"Senior brother, I won't eat lunch first, I made an appointment with my classmates today to buy a laptop, and said that I would meet at the high-tech computer city at about half past 12, or wait for me to finish buying it and then come back in the afternoon to talk?

Chang Tianhao wanted to buy a computer Gao Yang knew about it early in the morning, and when he saw his sincerity, he said: "That's okay, let's hurry up the test and have dinner together in the evening...... You can't push dinner anymore, how can you say that you are both a big customer and a junior brother, this meal can't be shabby for brothers. ”

"Thank you, brother, wait for me to come back in the afternoon......"

Is buying a computer a pretext?

Yes and no.

Said yes, because he got the notice yesterday, and his happy parents had transferred 12,000 yuan to the passbook and agreed to him to buy a computer; he said no, because Chang Tianhao had not made an appointment at all, and now he was in a hurry to go to Xinhua Bookstore to find Cheng Cheng.

As soon as 11 o'clock passed, Cheng Yushi, who was reading in Xinhua Bookstore, began to look up at the familiar figure, but after looking for a long time, he couldn't find anyone, guessing that Chang Tianhao might be late for something, so he had to continue to read sullenly. Unexpectedly, the first 15 minutes passed, and he didn't come, another 15 minutes passed, and no one came, and the third 15 minutes passed - usually I started to eat lunch at this time, and I still didn't see Chang Tianhao.

After waiting and waiting in the bookstore, the hungry girl had already pouted angrily, and she couldn't read the book. It's not that she didn't think about 33770808 pager for Qiantang Station, but every time she wanted to get up and find a phone to page, there was always a voice in her head reminding her: Girls should be reserved!

It's not that she didn't want to go to dinner alone and ignore Chang Tianhao, but when she wanted to leave, she couldn't open her legs, and a voice always reminded her: What if he came as soon as she left?

In his inner war, he comforted himself every time: Wait, wait...... Maybe he's coming.

10 minutes passed at 12 o'clock, Chang Tianhao belatedly appeared in the bookstore, Cheng Yushi saw him coming, a big stone in his heart finally fell to the ground, he wanted to stand up and say hello, but he was angry that he came so late, and he was tired and anxious and couldn't stand up, so he simply lowered his head and read like an ostrich.

His eyes were on the book, but he didn't read a word at all, his mind was swirling: how to question him later!

Can't be too stingy, but also can't let him pass too easily, otherwise what if he does it again next time?

"Cheng Cheng, I'm late, I'm sorry......"

"Ah...... Oh......" The girl coldly squeezed out two syllables and ignored him.

It's angry.

Chang Tianhao is not surprised, this temper is coaxing, squatting down and accompanying him carefully: "It's me who is not good, I shouldn't have come so late, let's go, let's eat." ”

"Go ahead, I'm not hungry......"

As she said this, her stomach gurgled uncontrollably, and she was so ashamed that she almost wanted to find a crack in the ground to get into it—hell, it was so uncompetitive.

Chang Tianhao smiled, took her hand, and didn't break her lie, but said, "I'm hungry, come with me to dinner!" Cheng Yushi wanted to break free, but she couldn't try it, the power from the opposite side was very great, she was hungry and had no strength, she was really powerless to resist, and she didn't dare to scream, so she could only go out involuntarily.

After going out, Chang Tianhao finally let go of her hand, and she said angrily: "A lot of people are watching, you were so rude just now......"

"Who?" Chang Tianhao said with a "confused" face, "As soon as I came in, there was only Cheng Cheng in my eyes, the whole world and eyeline were occupied by you, and my mind went straight to you, how could I see other people......?

"You!" the girl stomped her feet habitually, half sweet, half shy, "so annoying!"

"Let's go and eat. Chang Tianhao stopped the taxi.

"What are you doing with Zhiweiguan?"

"Eat, change the taste. ”

"Then you don't need to take a taxi, it's less than a kilometer, right?"

"Don't don't, your legs are strong, my stomach can't wait...... Besides, it's so sunny, what if you get a tan? You don't have a parasol with you. Chang Tianhao explained, "Don't go back to the bookstore in the afternoon after eating, go to the high-tech computer city to buy a computer with me." ”

"You want to buy a computer?"

Chang Tianhao nodded: "I received a notice yesterday, and I was rewarded with a notebook at home, and the special money has been received, and the benefits must be cashed out immediately!"

"Oh... I received it too. My dad asked me what I wanted, and I hadn't thought about it yet, or might I buy a computer?" the girl muttered, "but my computer isn't very good, and the one at home can't handle it." ”

"If you're not in a hurry, you can go to Shanghai and buy it again, the price is on the more expensive side during the summer vacation and just after the start of school, and it's usually cheaper after the National Day. ”

"Then why are you in such a hurry?"

"I'm useful, the company has a new project, I want to use a computer to do it, I bought a notebook and I can fix it at home. ”

The car quickly arrived at its destination, and after getting out of the car, Cheng Yushi couldn't help but ask: "You haven't explained why it's late? ”

Chang Tianhao waved his hand: "It's too late, it's too late, no matter if there is a big reason, it can't be explained." There are many things, many and important, but it is equally important to be with you, so apologize again - resolutely do not find a reason. Of course, we have to change in the afternoon, and we won't read after eating, so let's look at the computer and ......."

"Hmm. ”

"You're not mad at me anymore?"

"People weren't angry, just a little anxious, but if you come, it's better to be late than not to come. ”

Chang Tianhao was happy: "You can hit me and page." ”

The girl was embarrassed to say that little bit of caution, and prevaricated: "I'm afraid of delaying your work." My dad sometimes works late overtime, and my mom says to call less to interfere with him......"

Chang Tianhao thought to himself: There are not many such people, 20 years later, the husband said that he was working overtime, and his wife had something to do and it was not a fatal serial call to check the post?

Faced with the dazzling array of snacks in Zhiweiguan, Chang Tianhao asked: "Do you want to eat cat ears? Do you want sweet lotus root? Or do you want a spicy snail?"

The girl whispered: "I'll eat cat ears, you can order anything else, I won't pick it." But I can't eat so much, I'm going to become a pig after eating so much......"

Chang Tianhao teased her: "Cheng Cheng is so good-looking, if he turns into a pig, he will definitely be the best-looking pig in the world!"

The girl raised her hand and patted him: "You're the pig!"

"Since you are eating with the pig today, you must be able to eat more. Chang Tianhao said to the salesman, "One cat ear, one spicy snail, one shrimp wonton, oh, add crab roe xiaolong, and 2 bowls of chilled white fungus soup......"

The girl gritted her teeth and glared at Chang Tianhao, feeling that she was not only not as thick-skinned as him, but also couldn't talk about him, and now she finally understood the situation introduced by Shen Lili: Chang Fuzi is the main force of the debate team!

Of course, Chang Tianhao did it on purpose, without this kind of gag, how could he resolve the embarrassment of being late at noon?

Serious apologies?

Don't be funny! Work is work, feelings are feelings, and it is necessary to distinguish which is more important than the other.

Is work light and emotional?

Of course not!

When talking about work, it is important to work, and when talking about feelings, it is important to be emotional.

There is no universal standard for which is more important and must be adapted. Chang Tianhao didn't put himself in the right position many times before he was reborn, of course, there were all kinds of cumulative factors in the divorce, and there were many unexpected episodes, but he obviously had a lot of responsibility for not handling the relationship between work and family, and he himself reflected on it for a long time.

Now that he has been reborn, he has repeatedly reminded himself to cherish the hard-won opportunity to read the file more, handle problems more properly and tactfully, and take fewer detours in the past.

Girls, in fact, it's not a matter of care, it's good to coax, the most taboo is to make a straight face and reason with her: I'm working, if you want to be sensible, then it's even more wronged.

The first truth of getting along with women is not to try to reason with women, especially not to try to reason with women who are emotionally entangled, no matter what, it is self-inflicted humiliation - this is Chang Tianhao's insight in exchange for his own painful lessons.

If you really want to be reasonable, Chang Tianhao, who is full of economy, rich in learning, and eloquent, is definitely not bad at reasoning, so why did he not mix up unsatisfactory before rebirth?

Because many times and many occasions, it is not reasonable and high IQ can be leveled, more often it requires means and superb EQ, Chang Tianhao just didn't put this position right, so he always felt depressed - most people don't meet IQ and EQ don't match well!

Specifically, in the face of Cheng Cheng, he is 20 years older than her, and he can't pull down his face to coax a little girl? After this road of evolution, Cheng Cheng's heart has been thrown out of the clouds because of the unhappiness of Chang Tianhao's lateness.

As the old saying goes: if you can pull out pus, it is a good plaster, and if it works, it is a good means!