Chapter 542: Mother and Daughter Night Talk
When He Jinxia heard this, a smear flush rose on his cheeks, and his hands were clenched, too ...... It's embarrassing!
People in this era are much more open than in ancient times, and even if she has been in modern times for a few years, there are still some things that she can't accept.
For example, this man just talked to her in private, after all, it was just two people, but in front of the elders, Sheng Yan was so bold and straightforward, it really made Jin Xia unable to hold it!
Next, He Jinxia was dizzy throughout the whole process, listening to Sheng Yan take the initiative to discuss the engagement day with the elders.
Sheng Yan's idea is that it is better to choose a day than to hit the day, no matter how good the day is, it is not as festive as the New Year, so he simply puts the engagement wine on the New Year.
However, this idea was rejected by the three elders, and they were too anxious!
Aunt Rui wanted to help Sheng Yan speak, but Jin Xia was Ah Fang's daughter, and she was engaged in such a hurry, and people who didn't know thought that she was in a hurry to marry because something happened, which was not good for the woman's reputation.
Everyone argued over the word, so it was easy to talk about it, and finally decided to pick a good day and an auspicious day to get engaged according to the eight characters of the two people's birthdays.
Sheng Yan saw that they had decided, so he didn't say any more, He Jinxia sat next to him, obviously feeling his depression, and couldn't help covering his mouth and snickering.
After a rough discussion of the children's marriage, Sheng Yan's family did not stay anymore and returned to their own home.
He Jinxia sent them out, and when she returned home, she saw He Mu sitting in the living room, her head bowed, not knowing what she was thinking.
He Jinxia sat beside her, reached out and held her hand, and said softly, "Mom." β
He Mu came back to her senses, touched her head, and sighed: "I don't know that you have grown so big that you can get married." β
"When you were born, you were only such a small one, and I watched you go from a small bean to a bean sprout, and then to a Chinese cabbage...... I used to worry that you wouldn't find a boyfriend, but now it's okay, even my fiancΓ© has it. β
Jin Xia's heart was sour, her eyes were red, and she said, "Mom......"
He Mu rubbed her head, "Don't cry, what's there to cry about, we should all be happy." β
"I still think that you are young and can accompany me for a few more years, I was worried that you would not find anyone when you were fat, but then you lost weight and looked so smart, I couldn't bear it. β
"Because my mother knows you, if you look so beautiful, you will definitely be remembered, for fear that you will be bullied when you are young. β
Mother He sighed lightly and said slightly melancholy: "Sheng Yan's child is a good one, mom rest assured of him, it's better to pick a raw one than to pick a ripe one, and it's good to pick one who knows the roots, just in case...... Phew, no whatever! Sure enough, when people are old, they love to think nonsense. β
He Jinxia bit her lip, a thought popped up in her mind, and blurted out: "Mom, if I don't get engaged, I'll be by your side for a few more years!"
He Mu looked at her with a funny face: "Silly child, if you really think like this, wouldn't Sheng Yan want to eat me?"
After a pause, He Mu continued: "The engagement is good, both parties have a name after the engagement, and I can rest assured." β
"If you are asked to marry now, I won't, you are too young, you can't take care of the family, and you haven't learned how to deal with the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I have to teach you all this. β
"And you haven't been in love with Sheng Yan for a few years, in case you feel that the two parties are not suitable halfway, it's better to cancel the engagement relationship. β
"Love and marriage are different after all, love is a matter of two people, but marriage is the integration of two families. β
"Your Aunt Rui is good, I don't worry about watching you grow up since I was a child, but I'm afraid that Sheng Yan won't be able to stand the temptation in the entertainment industry, so I'll get engaged to him first, and then I'll come to inspect him.
If I see that he has intimate contact with other female stars, I will cancel your engagement without saying a word!"
He Mu looked at Jin Xia and said, "I just don't know if you will blame me at that time?"
He Jinxia bit her lip and said thinly: "Mom, I believe Sheng Yan, he is not that kind of person......
Mother He suddenly laughed and teased: "Sure enough, it's a big mother, you haven't married yet, and your elbow turned out!"
He Jinxia shook her arm: "Mom!"
He Mu shook her head: "The current environment is not like my time with your father, it is too impetuous, it is useless for you to beg me, I have to take a good look at Sheng Yan, it's not that my mother doesn't believe him, but now I don't need to cheat at all." β
"The two of you have only gotten along when you were in love, you don't live together, you don't know the habits of both parties, and your mother is not an old-fashioned person, and when you get engaged in the future, you can live with him and try to live together.
If you find that the other party has too many shortcomings and you can't bear it, don't worry about face, tell your mother directly, even if your mother gives up this old face, she will help you retreat. β
He Jinxia's cheeks were slightly red, and she whispered, "Mom, you're thinking too far!"
He Mu smiled and said: "It's not far, it's not far at all, if I don't help you watch, you were sold by Sheng Yan's kid and you don't know how much money you helped, you are too simple, and Sheng Yan is too shrewd." β
He Jinxia coughed lightly, feeling that the ginger was still old and spicy.
Throwing away the aura of love of the elders, and looking at the son-in-law with the pickiness of the mother-in-law, the mother saw the essence of Sheng Yan at a glance.
Mother He patted Jin Xia's hand and said, "I can feel it, Sheng Yan, this kid really likes you and wants to live with you, but both of you are stars, one is either going to film or on the way to filming, the other is that you have to go to work after filming, and you have to go to film after work." β
"The time you spend together is too short, the life between husband and wife is to be run together, and if you only take care of yourself, the relationship will become weaker and weaker.
Listen to your mother's advice, if you and Sheng Yan get married in the future, you will have to regress, and you can't always indulge in filming. β
He Jinxia said lightly, "Mom, I understand, I have arrangements." β
Mother He: "Sheng Yan's mother will also go to talk about it, so that he can't always be busy with work and not accompany you, I handed over my daughter to him, not so that she can live alone." β
He Jinxia continued to nod obediently.
Ahem, she won't tell He Mu, Sheng Yan and her, it seems that she is the busier one.
It's not that she accommodates Sheng Yan, but Sheng Yan accommodates her.
The two mothers and daughters talked for a long time, and finally Mother He couldn't hold it anymore and went back to the room to rest.
As soon as He Mu left, He Jinxia also felt tired, and returned to the room to turn off the mobile phone to rest, only to find that the mobile phone had been flashing.
When I clicked on the screen, it turned out that many people were sending messages to each other to greet the New Year.
He Jinxia yawned, didn't look at and reply one by one, and was ready to turn off the phone after casually scanning his eyes.
Suddenly, a message popped up on the screen.
Sheng Yan: [Did you sleep?]