Winter is about to begin, and the day before the National Day, Xiaojing and I strolled on a certain commercial street. Suddenly, we noticed that there were many people in front of us, so we also went up and watched from the outside of the crowd. A man and two women were arguing in the crowd, one of the girls was crouching on the ground, her face full of tears, and the other man and woman were standing and talking about something. Through their words, I gradually understood the reason for the quarrel.

The young girl squatting on the ground was the man's ex-girlfriend, and then the man empathized and fell in love with someone else, and the ex-girlfriend was very sad and kept pestering the man, hoping to get back together, and the man did not agree to this scene, I heard that the girl was pregnant with a boy's child.

In fact, this kind of thing is not surprising, in this low-pay and high-cost country, everyone tenses their nerves every day to plan for their future life, which is incomprehensible to people living in a society of Shangliu. A vulgar song can stir up people's tired nerves, and even sing it for a long time. From the county officials to the hooligans, everyone will hum a sentence or two, which shows how much pressure people are living at the moment.

The quarrel continued, and the people who ate melons gathered more and more. Seeing that the quarrel was fruitless, the woman suddenly stood up and pushed away from the crowd. The crowd gradually dispersed, and I noticed that Yan Jijing had a trace of sadness on her face, and I stepped forward to take her hand, but she avoided her. I was puzzled, standing in place embarrassed, she suddenly asked: "If one day, you meet a better girl than me, will you give up on me?" I was surprised and suddenly speechless, I didn't expect this seemingly ordinary thing to be so important in her heart. She looked at me with moist eyes, as if waiting for my answer.

"I won't leave you! I won't fall in love with anyone else......" My shortened answer may not have been particularly satisfying to her, but in the end she smiled and said, "Let's go!"

Near noon, we found a small shop to eat, and it seemed that Yan Jijing was still very concerned about what had just happened. She stared at the bowl in front of her, and sat in her chair in a daze. I suddenly remembered something, so I broke the silence: "Wenwen...... Has she ever had a boyfriend before?" It seems that my question is a bit out of place, Xiaojing glanced at me, put down his chopsticks and shook his head, and then added: "Her family is very rich, her father wants to find her a good person, but after finding several rich sons, Wenwen is not very satisfied, either she is too rich and too attentive, or she ...... It's just rich and too stupid. ”

"Too stupid?" I asked, confused. Yan Jijing picked up the chopsticks and took a bite of food and replied: "Well, those children from rich families have no worries about food and clothing since they were young, and they need to be served even to wear clothes, which causes their brains to become more and more sluggish. I watched as Xiaojing took a mouthful of rice with chopsticks and put it in her sexy mouth, her lips squirming up and down...... She noticed that I was looking at her and wiped her mouth. I looked away and said to myself, "Actually, it's not bad to marry a dull man! At least he will be loyal and won't cheat." She raised her head suddenly, lowered her head slowly, and said, "Yes! Men are flowery animals, and when they have a new love, they forget the old love." Just like the man just now, he is not a thing at all, he makes a woman have a big belly, and he gets along with someone else, if he doesn't have the ability to bear it, why sleep with a girl. ”

Her righteous indignation made the atmosphere a little strange. I said a little toughly: "I don't think it's just that man to blame, that girl should see what kind of person he is before sleeping with someone else, and she can't just sleep with someone else! Of course, that man is indeed a bit hateful, either don't do it, and if you do it, you have to bear it. We should indeed sympathize with the pregnant girl, but only sympathy. And we don't know what happened, so we can't comment on it, maybe that man really has something unspeakable!"

It seemed that my words touched her bottom line, and she seemed very emotional. "That man doesn't want to be responsible at all!" she snorted and continued: "Men are like this, sweet words when they love, and when they are annoyed, we are not your pets! Laundry, cooking, housework, and doing our duty all our lives, and it is always women who are hurt in the end!" I also responded a little excitedly: "We don't understand the situation, and we can't blindly sympathize with the weak, that man is certainly wrong, but I can see that the woman is not a good person!" She stared at me with anger in her eyes.

At this point, I was a little timid, trying to pull the words back, but it was too late. She preemptively said before I could speak, "Men don't have a good thing!" After saying that, she dropped her chopsticks and walked out of the shop without looking back. I sat in the chair, my mouth wide open and I didn't know what to do, and the waiter in the store also looked at me, and the argument just now was enough to silence the whole restaurant.

I hurriedly paid the bill and walked out of the shop. This is the first time we have quarreled, and the first time we have quarreled over someone else's business...... I'm beginning to regret that I shouldn't have said something so angry, that in a situation where both sides were so excited, it might have escalated the incident, but now it's too late to say anything and I can't take it back. I tried to call Xiaojing's mobile phone, but it only rang and no one answered.

When I got home, I was lying on the bed with my eyes blank, and my mother saw me in a trance, and asked me what was wrong, but I simply replied "It's okay". In fact, most people of my age are alone outside, but I still want to live with my parents, because there will always be a day when they leave, and I also want to enjoy the time with them all the time, life will always be different, and it will be too late to reunite when I lose it.

I took out my phone and sent a text message to Yan Jijing. I didn't know what to say to calm her despair, just to tell her not to be angry. I admit that I'm a boring person, I can't be funny, and I can't coax people, in fact, Xiaojing and I are probably quite tired together. After texting, I kept my phone on my phone, hoping that she would call me, but the phone never rang. I tried to call Wenwen's phone again, but it only rang.

It wasn't until the evening that I received a call from Wenwen. I was the first to ask, "Is Xiaojing with you?" and the other side of the phone was silent for a long time and replied, "Here I am!" and then asked rhetorically: "Why did you make her angry?" She came to me with tears in her eyes. I thought for a moment and asked, "Can you make her listen to the phone?" There was silence on the other side of the phone for a while, and then Wenwen's voice came: "She said she didn't want to talk, hey! I said what the hell is wrong with you, as soon as she came to me at noon, she sat on the sofa and wiped her tears, and asked her without saying ......."

I took a taxi to Wenwen's house on the outskirts of the city, and stood in front of the door looking left and right, not knowing whether to knock on the door, I was afraid that she would be even more angry when I saw Xiaojing when I entered the door. Finally, I mustered up the courage to walk up the steps, and just as I was about to raise my hand to ring the doorbell, the door opened automatically. I took a few steps back, Wenwen stood in the door and waved at me and said, "I saw you, why did you keep standing outside and not coming in?!"

followed Wenwen into the house, and the huge house was not satisfactory in terms of luxury. I couldn't help but think of Xiao Wu, would a young lady like Jiang Jingwen fall in love with a college student with a petty bourgeois life?

Sitting on the sofa in the living room and looking around at the luxurious furniture sets, the large disparity between the rich and the poor is a "disease" that we can never cure. Although it has been a great improvement from the old social period, some wealthy businessmen can still monopolize most industries, resulting in a growing disparity. Some people who are content with the status quo may not think so, but it is only after the fall of some key financial officials that it speaks for itself. It's time for our system to do a good rethink, for example: some simple procedures are complicated, there are no less than a dozen documents from top to bottom, and it is also after "dotting". When one thing is done, you realize that most of the certificates that have been done before are not used at all, and they are just international jokes made by the officials to prove "Youareyou......

Wenwen put the tea in front of me and said, "She's a little tired now, I don't want to see you, give her some time!" I picked up the teacup and took a sip, Wenwen seemed to see what was on my mind, and continued: "Actually, she is not angry with you anymore, she just needs some time to relieve." Xiao Jing just told me, I really admire you, you can quarrel over other people's affairs, is it worth it? Besides, you are a man, can't you let some girls?" I sat silently in the middle of the sofa, my head bowed down, I don't know what kind of eyes Wenwen looked at me at this time, I only knew that I regretted it alone.

After a long time, I slowly raised my head and said, "I don't know what to say, I'm sorry for her! I'm so excited during the day......" I stood up silently, turned around and walked to the door, just two steps, the door of the back room opened, and Xiaojing walked out of it.

"Why don't you say these words to me yourself!" Although her low tone made the air instantly condense, it was enough to make the emotions churning in my heart suddenly clear. I stepped forward and said incoherently, "I...... I'm sorry I shouldn't have said those things during the day, don't be angry...... I ......, "I hate myself for not being speechless now, where is that sharp tooth during the day? But Xiaojing suddenly hugged me unexpectedly, and I hugged her tightly, at this time, the words were redundant, just such a hug can heal the scars in each other's hearts......

Since the last quarrel, Xiaojing and I seem to have gone further with each other, and some things that we couldn't erase before can be said calmly. In fact, a pair of lovers, or people who were not familiar with each other before, will get to know each other better after some conflicts, and these are the processes of two people getting familiar with each other. From acquaintance, to getting married and having children, and finally accompanying each other for the rest of their lives...... From the beginning of love to the final family affection, it takes a lifetime to interpret.

Xiaojing and I sat in the café, enjoying the night view outside the window and listening to the music in the café. I thoughtfully put down the cup and whispered, "I've always wanted to discuss with you, but I didn't find a chance. I paused for a moment, and then continued, "Xiao Wu...... Xiao Wu likes Wenwen!" After speaking, I peeked at Xiao Jing, but she didn't seem strange at all, everything seemed to be expected by her, and she just said "oh" casually. I was a little embarrassed and didn't know what to say for a moment, but then she laughed.

"Don't you think I'm so weird? Not only am I not surprised, but I am so bland. ”

I also smiled and said, "It turns out that you have already seen that women are born detectives." She tilted her head and made a very seductive gesture. "When they first met, I thought Xiao Wu was interesting to her, but I didn't care too much. But then you asked me about Wenwen's love, and I guessed that Xiao Wu must be interesting to my Wenwen. She said.

"Cut! return your Wenwen, can you call the shots for her?" I glanced at her disdainfully.

"Of course, the two of us have a much deeper friendship than you 'hair boys'. ”

"But then again, you know Wenwen better, do you think she would agree to have a relationship with Xiao Wu?" I asked. Yan Jijing thought for a while, first nodded, and then quickly shook his head. I was puzzled and hurriedly asked, "What does this mean?" Her answer was both unexpected and expected.

"Wenwen's family is so rich, and her worth is much higher than Xiao Wu, even if she agrees, there is still her father's level! Her father is the kind of attitude, he will never give up until he finds Gao Fu Shuai, I see! Xiao Wu is definitely no play. Unless Wenwen and her father can be convinced, there may be a turnaround......"

Indeed, a daughter from a prominent family and an unknown ordinary young man will never associate them together, and they are not filming idol dramas, and there are no abusive plots. Then we were silent with each other, and we were all glad that the person we loved so much was just an ordinary person, not some dignitary. In this era of money worship, how happy it is to meet a lover who is "close" to you. Some women love to follow the example of the East and want to find a rich, powerful and young young master, but they don't look at themselves in the "Demon Mirror", whether they have the capital to be that Mrs. Kuo!

It seems that it is about to enter November, but there is not a trace of chill in the air, the sun is very warm and high in the sky, and it seems that everything in the world does not like to come to winter. A week later, it happened to be Alyssa Jiang's birthday, and we were invited to the most luxurious hotel in Shangdu.

As soon as I entered the hall, a banner came into view, with a welcome message written on it (I can't remember the exact content), and the interior decoration was elegant, and it could be seen that this was a special change for this birthday party, and those who didn't know the inside story really couldn't guess that it was just a birthday party. There were many richly dressed businessmen gathered in the hall, and there were some young people, who looked like sons and daughters with a superior family environment. Compared to them, Xiao Wu and Anan on the side looked much shabby.

Seeing us enter the hall, Xiao Wu walked quickly to me and Xiao Jing, and asked with some surprise: "What is Wenwen doing......? When a person feels that the person he loves is far away from him, there will be an inexplicable strangeness, and this strangeness comes from the gap. I replied casually, "This restaurant belongs to his father." "At first, Xiao Wu thought I was joking, but in the end, he didn't believe my words until he got Yan Jijing's confirmation. I heard that Tae Zi and his partner were traveling to other places, so I didn't come.

While we were chatting, the door of a room on the second floor of the hall opened, and Wenwen was wearing a blue dress to meet our eyes. Let everyone in the hall look at her intently. She slowly walked down the stairs and came straight to us, and we all looked at her in a daze like a clay sculpture carved from wood.

"Wow, you're so beautiful today!" I said first. Wenwen turned her head with a gloomy face and teased: "What? I'm not usually pretty?" I was embarrassed and didn't know what to say, opened my mouth wide and was a little stunned, Wenwen laughed: "Your mouth is really stupid, but today is makeup, usually what you see is my crazy appearance, let you see a different me today." "I thought to myself: Miss, your sentence has ended the topic, how can I continue to ...... (Manual Funny)

"You're beautiful without makeup. Xiao Wu said a little shyly on the side.

At the same time, Wenwen's father came down from upstairs and said to the people in the hall: "Thank you for attending the little girl's birthday banquet today, I am not a shallow learner and will not say anything, in short, thank you very much for coming today, you follow me to the second floor." ”

Then, people went up to the second floor in groups of threes and twos. Following the crowd, I came to a huge room, and the first thing I saw was a huge glass stage in the room, with microphones and some musical instruments, and an LED flashing screen above the stage, on which a few very casual birthday messages were scrolled.

After everyone sat down, music was remembered on the stage, and a group of young people who looked like rock singers sang enthusiastically on it. I, Yan Jijing, Anan and Xiao Wu sat at the same table, and all kinds of delicacies were placed on the table one after another, and the ten people sitting at this table were also rich, and the four of us sitting together looked extremely thin.

At this time, Wenwen was being pulled around by her father. Wenwen's style today really amazed us, Xiaojing may have seen it a long time ago, but we were still impressed by Jiang Jingwen's beauty after makeup, she was not ugly, and with a little decoration, she looked even more charming and moving. I secretly leaned into Xiaojing's ear and asked, "Wenwen doesn't have any other friends?

"It's not that I don't have friends, but I don't want to make friends, and people are too snobbish nowadays, especially girls. When you are unknown, no one cares, and when you are rich and powerful, the people around you also begin to change. Isn't there a saying to describe it? Poor on the streets, no one asks, and rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Wenwen hates this kind of person very much, and now I am the only one who really stays by her side. She thought for a while and then said: "We lived in a compound at that time, and the children all got together to play, they didn't take Wenwen, they thought Wenwen's family was poor, and her clothes were dirty and torn, only I was with her, and I didn't dislike her." Later, he heard that his father had won a huge amount of money, so he moved out with her. We didn't keep in touch anymore after she moved away, and I met her again last month when I came to Shangdu to work. After listening to her, most of the people I met were the children of his father's business partners, and they got together to talk about luxury cosmetics or famous cars and mansions, and Wenwen couldn't get used to it, so she basically didn't contact them. ”

Seeing that I was very interested, Xiaojing continued: "I heard Wenwen tell me that when their business stabilized, the children who used to play in a compound when they were children contacted Wenwen again and took the initiative to hook up their shoulders, and Wenwen hated it very much. Unexpectedly, the next day, they began to borrow money, and the amount was huge. Wenwen didn't borrow it and scolded them, and as a result, they angrily smeared Wenwen's company on the Internet. Later, the matter got bigger and bigger, and they all went to the court, and the other party may have been a little scared, so they all disappeared, but Wenwen didn't pursue it...... "Xiao Jing wanted to say something, but was interrupted by Xiao Wu, who had been watching us silently from the side: "Hey! You guys are endless! Look at you for so long, you have been biting your ears, and you are not allowed to show affection in public!" I smiled helplessly. At this time, Wenwen was also introduced to us, everyone slowly stood up, his father was wearing a light gray suit, light blue tie, and a slight wrinkle on his slightly old face, which was difficult to distinguish without careful observation. Although he is the CEO of a company worth hundreds of millions, it is difficult to see the arrogant characteristics on his face, and he looks very approachable with a simple face.

After seeing each other, they sat down for the second time, and Wenwen sat at the front table. At this time, the lights in the room suddenly dimmed, and a cake cart was slowly pushed into the hall, and a young woman on the stage sang a birthday song softly. Everyone stood up, and Wenwen stood on the edge of the stage happily, making a wish and blowing out candles. Then the lights came on and everyone took their seats for the third time. To be honest, it really makes me feel uncomfortable to stand and sit like this, but in some public places, I have to do this, and people who live a rich life sometimes work harder than ordinary people, which is an indisputable fact. After everything was done, Wenwen pushed the cake cart over and sat next to Yan Jijing.

"Wouldn't it be nice to leave the cake with us like that?" Anan asked, staring at the cake cart.

"There's nothing bad about it, they don't eat, they talk about business together, it's boring. Wenwen pouted and put on a look of disdain. Xiao Wu took over and said: "I really can't see that you have such a simple appearance, but you have such a rich father." Then he turned to me and said, "Hey, you didn't tell me before, Wenwen's family runs a restaurant." Before I could answer, Wenwen preemptively said: "Why do you want to tell you? You want to chase me?" At this time, the atmosphere was a little awkward, everyone knew Xiao Wu's intentions, but they didn't dare to debunk it, the only one who was in the dark was Wenwen who was sitting next to Xiao Jing. But now she said something like that, and we were all speechless. I was busy playing a round: "Everyone is friends! Xiao Wu means that he wants to know more about each other......

"Cut! I'm teasing him!" Wenwen smiled and lowered her head. At this time, Xiao Wu's heart must be the most complicated, and even Xiao Jing can't guess what Wenwen said, whether it was intentional or unintentional.

Our embarrassment continued until a few tables of guests left. The singing and dancing on the stage continued, and there were fewer and fewer guests in the room, until finally only our table remained. Most of this kind of banquet is a formality, a circle of personal feelings, there is not much communication, and the banquet is gradually withdrawn. Wenwen suggested that we visit the room on the top floor of the hotel.

She took us to the top floor, which is full of VIP private rooms, in addition to the standard configuration of each room, there are also a song hall, a lounge, a washroom and a bar, etc., and there are two waiters at the door of each room to serve guests at any time. But since there are no customers today, there is no one standing guard in front of the door.

Wenwen introduced us and led us to a private room. The room is so splendid that you can even admire it all day long, and perhaps in the eyes of some people, it may just be the most ordinary treatment...... Wenwen ran to the bar and prepared drinks for everyone, Xiao Wu was very excited to pull Wenwen to the song station, wanting to sing a song together, Wenwen shirked but had to agree to him, you can see the reluctance on Wenwen's face, but this reluctance is not annoying.

After singing, Xiao Wu ran to the bar by himself, and took a bottle of wine behind the counter that he didn't know what the name was, and I hurriedly pulled him inside.

"What are you going to do? Today is Wenwen's birthday, don't drink. I took his wine and put it aside, but he took it again and said, "You don't have to worry about it, brother, I won't drink too much, I have my own weight." ”

Of course, I knew in my heart what he called "weight". Wenwen saw him come out with a bottle of wine and a few glasses, and was a little strange: "Hey, what are you doing with wine?"

"I'm sorry, Wenwen, I took the wine without your consent, but I just want to celebrate it today, because it's your birthday. There were too many people outside just now, and I was embarrassed to drink more, so now there are only a few of us left, let's have a good chat. Xiao Wu said as he poured wine. Wenwen replied softly, "I don't know how to drink, you guys drink." "Looking at Xiao Wu's action of pouring wine, I suddenly remembered an incident a few years ago......

One day a few years ago, just in time for Xiao Wu's birthday, several of our acquaintances went home after celebrating him, and since Xiao Wu and I were on the same bus. After chatting for a while, Xiao Wu turned to me and said, "What did you say you gave me for my birthday today?" I turned to look at him, his expression of disgust, which was completely different from the expression he usually looked at when he was joking, and I still remember that expression very clearly. I was silent and didn't know what to say, and that was the end of our conversation.

It was indeed my fault, because I had only been working for less than a month, and my face was clean. We had talked about this beforehand, and since we were all good friends, we could almost be honest with each other, and I was very touched by what he said, "Good brother, don't talk about money, I'm glad you can come!" So I went to his birthday party......

I came back to my senses and saw that they were giggling and not knowing what to say, but only Xiao Wu kept drinking. In a blink of an eye, the bottle of wine was almost bottoming out, and Xiao Wu was also a little drunk, and his speech began to be unable to keep up with the rhythm. We all advised him not to drink any more, but he snatched the bottle of wine that was almost finished.

Xiao Wu is a person who is addicted to alcohol, even if he doesn't have everything, he still has to drink. Every time I visited his house, I would see bottles lying crooked on the floor, and I had to give up after I tried to persuade him to quit drinking. His mother seems to have misunderstood me, thinking that I led Xiao Wu to drink, and every time I went to his house, it seemed that it was for drinking, this kind of thing could not be explained, and sometimes I didn't want to go without accompanying him, which left him with the impression of "I can drink very well". Many times when friends get together, he bragged to others about my "drinking", although my physical condition no longer allowed me to drink more, but when I saw someone sincerely toasting me, I still had to force a smile to take the glass, because people think that "wine is character"...... The culture of the northerners to persuade them to drink...... Actually, I blame myself, I shouldn't have always gone to his house to drink with him in the first place, at that time I could basically say that I was on call, like a big stupid hat at the mercy of others, now I think about it is really stupid.

Xiao Wu stood up and shook left and right, and suddenly, no one else thought about it, he knelt in front of Jiang Jingwen.

"I like you Wenwen, you...... Can you be my girlfriend?"

We were all a little stunned, and we didn't know what he was going to do. Xiao Wu must have been carried away by the alcohol, because when I brought it up again the next day, he didn't seem to remember it at all. And even if it's courtship, you don't need to get down on your knees! Well, alcohol can really numb people's nerves.

Wenwen opened her mouth and looked at Xiao Wu who was kneeling on the ground in a daze. After a long time, he said, "You drank too much!" and then walked out of the room without looking back, leaving Xiao Wu kneeling there alone. We stepped forward to help him up, and he didn't seem to have reacted from the scene just now, and kept asking again, "Where is Wenwen?"

Then, we all left separately, Anan pulled Xiao Wu in the same taxi and left, Xiao Jing said that I wanted to go to see Wenwen, I wanted to go with her, but Xiao Jing refused. According to Xiao Jing later told me, they talked all night that day, and Wenwen said a lot of her thoughts, including the reason for rejecting Xiao Wu, but Xiao Jing was reluctant to reveal the specific content, after all, this is also a secret between the two of them, and it is estimated that there is something unspeakable!

One evening, more than a week after this incident, Xiao Wu, Wenwen, Yan Jijing and I sat in a restaurant in a daze, and no one knew how to start. Little by little, the four of us had been sitting here for five minutes, but no one spoke, the only sound coming out was the occasional throat clearing of my throat. In fact, this matter should have been talked about by themselves, and it seemed a bit redundant for me and Xiaojing to sit on the spot, but Wenwen didn't let Xiaojing go, so I had to accompany me.

Suddenly, Xiao Wu's mobile phone ringtone broke the awkward silence, and all of us present were startled. I saw Xiao Wu timidly answer the phone.

"Yes...... It's me, what's wrong? Oh...... I'll give it back to you, you look for it carefully......" Hanging up the phone, Xiao Wu seemed to understand something, and his frowning brows became much soothed, he thought for a while, straightened up and said to Wenwen, "I...... Wenwen, I really like you! I don't know when it started, I like your casualness and this happy mentality. Ah Xing and your best friend are here today, and I want them to be a witness for us...... Would you like to be my girlfriend?"

Wenwen took a sip of juice, lowered her head and didn't answer immediately, but even if she didn't answer, it could explain everything. Xiao Wu saw her expression, and continued: "I don't care about your family's property, I really like you, I want to be with you forever......" Xiao Wu was a little excited, leaning forward as if he wanted to change Wenwen's mind, but Wenwen was very resolute: "Wu Hao, thank you for liking me, you are a good person, but we are really not suitable!"

In fact, this can't be blamed on Wenwen, Xiaojing communicated with me in private, Wenwen wants to take over his father's business and then fall in love, because it may be more mature at that time. Xiao Wu is a little too hasty in this matter, as the saying goes, "You can't eat hot tofu if you're in a hurry!" If he is willing to spend time and get along with him for a while to confess, he may be able to improve his chances of success. And Xiao Wu is a very good drinker, I guess Wenwen can also see it. There is a saying that "eat less wine and know more." "It's okay to drink, don't let it drink you......

Walking on the street, Xiao Wu silently took a taxi, and nodded to us before getting into the car, which was a kind of goodbye. Seeing him like this, I was also very worried. I've known him for so long, and I've rarely seen him with this kind of face before. Xiaojing and I chatted while walking, and the topic was still inseparable from Wenwen and Xiaowu.

"How many boyfriends have Wenwen talked about before?" I asked.

"I talked about one, it was said to be their former neighbor, and then the boy and his family moved abroad, and they haven't been in contact since then, and I don't know the specific situation, Wenwen rarely mentions him to me. Yan Jijing looked at the stars in the sky and sighed.

How many couples in love can grow old, and how many couples can stand the test of time. We always complain that the other person gives too little, but we never look back to see how much we have paid, man is a greedy animal......