162.Chapter 162: Learning to Control

Looking at the little things flying everywhere blankly, Ye Fan suddenly wanted to explode and overturned the table, it was so annoying, this feeling of abandoning his previous efforts was really unpleasant, and he was extremely depressed. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

The chief housekeeper came over with a smile, handed Ye Fan a cup of tea, and said with a smile: "Drink a cup of tea to quench the fire." ”

Although Ye Fan was very depressed, he still suppressed it, took the tea, took a sip, felt the faint fragrance of tea, and the sullenness in his heart decreased a lot.

The chief butler asked, "Are you very angry?" I want to smash the table? Young master, you have to tell the truth. ”

Ye Fan nodded and said, "You're right, I'm really angry, I only finished half of it for half an hour, but I accidentally gave up my efforts, and I felt very depressed." ”

"It's right to have this feeling, a lot of people play games or do other things, they can't finish when they encounter difficulties, or they give up all their efforts, and all your efforts are in vain, it's all your feelings, or even stronger, so it's normal for you to feel this way. The big butler said slowly.

Ye Fan thinks that what the big housekeeper said is very reasonable, when Ye Fan was still working on Zhang Dahu's side, he was bored at night, so he ran to the Internet café to play, and saw a strong man next to him playing lol, and met the primary school students when they formed a group, and the primary school students gave people heads one by one, and collapsed their teammates, and as a result, they were abused by the other party into a pig's head, and the strong man angrily smashed the computer.

Anyone who encounters this situation will become very angry.

"It's normal to be angry, but you have to learn to control it, when to be angry, when to be patient, when to vent, and before you succeed, you must learn to control your temper and stay calm and calm. The chief butler said one after another. "If in the process of practicing martial arts, if you are in a hurry, but you can't break through, the serious ones will produce inner demons, resulting in loss of control of internal force and mental confusion. ”

Ye Fan nodded thoughtfully, Ye Fan likes to watch martial arts TV and movies, and often sees a certain master going crazy when he is cultivating, either vomiting blood, or going crazy. Ye Fan was still wondering at that time, why did he go crazy? Now that he listened to the words of the chief butler, he understood a little more.

"Now, you go ahead. Seeing that Ye Fan seemed to understand, the chief butler stretched out his hand and pointed to the table, signaling that Ye Fan could continue.

Ye Fan suddenly had a feeling of collapse, are you still coming?

Seeing Ye Fan's deflated expression, the chief butler continued: "You have failed here, don't you want to succeed? Don't you want to conquer the difficulties in front of you? You should find a way to solve it now, instead of feeling afraid, young master, I hope you can understand my hard work." ”

The Grand Steward is now more of a mentor than a steward.

Ye Fan nodded heavily, he found that the more he was afraid, the more he didn't want to do it, after the stimulation of the big housekeeper, Ye Fan's blood boiled, and he said secretly, if he is afraid of even this little difficulty, how can he do big things in the future? Ye Fan gritted his teeth fiercely, and began to collect small cubes scattered everywhere.

The chief butler looked at Ye Fan with a smile and a word, drinking tea leisurely.

Because the small cube was too light, it took Ye Fan more than twenty minutes just to collect, but this time Ye Fan's attitude changed significantly, he was not in a hurry or impatient, and came little by little. This is also in line with Ye Fan's character, which is relatively calm.

Subsequently, Ye Fan continued to play.

In the next three hours, Ye Fan failed four times, he was very angry at first, and in the end Ye Fan seemed to be overly angry, and he didn't know how to get angry, Ye Fan, who had a stubborn personality, gritted his teeth, tried to suppress the anger in his heart, and warned himself that he must stay calm and peaceful, and victory was just around the corner.

The chief housekeeper was a little worried at first, but when he saw that Ye Fan had failed four times in a row, but he was still continuing, and he didn't make any crazy moves, he was a little relieved.

The fifth time, Ye Fan inhaled slowly, and then exhaled slowly, at the same time, Ye Fan also relaxed himself as much as possible, lying flat on the ground, stretching his limbs, and letting himself stay in the most comfortable way, which is a way for Ye Fan to relax his body and mind in classical books.

Steady breathing, relaxed posture, in less than a minute, Ye Fan felt that the depression in his heart was disappearing quickly, this feeling was very subtle, if it wasn't for the fact that the ground was too cold, it was estimated that Ye Fan would still be able to lie down.

"Alright, go on, I don't believe I can handle it. Ye Fan got up from the ground, sat down at the table steadily, and moved again, this time, Ye Fan's movements were much slower, and his breathing was very slight, as if he was carving a very exquisite work of art.

Not arrogant or impatient, calm and calm, this is the high quality that a doctor should have, and it is also a must for martial arts practitioners.

The more the big butler looked at it, the happier he became, and his smiling eyes narrowed into a line, the master's vision was really right, the young master was indeed a talent.

Ye Fan's movements were slow, but the overall speed was much faster, twenty-five minutes, after Ye Fan carefully put the last cube away, he stood up cautiously, and after leaving the table for a meter away, he stretched his limbs and stretched his waist with confidence.

"It's finally done. Ye Fan let out a long sigh of relief.

Suddenly, Ye Fan walked to the table violently, kicked the cuboid he had just made directly and collapsed, and the fluttering small cube flew around, like a goddess scattering flowers.

The big housekeeper was stunned by Ye Fan's sudden moment, but soon a smile appeared on his face, this can be regarded as a kind of venting, Ye Fan's whole process just now is like patience, and when it is done, there is no need to continue to endure, you can vent.

This point is very important for martial arts cultivators, once you meet a strong person, when you can't beat it, you will be insulted or suppressed by the other party, you must be patient for the time being, and when you surpass the other party, it is time for you to finish and start taking revenge.

"It's human nature to be angry, don't deliberately suppress it, learn to guide and control, young master, you are now halfway to success, I hope you can do more perfect in the future." The big housekeeper said with a smile, he was sincerely happy for Ye Fan.

"The Great Butler......

Just as Ye Fan was about to continue to write the damaged books with the big housekeeper, there was a sound of hurried footsteps outside the door.

A servant hurriedly walked in and said, "Young master, the chief butler, someone is asking to see you." ”

"Today is the day of the free clinic, so let's come in. The butler said.