Chapter 748: Don't Have Children First
Mu Shuwan checked the gifts brought by Qiao Jiayue and Deng Ying again to see if there were any left, and after that, she also ordered the two to stay for two more days and come back.
After all, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother are about to leave Beijing, so let Qiao Jiayue spend a little more time with them.
The two nodded in response, and the driver invited by Deng Xianchang outside was ready, just send the two out of the alley.
Qiao Jiayue and Deng Ying came to the door with big bags, while Qiao's father and Qiao's mother were waiting in the small courtyard early.
As soon as the two stepped into the small courtyard, everyone's eyes were like X-rays, almost illuminating them inside and out.
Qiao Jiayue's hand holding the gift couldn't help but tighten, and she was inexplicably a little nervous, what's going on?
The two entered the door and put down their things, and only then sat down to drink two cups of tea, Deng Ying was pulled away by Qiao Hongzhi and Qiao Hongliang, leaving Qiao Jiayue facing her parents.
Qiao's mother carefully asked Qiao Jiayue about her life in the Deng family in the past two days, especially Mu Shuwan's attitude towards her.
Qiao Jiayue didn't dare to hide it, and said it 1510, in fact, she felt that she could adapt to life after marriage.
Qiao's mother was slightly relieved when she heard that Mu Shuwan did not give birth to a child.
"Although you are married now and you are not young, I hope you are not in a hurry to have children. ”
"One is that you are both still graduating, and the other is that the period after marriage is the best time to cultivate relationships, which is different from falling in love before marriage. ”
"If you have children too early, your relationship will suffer, after all, you will focus so much on your children that you will neglect your husband. ”
Qiao's mother thought about her daughter in the end, so she talked more deeply, and in the end, she also kicked Qiao's father out and took Qiao Jiayue's hand to talk about contraceptive methods.
This made Qiao Jiayue's face flushed, she didn't dare to tell Qiao's mother, in fact, they hadn't really spent candles in the cave yet.
Qiao's mother sighed, "Why do I suggest you so? Look at your third brother and your third sister-in-law, the development of this relationship is different from yours, and it can't get up." ”
"The two of them felt uncomfortable, and we were uncomfortable to watch. And such a marriage, although it is maintained by children, is a little less happy. ”
"Auntie, I understand. Qiao Jiayue finally understood Qiao's mother's hard work.
Although she has no experience, she can still feel a trace of disharmony from Qiao Hongliang and Yan Danfeng's marriage, perhaps because their relationship has not yet reached that level.
But as a younger sister, she can't ask her brother and sister-in-law about their relationship status, and these things are really like a fish drinking water and knowing it.
"A-Niang, when are you leaving?" Qiao Jiayue grabbed Qiao's mother's arm and rested her head on her shoulder, so reluctant to let them leave!
"Leave tomorrow, the tickets have already been bought, and there will be more things piled up later. Qiao's mother said, especially this year, the factory will be expanded, expand production, prepare for the development of new projects, etc., these things are the same, all of them are not easy.
"I thought the fourth aunt would stay a little longer. Qiao Jiayue said regretfully.
"Your fourth aunt can't do it, there are too many things to do at home, and now that the fields are divided into households, how much you can harvest depends on whether you are diligent or not. ”
Fourth Aunt Qiao, they left on the night of Qiao Jiayue's wedding.
They didn't go much to Beijing, so they went to Tiananmen Square to watch the flag-raising ceremony, and even so, they felt that this trip to Beijing was not in vain.
On the contrary, several cousins and cousins were reluctant to leave, so they had to play for two more days and then go with Qiao's father and Qiao's mother.
"Auntie, after you and Abba go back, you should pay more attention to rest, don't be tired, you can earn money whenever you want. ”
Qiao Jiayue was really afraid that Qiao's father and Qiao's mother were overworked.
"Where is this tiring, working in the field is tiring, and in comparison, other things are really not worth mentioning. "People who have never been to the ground, how can they understand the hardships here?
"Auntie, no matter what, buy more newspapers and take a look, the policies are on the top, if there is a problem, we will avoid it as soon as possible. ”
Qiao Jiayue knew that her parents had seen these things much more thoroughly than herself, but she still couldn't help but say a few more words.
Qiao's mother touched Qiao Jiayue's head, "Your father understands this." ”
"It's about the same time, I'm going to cook. ”
"Auntie, I'll help you go. Qiao Jiayue hurriedly got up and followed.
Qiao's mother didn't refuse, she also planned to teach Qiao Jiayue more, no matter what, Qiao Jiayue had better know a little more about things in the kitchen.
Qiao Jiayue gave Qiao's mother a hand and wrote down some tricks attentively, and then she heard Qiao's mother teach her how to solve the quarrel between the two.
"Quarrel?" Qiao Jiayue asked in surprise, "Ah Niang, we won't quarrel." ”
Mother Qiao couldn't help but smile when she heard this: "How can there be a husband and wife who don't quarrel, after a long time, you will find out, after all, it is impossible for you to agree on everything." ”
"Then did Abba and Aunt quarrel?" Qiao Jiayue had the impression that her parents really hadn't quarreled.
"Of course there were. Qiao's mother smiled, "But it's not in front of you, and we reconcile quickly, and you won't find out." ”
Qiao Jiayue was stunned, this was completely different from what she imagined.
"Your Abba and I have lived in very different environments since childhood, how can there be no contradictions? It's just that we have made an agreement to resolve the contradictions as quickly as possible, and not to quarrel in front of your brothers and sisters. ”
Qiao's mother said with a smile, now that she and Qiao's father are older, they have also run in the most suitable way to get along with each other, so naturally they will not quarrel anymore, but occasionally they will still talk about it, and life is interesting!
"So what does A-Niang mean, is it that Deng Ying and I also adopt this method?"
"No, so that's why I don't let you have children too early. Because once you have a child, it is often the time when you have the most conflicts. ”
Qiao's mother still didn't understand Qiao Jiayue, she smiled and said, "You'll know later, so before you have children, find out the most suitable way for you to get along." ”
Qiao Jiayue was still a little confused, but what Qiao's mother said would not be wrong, just write it down by herself.
And Deng Ying, who was taken away by Qiao Hongzhi and Qiao Hongliang, faced various "unequal terms" that the two eldest brothers asked him to agree to.
Such as not making Qiao Jiayue sad, not letting her worry about it, etc.
Deng Ying knew what they meant, and they all smiled and responded.
"You have to remember what you promised, or you will wait and see when Xiaoyuan returns. Qiao Hongzhi said.
When Deng Ying heard Qiao Hongyuan's name, a little weakness suddenly flashed in his eyes, what would happen to his friend if he knew that he had married his favorite sister?
He nodded vigorously, and asked Qiao Hongzhi instead: "Then do you have Xiaoyuan's contact information?" I want to tell him about my marriage to Jiayue. ”
Qiao Hongzhi snorted: "No." "Missing Qiao Jiayue's wedding, this should be Qiao Hongyuan's most regretful thing.
Deng Ying stretched out his hand and wiped his nose, a little uncomfortable, he was ready to be beaten by fat.