He felt like he was being scolded.

Yang Ling didn't have the idea of teaching Da Lang a lesson, and continued: "In the early years, I thought the same way, because everyone, especially men, agreed with this point of view. “

"As a result, I later learned that if I don't care about family affairs at all, something big will happen. ”

"At worst, you will lose your own life, and at worst, the whole family will perish. ”

Da Lang's mouth grew in surprise.

This action was unconscious, because he definitely didn't expect to hear such a powerful news.

"Don't believe it, do you?"

Da Lang nodded, and shook his head again.

He nodded because he didn't believe much in Yang Ling's words.

I was a little embarrassed when I woke up, and quickly shook my head.

"Haha, you're still too young to know that if someone wants to calculate you, the fastest and most ruthless way is to do it in your home, such as poisoning. ”

Yang Ling said with a little amazement.

He just underestimated the affairs of the house, and was almost hung up by someone.

"This can't be!" these four words swirled around Da Lang's mouth several times before swallowing them back.

Yang Ling on the opposite side has a straight face, and it is definitely not nonsense.

"Besides, the women in the back house, when they are interacting with others, if someone asks them to do something, do you say they will do it, or will they not do it?"

"If you don't do it, you're ruining your friendship. ”

To do it is to break the law, but they do not know it. ”

"I just think that with the pressure of a man's title, you can easily get it and get a sum of money, how good. Naturally, I will do it, or I will rush to do it. Some people even took advantage of their husband's connections to rebel directly. ”

"If these things don't happen, if they don't happen, the whole family won't be able to run away. ”

"Do you still think that the affairs of the back house are trivial?"

Da Lang already doesn't know what to say, this is definitely not a trivial matter.

Ziheng also has an understanding.

In fact, he doesn't care much about his family, as long as the family is well fed and drunk.

Now it seems that what is good is not necessarily good.

Yang Ling sighed at this moment, "When I was young, I was full of spirits, and I couldn't wait for me to encounter a big event, and finally solve the problem." Later, I learned that it was better to have fewer major events. ”

glanced at Da Lang, who was stunned.

He hurriedly changed the topic and said: "Da Lang, only by doing the so-called small things well first and accumulating experience can it be possible to solve the problem when the big thing comes." ”

"Brother Ziheng, am I right?"

Ziheng, who was named, sobered up in his thoughts,

"Ah, ah, I have lived for so many years, and I know that people who can't solve small things can't solve big things. ”

Da Lang was a little confused.

Yang Ling said: "Da Lang, the people living in your back house are all your relatives. “

"If they're all having a bad day, how do you feel?"

The father and son of the Lin family were thinking about this problem.

If the family is not doing well, it will naturally not feel good.

Father and son eventually came to this conclusion.

Da Lang shook his head.

Yang Ling looked at them with a look that should have been touched.

But a lot of things still have to be figured out by themselves.

He opened his mouth and said, "Da Lang, what do you think your sister should do about this?"

"Huh?"

Da Lang looked confused.

He really didn't know.

His family's financial situation is good, and he can be regarded as rich.

The father of the family is quite enlightened, not the kind of person who is strict with etiquette.

Naturally, he didn't like those who were strict in governing the family, and he stuffed his sister to the embroidery floor after the first birthday.

After that, only my mother could see it.

Even my father and brother were not allowed to see each other a few times.

Their Lin family can't get to such a point.

The two sisters and brothers grew up together, so the relationship between the two is still good.

But he didn't think about how to save his sister.

He looked at his father with some hesitation.

He really didn't know what to do?

In his heart, he didn't have the idea of sending someone to take his sister home now.

After a woman gets married, there is basically no such thing as reconciliation and divorce.

Life is the husband's family, and death is the ghost of the husband's family.

When Lao Yan flies separately, whether it is with or withdraws.

Even if the responsibility is not the woman, the woman is also disliked by all parties and pointed at by others.

This is also the reason why He Niang has been enduring it.

Seeing Da Lang's embarrassment, Ziheng hurriedly took over the topic.

He asked, "Rushan, what if this happens to your daughter?"

"Of course, I have to support my daughter, but before I act, I must investigate what kind of life my daughter is living. Yang Ling said.

Don't beep until you get the evidence, so as not to startle the snake.

"Well, that's how it should be. Ziheng said.

Yang Ling glanced at Da Lang, this kid was stunned just now.

Until now, he himself is still a little incompetent, and his eyes are a little wandering.

Obviously, it was these conversations that had an impact on his three views.

Some have indigestion.

opened the net and said: "Da Lang, you have also read a lot of books, so let's think of a way to see how to rescue your sister?"

Da Lang stood up a little confused.

It was the first time he had encountered this kind of problem, and he couldn't get started for a while.

What should I do?

He was a little distracted, and drifted back to his room.

"I feel like you've changed a bit. Ziheng said.

He's one of those people who doesn't like to be presumptuous and prefers to delve into books.

But among the thousands of candidates, the people who can finally pass the Jinshi exam are definitely people who can read.

The IQ is not too low.

Those who are low have long been eliminated.

And after being an official for so many years, he still has some eyesight.

"Yes, I've changed, I can't stay the same, if I don't change, I should have been dead for several years!"

"Why do you say that, don't you ......?"

"When I was in Jiangnan, I was poisoned by chronic poison and didn't live long, but I only survived after I changed. ”

"I see. Ziheng said.

The two of them are fellow scholars.

After meeting for a chance reason, I felt like-minded and became friends.

Of course, Yang Ling is sleeker than him.

The official is getting bigger and bigger.

But he has been squatting tepidly in the Hanlin Courtyard.

It's also self-satisfied.

Later, after Yang Ling returned to Beijing, he had a knighthood.

He's a more dead-eyed person, so he doesn't feel very easy to contact.

After all, the gap between the two is getting bigger and bigger.

He thought about simply slowly distancing himself until he broke off.

Unexpectedly, Yang Ling still remembered the love of his brothers, and when he arrived at the place, he thought of sending him souvenirs.

Gradually, the connection began again.

found that Yang Ling had not changed much, so the friendship continued.

Ziheng knew that after Yang Ling was poisoned, he didn't ask any further, and if he wanted to be a high-ranking official, he naturally had to pay the price.

There are gains and losses.

If Yang Ling wanted to tell him who did it, he would naturally say it.

Yang Ling didn't say it, it must be the reason.

Then you don't have to know.

And Yang Ling naturally didn't say anything about poisoning, but said: "Since then, I have found out that I underestimated the back house, if someone starts from the back house, wouldn't they die and don't know how to die?"

Ziheng nodded.

Yang Ling's family is rich, and there are many slaves at the bottom.

When there are many people, there are many thoughts.

Although there are many times, there are faithful servants.

But there are also slaves who count their masters, and there are servants who have two masters.

It is not difficult for people in this world to grasp others.

Ziheng understands very well.

"yes! It's not too late for you to find out. He said.

Yang Ling nodded and said, "After knowing about the matter with my mother, I was very worried that my daughter would also encounter this kind of thing, so I came to you on purpose, just to ask what you think." ”

"What do I think?" Ziheng looked up at his friend.

"Yes, it should be your family's thoughts. ”

"Do you want to watch your daughter who you have raised with great difficulty endure hardships, or do you want to change your daughter's way of living?" Speaking of this, Yang Ling looked at Ziheng.

Ziheng didn't speak for a while.

This decision is not just a matter of being with the mother, but also a matter of the whole family.

What should he do?

Yang Ling didn't speak, just waited for Ziheng to make a decision.

The other party fell into deep thought.

He Niang was his first child.

Little by little, the baby grows up, can talk, can walk, and will bring him delicious food.

In the end, when he grew up, he had to give his daughter to marry.

In his heart, his daughter also has weight.

After thinking about it, he made a decision, of course, he would not watch his daughter suffer.

But what does it mean to live differently?

Could it be?

A thought crossed his mind.

He was a little surprised and said, "Do you mean?"

"I mean, if you know what you're really living with, let's see what to do? But you have to be prepared for the worst. Yang Ling said.

"So what to do?"

"Do you have a marriage with your mother, can you be trusted?" Yang Ling asked.

"Worth ......" After saying the two words, Ziheng closed his mouth.

Because about the marriage with his mother, he really doesn't know what kind of person he is.

At this moment, he suddenly found that he had despised the affairs of the back house, and the retribution had arrived, and now he couldn't figure out the truth at all.

"It seems that you don't know that you have a big heart. Yang Ling shook his head, "Forget it, let me find someone to check this matter for you." ”

Ziheng rubbed his hands a little embarrassed.

Seeing Ziheng like this, Yang Ling couldn't help but shake his head.

But he didn't say much, most of the men nowadays don't care much about the back house.

"What would you do if you had a bad time with your mother?"

"If you're just going to scold your son-in-law, then I'd suggest you don't check it out. ”

"Why is that?"

"Why? Because after you scolded, is it useful? I'm afraid that He's mother will be calculated by my mother-in-law because of this. Yang Ling said.

"If you marry your daughter, you are tantamount to giving someone a proton. ”

"Poof!" Ziheng was drinking water when he heard it squirting from here.

was glanced at by Yang Ling.

Ziheng coughed repeatedly, and he was choked.

But even so, he was somewhat saddened to find that it was.

If he suppresses his son-in-law with the advantage of his father-in-law.

So as a mother-in-law, she can naturally train her daughter-in-law.

It's just that the daughter-in-law has been living under her mother-in-law.

How often does a son-in-law have to see each other?

It's easy to figure out.

"During this time, you keep your family in check, don't say anything, don't do anything, think about what you want?"

"Good!" Ziheng said.

After thinking about it, he said to Yang Ling: "If the situation is not good, I will let He Niang come back and find another good one." ”

"Yes, with your words, someone must be willing to help. Yang Ling said.

After he went home, he talked to Yu Ying.

She thinks that Yang Ling's friends are not bad, and some families would rather their daughters die in their in-laws' house than let their daughters go home.

Flesh and blood affection is not comparable to one's own face.

If Heniang is a girl from this kind of family, it's really miserable.

Fortunately, her father is not a ruthless person.

Then Yu Ying asked Dandan to explore Heniang's husband's house.

soon found N witnesses, who can prove what kind of life they lived after marrying their mother.

After Yu Ying saw it, she was amazed.

Is this marrying someone in the past to be someone's wife?

Or marry and become the family's banker and maid?

There is always that kind of best in this world, constantly refreshing people's perception of the best.

She asked Yang Ling to tell Lin Ziheng the results of her investigation.

After knowing what kind of life his daughter was living, he almost ran to his son-in-law's house that day to make a big fuss.

He definitely didn't expect it to be like that yet.

It was even more disgusting than he imagined, and he actually treated his daughter like this.

It was Yang Ling who stopped him and said that in this matter, it was best for him not to act directly.

There are a lot of women in that house, if they plan to touch porcelain.

The person who suffers is definitely him who is a father.

Then things with my mother will not be easy.

It's better for someone else to shoot.

Especially it is better for women to go out of the horse.

But Ziheng's wife can't.

She was afraid that she hoped that her daughter would endure it.

It is best for the daughter to give birth to a son as soon as possible, and everything will be fine.

With a son, it is worth it to stay alive and widowed.

When Yang Ling heard Yu Ying talk about this possibility, he didn't believe it very much, the Wang family was Heniang's mother-in-law.

How can it be?

How could it not be?" Yu Ying asked rhetorically.

Then, she gave an example: "Someone in the capital is a broken sleeve, isn't he also marrying a wife and having children?"

"After the man gave birth to a son, he lived with the Qi brothers, and raised a lot of **, isn't the wife a widow?"

"Isn't that man's wife also the marriage given by her own mother? It's not that her mother doesn't know the virtues of her son-in-law, but after her daughter marries, she reaps a lot of benefits, so she sells her daughter. ”

"You know that. Yang Ling said.

"Well, yes, I always have to be careful. ”

When Yang Ling was discussing H and his mother with Ziheng, he said Yu Ying's opinion.

After Ziheng listened, he nodded.

During this time, he once asked his wife what she thought.

In her mind, if her daughter had the ability, she would definitely hold the man.

So what if the daughter can't hold her husband?

The wife's answer was: It must be that the daughter is not doing well, let the daughter grow a little bit and be a virtuous and virtuous woman.

After knowing this answer, Ziheng looked at his wife and did not speak for a long time.

And his wife didn't know what was going on.

She was hidden.

Ziheng didn't know what to say.

Over the years, after her daughter got married, I saw her less often.

Because he is a father, there is a distinction between men and women.

There aren't many opportunities to meet.

Sometimes meeting is just a face-to-face.

Have daughters and wives ever begged for help over the years?

A thought popped up in Ziheng's heart.

He asked: "Over the years, has he been doing well with his mother?"

"Fortunately, the two of them always need a run-in period, as long as they have children, they will get better. The wife frowned slightly, but said quickly.

Ziheng was a little helpless, as a mother, she actually said that her daughter was not good enough.

Is it bad to do with your mother?

I think that back then, Mr. Dongguo saved the wolf, but the wolf was still not satisfied, and it was not good enough to save it first, so he wanted to eat Mr. Dongguo.

So, is my daughter really not doing well enough?

Heh!

In two days, he wants to see how the marriage of the Zhang family will go on.

Also, this time his daughter came back, he planned to listen to Yang Ling's words and not let his daughter go back to his home.

Instead, find another place for her daughter to recover.

has such a mother, I'm afraid that my daughter won't feel good.

The husband and wife sat opposite each other, but the two hearts became very distant.

Wang has not yet discovered this.