Give roses to others, and your hands will have a lingering fragrance

This is a continuation of the previous article, which has already been put to a close, but what I really want to say in that article is what I want to write below. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Many years ago, one of my classmates told me, "It's a blessing to be loved." "He and I were both 18 years old. After all these years, we are still classmates who care for each other. I often think of this sentence of his, I think he did not say it completely, there should be another sentence that is "loving others is also happy and satisfied." And "give people roses, and there is a lingering fragrance in your hands." I like this sentence better.

I have mentioned several times in my articles that I am not religious. My friends don't understand why I have so many interactions with the sky and Tianchang, and I have written about them many times in the article. Everyone thinks it's fate, but it's not all right. After I write the reason today, the two of them will not appear in my article again, so let them practice hard.

The real reason is this: deep down in my heart, I feel that Tianchang is very pitiful, and his heart is floating, so at present, he can't achieve anything. Sky is amazing, he's given up too much, and he's doing what he loves, and he deserves my respect, regardless of age.

Honestly speaking, today's sky, Tianchang with their comprehensive ability can't help me at all. Their knowledge of Buddhism surpasses mine, and I have no interest in it, and they understand that. So why am I going to spend time listening to them? It's not that I'm going to study the sutras. Rather, I found out that they wanted to communicate with me, and their content was different, but the purpose was the same. That is, Tianchang needs someone who accepts his 'rose'. The sky needs someone to support him, someone to give him 'roses'.

First of all, I don't know why he always writes scriptures there? Two months ago, I understood: it was his heart that was not quiet. There is a procedure for monks to memorize the scriptures first. When you have memorized the books listed, you can be ordained. Otherwise, one is not a true monk. He didn't carry it for five years, and the sky carried it all in four months. That's why the sky is doing so well. In the two times I patiently listened to him, I found Tianchang's problem, he did not lack wisdom, but his mind was not quiet, and his personality was also a little paranoid.

At this time, I found that he cared about me. I took advantage of the situation and accepted his concern. Of course, it is also related to the donkey's head, and after reading my article about Tianchang at the time, he criticized me for being irresponsible to Tianchang. His views are generally more objective and impartial. So, after I reflected, I felt that he could do this to Tianchang, and I should do something for Tianchang. Although I am still very annoyed with him, I am willing to accept the 'roses' he sent, so that Tianchang has a pair of hands that leave the lingering fragrance of 'roses', so that his heart can calm down and be a real monk.

Why do I annoy him, it has to do with my personality. I'm a person who strives for perfection. I read a passage saying that people like me have several habits, and one of them is that I want the same to be true of the people I associate with. I agree with that. I appreciate people who treat their work as a career, no matter how big or small their career, dedicate themselves to the work they serve, and do their best. There is another one that is also necessary, that is, it is fashionable and sunny and positive to appear at work and in life. On the contrary, they will be underestimated and ignored by others, and their own hearts are not clear, and this negative attitude will also affect others. So, I don't like the latter.

Facts have proved that if we regulate ourselves like this on weekdays, it will make us more efficient and have more opportunities.

This view seems to be appropriate not only in real life, but also in monasteries. Tianchang, and the sky, their direction is just verified. The sloppy and decadent Tianchang and the fashionable and sunny sky fully demonstrated their respective mentality and attitude towards life, leading them to enter the same door, but walk out of different trajectories......

The truth is really mysterious. Today, Tianchang told me, "After memorizing those scriptures, I have finally met the requirements, and I can be ordained at the end of the month." "He was happy. I listened more helplessly.

Then the sky, I understand better what I mean to him. He needs my support, and that support is my encouragement and applause. One of the more important reasons is that he believes in cause and effect, and he thinks that I can lead him and he can lead me.

With my accumulation of knowledge, I am ready to give him just the right guidance, at least I will not mistake him, then I must continue to do so.

Because, I believe in my vision, I can't be wrong about the sky, and he will definitely be able to become a person who purifies all beings. So, I willingly listened to what he had to say, so that his heart was at ease. And this time, I played the role of the person who gave the 'rose', and my heart was also happy.

The most basic reason why I did this is probably my primitive kindness. I don't see them as different from us, they are also very lonely, and being a monk is a profession. They treated me like someone smaller than them, they cared for me, and I accepted it as if it were a kind of love. Since it is love, it is happiness, why don't I reciprocate sincerely? Therefore, I must accept them, and cherish this love.

The loneliest thing in the world is people, 'giving people roses, hands have fragrance', and both sides have a beautiful harvest process in their hearts. Giving love and receiving is a process of relying on each other and taking each other's affection. Life is too short, there are not many people in the world who can intersect with us, and there are even fewer people who give them love.

In fact, it is not difficult to interact with people, all you need is a little understanding and sincerity......

On this day and day, I wrote this article in a hurry, am I mature? Hehe, come on! Strive to take off the childish hat in the coming year, hehe......

Finally, Yun Duoer sincerely thanked the friends who watched me write the story of the sky and the sky. Don't misunderstand my motives, hehe! I'm a simple man, and I'm a blessed man. I hope that my friends will understand, don't disturb their purity, and let them practice well. They, like most people, are really not easy.

2011－07－17

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