Chapter 94: The Spring Breeze is Not as Good as You, What About the Future?
In less than half an hour, Xing Yuanyuan moved all her things, and when she was about to go out, she slammed the door shut.
Yu Cailan shook her head, stood up and went to get the bamboo basket. She took the lid off and placed it on the table, looking inside.
At this time, Yao Yanan said angrily: "I don't understand, she has done so many things, why is she still so arrogant, and she doesn't owe anything at all?
Zhang Xiaofen also said: "Yes, I actually can't figure it out, why doesn't she apologize at all?"
Yu Cailan has experienced a lot more than the two of them, and said: "Some people, like this, they are very selfish, they think about problems from their own point of view, and they will not put themselves in other people's shoes to think about problems. He doesn't take so many things about other people to heart, and he doesn't think about how other people feel. That's it, when you meet this kind of person, it's good to stay away. ”
Yao Yanan and Zhang Xiaofen listened, although they still didn't understand why some people think like this, but it is true that they have all met such selfish people, and they don't care about other people's feelings, so they can only say that there are thousands of people.
At this time, Yao Yanan turned around and saw the contents of the bamboo basket, "Wow, so much delicious!" Her words also attracted Zhang Xiaofen.
Zhang Xiaofen was originally a very introverted personality, but in the past two months, under the influence of Cai Lan and Yao Yanan, she has also become a little more lively.
At this time, Yao Yanan asked Zhang Xiaofen: "Zhang Xiaofen, I'm so jealous, what should I do, I'm really angry." Such a good person, Yu Cailan, how did you meet it, oops, I'm so jealous. Zhang Xiaofen, you say, are you angry?"
"I'm also jealous, I'm also angry, what do you say?" Zhang Xiaofen was indeed a little jealous, and she felt sour in her heart.
Yu Cailan knew that the two of them were indeed a little jealous and angry, but it was just a little bit, which was normal.
"No, Cai Lan, you have to give me and Xiaofen some of the things in this basket, otherwise our anger can't be dissipated, right, Zhang Xiaofen?"
Yao Yanan became a bandit without blushing, and Zhang Xiaofen also cooperated, and became her accomplice, claiming that they must be shared.
Yu Cailan looked at these two living treasures and knew that they were just playing, and just now they gave her a lot of things they brought from home.
"Points, you must score, two mountain kings, remember to leave some leftovers for the little ones?" Yu Cailan cooperated with the two of them to act.
"That's right. Yao Yanan patted Yu Cailan's shoulder, and the three of them made such a fuss, and the sourness in Yao Yanan and Zhang Xiaofen's hearts just now dissipated.
After the two of them sat down quietly, Yu Cailan told a piece of news that they couldn't believe: "In fact, He Chen and I were in a relationship for a long time, and we broke up the next day." That's all."
Anyway, in the disbelief of the two of them, they briefly told the story.
"How can this be?" Yao Yanan and the two of them looked surprised when they heard this, and they also felt that it was a pity, He Chenfeng was really good, and seeing that he cared a lot about picking blue, it seemed that he didn't want to share it at all.
"Cai Lan, let me say something, if you think it's wrong, don't be upset, although I'm jealous that your He Chenfeng is so good, I can't even reach Cai Zheng, but I still hope you can get along with He Chenfeng. He Chenfeng is really good, he is also sincere to you, so you don't think about it?"
Yu Cailan shook her head lightly and said, "There are too many obstacles between me and him. If it continues to get better, I don't know if He Chenfeng will be able to maintain this original intention after I have put in a lot of effort and time to overcome these obstacles, after all, people will change. A lot of feelings will fade over time. ”
"When my feelings are strong, he can stand behind me, but what if one day his feelings fade?
"To put it bluntly, I can't afford to gamble. It can also be said that my feelings for him are not to the point where I want to gamble. I'm pretty selfish, right?"
Yu Cailan really didn't want to pay too much and end up with nothing. Only a piece of chicken feathers remained. Therefore, she would rather choose a smoother emotional path.
The love between her and He Chenfeng is not deep enough to make her desperate.
Many lovers in this world, when they first met, thought that the spring breeze was not as good as you, but when the snow fell and the shadow was lonely, they mustered up the courage to go alone, only to find that the spring breeze at that time, the summer moon, the autumn frost, and the winter snow were all better than you.
As some people joked: I thought you could shield me from the wind and rain, but I didn't expect all the wind and rain to come from you.
The reason why she rejected He Chenfeng was that she couldn't be sure if he would be able to maintain that original intention after time went by. Can you still feel that the ten-mile spring breeze is not as good as you?
After Yao Yanan and Zhang Xiaofen listened to what she said, they sat for a while and didn't say anything more, Yao Yanan came over and hugged her to express comfort, and Zhang Xiaofen handed over a piece of candy in due time.
They didn't think as deeply as Yu Cailan did, and they were actually a little ignorant about emotional issues, after all, there were differences in the times, and neither of them had ever been in a serious relationship.
Yao Yanan no longer dwelled on this topic and asked Yu Cailan: "Then do you hate He Chenfeng's grandmother?"
Yu Cailan just smiled, didn't say hate, didn't say no hate: "Everyone stands on different positions, she feels that what she is doing is good for He Chenfeng, so she did it." Me and He Chenfeng, she naturally chose the path that was beneficial to He Chenfeng. Although this is good or bad, it is only her own opinion. ”
After saying this, Yu Cailan added: "Actually, to be fair, Grandma He is not a bad person, she doesn't want to hurt me, but she feels that my existence will affect her grandson's future, so she chose to persuade me to quit." If she had been a vicious person, she wouldn't have gotten this depression. ”
Yu Cailan's words aroused Zhang Xiaofen's interest: "Why can't vicious people get depression?"
Yao Yanan didn't understand either: "Yes, why?"
Yu Cailan looked at these two friends who had turned into curious babies, took their hands, sat down, and said: "If a person has a bad heart, he doesn't care about whether others are good or not, how can he be easily depressed? On the contrary, some kind-hearted people are more fragile and less able to withstand stress and emotional blows. Relatively more likely to suffer from depression. ”
Is there such a reason? Yao Yanan and Zhang Xiaofen looked surprised. But in retrospect, it really is. Just like Xing Yuanyuan, after doing so many things, she didn't owe it at all, but still wanted to throw her face at them, as if they were sorry for her. I'm afraid it's rare for people like her to have any kind of depression.
It seems that Grandma He just wants to protect her grandson.
Yao Yanan didn't want to continue this topic, she was afraid that she would talk too much, Yu Cailan felt sad in her heart, and she had to force a smile, which would be bad. So I turned to talking about going home and diverted the topic.