Love is the greatest loneliness, and this will only be felt after passing by......

For a period of time, I have been trying various trials and treatments in the hope of finding my original self, and Takana said to himself: "I understand now, find your own way, take care of your body, enjoy life, be responsible for yourself, this is what you taught me, and being completely responsible for your own life is true love." I'm not scared anymore, thank you for pulling me to the shore and finding the center of gravity to stand on my feet, no longer ups and downs. I'm living in reality, and my heart has become strong......"

Actually, I didn't change her, I just became myself in front of her, so that she could see where the true source of energy for a woman to live peacefully, strongly, abundantly, and lovingly was. It is definitely not a vain hope that my lover can take care of me, my family will give me strength, readers will give me support, and even the satisfaction that can be obtained from any material thing, but an unconditional trust, accountability and love for life and oneself and the earth, without fear of loneliness, bravely love, believe, and realize dreams...... Living in reality, concrete actions, real, no longer childish fantasies, this is the state of life that everyone should pursue, and it is also the strongest force to live. Like me, a woman with a weak appearance, average qualifications, mediocre encounters, rich emotions, and limited abilities, she can live a peaceful life, be strong, be safe, and share love. I, it's not a miracle, I just respect life, respect my life as a woman, be humble and be a good person, and I don't have time to waste time and go in vain.

I don't want to wait, I just move forward......

Some people wonder how I write about love, but how I love in private. What I wrote is no different from what I did, believe it or not. Love is complex, like the essence of the human being, but it can also be pure. I've always been silently loving like this:

He loves me, and I love him even more......

He is considerate of me, and I am infinitely grateful......

He tolerates me, and I have no pride......

He forgot me, and I understood him......

He ignored me, and I was more independent......

He was cold, but I was still warm.

He hid it, and I didn't keep it.

He was selfish, and I gave him a chance to grow.

He was careless, and I took care of myself more.

He is fragile, I am stronger.

He broke my heart, and I strengthened myself.

He didn't make good on what he said, and I gave him encouragement.

He needs support and I'm ready to give.

He was tired, and I took care of him to sleep peacefully.

He was sad, and I smiled and kissed his sorrow.

He was lost, and I lit the lamp and waited around.

He failed, and I never gave up and was not discouraged.

He is happy, and I am more content than having everything.

He's sick and I'd rather suffer for him.

He returned as a prodigal son, and I hugged him warmly.

He was ruthless, and I was more gentle with myself.

He has gone bad, and I wish him well.

He betrayed me, and I prayed for him.

He denied me, and I affirmed myself more.

He let me down and I said I love you.

He apologized to me and I said thank you.

He's gone, I'm always there.

He disappeared, and I lived myself.

Love is tired, my heart is dead, I have no fate, I say I'm sorry, forgive me, thank you, don't force it, and run away quietly. Shed a little tears, smile on the road, love yourself well, cultivate yourself well, and wish people a long time.

Love may be really bitter, but walking through the rugged mountain road, climbing to the top of the mountain, looking at the pure magnanimity and silence between the wandering heaven and earth, what you get is the joy and peace that transcends pain, and the magnificence and harmony of body, mind, spirit, heaven and earth. Everything, well worth it. Everyone walks their own way, it can be harder, it can be easier, and the scenery of the terminal should be just as good. Is it difficult? Is it incredible? All I can say is that it's not easy, but it's possible, it's possible. To be able to love like this, in consciousness, can be very beautiful, very enjoyable, very happy, and have no regrets. May you also believe, willing, enjoy, and be grateful for the opportunity to love like this in your lifetime.

Love yourself well. Together.

Someone asked me, I often say that the greater love is love in the broad sense, what is the difference between the narrow sense of affection?

"I don't know if my feelings are love," she said. “

Affection and love are inner experiences that can coexist without contradictions.

Love is an energy that starts from feelings and can be transformed into powerful forces.

Affection is the first step of love, but its end is not necessarily love.

Feelings are fragile, mixed with too many desires and addictions, too many love relationships only stay at the level of emotional relationship and end up, and before the opportunity to step into a higher level of love has been closed, which is a pity.

But affection may be the gateway to love (unless you become a monk), so that mortals can step through this threshold to greater love, greater life energy, this step, may be the meaning of your life.

We don't need to go to heaven in one step, we can start from the most basic feelings, feel passion, attachment, love, etc., these are valuable and can be very beautiful emotional states.

Feelings themselves are the greatest pillar of continuation and nourishment of life, and mortals build the road of building bit by bit for many lifetimes. If we can let go of ourselves and simply live in the warmth of love, we can taste the sweetness of our feelings and move towards a greater state of love.

For many people, the most important thing in life may be just having the most ordinary but warm family, the fate of being able to embrace the loved ones, and the compassion for all living beings and the earth.

Love, close but distant, in a lifetime to be fortunate to embrace someone worthy of love, a life worthy of respect, is already the greatest blessing.

However, before we love ourselves well, everything else is just a guise for thought, and the so-called love may be just the result of emotion.

Love is practice.

The ultimate function of love is to respond to the most fundamental existential question: why do people live?

The joy of love does not leave you as long as you are willing to approach it.

The essence of love is growth, and the ultimate is to transcend limitations and move towards infinity.

Love is the practice of the individual, using another person to tune in the energies of both parties.

Love has to see through and repair oneself from love, so that there is no wrong love.

Love is the process of spiritual self-healing, and if you go wrong, you will repeat, and if you go right, you will be free and liberated.

Love is a lifelong path of practice, enjoy when you fall in love, respect each other when you get along, even if you don't have fate to walk together, this love has been a lifetime.

Love is the fruit of cultivation, and it takes time and patience to take care of and let go of the beauty of feelings.

If love does not improve life, it is in vain.

Love is most afraid of regression, not that it can't find the answer.

There is no merit in love, just as life is all about.

Inertial numbness is the death hole of love.

No matter how many times you have loved, the nature of love should not change.

What is the truth of love? It is to look back at yourself in the mirror, recognize yourself, and learn to let go.