274. Psychological Preparation

"Just waiting for your family, what about Xiaoxue?" said Tang Guoqiang when he saw Han Zhong and his wife who opened the door and came in.

"The last one to come is to be self-conscious. The middle-aged man sitting on the throne said with a serious face, "The old rule, or punish yourself with a glass of water and wine! It doesn't matter if the little girl's family is fine, this adult should be a good model." ”

"Leader Wang spoke, consciously consciously, according to the old rules, I made a poem. We are all people in the education circle, and we can drink while chatting and drinking later, hehehe. Han Zhong replied with a smile, "Xiaoxue met a friend downstairs who I haven't seen for a long time, and after chatting for a while, we will report first, and she will come up immediately." The last sentence not only answered Tang Guoqiang's question, but also told everyone the fact that his family arrived at the hotel early.

"Hehe, that's wrong, Lao Han, there is no leader here tonight, and the old rules have been forgotten. We are at the same level, and we are all struggling on the line of education. Although you are in Lucheng District, I am in the Municipal Bureau, Lao Yang is in Yongjia County, Xiao Wu, Xiao Liu, and Xiao Yang are in Jianxiao, No. 2 Middle School, and No. 8 Middle School respectively, Xiao Tang has jumped out of the square inch and started his own business, but everyone came out for dinner and ignored their work positions, do you say so?" The middle-aged man grabbed the loophole and didn't let go, prevaricating, "Leader, leader, it's too much of an atmosphere, Xiao Tang, you say yes?"

"That's it, it's still Brother Wang who is right, my family, in addition to this document in my mind during this time, is that spirit, I don't even care about the little lover in my own family, and I almost forgot to call her, and I was counted down by me on the way just now. Now when I see everyone, the tendon in my brain must not have turned around, so I make a joke! Hehehe, Brother Wang, you have time to educate him more. As soon as Lin Meilin sat down, she filled her glass with a glass of beer, and relieved her husband of the siege, "In this way, he composes poems, and I will be my wife's substitute for water and wine, and I will punish myself with a glass!" As long as it is within the system, how can the matter of drinking and socializing be without the public servants of the local taxation department. Doing business on the mainland, whether it is a business or a self-employed person to make a living, and being a boss, industry and commerce and taxation cannot be bypassed, let alone tax evasion and tax evasion.

Flexible punishment measures, while educating and warning people, will make people learn to be flexible; but people are accustomed to giving up the difficult and taking the easy, so they will basically choose the former before being a person and doing things; as a result, it will naturally lead to a relationship of affection (face) and will reduce the seriousness and deterrence of laws and regulations.

"Yes, what is this called, the husband sings the woman or the woman sings the husband? Xiaoxue's little lover, hahaha, worthy of Xiao Lin. But if it weren't for your sister-in-law going to participate in a colleague's wedding tonight, hehehe, look at Xiao Lin, you still maintain your family's old Han like this?" Wang Zhongnian pursed his lips and said, "However, tonight was arranged by Xiao Tang, he came to be the east, and he was the master." Then the initiative of the topic was handed over to Tang Guoqiang, which means that he has the final say.

Wang Zhongnian's last words were affirmed by those present. Although everyone is usually extremely busy, on average, one or two months in their busy schedules will take one evening out of their busy schedules to fix family dinners with friends and exchange feelings with each other. It's just that this time Tang Guoqiang didn't give much notice in advance, and suddenly asked everyone to have a meal, everyone felt a little abrupt and confused, of course, this kind of doubt was mostly hidden in their hearts, or they took the time to come out to the meeting and brought their family members.

Tang Guoqiang first instructed the waiter to serve the food, and then began to slowly confide out the draft that he had been thinking about for a few nights. The focus of the topic is what he has seen and heard in Hong Kong, the difference in education between the two places, especially the teachers and students at the middle school stage (junior high and high school), the educational resources are inclined to compare------- international integration, levels, differences, and compulsory education in the true sense; as for special education, in Hong Kong, on the contrary, the private aristocratic education is more excellent and prominent, just like the private school in ancient China, the elite education.

Tang Guoqiang's breakthrough at the beginning quickly mobilized everyone's cranial nerves, everyone eats this bowl of rice, whether there is any material in it, naturally you will know the truth as soon as you hear it. At the same time, these openings also give everyone an illusion: it turns out that the purpose of this gathering, Tang Guoqiang, is to share his understanding of the gap between China and Hong Kong, Wenzhou and Hong Kong in terms of education, and let everyone get something from it, and even inspiration. Selfless and kind, he Tang Guoqiang is still the hot-blooded young man who is devoted to education, and the hardships of entrepreneurship have not changed his original intention and persistence, and he insists on the ideal in his heart.

Grandpa Deng's remarks about crossing the river by feeling the stones and catching the mouse is a good cat not only profoundly affected the part of the people who got rich first in Wenzhou, but also emancipated the minds of most of the people in Wenzhou, among which some people in the education sector have turned into butterflies: while recognizing the importance of traditional education------ while cultivating people for ten years and a hundred years, he has focused more on innovation, freedom, independence, searching, exploring, and having the courage to try a new education model.

"Moral, intellectual, physical and aesthetic, in which moral education: correct outlook on life, values, good moral character and correct political concepts, correct ideological methods. That's all on the lips, on the picture, the most difficult to measure, otherwise it wouldn't be put in the first place. Liu Ye, who served as the teaching director of Wenzhou No. 2 Middle School (junior high school), first broke the situation that Tang Guoqiang had just given a lecture and everyone asked questions, thus introducing the conversation that seemed to have a research nature into the second stage.

"Yes, the key is operability, most of the domestic ones are based on a brainwashing type of patriotism, traditional virtue education, which can be implemented in practice, visualization, data-based ------- the founding of the country, the kind of social work system you said in Hong Kong, its formation and development, and the current situation in Hong Kong can you talk about it carefully, I seem to have some ideas, but I don't know which joint is stuck?" asked Wu Bo of Jianxiao. He teaches mathematics and prefers quantitative data comparisons.

"Before carefully analyzing the causes and consequences of the development of social work in Hong Kong and abroad, I would like to thank two people for the inspiration and opportunity given to me, so that I can re-improve my thinking mode and take the road of education and training better and firmly, and one of them has given me the most scarce financial support at present, so that I can work with my hands and feet free. After traveling to Hong Kong again with a purpose, Tang Guoqiang's state of mind has long been different from the first time when he was looking forward to the future.

When the teachers (relatives) of the two suburban schools who traveled to Hong Kong together went shopping and entered the shopping malls freely, Tang Guoqiang's choice of route was more of a non-entertainment investigation and research, and the purpose was extremely clear. Fortunately, Wang Jieyi's careful arrangements in advance, and later Meng Tingting's personal responsibility, management, reception, and deployment------- Tang Guoqiang was not like a headless fly. As a result, he and Wang Jieyi formed a strong friendship under the "mother tongue" of his fellow villagers, and at the same time, Tang Guoqiang gained friendship and admiration among the teachers and principals who accompanied him.

Now it is Wang Jieyi's friend again, to be precise, it is the three brothers who have invested in the unfamiliar field of education and training (whether it is because of interest or not) regardless of the cost, and invested in their own careers. After a simple business-style process, although he only owns a quarter of the shares, the management of the company and the right to speak of education and training institutions are still in his hands. How to make decisions, how to develop, how to make comprehensive use of resources, or their own decision, their investment is only limited to financial investment, of course, there is still the reference authority to provide suggestions and opinions------- which is a great trust and affirmation, and therefore inject a shot of strength into themselves, so that their hearts are full of unlimited fighting spirit and motivation, now!

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"Wenzhou, both economic and social, and Hong Kong's status quo are nearly 20 years apart, but people's moral education can not wait for another 20 years, that will be another 2 generations, as my friend said, "groping forward, in other words, is to improve imperceptibly----- childhood plasticity is the greatest, if you do not pay attention to education and training (including moral education, of course) in this period, it will bring irreparable losses to children's future psychological development." Tang Guoqiang remembered this passage very firmly and clearly, and then relayed it.

"So, you try to use the moral education points method, drawing on your friend's point of view, as well as the Hong Kong social work system, combined with the country's current Eagle Medal Scheme, and implement it in your training institution?" Wang Zhongnian concluded.

In fact, after Tang Guoqiang returned from Hong Kong, after the current work was basically ready, he found Wang Zhongnian and communicated with him privately. Because Tang Guoqiang was originally able to be transferred to the Municipal Education Bureau as an education backbone, it was because Wang Zhongnian was his Bole, and when he decided to jump out of the frame and go to the sea to start a business, he also got Wang Zhongnian's understanding and support in a certain aspect. After all, Tang Guoqiang gave up an iron rice bowl that could only support his family, instead of abandoning the line of education and struggle, and only changed a position before and after, inside the system and outside the circle, the heart is broader, the ideal is farther, and of course some things are more convenient.

"Don Jr., your friend is not simple and insightful, but you are more determined and persevering. The line of education is different from other aspects, at least in terms of success or failure, heroes do not work here. Although China's 5,000-year-old civilization has moral models and deeds that can be used for reference, the world is not immutable, and a specific environment creates a specific culture and produces unique social evaluation standards. Han Zhong swept everyone with his eyes, remembering the changes in everyone's expressions, especially Wang Zhongnian, and then said seriously, "Using the method of moral education points------ your training institution should be the first person to eat crabs, and it will become, and the harvest may be far beyond your imagination: flowers, applause, wealth, and fame are only secondary, and the evaluation criteria are the key." This is a sword comparable to Shang Fang's sword, and perhaps it is an exaggeration to say that the incident may eventually rise to the height of politics. Are you mentally prepared for this?"