Chapter 265: Qiao's Mother's Truth
Qiao Jiayue paused, "But there are two brothers in the third team who are admitted to college, don't you have confidence?"
Hasn't anyone thought about going to university?
"It's too hard, and it's too much money to be worth it. ”
Qiao Jiayue didn't know what to say when she heard this, after all, everyone's values are different.
She didn't plan to persuade Qiao Qiuyue, since she already had a choice, she would talk too much about herself, but she would find someone to get bored.
"What about Jiayue, you really don't have any ideas?"
Qiao Jiayue looked up suspiciously, "What do you think?" Seeing Qiao Qiuyue smiling ambiguously, she understood, and she said with a dark face: "I'm only ten years old, it's too early to think about this." ”
"Also, your Abba knows so many people in the city, and you will have more choices than us in the future. Qiao Qiuyue nodded and said.
Qiao Jiayue pursed her lower lip, why didn't this sound so comfortable, "My brothers and I won't think about this so early, we have to study and go to university." ”
Qiao Qiuyue opened her mouth, she didn't say anything about it, if it was so easy to get into college, it would not have been two college students in the alpine brigade for so many years.
Qiao Qiuyue felt that Qiao Jiayue didn't like to hear this, so she changed the topic and talked about Lin Lanhua's girls.
Lin Lanhua is the child daughter-in-law, she is the oldest, and she has become the eldest sister of the five of them.
After the Chinese New Year, Grandpa Lan set up another room on the side, and the five girls moved over, but they still ate together.
For these girls, most of the girls in the village reject them and don't like to play with them.
Among them, there is their identity as a child daughter-in-law, and there is also the reason for Lan Xiangbin.
That Lin Orchid is a pungent one, there are many people who quarrel, and their mouths are very sharp, and no one can please them, even those mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law.
Qiao Jiayue listened quietly, recalling Lin Lanhua's appearance, in the past half a year, the five of them have eaten and slept well, and they have all grown up, and they look good.
If it is put on a blind date, Lin Orchid is definitely very popular.
Lin Lanhua's five girls will send some vegetables every month, either dried vegetables or pickled vegetables, to express their gratitude to Qiao's father for taking them in.
Qiao's mother would accept it every time, and then send back some green vegetables.
Qiao Jiayue thought about it and found that this Lin Lanhua was quite good at talking, with a sweet mouth, and a good sense of proportion, not annoying.
She lowered her head and continued to smash the stones, thinking to herself, this Lin Lanhua is quite scheming, and knows how to plan for herself.
The days passed in an orderly manner, and in a blink of an eye, it was the middle of November, and the rice was about to be harvested, and the water in the fields was almost empty, but what people did not expect was that there was another naval battle along the coast.
And this time, the place where it happened was much closer to the city.
In the middle of the night, their alpine brigade was so far away that it seemed that they could hear the roar of artillery fire.
Therefore, this naval battle had a greater impact on the members, and every family put the baggage they had prepared earlier in their hands and prepared to run away if something went wrong.
The next day, there was good news on the radio in Quanshi, saying that the enemy had been defeated, and everyone could rest assured.
The members of the club were a lot more relieved, and many of them still muttered that they must beat such and such a party to the point of being a mess and never dare to come to the mainland to make trouble again.
However, when Qiao's father went to the commune, he learned that this naval battle was commanded by the prime minister himself.
According to the analysis, this naval battle has greatly reduced the enemy's vigor and strength, and it is estimated that he will never dare to invade the mainland again.
This is good news! After all, there are not many big wars at sea, but there are many small frictions, and conflicts often occur.
If the place is defeated, our army will be much easier.
Knowing that the war would not start, the members rushed into the rice fields with their sickles and harvested diligently.
In particular, the glutinous rice that is much higher than other rice has attracted the attention of the members, look, this is the glutinous rice they planted, and there is no need to buy glutinous rice this year!
Therefore, Qiao's father specially arranged for members who were diligent and neat to harvest glutinous rice.
The other three production teams did not plant glutinous rice, and when they heard that the four teams had successfully planted them, they also came to take a look, asked about the yield, and by the way, booked next year's seeds.
Glutinous rice can make many sweets, and sweetness can make people feel happy and increase their sense of well-being.
The members are in a good mood and work more diligently.
The autumn harvest school is on holiday, and all the students are busy working in the field, Qiao Jiayue followed behind Qiao's mother, and she was so busy that her back hurt.
When chatting, Qiao Jiayue would inevitably mention to Qiao's mother those things she was chatting with Qiao Qiuyue, "Auntie, why are they in such a hurry to find a partner at such a young age?"
Qiao's mother was surprised that Qiao Jiayue would ask this, she had lived abroad, had a Western-style education, and had a different attitude towards marriage.
She didn't expect her daughter to ask about these things.
She knows that she has to answer it well, which may have a great impact on her daughter's future view of marriage and love.
"To tell you the truth, we don't approve of you getting married too early, and we don't approve of getting married because you're old. ”
"Then Auntie, how did you and Abba get together?" Qiao Jiayue asked curiously.
Qiao's mother laughed, "Actually, we were introduced to each other by my cousin. If you can talk about each other and agree with each other's ideals and concepts, it will come to fruition in the end. ”
"Yue'er, many people choose a marriage partner, and they like to say that they are the right person. However, it is said that it is a feudal remnant, and now many people either look at wealth and appearance, and often ignore deeper things. ”
"Why are there so many stumbles when living together? There are many reasons, and what kind of person and family you choose often determines your life for the rest of your life. ”
Qiao Jiayue thought thoughtfully, "A-Niang is saying that utilitarian mate selection is not okay?"
"Is it okay for many girls to want to become a city man by marrying a city person, or to marry a family with good conditions and ignore other conditions?"
Qiao's mother raised her eyes and looked at Qiao's father in the field below, "There are some things that we can't choose, and we can't choose, but for what we can choose, we often have to seize the opportunity." ”
"It can almost be said that life is made up of countless choices, sometimes one wrong step is lost, and often one wrong choice can never come back. ”
Qiao Jiayue seemed to understand what Qiao's mother meant, and she emphasized the importance of choice to herself.
At the intersection of countless choices, different choices have forged different people's lives.
Qiao Jiayue contacted her past and present lives, and seemed to understand that if she made a wrong choice, she couldn't see the pros and cons behind each choice, or was she blinded?
"Auntie, I have to think about it. ”
Qiao's mother touched Qiao Jiayue's head, "So we have to learn more to avoid many wrong choices." Although it is inevitable that you will fall into a pit along the way, you can still get up and get up without being that tired, right?"
Qiao Jiayue nodded vigorously, what A-Niang said was right.
However, in private, Qiao's mother was full of worry when she told Qiao's father about this, "I'm really a little worried about Yue'er, I hope she can understand what I said." ”
She reflected on herself, and felt that it was a bit reasonable, a bit empty, and at her daughter's age, she might not be able to understand it.
"We're here, we're going to guide her all the time. Father Qiao reassured.
No one is perfect, and so are their children, who have their own strengths and weaknesses, but those shortcomings are not incapable of learning to change.