678. The workplace doesn't believe in tears (2/3)
"Mommy, Mommy. When Tang Sanjian opened on stage, Candy called Huang Xiangning softly.
"What's wrong? Tang Tang?" Huang Xiangning leaned sideways and put his ear to the villain's mouth.
Candy knew she couldn't speak now, but she wanted to do it again, so she kept her voice low and covered her mouth with her hand, like a thief. However, the voice was too small, Huang Xiangning didn't hear it clearly, and asked the villain to be louder. The villain looked around, except for Pan Fugui who paid attention to her, everyone looked at the stage and listened to the speech of Sanjian's father.
"Dad doesn't just bully kids. ”
This is what Candy Er wants to say, which makes Huang Xiangning cry and laugh, and the villain is still worried about being trapped yesterday.
On the stage, Tang Sanjian asked the 8 people at the round table to introduce themselves, and then took the initiative to open the question, he said: "Ask everyone a question, this question is for elementary school students, but I think many college students may also make mistakes, is the rabbit going up the mountain faster or going down the mountain faster?"
The scene suddenly exchanged ears, and Candy was even more shocked, it was a rabbit again, and she hated rabbits now! Rabbits pit her snacks and ruin her good life. But she doesn't hate all rabbits, she only hates the rabbits in line and the rabbits going up and down the mountain, she still loves other rabbits, such as Tang Xiaotang who she is holding in her arms at the moment - Huang Xiangning repeatedly wants her to put it down, but she refuses.
Tang Sanjian didn't wait for the students to answer, and took the initiative to say: "According to common sense, you have to overcome gravity when going up the mountain, so the speed of going up the mountain is slow, but rabbits are different. The rabbit's front legs are shorter than its hind legs, and it can overcome the slope just when it goes up the hill, and it is easy to fall when it comes down, so it has to slow down, resulting in a faster speed up the hill than on the downhill. ”
"I give this example to say that what we learn in school is theoretical knowledge, and what we test is also theoretical knowledge, but theoretical knowledge is not the same as work ability, and only by linking theory with practice and proceeding from reality can we really solve problems. The ability to solve problems represents your value. One of the most common mistakes college graduates make when they first enter the society is to copy rigid routines. ”
Speaking of this, Tang Sanjian began to throw the topic to the people at the round table: "Tang Shuang, what do you think?"
"Dad fired at Xiaoshuang, it's really bad. Candy Candy muttered, she is now completely on Tang Shuang's side, Three Swords Father?
There were people at the scene who knew the relationship between Tang Shuang and Tang Sanjian, and they all smiled.
Tang Shuang said unhurriedly: "This example is very good, we can not only draw from it the truth that theory must be linked to practice, but also see many other problems. For example, a person's longboard and shortboard. ”
"Rabbits go up fast, but down slowly, each of us is the same as rabbits, there are both long boards and short boards, and it is clear that there is no perfect all-rounder. In school, the teacher repeatedly said in my ear that there should be no shortcomings, good Chinese, bad mathematics, no, if you want to fail the subject, you will repeat the grade. The thinking in school is different from the thinking in the workplace. In the workplace, you must recognize your own longboards and shortcomings, to admit its existence, mature people will carry forward their own longboards, people who have just entered the society, will try to make up for their shortcomings, and the words are also very good, called the barrel effect. ”
"In my opinion, this is wrong, this is a typical holistic thinking, our education requires all-rounders, but our society never asks for all-rounders, and we can't find all-rounders. Become an expert in your field of expertise, and the depth of expertise you are involved in is directly related to your growth height. ”
"If everybody wants to be a generalist, then why do you need to work as a team, you can do it alone. ”
As soon as Tang Shuang's voice fell, a boy from the School of Economics next to the round table took the initiative to take over the topic and said: "Tang Shuang is very right, all-round development thinking is a common idea among students, but the reality is that there is no all-round talent in our society, everyone's energy is limited, and there are good and bad at it." It is precisely because of this difference that society is richer and more diverse, and it is precisely because of this that it has a comparative advantage. The rabbit goes up the hill faster than the downhill, and this is an advantage, an ability that others do not have. ”
With the beginning, everyone gradually opened the topic, and talked a lot about this rabbit that went up the mountain faster than going down the mountain, and was stunned when she listened to the candy in the audience, she couldn't understand most of the words, but she understood about the rabbit, and vaguely knew that everyone was talking about rabbits, but they didn't understand what they were talking about, and asked Pan Fugui, Pan Fugui didn't understand, and he was confused.
"Sugar, what are they talking about? What are they talking about rabbits?"
Helpless, Candy asked Tang Xiaotang in her arms for help, Tang Xiaotang is also a rabbit, a cute pink rabbit doll, she said that she was still young and couldn't understand.
Candy looked sideways at her mother, who looked at the stage with a smile on her face, looking very serious. Candy followed her mother's gaze, it was Xiaoshuang, her mother was looking at Xiaoshuang, she looked very proud, oops, I really envy Xiaoshuang, I can make my mother proud.
Mom is proud of Xiaoshuang, so Xiaoshuang must be very good, although Candy can't understand, it doesn't prevent her from worshipping from the bottom of her heart, Xiaoshuang is amazing.
Look at me, look at me, look at me!!
Candy stared at Tang Shuang on the stage, and was shouting in her heart that Xiaoshuang should come over quickly, and she wanted to give him a thumbs up.
Tang Shuang seemed to have a heart, she really looked at it, Candy was surprised, and quickly beckoned to him, giving him a cute thumbs up, Tang Shuang smiled at her, and continued to focus on the stage.
Focusing on the theme, the crowd talked about many so-called college students' thinking, such as shyness, lack of self-judgment, easy to be influenced by others, such as the concept of no ability boundary, obsessed with verbal competition to win or lose, such as easy to collapse mentality, such as sometimes too optimistic, sometimes too pessimistic, emotionally unstable, easy to lose control, such as always ignoring hidden costs.
"We often ignore the hidden costs in order to save those explicit costs, and the time cost is the most easily overlooked. For example, I have found a job in a minefield and want to find a place to live, and now I have two options, one is to find a rental house near the minefield, but the price is expensive, one thousand a month, and the other is to find a rental house in the suburbs, and the rent is only four hundred. Fresh graduates often choose to live in the suburbs, but he never thought that if he added the daily commute time to and from work, and converted into overtime wages, the hidden capital lost in a month would be much more than the 600 yuan saved......"
It was another male student from the School of Economics who spoke, and he talked eloquently.
Tang Shuang actively participated in the exchange at first, but as he spoke, he felt that the topic was biased, and he did not agree with many views, such as Ji Rubing from the School of Film and Television said that students' thinking includes not knowing how to manage contacts, and some people even said that asking questions if they don't understand is the most typical student thinking.
"The workplace doesn't believe in tears, and they don't need tears, they have to cry and go home and cry. ”
"You're either out of the game or you're out. ”
"Overtime, staying up late, KPIs, competition, stress, ......"
"Who is not wronged in the workplace? Who is not growing up while being scolded?"