Chapter 524: Traction
"The wine was really good. ”
Shake the wine glass, and Dr. Zhang is very elegant. At this moment, when I have finished eating and cleaned up, I am sitting on the sofa. Han Wei watched Dr. Zhang shake his wine glass, and looked at Li Ruobai with a smile.
Li Ruobai understood, and pinched him. Han Wei smiled and held her hand, but was pulled by her but did not tear it away.
Dr. Zhang saw it and smiled tacitly.
Han Wei looked at Dr. Zhang indifferently: "Actually, she also wants to thank you." Before, you introduced the old doctor to give me a comprehensive physical examination, although we didn't meet, we should know each other. ”
The implication is that at this moment, the two can be regarded as admitting their relationship in front of him. The purpose is not to admit it casually, but to show each other that there will definitely be something to find Dr. Zhang in the future. He said earlier that he is a psychiatrist. It's actually a platform. He was not famous at the beginning of last year, so he casually said it when he went to see a doctor.
Those who come to abortion, those who come to treat male diseases, and there are celebrities.
In the circle, there must be some reliable life platform. Celebrities are also people. Where there is a need, there is a provision.
It's not that Li Ruobai and Han Yan will also do this examination and treatment requirements in the future, but that they have a headache and brain fever, and other things like that, there is no need to go to a big hospital to queue up for exposure. Just look for him, it's good for the two of them and even the people around them.
"Not unexpected. ”
Dr. Zhang spoke: "National CP, it means that many people want you to be together. Whether it is a fan passer-by or an audience of film and television dramas and variety shows. The two of you must have not run away from the hot search, but it will not be unacceptable. ”
Han Wei nodded: "I can't let you sign the confidentiality agreement, but I hope you don't say it yet." We won't keep it a secret for long. ”
Dr. Zhang disagreed: "I just didn't expect you to be a couple in private. ”
Li Ruobai smiled: "Why didn't you expect it?
Dr. Zhang waved his hand: "That's not what I mean. It's that I have a lot of contact with artists and stars, and the more hype is in the outside world, it may not have anything to do with it in private, or even the relationship is not very good. But the more the outside world looks at the eight poles that can't be beaten, but it is an intimate relationship in private. ”
Li Ruobai was stunned for a moment, nodded and said, "This is also true." ”
looked at Dr. Zhang: "Do celebrities have mental illness?"
Dr. Zhang nodded: "Not a lot." Many of them are still very popular, and the confidentiality agreement is there, so I can't tell you who it is. ”
Li Ruobai frowned: "There are still a lot?"
Dr. Zhang was helpless: "After all, there are few people who become popular overnight, and everything has its own problems that need to be decompressed." became popular overnight, and the contrast between life now and before is too great. If you can't adapt to it for a while, it will affect the physical disharmony from the mental. To come to the doctor for relief, the psychiatrist not only chats and hypnosis, but also prescribes some drugs appropriately. Assisted learning in many courses in the way, fantasy, relaxation, and the like. ”
took a sip of wine and motioned to Li Ruobai: "You have a lot of example, red to red, but there are many blackened ones, and the pressure is too great." Few people in China have paid attention to this aspect, and it has been much better in recent years. I won't hold back by myself, after all, everyone is not a natural doctor, and they can comfort themselves. is also a bit shy about illness and avoidance of doctors, afraid that people will know that they have mental illness. It's like I'm ashamed. ”
Glancing at Han Wei, who was listening calmly, Dr. Zhang said to Li Ruobai: "More are not popular, I want to be popular, I want to be crazy, but I am not popular." There are also some who accept the unspoken rules for the sake of popularity, but they can't get over it in their hearts, and gradually accumulate into psychological shadows. Too much, too much. ”
After a pause, Dr. Zhang looked at Li Ruobai: "You are also in the circle, you haven't seen it and heard a lot, right?"
Li Ruobai nodded, and then asked: "That doctor, you only see artists now, not ordinary people?"
Dr. Zhang shook his head: "Look at it too." Always ensure that you have a stable income, and then you can reduce your appointments appropriately. I watched it at the beginning, and now I am a little famous in the circle, so most of the artists who watch it, ordinary people are bosses and white-collar workers. ”
smiled and signaled to Li Ruobai: "After all, the artist still pays a lot of medical fees." ”
Li Ruobai also smiled, and Han Wei spoke: "By the way, how much did I give before? I didn't have much money at that time, Sister Chen gave me, right?"
Dr. Zhang waved his hand: "It's not much." Because I'm just diagnosing you and making sure you're not sick. There is no treatment process, so you don't need to charge much. ”
Li Ruobai asked: "Doctor Zhang, you haven't finished talking before, how can you let people not put too much pressure on themselves." ”
Dr. Zhang took a sip of wine and put down his glass: "For example, there is a case." It was also last year, not long ago. He was the owner of a large company, but the turnover was not working well during that time, and the company was on the verge of bankruptcy. Especially as soon as he heard the rumors, he began to collect foreign debts, and he was mentally depressed and nervous, and even broke down and committed suicide. I know his wife, crying and asking me for help. said that if he couldn't hold on, their family would be finished in the future. ”
Li Ruobai listened carefully, and Dr. Zhang spoke: "The definition of mental illness is very vague, is this kind of telling the truth considered mental illness? Because everybody has experienced such a thing, and everybody has to get through it. But if you can't survive it, you will have a nervous breakdown, and then we will be in charge. For example, as Xiao Li and I just said, prevention is very important. ”
Han Wei spoke: "How do you persuade him?"
Dr. Zhang smiled: "It's a bit suspicious that I don't have back pain when I stand and talk, but I'm sure I'm talking wide." After all, when considering the condition, you also need to consider the triggers. Once you find it, you can solve it. I said, you try to think of the worst, think of the worst and then the best. First of all, what's the worst outcome? And then what? Debt collection lawsuits, debt collection lawsuits, enforcement, your house, your car, your bank account will be frozen, confiscated, auctioned, and repaid, and then some debt collection agencies will pour paint on your house. How bad can it be?"
Han Wei suddenly said: "Then think about the best?"
Dr. Zhang spoke, "Yes." And then the best thing to think about is that your company is just not working, maybe after you go back, you grit your teeth and get through, and it will be bright. Not only will the crisis be safely surpassed, but there will even be a turnaround. Take this opportunity to show people that your company is strong. ”
Li Ruobai was curious: "What about the end?"
Dr. Zhang spread his hands: "He was lucky, he really survived, and he became bigger." ”
Li Ruobai smiled: "It feels like it's joking." ”
Dr. Zhang sighed, "That's because you only saw him get through." It's more about going through something like that, and if you don't get through it, you're really crazy. used to be a person with status, but now he is in a mental hospital, and his relatives and friends ignore him. The wife and children are also gone. I still remember when I was the boss at the time. I talk to myself against the wall, chattering and ignoring people, and my mouth doesn't stop. ”
Li Ruobai subconsciously approached Han Wei's side, his big eyes blinked, and he was a little scared.
Doctor Zhang frowned: "I won't talk about the case, it scares Xiao Li." But it's the most frustrating thing that no one pays attention to. It is better to say that he died, and he himself suffered many sins and died. It's not that I don't value life, I mean that such an experience is more painful than death. Because you are alive, and yet you have become like this. ”
Li Ruobai said: "Doctor Zhang, are you sure, I really am not a precursor to schizophrenia." ”
Dr. Zhang smiled: "You are definitely not, don't worry. ”
Looking at Han Wei, Dr. Zhang spoke: "But when Han Wei came to see a doctor, I received him very seriously. ”
Han Wei was surprised: "Do you think I have schizophrenia?"
Dr. Zhang shook his head: "At that time, the examination felt that you were normal. But you know, the cases of artists that I just dictated, your experience is very similar to theirs. ”
"Forehead ......"
Han Wei knew that he was talking about his experience after entering the industry.
Li Ruobai looked at Han Wei and said to Dr. Zhang: "You can't say that I'm okay because I'm under pressure and haven't experienced as much suffering as him, right? ”
Dr. Zhang spoke: "I don't know what you have experienced in private. But you see, there are a few people your age who can be popular like this. ”
Li Ruobai smiled: "It's too much." The red flowers are all popular at my age, even younger than me. ”
Dr. Zhang shook his head: "I can't see you as a real insider." What era were they when they were popular?"
Han Wei motioned to Li Ruobai: "Doctor Zhang is right, you are very smooth." ”
Li Ruobai was surprised: "You say the same thing?"
Han Wei was helpless: "You don't look at the data." For example, when Sister Mi was popular, it was almost ten years ago. There are only a few of them. The overall base of Hua Dan is simply incomparable with the present. Nowadays, anyone who looks a little bit can be an artist to enter the industry, and there are many more young male and female artists than at that time? For example, if there were 10,000 artists who were popular in the past, and now the base is at least 100,000, and there are fewer who can be popular in the fierce competition, can you still be popular like this, aren't you lucky?"
Li Ruobai seemed to understand, pouting and muttering: "I'm not just lucky......
"Huh. ”
Han Wei and Doctor Zhang both smiled, nodded and spoke: "Yes, you mainly rely on strength. ”
Li Ruobai looked at him with big eyes, raised his hand to beat him, turned his head and asked Dr. Zhang, "His experience is easy to influence, right?"
Dr. Zhang shook his head: "Ask him himself, I can't answer this question." But I can only say, for example, if you smoke, you definitely have a greater chance of lung cancer than the average person. Similarly, in the entertainment industry, he has experienced so many troughs and difficulties, resulting in psychological shadows, personality distortions, and the chance of mental illness in the end is much greater than that of ordinary people. ”
Li Ruobai looked at Han Wei in a daze: "Sometimes I do think he is a little ......"
"Neurotic?"
Han Wei looked at Li Ruobai expressionlessly, and Li Ruobai couldn't help but smile: "En~"
"I ......"
Han Wei raised his hand to compare, and was dragged down by Li Ruobai for the first time and pumped hard. Big eyes glared at him. Dr. Zhang didn't feel like he was stuffed with dog food after seeing it, and his children were all in school. And it's not an insider. Not so much of a feeling. In front of me are ordinary celebrity couples, a little red. He has been in contact with a lot of artists.
"A lot of the performances are like that. ”
Dr. Zhang spoke: "Treating people and things with a mask is not schizophrenia, but having an independent second personality in your heart is basically enough. It was already a strange person, or two strange people, living in the same body, one with a dominant personality and the other with a recessive personality. What is serious is the opposition between the two, and if it is not serious or even the incubation period, it is that the main personality is dominant, and sometimes there may not be a second personality in a lifetime to come to the front, but sometimes some inducement will make the two personalities conflict. ”
Both nodded and listened.
Dr. Zhang's eyes changed, and he suddenly looked at Han Wei: "Do you talk in your dreams?"
Li Ruobai subconsciously looked at Dr. Zhang, but Dr. Zhang only looked at Han Wei.
Han Wei was stunned, and then shook his head: "I...... Let's not talk about it. ”
Li Ruobai was silent, and Dr. Zhang looked at Han Wei, smiled, and picked up the wine glass to drink.
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