Chapter 26 Double Standards
The lack of knowledge about husband and wife life made He Niang think that he was already a member of the Wang family, which was the reason why He Niang endured it.
Her mother said that for her to be a chastity woman, sometimes she needs to endure.
It's just the word 'forbearance', which is easier said than done.
That's a knife in the heart.
Too painful.
Maybe her body is still young.
But that heart became vicissitudes.
She didn't know what she was doing wrong?
Treated like this by her husband's family.
Mother-in-law, husband, sister-in-law, cousin and concubine are a family.
She was the one who was left out.
The former girlfriends are also married separately.
They all have their own next generation, or they are husband and wife.
Only she has become an old mother.
I don't have time to connect with my former girlfriends.
Even my mother's house, that is, I go back once or twice a year.
All the pain can only be swallowed by yourself as invisible tears.
Crying, there is no place to cry.
Because many times when she sleeps, she makes a bunk in front of her mother-in-law's bed.
The only consolation is that there are peach leaves with her.
But Peach Leaf is not young, and she always has to get married.
If you stay with her all the time.
Momoba is alone, what will happen in the future?
This matter weighed on Heniang's heart.
Until today, her father came to pick her up and was finally relieved.
When she left the Zhang family's courtyard, her whole person seemed to have broken free from the shackles.
Relaxed.
Yu Ying, who stayed behind, said coldly: "Your Zhang family, sort out the dowry of Heniang, and when you finish and leave, the Lin family will take it, and those that have been used by others will naturally be offset with silver." β
Zhuang's eyes widened suddenly.
Looking at Yu Ying is like looking at an enemy.
Seeing the Zhuang family like this, Yu Ying didn't care.
Then he said: "Of course, if your Zhang family doesn't plan to have the last face, and wants to occupy Heniang's dowry, hehe!"
After sneering, she said, "When the time comes, let's go to the yamen and see if this kind of behavior of spoiling concubines and killing wives is right?"
"I want to see, can Zhang Changsheng be an official again?"
Yu Ying finished speaking and left.
These few words made Zhuang, who was about to slap his thigh and howl, suddenly stuck.
What does that mean?
Why can't you leave the dowry of your ex-daughter-in-law?
After marrying into the Zhang family, the daughter-in-law's things are the Zhang family's things.
Just leave the dowry.
The daughter-in-law will change it again, absolutely fine.
It's a pity that Yu Ying didn't come to discuss at all, but notified directly.
She wanted to pounce and ask what was going on.
Yu Ying has already taken people away.
And the other people who came to join in the fun watched a big show.
Many people are amazed in their hearts, feeling that this Zhang family is very strange.
Is this a married family?
Or do you want to make enemies in the future?
And this kind of means to treat the daughter-in-law?
Some people are glad that their daughter did not marry into the Zhang family.
At the beginning, the people in the alley were optimistic about the Zhang family.
A person is handsome, has true knowledge in his belly, and is still an official, and has an unlimited future.
It's a good son-in-law candidate for twenty-four karat gold.
At that time, there were a lot of people who wanted to marry the Zhang family.
But the Zhang family quickly settled on a family.
Let many people in the alley sigh.
I feel like I'm not blessed.
The new daughter-in-law marries, and her own daughter marries someone else.
Now it seems that they are also blessed to have escaped this catastrophe.
After looking at each other, a few good people looked at each other and followed Yu Ying away.
Because they all know that the Zhang family is only afraid that something is wrong.
Sooner or later, it's better to leave now.
After going out, they began to talk in groups.
Ah!
The family is so shameless.
......
The gossip in the alley these days is absolutely inseparable from the Zhang family.
The prospective mother-in-law, who was originally on a blind date, also put away the golden hairpin that was about to be inserted and walked away.
This family can't do it, so treat the wife that Ming Media is marrying.
It's too much.
Her little lady can't have it either.
I'm afraid that my heart is crooked.
Originally, she was dressed very well.
Now I know that the golden hairpin with my sister-in-law is also wearing my sister-in-law's dowry.
Looking at the daughter-in-law's dress, it is very simple.
She also thought she was a servant of the Zhang family.
As someone else's sister-in-law, she used so many things from others without admitting her feelings, and she didn't persuade her own mother-in-law.
Tut-tut, too much.
If you get married, won't you take all the good things in your own house?
This is their small family, if they marry such a crooked person back.
Then it's no wonder that the family relationship is good.
I'm afraid that the whole family is unlucky.
There are also women who come to the door and want to leave, but they are afraid that the Zhang family will hurt their muscles and bones.
Then she should not have any dowry.
It's better not to.
Therefore, these people also followed.
At this moment, the Zhang family is also at a loss, and they have no intention of caring about the guests at all.
Even my cousin's concubine had already found out that something was wrong.
But she didn't dare to go out.
Because in the final analysis, she is also a part of the oppression and the mother and servant.
This time I made trouble with my mother, but I am afraid that even she will have to eat a lot.
She thought about it for a moment, but it was better not to take the lead.
Hurry up and stay with your son.
Wait for Zhuang to wake up from his chaotic thoughts.
only to find that the small courtyard was in chaos.
What melon seeds, peels, etc. are everywhere.
And his daughter fainted, lying on a table.
Zhang Changsheng was still immersed in his own thoughts, pressing his temples with his hands.
"Lin's, you ......" Zhuang was used to calling He Niang, and when he was halfway through the scolding, he remembered that He Niang's master and servant had left.
Her voice stopped abruptly.
Zhuang's eyes with a bit of fierceness suddenly lost their light.
Wrong.
The Lin family is determined to leave.
Then, hurry up and let your son get the Lin family's dowry down.
Thinking of this, he hurriedly rushed over, shook his son and said, "Changsheng, Changsheng, are you okay?"
"Hmm!" Zhang Changsheng only felt a pain in his temples.
He didn't expect that his father-in-law, who had always been very polite to him, turned his face.
He also knew that over the years, it was all thanks to his father-in-law's guidance that he had been able to secure this official position.
Even after a while, maybe he will rise to the top of the ranks.
Once he tears his face, who else will help him?
I'm afraid that there will be no good things in the future.
Before that, he thought that his father-in-law would be angry.
Anyway, Lin is also his daughter.
But I didn't expect to turn my face.
He has always made Lin his wife all these years.
In the future, she will also be his wife, and her cousin will not shake her status as a mother.
Speaking of which, aren't all men having some flirtatious affairs?
And he was also forced to be helpless.
Thinking of my father-in-law's eyes just now, I looked like I was going to eat him.
He wanted to cry.
What to do?
After being grabbed by his mother's clothes, he raised his head a little weakly and looked at his mother.
He has always been a good talker.
Listen to his mother.
It's just that people with such a temperament are often the kind of people who don't have any opinions.
At this time, he naturally couldn't say anything, and he looked at Zhuang with wide eyes.
After a long time, he said, "Mother, I don't know what to do?"
Zhuang was a little discouraged and said, "You kid, why didn't you take care of Lin just now? If she doesn't want to go, we'll be fine." β
"But ......" Zhang Changsheng said with some heart: his daughter-in-law has no idea of going on with him.
But after glancing at Zhuang's, he didn't say anything more.
Because Zhuang won't listen.
Over the years, he summed up his mother's habits.
Anything she doesn't want to hear, means she won't listen a hundred times.
Zhuang has always listened only to the part she is willing to listen to.
Over the years, he also knew that his family was not doing authentically.
But every time he brought it up, Zhuang and his sister would mess around, insisting that his cousin was his fiancΓ©e.
Now I can't be the main room, it's already a grievance.
Well, there's nothing big about letting her have a baby first.
Zhang Changsheng finally backed down.
He made up his mind and waited for the future to be nice to the Lin family.
Anyway, his mother always leaves early.
It's just that the Lin family doesn't have children for the rest of his life, and it's all right.
didn't expect that the Lin family was furious when they knew what was going on.
Looking at this meaning, it is determined to reconcile and separate.
"There's nothing but, Changsheng, you go and get the Lin family back! If she marries into the Zhang family, she will be born into the Zhang family, and she will die as a ghost of the Zhang family. Zhuang said.
"It's late! The Lin family plans to leave, and it's too late to say anything. Zhang Changsheng said.
Although he has a soft temperament, he is not a fool, and this time the Lin family has made up their minds to settle accounts.
"Mother, you still sort out Heniang's dowry and prepare to return it to Heniang. β
"Dowry?"
Zhuang's face was not good-looking.
In her eyes, her daughter-in-law's dowry is hers.
And it was only after having the daughter-in-law's dowry that the Zhang family's life became better.
Also, what about your own daughter's dowry?
It turned out that a lot of them were going to use Lin's.
Take it now, so what about your own daughter?
"People can go, but the dowry must stay. Zhuang thought about it.
"So my sister marries someone else's family, and her dowry is also someone else's?" Zhang Changsheng said with some unhappiness.
He heard his mother say to his sister: This dowry is her daughter's private money, and she must firmly grasp it when she marries.
How did it come to the daughter-in-law's side, and after getting married, it was the in-law's family?
This is a proper double standard.
He couldn't get that out of his mouth before.
Because that's his mother, it's the person he must honor.
How can he, as a son, have any objection to his mother, who worked hard to bring him up after being widowed?
Even if his mother has done something wrong over the years, for the sake of filial piety and years of hard work, he must endure it.
It's just that everything today makes him feel that he is too accommodating to his family?
Let them go up one by one without knowing their own weight.
It's not okay.
Especially if you offend your father-in-law.
The future is not good.
He was able to be admitted to the Jinshi and stayed in the capital for a while, knowing that his father-in-law's family was indeed not a big family.
But the father-in-law knew more people.
He fought with his father-in-law, and it was himself who was unlucky.
"You, this kid!"
When Zhuang saw this, he knew that something was wrong, and the corners of his mouth trembled with anger.
In her heart, her son has always been obedient to her words, why is he starting to talk back now?
It's all Lin's.
None of the family is a good person.
But she wanted to say something, so she saw her son wave his sleeves and said, "What else is there to say, if the Lin family's dowry is not returned, I'm afraid that I won't be able to become an official." β
Now he understands his own position very well, and it seems that he has become an official.
But there is no shortage of officials in the capital.
Especially he, a petty official with no roots.
Originally, it was the father-in-law who mentioned one or two, but there was no one to help in the future.
Zhuang's bent on wanting his son to be an official, but he was panicking, if his son couldn't become an official, how could she become Mrs. Fate?
"Do you have to give it back?" she asked.
"Must be returned. β
Zhuang really didn't want to pay it back.
Repeating the old saying, "Then why didn't you stop the Lin family just now?"
"How can she be stopped? She can't be stopped, she can marry someone else. β
The status of women in this dynasty was not high.
But there was no such thing as not allowing a widow to marry.
After the civil widow has completed her husband's filial piety, if she wants to remarry, the government is very supportive.
Years of conquest have greatly reduced the population, and it is normal to remarry.
Even though it has been recuperating for a while, the population is still not very large.
Most of the people in the government advocate remarriage.
Of course, the so-called serious people are more harsh.
People with strict etiquette have begun to advocate chastity.
But in small quantities.
β.......β
Zhuang also knew that she had no intention of remarrying.
The person she married was a lifter.
Naturally, ordinary people can't get into her eyes, so they don't remarry.
Only then did I think that a man might not be able to marry a daughter-in-law.
But women can definitely get married.
As long as she wants to marry.
She had some heartache.
Originally, Zhang's family was also considered to have small assets, so they could afford to support their son's study in the imperial examination.
But it's still very tight.
Zhuang's hands are tighter.
After scooping up her daughter-in-law's dowry, she didn't spend it much.
At most, I will get my daughter-in-law's things out and post them on my daughter.
With such a fuss today, the Zhuang family understands that he is afraid that the dowry left behind will be paid out, and the family will have to post a lot.
After all, the Lin family used a lot of dowry, especially clothing.
When she thought of this, her heart and liver ached.
It's all silver.
There is also her daughter's marriage, but she chose this good son-in-law after thousands of choices.
But today's set happened to be seen by the family of the prospective mother-in-law.
Zhuang knew that this time it was over.
Other people's families are afraid that they can't look down on their daughters.
The Lin family is also too hateful.
How can you do that!
Did they do it on purpose?
Really.
Yu Ying chose today's day.
In order to prevent another family from falling into the pit of the Zhang family.
Glancing at his daughter lying on the table, Zhuang sighed.
When she walked over, she plucked the peony golden hairpin off her head, which was someone else's thing.
She moved.
I saw tears in the little lady's eyes.
"Yuqiong, the Lin family's things have to be returned, you have been wronged. Zhuang naturally knew that his daughter was not faint.
It's just that I was too ashamed just now to pretend to be unconscious.
Zhang Yuqiong burst into tears.
It's a lively start.
But in the end, it was a miserable and tragic end.
Besides, when the Lin family returned to her home, her mother Wang was surprised.
She never imagined that her daughter would come back.
Listening to the husband's meaning, he wants to reconcile with his son-in-law.
How can this be?
If you are married, how can you get married?
The important thing for a woman is to keep her duty.
But her husband's face was ugly, which made her a little unsure of what to say.
She was a little upset.
She felt sorry for her daughter, but she never thought about the problem of her daughter's separation.
Heli is a bit too much for her.
Teach your son-in-law a good lesson.
What does Heli do?
Glancing at his wife, who was a little angry, Lin Ziheng asked his daughter to go back to her room to rest first.
for he had something to say to his wife.
He Niang was a little scared.
She was afraid that her parents would quarrel because of her relationship, and she wanted to say something.
But Lin Ziheng was still angry at the moment.
His face was pale.
He really didn't expect that the Zhang family would be so unobtrusive and abuse his daughter so badly.
Today, he saw with his own eyes that the so-called sister-in-law wore and used his daughter's dowry.
On the contrary, his daughter can only insert a thin silver hairpin.
They are also wearing the most ordinary clothes.
It's the same as when she was at home.
The more I thought about it, the more angry I became.
I knew that I should have taken the opportunity to attack my ex-son-in-law and beat up my ex-son-in-law.
The more I thought about it, the more angry I became, and I haven't had a seizure yet.