Dialogue: "It's been a long time since I've written anything, so let's write an article, right?" "That depends on the number, and now I know I can't write it." Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info""What a fixed number is, only the Buddha knows. Do we do nothing, in this fixed number? "It's not for you to wait, but to ......"

Whether the word 'fixed number' comes from Taoism or Buddhism, I don't know if I have no religious beliefs.

The first time I knew this word was when I heard it from Hui Na four years ago. In retrospect, he used to say the word 'definite' a lot. At the time, I thought he had invented the word, but later I realized that it was not his 'patent'.

Hui was the only Buddhist person I was dating at the time. His worldview and mine are so different, and so are their spiritual lives. He is a man who lives for the faith, so to speak, for the 'fixed number'. No matter what he is doing in life, in the country, in big and small things, he is unified into a 'fixed number'.

For example, I once walked in circles on the pasture with my cousin, who was in graduate school, and him. We talked about some of the immoral phenomena in society, and as a result, he summed them all up to 'fixed numbers'.

Hui: "Who will meet whom, who will hurt whom, is a fixed number, and everything has a fixed number, and it is not the fault of the parties concerned. ”

The cousin retorted to him with righteous words, "Do you still have a moral standard? If you want to say this, there is nothing wrong with the murderer, because the person who was killed owes him his life in the previous life? Why are you like this? Where is your education so high? In this case, what is there to aspire to in life?" I did not say anything because I was numb to his opinion.

"You see, that's the certainty. I can answer you like that, but you don't understand and get so angry. You, like your sister, don't know the power of the Dharma. He said patiently......

I've heard him talk too much about situations like this. Since my personality is not aggressive, when he says it, I have a big head when I hear it, but I never argue with him, I am just anxious.

In order to keep him from resigning himself to everything, I tried my best to refute his 'definite number' theory with facts. Here are some examples:

I just met him in May 08, and he said: My wife is coming in August.

I was amused when I heard it, "When will this wife come, can you still figure it out?"

"Of course, it's a certainty. Until then, I just have to wait. He said seriously.

"Opportunities are created, you sit in the bedroom and wait for your girlfriend? ”

As a result, his wife met in November 2010. I really don't understand how he could have such logic.

If the incident itself is ridiculous, then there is another thing that is even more ridiculous. I originally planned not to write about this in my life, but today I will write it here and put it here in order to make it clear.

In 2000, external factors caused Hui's business to struggle, and he was worried about cash flow every month. I'm him.

Hui said, "You don't have to worry, this is a fixed number, the fixed number arrangement will be so difficult for me this year, no one can help, before that, I should have thought of a solution, I can't solve it." It means that this is a fixed number, and I can't hide from it. It will be fine next March. He said this in June.

Hui always said that, and I didn't feel like he was a real person. Persuade him to stop believing in 'fixed numbers', everything is like this, what is the point of life! But every day he kowtowed, burned incense, and then went to bed from morning to dark. It's all about waiting for a certainty.

I really can't look at it, it's incredible! I'm so anxious that I want to help him. What I'm going to help is break his 'definite' theory. Let him know that his fate is in his own hands, not a 'certainty'.

According to his understanding, the so-called 'fixed number' is a divine arrangement for a certain person, the result of the reincarnation of the previous cause and the future life, and cannot be changed or avoided. So to break his attachment, the only way to let external forces prove that the 'fixed number' is idealistic, and it is a psychological suggestion or self-justification for himself.

But how can I help him? I don't know how to do business. What should I do? During this period, I can say that I was so anxious that I was thinking of a way.

That's when something magical happened. Unexpectedly, one night, I had a dream: I dreamed that the trading market of two stocks was displayed, which was a red plate, and the display method was not normal, not only the current price but also the future price. I could see it clearly in my dreams. I mentioned many times in "God-Sent Love" that I was in a state of fake sleep, and this was the case at this time, and when I saw this, I let myself wake up immediately. But after waking up, I couldn't fully remember, I only remembered that the names of the two stocks were four words, and they both remembered the last word, and the first stock price was high, I didn't try to think about it, and the second stock price was less than half of the first. I seriously thought about this one, the reason why this is the case, because I want to tell Hui the stock and let him buy it, he is short of money, and the latter is suitable for him.

The second one I quickly remembered the price, because I still had a vague display of the market in my head. The first one, I don't want to think about it at all, although I know that the first one ended up rising far more than the second one.

In this way, I recalled the price of the second one and the words before and after the stock. The next day, I told Hui about my dream.

He said, "It's normal for anything to happen to you, you think about it." Then go buy it. ”

"No, I'm here for your dreams, my stock can't move. ”

He listened to me and opened an account.

Then I thought, after thinking about it for a day, my head hurts, but I can't remember the name of the stock.

At this time, Hui said: Then check the closing price on the day of the dream, and see how many of them are the same.

It's a good idea, he's smarter than me. However, I don't know whether it's Shenzhen or Shanghai, so how can I find so many stocks? Just when he told me to do this, I suddenly remembered the full name of the stock. Tell Hui that he checked the Internet and found that there was really this stock, and the price was exactly the same......

The results can be imagined.

When I write this paragraph, I will definitely make my friends feel that I am a little ridiculous. So what I want to say is that I fully understand everyone's opinion, and if it were me, it would be the same. Besides, I myself am a person who studies science and uses science. There are a lot of things that happened to me that I can't understand either. But I never felt that there was anything wrong, and I always accepted it calmly.

Because that's what I've experienced, and everything I write, I tell others first, and then verify it. So, I knew it would make my friends misunderstand me, and I wrote about the reason: these are all true.

The world is inherently diverse, so how can we all be the same as a member?

Now that he is back in Hui, his investment is his own investment, why did he make money this time?

Since then, Hui has continued to say 'definite', and I have a strong rejection of the word 'definite' from the bottom of my heart.

I can't understand what he meant by 'definite number' in his heart, but I just felt that he was not so educated that he could be played with by the word 'definite number'. Everything is in a 'fixed number', is life still interesting?

According to his philosophy, the spacecraft is also a 'fixed number' in the sky, doesn't he understand that it is the result of the research and development of the scientific research team?

The most ridiculous thing is what Hui Rang fooled a fortune teller who believes in the same as him. When I heard him tell him it was a hoax, he just didn't believe it. There is no way, I personally went to the Eight Immortals Nunnery, and with a hundred yuan, I asked the person who deceived him to deceive him on the spot according to my instructions. Then, I restored the scene in front of him, and the facts were conclusive. I was so sad and disappointed that I couldn't describe it, and he said, 'That's the certainty.' ’

There are too many such things in life, and in order to break his 'fixed number' theory, I let facts overturn him several times. Later, I finally ran out of strength, because, life went on, and his 'certainty' was endless......

When I wrote this, I felt very uncomfortable. I really want to know, the result of his pursuit of faith has made him ignorant, detached, wise, indifferent, discouraged, discouraged, wise, or something else?

Of course, one thing I know is that he has a soft heart, and he is the softest person I know of a Buddhist. Very kind, very compassionate, tolerant, there are a lot of tears in his heart, he does not lack wisdom, the fashion sunshine in his heart can only be found by those who care for him with their hearts, how strong his heart is, the same he himself does not know, the same only those who care for him with their hearts know.

Why is he like this, I understand, he has gone astray! Creation has made people unable to see himself clearly and believe in himself!

I have no religious beliefs, so what I want to say most is that my example proves that things are done by man! Anything you pay for may not be rewarded, but if you don't pay, you will definitely not get anything!

The 'fixed number' is the moon in the water.

Objectively speaking, I do not rule out that there is a 'fixed number' in this world. Isn't 'fixed number' just a word made up of two words? My 'fixed number' refers to the law that I want after being down-to-earth and pursuing it scientifically and pragmatically.

His 'fixed number' is a coincidence in the void!

Fixed, fixed. Nothing can be passed, otherwise this 'certainty' is 'bondage'......

I'm a very persistent person, and I want to figure out what I think I know. Although he has no religious beliefs, he respects the freedom of belief of others and respects what others believe. At the same time, because I have no religious beliefs and lack this knowledge, I may not know that my knowledge is complete. I also firmly believe that the original meaning of the word 'fixed number' was not understood by Hui, he only understood the deviation of these two words. If so, please understand, if my point of view is wrong, then please tell me what is a "fixed number"? Is there a "fixed number"?

Finally, I want to tell you that Hui is my relative, so I write about him in the article, don't I understand the impact on him. But why do I write about it? There is only one reason, to use our experience to tell everyone, don't be bound by something, don't be the so-called 'fixed number' and lose the most precious thing in life. If life is really designed by God, then we don't need to go to school, we don't have to pursue it, we just go directly to find the 'fixed number' of our life, wouldn't it be more worthwhile to live.

There is no heavenly book in this world, and any work is the crystallization of human thought and wisdom. Therefore, neither inheritance nor inheritance can be copied, let alone taken out of context, and must be learned and applied. Moreover, people cannot live without faith, and faith is not just a religion, it is diverse. Correct faith will allow us to put on the wings of wisdom and fly to the other side of the ideal.

When I don't 'slack', I'm very anxious and anxious......

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