatred are just a mirror.
Of course, the feelings in the love are not so deep, nor are they so thick, but they are more sensitive, more cautious, and more sentimental, which is exactly what a boy and girl should feel.
Of course, in this era, let alone twenty-year-olds, even people who are nearly thirty years old probably feel this way.
Life is good, the quality is high, but people seem to have fewer means to fall in love, in the early years, love was expressed directly, how direct, now it's good, more and more buried in the heart, thirty years old to keep the first kiss, let alone thirty years old virgin.
A song is played and sung, and the students listen very carefully.
This song couldn't be more straightforward, and it's also very suitable for singing, and I probably understand it at once, just like the girl on the other side back then, how simple and straightforward.
Bang Bang Bang!
After singing a song, the whole venue burst into thunderous applause, and some people even whistled.
"Wow, it's a pity that Director An's voice is not a singer!"
Nephrite's eyes are shining, and she looks like a little fan girl.
In fact, Chen Ange's voice is not very good, and it can even be said to be very ordinary, but his own singing skills are already superb, and it is not difficult to sing this kind of song, so it is not difficult to sing well.
"One more song!"
"One more song!"
It's all about singing, everyone knows that this interview is almost over, but it's really not easy to see Chen Ange once, how could he leave so quickly?
Chen Ange was not pretentious, thought about it, and sent these students another song!
……
Today I watched the snow drift by on a cold night
Drifting away with a cooled heart
Chasing in the wind and rain, it is impossible to distinguish the trace in the fog
The sky is wide for you and me
The cold wind is cold, there are fewer and fewer pedestrians on the street, and the warm yellow lights of the city begin to light up one by one, and finally disappear into the sky, connecting with the Milky Way stars in the sky, and the whole world is becoming more and more like a huge easter egg.
In the Shinoxiao Tavern, the resident held a guitar and sang the song "Sea and Sky".
This kind of bistro is not as noisy as a bar, and most of the customers come in groups to drink and listen to music.
People in big cities are not indifferent, but lonely, unlike people in the countryside who go out and find a threshold to stay, so that they can have a good time with the neighbors.
Of course, even if they give people in big cities such an opportunity, they will not sit on the threshold and make friends with others.
The petty bourgeoisie appeared early, of course, this is not just a forced display among the general population, but just an attitude towards life.
It's like working on a farm to make money, and he doesn't want to stay on a farm in the country.
Everyone has a choice, and naturally there is also a chance to refuse.
A month's salary is enough to support the family, and from time to time I go out for a drink with three or five friends, which is also a good life.
The resident is a thirty-year-old man, who is also the owner of the Shinoxiao Tavern, dressed very ordinary, with a shaved head, a little chubby, and he doesn't look so handsome, but he has a good voice, and a song with a wide sky really sings a little charm.
His expression was probably someone who had a story before.
They are all old customers, of course, there are newcomers to come, after all, Liangcheng is now a tourist city, and there are many people who come to play every year.
Although it is not as drunk as a paper fan, it is not unacceptable for tourists from other places who come to the tavern to drink, especially those young men and women, who have some feelings in a different place.
After playing the next day, they went their separate ways, leaving a shallow mark in each other's hearts, which may be the mentality of some urban men and women.
is like the girl in the lower left corner who is about twenty years old, with her hands on her cheeks, staring at the boss with affection.
No one knew what she was thinking, and of course, no one noticed, after all, the lights in this tavern were not bright in the first place, and ......
In the darker place of the small corner, there are several women with proud figures and excellent temperaments, and they are the focus.
"Tsk, my wife belongs to an irreplaceable spiritual sustenance for me!"
Yang Feifei said a word, and then made a retching action, which was very exaggerated and in line with her character.
Yang Feifei has been abroad in the past few years, but she is very clear about the situation in China, and of course, she pays attention to people's movements more clearly.
Chen Ange, White Lotus!
Time flies, but it seems to pass slowly, but no matter what, the couple is still the same as before.
It's Yang Feifei...... It's Chinese New Year's Eve three today.
Time, joking with her, is also ruthlessly depriving her of vitality cells.
"The Sea and the Sky", and a song "Love is a Last Resort".
These two songs have been popular in the past month.
But the original singer did not sing, but was recorded by the students of Peking Film Academy on the spot and uploaded to the Internet.
The number of clicks is terrifying, and then there are more and more covers, but most of them are covers by ordinary netizens, as for professional singers covering on the stage, it is absolutely impossible, after all, these two are not out, the copyright is all in Chen An's singers, those professional singers really dare to cover on the stage, that is infringement.
Of course, after the fire, naturally many people asked for copyright, but Chen Ange has not replied.
However, those professional singers can't grow up, but these amateurs and netizens have a lot of fun.
After all, the so-called copyright is not so sensitive to them, and Chen Ange also said on the Internet that ordinary people can sing it casually.
"Come on, Sister Yang have a drink, you haven't been back for a long time, I miss you to death!"
Wang Lingyin picked up the wine glass, she used to be Yang Feifei's assistant, and she was picked up by Chen Ange, but Yang Feifei treated her very well at the beginning, although now she is even more famous than Yang Feifei, but the relationship is getting deeper and deeper.
"I won't leave when I come back this time!"
White Lotus asked.
"If you don't go, you can't walk anymore!"
Yang Feifei shook his head, looked around again, and then looked at Chen Ange, who had been drinking, and said with a smile: "Chen Ange, we met in this place for the first time!"
Chen Ange looked confused, obviously unable to remember.
Yang Feifei's face darkened when he saw this: "You are really a noble person!"
"This used to be called Fenglin Night, but Liangcheng has developed rapidly over the years, and the previous Fenglin Night has changed its appearance and has become the current Xiaoxiao Tavern, the proprietress is still the boss, but there is one more boss!"
White Lotus remembered very well and said to Chen Ange.
Chen Ange was a little impressed, it seemed that the White Lotus brought him over that time, it was here that he met Yang Feifei, and he also wrote a poem "Difficult Sutra", and it was also here that he heard the old man of Jiangbei Qusheng Jiangshan for the first time.
Time flies!
Chen Ange picked up his wine glass: "My fault!"
I looked up and drank, I don't know how the little girl Jianghua is doing now, she is busy, but she forgot that the old man Jiangshan asked him to take care of Huahua more!
"Shh
Yang Feifei pouted.
The familiar proprietress over there came out to help everyone get the wine.
At the same time, the boss also changed the song.
"Love has to be".
Singing well, the proprietress shuttled through the tavern, and the back was a little busy.
"Sister Yang!"
When Xiaoxiao came over, he was a little cautious, and the others didn't know what Yang Feifei's group was doing, but Xiaoxiao probably knew something.
Of course, she just knew Yang Feifei.
In the past, Yang Feifei was a regular customer of Fenglinwan, and she was still a single proprietress at that time.
"I've been deceived!"
Yang Feifei looked at Xiaoxiao with interest.
Although Xiaoxiao is already twenty-seven or eighteen, he was a little blushing by Yang Feifei after all, but fortunately, the light is not very clear.
"I'm getting older, and I've met someone I like, so I'm ......"
Yang Feifei was very dissatisfied, and even a little angry, and glanced at the man who was singing.
"He's not handsome! he's a little fat!"
Xiaoxiao lifted the hair of her sideburns with her hand, looked back at her husband who was singing, and smiled: "Married man, what do you want to be so handsome, he loves me, I like him enough!"
"Oh, it smells sour!"
Yang Feifei seemed to be in a bad mood, and raised his head and drank another glass of wine.
Xiaoxiao said again: "Handsome men are unreliable, they have to find someone who can live when they get married, and men are fat, they are all bones, and they are infiltrating when they are touched!"
Yang Feifei looked at Xiaoxiao fixedly, and then pouted: "The original singer of this song "Love Has to Be Done" is not handsome!"
White Lotus looked up at Yang Feifei.
Xiaoxiao nodded: "Handsome, very handsome!"
"Then you still say that it is unreliable, the intercession on the Internet has to be written to someone's wife White Lotus! Do you think that guy is playing the image of a good man outside?"
Xiaoxiao shook his head: "I don't know about this, but this director doesn't seem to show up much, what does he want to do with a big image?"
"Then you still say that handsome men are unreliable!"
"An Dao is afraid that it is a meteor in the sky!"
Yang Feifei was happy, and he nodded at Chen Ange: "Hey, people say that you are a meteor and your little fan sister!"
Chen Ange looked up, speechless.
"Ahh
Xiaoxiao screamed in surprise, quickly covered her mouth, and stared at the man with a hat sitting in the innermost part with a pair of eyes.
"Hello!"
Chen Ange greeted Xiaoxiao with a smile.
"You...... Hello!"
Xiaoxiao was already a little stammering, she never expected An Dao to be there, it was really An Dao, living An Dao, if it wasn't for her extreme restraint, she really wanted to shout out.
In fact, she knew that Yang Feifei and Chen Ange knew each other before, but she had never seen Chen Ange come to the tavern, and Yang Feifei had not been here for many years, plus Yang Feifei had withdrawn from the circle over the years.
Yang Feifei booked a seat first tonight, and when she came over, she entertained her, but she only chatted with Yang Feifei for a few words, and didn't see a few people around Yang Feifei, and now it seems that someone should be later.
That's right......
Xiaoxiao seemed to remember something: "That...... Director An, can I ask you for an autograph? My husband likes you!"
Chen Ange was stunned and nodded.
Xiaoxiao looked happy, ran away, and came back with something in his arms.
The collection disc of "Journey to the West"!
After getting the autograph, Xiaoxiao excitedly ran towards the man who had just stopped to rest after singing.
Yang Feifei's eyes were a little confused, she had been looking at Xiaoxiao, movements, expressions, and at this moment, she was standing in front of her man with her hands behind her back, jokingly talking to her husband like a little girl, and then took out the collection CD, her husband showed a surprised expression on his face, Xiaoxiao began to whisper to his husband again, with a satisfied smile on his face.
"She's so happy!"
Wang Lingyin looked at this scene and said sincerely.
"Her husband is also happy, when she sees Chen Ange, she can still remember to ask her husband for an autograph!"
"This is a rare good woman!
White Lotus and Wang Lingyin, you say everything I say.
But Yang Feifei kept his head down and didn't speak.
After a while, Xiaoxiao and her husband walked over, and the two held hands, although they were trying their best to restrain themselves, the two were obviously still excited.
"Ann...... Ann Dao!"
The man looks a little shy, with a round face, a somewhat chubby body, and his facial features look gentle.
Chen Ange said hello with a smile.
"I didn't expect to see you here!"
"Don't be so polite, you just sang very well!"
"Thank you, thank you!"
The man was very excited: "You guys drink well, it's all on my head tonight!"
Yes, I will accept the favor of the family all of a sudden.
Yang Feifei saw that he was so excited, and said with a smile: "If you don't let him go up and sing it, when the time comes, the business of your tavern will definitely skyrocket!"
The man and Xiaoxiao glanced at each other, their faces showing ecstasy, but soon the man shook his head, rubbed his hands, and said a little embarrassedly, "That...... Forget it, if An Dao goes up to sing, I'm afraid An Dao will never be able to come to our tavern to drink in the future!"
Shinoxiao went to greet people again, and her husband started singing again.
The tavern is still the same tavern, and Chen Ange and a few people sit in the corner, looking at the two of them from time to time.
"It may be a smart person, or it may be a gentle and honest person! Chen Ange can only bring a period of money income when he goes up to sing now, but if Chen Ange comes from time to time in the future, it will be terrible! Of course, maybe people don't care about the skyrocketing money income, they really like Chen Ange and want to leave a clean place for Chen Ange to drink!"
White Lotus said suddenly.
Yang Feifei gave a thumbs up: "Businessman, another dozen 1664!"
"I'm going to the bathroom!"
Chen Ange went to the toilet, and there were only three women left on the wine table.
White Lotus and Wang Lingyin are not careless women, they can feel that Yang Feifei's psychology seems to be a little uncomfortable.
White Lotus reminded: "If you drink it again, you will be drunk!"
Yang Feifei leaned against the wall, his face was full of tiredness: "Get drunk!" After a pause, he looked at the white lotus and said with a smile: "I really envy you, Chen Ange loves you so much." ”
"You can too!"
"Me?" Yang Feifei shook his head: "I can't find it!" She looked at the Xiaoxiao couple who were singing over there: "I see love!"
White Lotus shook her head and said, "I'm different from you, I look at marriage!"
"Do you know? I didn't love Chen Ange before I got married, I admired him, of course, I didn't hate him, I watched the people around me get married, and the money for the wedding increased year by year. In the past, when my grandfather was alive, I had the idea of going home for the Spring Festival, but when my grandfather died, I had no reason to go home, that home was no longer my home, and I became a homeless person, so that year I spent the New Year with Chen Ange, the kind of friend who was a friend, at that time, my grandmother had been helping me introduce objects, she definitely wanted to help me find someone who could give me family warmth, I could meet ten blind dates in one day in Beiping, and every time I felt a little worse than the man in my dreams, and Chen Ange, I found him at the beginning because he was similar to me, I always felt that I was an orphan, so I was very close to Chen Ange, who was also an orphan, I can even say sympathy, because although I am an orphan, at least I have the love of my grandmother's family and my grandfather's love before, and I don't have to worry about spending money. ”
"I can now remember the scene when I first saw Chen Ange, when I came out of the Peking Film Academy, he was standing on the side of the film and television city, the entrance of the film and television city was crowded, he was standing like that, the sky was gray, he didn't dare to go up and squeeze, his eyes were full of confusion and fear, it was just such a look, I took him back to Liangcheng. ”
"I saw myself in him, so at first I just regarded Chen Ange as a younger brother, and it was impossible to marry him, but life is so wonderful, it will never be arranged, it will only be arranged for you. ”
"When I got the certificate, I wasn't sure if I liked him or not, so I gave him three months, we went to Sedar, went to Iceland, and went to the North Pole to soak in the hot springs to see the aurora, and then I was a little moved in Dales, I gave my wish, I am quite the richest woman, I believe that I may be able to achieve this wish in a few years, and even I think that if I urge a little, Chen Ange can help me realize it as soon as possible, but I don't need it!"
"Ten years ago, it was fame and fortune, and now it is firewood, rice, oil and salt!"
"I feel more and more that he loves me, and at the same time I feel more and more that there must be a place in his heart that I don't know, it is waiting for me to touch, waiting for me to warm, after giving birth, I can clearly feel his changes, some people say that there are three periods of change in a man's life, the first is to fall in love, the second is to get married, and the third is to be a father!"
"Needless to say, there is no need to talk about falling in love, but marriage is true, most men begin to pay little attention to their wives after getting married, because he feels that he has completed the task of chasing him, as for the sweet life after that, love lingering is not what a rational man needs, so he will not be as patient and capricious as chasing you. Although it is said that men and women are equal, there is no doubt that this society is indeed a heavy burden on men's shoulders, and the car and house are a big mountain, of course, this does not mean that men are right to leave their wives to hang after marriage. ”
"But this change after marriage may be okay, the most terrible is the third change, that is, the change after having children, the average woman has children, those so-called sweet words and emotional lingering are basically gone, and the man in this time period should be the most painful, the wife is unemployed at home, and there is a child's crying when he comes home, he may not be able to sleep all night, and the next morning he has to go to work early, because the rest is not good, so the boss will feel that he is perfunctory, he is scolded in the company and can not vent, and even dare not stay outside, because of the sense of responsibility forced him to go home early after work, if it is a one-child family, he does not even dare to consume, because he has to consider not only the small family, but also his father-in-law's family, and even his parents' family. And generally wives are emotionally unstable at this time, so women at this time especially like to blame their husbands, either complaining that their husbands don't make enough money or have inexplicable tempers all day long, and the husband has to bear it, because he is afraid that his wife will have postpartum depression, of course, it seems natural for a man to let his wife go, so every time I see a woman suffering from postpartum depression, I feel a little emotional, at this time, the most should be cared for, at home and abroad, it is full of pressure, does he dare to collapse? He doesn't dare, just because he is a man!"
Of course, once a family is in place, it is not appropriate for a husband and wife to interfere in their life and feelings, even if they are relatives! As for whether the man or the woman is affected in marriage, there are basically different theories. ”
"I say all this, either to make you resist marriage, or to tell you what a man can persist in such a tiring situation, it is because he can see hope, and even if it is a bad man, he will at least continue to move forward in despair. And you, as long as you want to continue this marriage, you can live this marriage well, because whether the marriage is happy or not is definitely a matter of two people, and many things, not just the theory of right and wrong, love is a thing for marriage, even if there is no it, it doesn't matter, because not everyone is lucky enough to taste love, and in the end, marriage is not only a matter of two people, but a family of three, or four or five, that is the fetters of the family, not the freedom of love! So you have to be clear about what you want now. ”
"It's good to find someone who you don't hate and appreciate to get married, cultivate feelings, and have children, and it's very fulfilling, isn't it?