Section 3 Friendship keeps us together

Hug Ah Hua

From picking up Ah Hua and her daughter at the airport on the evening of the 1st to getting them on the train back to Shanghai on the evening of the 4th, it was like a dream. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 info To this day, looking back on the experience of the past few days, it is still like a dream.

Because a week ago, the back pain that I hadn't committed in nearly three years suddenly happened, and it was difficult to move, and the rhinitis was also 'robbed while the fire was burning', which made me really 'lonely', and I was very worried that Ah Hua would not be able to receive me well when she came. In order to hurry up, I went to massage for three hours at a time, and when I pushed it down, I was like being 'tortured', and my back was scarred, like 'blood-stained dusk'. The afternoon of the first day was not all right, and the back could not move flexibly.

Seeing that she was about to pick up a friend at the airport, this rhinitis was like a severe cold, and she was very anxious when she thought that if she saw Ah Hua hugging her, she would make her face with snot.

In desperation, I remembered to ask God for help, so I made a request on QQ: God, didn't you fall asleep on vacation? Wake up quickly, your darling has been uncomfortable for a few days, let me be happy.

Hehe, after being comforted in my heart, I still scientifically chose to take anti-allergy medicine. When I drank about four bottles of water in two hours, I felt like I was probably going to get better.

Worried about congestion on the road, I arrived at the airport two hours before the plane landed. In the process of waiting, the snot really stopped flowing. Oh, God heard me again. Thank God, I am your darling.

At half past seven, I finally saw Miki, and when I looked at her waiting for her luggage from afar, I was still so excited that I burst into tears, and I saw her angelic smile, just like when I was in Tibet......

Ah Hua's daughter, Wenwen, flew into my arms like a bird first, which made me feel very happy. I have never seen a child, but it makes me feel very dear.

Miki finally came to me, and we hugged each other tightly. Tears welled up in her eyes, and she hugged her, but I didn't cry, all I felt was happiness. She muttered and repeated: We finally meet again......

Yes, we meet again. This is something that was not thought of when we parted at the Potala Palace Square a year ago. Therefore, at this moment, we grinned and laughed, and all the touches were in this tight embrace.

Their time schedule in Xi'an was too tight, only three days. So after putting down our luggage, we went to eat Fan Ji Meat Sandwich Bun, eating Meat Sandwich Bun and looking at the rolling dough shop across the road, for fear of closing. Fortunately, I rushed over and got my wish. Nonsense, this meat sandwich bun, I rarely eat pork, it seems that I haven't eaten it for more than a year, it's good to come to friends. Hehe.

Leaving the small restaurant, we decided to go to the playground of the campus. This is Miki's wish, she wants to experience my life state, before she came, she proposed: must go to our big playground, must go to Qinling to accompany me to climb the mountain. Even though she hadn't climbed a mountain once, I believe what she said would come true. So, the first target, of course, is the playground, and tonight is the most suitable, and there will be strong physical activity during the day.

On campus, in the bright night sky, the sixteenth moon made us feel happy walking on the playground. Ah Hua also loves the fragrance of osmanthus flowers, and when I walked to the position where I was familiar with smelling the fragrance, the fragrance faded. So, we went to the garden, next to the laurel tree, smelled the fragrance of flowers as we wished, and Ah Hua said, "I'm so satisfied."

Looking at her intoxicated appearance, I was also very satisfied.

When I get home, I'm going to grind her coffee for her later (the machine has a menu in one shot), which is also planned. During this time, I have been enjoying the delicious taste of home-brewed coffee, and now that my friends are here, I must drink it.

Of course, this also laid the 'foundation' for us to chat later, to lift our spirits (I later found out that I didn't drink coffee, but also talked very strongly. )。 After Wenwen went to sleep, we began to chat, first in the living room, and then when I felt cold, I went to my bedroom, sat on the bed and covered the quilt to chat, and chatted until one o'clock, I couldn't talk anymore, and I had to go up the mountain early tomorrow morning.

And this kind of divine chatter, these three nights, every day, are after one o'clock. And the content of the conversation, there is not much new, it is all things we usually talk about. But we still had a great time. One will cry, the other will laugh.

I can't remember most of the conversation, except that I said, "Why are you coming to see me? We are in contact every day on average, so is it worth the money?"

Ah Hua said, "I just want to see the environment in which you live, your school, your playground, your Qinling Mountains and the Pure Industry Temple. Furthermore, the feeling of meeting and calling is not the same. I am glad to see you. What else is not worth it. ”

On the first night, I was very tired, but I didn't sleep well, and I woke up four or five times in one night. It's weird, I've always slept well, mostly until the alarm goes off. However, in recent months, there have been occasional small anomalies, obviously very sleepy but unable to sleep, or sleeping for a while will wake up, tossing until more than 4 o'clock can fall asleep. It's even more abnormal to wake up tonight.

When I woke up at seven o'clock in the morning, I found that Ah Hua had gotten up early. She said she woke up before 5 a.m. and left a message for someone with tears 'full of affection'. Listening to her, I feel that she is really 'self-inflicted', haha......

All the while, I didn't eat breakfast, or I never cooked breakfast. Guests come and there are exceptions. I didn't care about the shoulder pain, I made all kinds of preparations, and I went downstairs to buy beef paste and spicy soup, but their mother and daughter couldn't get used to it, but fortunately, I was prepared and made millet porridge. My brother and I shared a spicy soup, and my mouth felt uncomfortable for a long time after the meal, which is why I never eat salty food for breakfast.

Embracing each other in the Qinling Mountains

Set off to climb the mountain.

Three women, big and small, I can't carry weights, and it's extraordinary for a ten-year-old child to be able to climb a mountain. Therefore, the little fat donkey brother is responsible for the equipment carrying this time. Originally, I was going to have a picnic in the mountains, but then I thought that the backpack would be too heavy.

So I said, "Let's stop cooking today, let's go to the Huangyu Temple farmhouse to stew local chicken." ”

This initiative has been applauded consistently. I have been yearning for more than a year for the local chickens there, and it was impossible to achieve it with few people in the past. You can satisfy your cravings today.

All the way to the Pure Industry Temple, seeing the mountain gate, Ah Hua showed infinite excitement. Xiao Wenwen is a donkey, and I will break it.

Turning up the stone steps to look up, the three adults were sweating, but the children were breathing evenly, which was due to the low center of gravity. Continuing upward, Ah Hua, who had never been on the mountain, was the first to sigh, "Duo'er, I just understand why you are tired like that when you carry two boxes of moon cakes." That's so high!"

Xiao mm: "At that time, I thought, why can't Aunt Duo'er even carry two moon cakes, so that's the case, it's too difficult." ”

Haha, this kid, in addition to being small, is a little adult.

Miki is like a natural strong donkey. The first time she climbed the mountain, she actually understood that she would abandon the stone steps and choose to climb the dirt road. For a time, we who do not take the ordinary road attract the surprise of tourists: everyone is a strong donkey, and the equipment is professional, and the road can go up.

Haha, Miki couldn't close her mouth when she heard it. Visitors are very discerning, indeed Ah Hua's equipment is very professional, quick-drying pants, and the clothes are fully armed. Yes, what admires her is this decent frame. It's amazing to look at!

I wasn't surprised at all by Miki's strong form, as she was physically stronger than me. I didn't expect the little donkey Wenwen to be so unexpected, when she went up to Jinglai Temple, she didn't sweat.

When she arrived at the Pure Industry Temple, Ah Hua's expression was different: dignified. I let her go to Master Sky's room by herself. After coming down, her expression was even more different, "Duo'er, he's not here." Seeing that humble environment, I was so sad that I wanted to cry. ”

"Yes? I guessed. So before you came, you showed you a picture of him in the monastery. However, I never felt bad. ”

In my heart, I always feel that Ah Hua's feelings for Master Sky are because of me. Seeing her like this, I decided that I must meet her. I can't let my friends leave with regrets, or I'll feel uneasy.

"Sky is busy today and he has activities. I want you to go to the Zen monastery and take a look at it from a distance, so as not to disturb his work. "I thought as I said that someone could help me.

A week ago, when I was doing massage at Master Tiangao's place, he always wanted me to come to the temple with him on the 2nd to listen to the class, and he invited me several times by phone, and said, "That day, I can let a master with higher medical skills help you treat your stubborn back disease." ”

And our itinerary on the 2nd was also set more than half a month ago. Therefore, it is inconvenient for me to tell him the reason for not attending the class, only saying that I will definitely go that day but I will not attend the class, and it is inconvenient for my friends to take their children.

So, the first thing that came to my mind was Master Tiangao. The phone was answered, and he was waiting for us in the temple. I was really happy to see him, and I was glad that I was really lucky.

Master Tiangao: "Let's go, let's go up......"

"Master Sky is so busy, don't bother him, it's not easy for my friend to come here, let her take a look from afar. I'm not going up. Sky didn't know her, so it wouldn't interfere with his work. ”

"Why are you so out of sight? Let's go up together. "Master Tiangao still persuaded me.

"Let my friend go alone. ”

Master Tiangao saw that I was very firm, so he had to contact the Tianjie in the Zen monastery to answer. He didn't go up either.

I accompanied Ah Hua into the gate of the Zen monastery and asked her to go up by herself, and the master of the Heavenly Ring was waiting for her on it. He still told her to "just look at her, don't say hello." And the empathetic Ah Hua kept saying, "If you can't see it, forget it, it's troublesome for so many people." You're really different from me, and I won't insist on embarrassing other people's things. ”

Haha, kind her. We didn't embarrass anyone. She didn't see the sincere intentions of the Heavenly Master, he set off at six o'clock in the morning, just to wait for me, and never came down the mountain.

Master Tiangao is the most Buddha-minded monk I have ever met. Bless him here.

Fate, in my opinion, is really a thought. I don't know if I will ever have intersections with the monks who have appeared in my life in the future, so I should cherish this little bit of fate now.

When I was waiting for Ah Hua to come down in the Zen courtyard, my heart was on a spur, and I suddenly wanted to cry. I thought a lot, and I thought of Tianchang. The last time I came here, it was Tianchang who brought me up, and that day, he talked a lot. After a few years, there was no news of him, and I don't know where he was located. The monk who called me my child, are you okay?

Ah Hua came down, and the solemn expression on her face after entering the temple was relieved. Happy to say, "I recognize him at a glance......

I cried when she said that, but she didn't see it. Because, Ah Hua happily talked about the scene she saw. Why I cried, even if she saw it, she wouldn't understand.

Continue climbing the mountain.

At this time, I clearly felt that Miki obviously didn't have enough momentum to see the sky, and always fell last. It seems that she said that coming to Xi'an to accompany me to climb the Qinling Mountains is secondary, and looking at the sky is the theme, hehe. This will distract the heart. Looking back at her at the end, I wanted to tease her a few times, but I couldn't help it, I was worried that she was serious, wouldn't it be in vain just now.

Little Donkey Wenwen is already a complete strong donkey at this time. Children are very much like me, they don't admit defeat and have a strong mental will. A few times when I pushed her up, the child shook like a dandelion, which was a reaction of lack of strength under his feet. However, Wenwen still had a smile on his face. On a steep slope, she said childishly when she climbed up with her hands and feet: "Oh my god, this is too difficult!"

Ha ha......

Small mm, good job.

Finally arrived at the land beam. There was a drizzle in the sky. In the face of the poetic Qinling, the romantic miki came to the momentum, "It's so beautiful, walk slowly here, I'm not tired." ”

I knew that by this point, she had let go of her concern for the sky.

We hug each other here and sincerely enjoy the gifts given to us by Qinling. Hugging them here makes me feel that God is so good to me. I am truly blessed to be a man with so many people who love me. For their sake and for myself, there is no reason why I should not be happy in the future, let alone cherish and enjoy all the good things God has given me. I understand: when I'm happy, they're happy.

I got to the place of the red fruit. I was worried about whether it would be gone, and I just saw the donkey friend in front of me on the beam and threw it on the road.

Fortunately, the red fruit is still there. Looking at Miki who was happy, I sighed in my heart: all the wishes I couldn't grasp were fulfilled for her at this moment. Leaving no regrets is my greatest gratitude to my friends.

On this trip to Qinling, all wishes have come true, and it is time to drink chicken soup.

Since I didn't remember the way, I had to walk from memory to the house we knew. The grass on the path was waist-high, and our clothes were dry, but when we walked out of the path, our pants were all soaked. And the children were wet.

When you get to the farmer's house, the rain is heavy. Waiting for the chicken soup to simmer, I dried my clothes and pants around the brazier. At this time, Wenwen already had cold symptoms.

Fortunately, this pot of local chicken soup is in the stomach, and our hearts are like a stove.

I didn't walk down the mountain from Dahao Gou. Unexpectedly, after the heavy rain, our car could not drive at all, and the villagers could not contact the car to take us down the mountain. The fat donkey had to hire a van to pick us up. As a result, half of the car couldn't get up, so we had to brave the rain to go down the mountain.

We set off on the ground, but our lives were good. At this time, the rain is very small.

It was muddy and slippery, and we walked down the mountain quickly, not expecting Xiao Wenwen to be able to keep up with me, and it was laughter all the way. During this period, she said, "Aunt Doer, I have walked the road of my life today. ”

I clenched her little hand: what a child says for a lifetime, this little road is a lifetime. It's still a long life.

Hehe, it's really childlike!

The trip to Fengyu is an unforgettable trip for Ah Hua and Xiao Wenwen, and it is even more unforgettable for me.

Thank you for caring for our friend Ah Hua Tianchang

Yesterday I climbed the mountain, the weather was changeable, and when I came back, I was all fine, thanks to the pot of local chicken soup.

When a friend came, he mentioned that he wanted to visit the Terracotta Warriors and Horses and the Big Wild Goose Pagoda. That's what I arranged, too. Today, I originally planned to let them go to the Little Wild Goose Pagoda first, and then go to the first two places. As a result, when the car arrived at the gate of the Little Wild Goose Pagoda, I saw that the team had lined up on the road and turned a corner. I had to give up and go straight to the Big Wild Goose Pagoda.

For a long time, I really didn't have an interest in shopping and sightseeing. The Big Wild Goose Pagoda accompanied them in, and the scenic area was full of people, dizzying. This visit to the Big Wild Goose Pagoda left me with the impression that the sun made my hands red, and later I saw the terracotta warriors. Now the hands are all black like never before, and so are the faces.

When I looked at the fountain in the square, I was 'dizzy' by another burst of sunshine, but Miki was still smiling. Hey, why is this person so different?

When I walked to the west parking lot, I passed through the green park, and I felt much more comfortable. At this time, the mobile phone rang, and when I took it out, I saw that it was an unfamiliar number, and I didn't want to answer it. But the phone rang stubbornly, so I had to answer "Hey, who?"

It's a gentleman, and the first time the other party says something, I don't hear clearly, "Are you the one?"

"I'm Tianchang, how are you?"

"What, Tianchang?" I said aloud.

"Is it Tianchang, he has news?" Ah Hua said happily and loudly.

"Where are you? I said excitedly.

"I'm in Myanmar and just got a phone. I'm just worried about how you're doing, how are you now? I'm not worried about you......"

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Hey, the world is a bit of a mess. Of course, for me, this disorder is happiness, gratitude. Thanks to Master Tianchang, the love and concern he expressed on the phone is the kind of size for children, and he always calls me 'you' in the text message.

And the kind-hearted Miki can always think for others: "Master Tianchang is calling an international call, more than 20 minutes, how can he have money?" Later, Ah Hua also said that he would help Tianchang pay the phone bill online.

Thank you Ah Hua, an angelic heart. She only cares about Tianchang so much, or because of me, she is moved and happy when she sees that others are good to me, as if she also got it.

It's just that Ah Hua doesn't know Tianchang, and when he was in the Pure Industry Temple, he called me every time. When he met me and called, he also hung up and called. I think he thinks I'm a 'kid', he's an adult, and he doesn't let me spend money. I had no choice but to respect his approach and let him live with dignity.

For this reason, I can only text him in the future, although I don't like texting very much. I can't even ask him if he has financial difficulties, I know he is, otherwise he wouldn't have been in contact with me for so long. During this call, he also inadvertently said: "It's good to have this call now, and I don't know how long it will last." ”

received Tianchang's call, although I was pleasantly surprised at that moment. I hung up and I was at peace. Because, in my consciousness, I never thought that he wouldn't be in touch with me. It's like I think of him all the time. Although I don't like Tianchang, from the text message he sent me on the train when he left the Pure Industry Temple, I believed that he would not let me go.

When I wrote this, I suddenly wanted to laugh, and I thought of the self-inflicted amorous things that Master Sky said in the sketch. Alas, all the beautiful emotions in this world have been positioned by him as 'self-inflicted'.

Let's get back to the point. While the terracotta warriors were waiting for Miki to come out, I sent a text message to Tianchang.

Later, when I thought about fate, I really couldn't tell the story. I can't tell Ah Hua and Tianchang clearly. We met in the water, but we couldn't let go. We care for each other like relatives, because each other's existence makes us love ourselves more and love life more. And Tianchang, alone. If because of me, let him have a concern in this world, I am willing to accept his care, and I am willing to be his 'child', let him care, maybe it is also a kind of rush for him.

Fate, to some extent, is really not easy and cruel to live for some people. I don't comment on the right or wrong choices they make, just understand them. Let us who are relatively happy in life, giving them as much happiness as possible is the greatest gratitude.

Friends of love, in order to live up to your love for me, I will do my best to live happily and happily. Then you will rest assured, and you will be happy because I am happy.

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Goodbye friends

Four days is too fast, and today they are leaving. After sending them on the train, facing Ah Hua who was about to leave, I didn't feel sad about parting. Because this meeting made me very content. And these four days have been very fulfilling, she has no regrets, and I have no more.

However, when the train was about to leave, Ah Hua dropped me off. She cried, and I kept laughing and laughing at her, and finally I cried too. The female conductor who was waiting for passengers under the trunk also wiped her tears.

"Ah Hua, we have to live a good life in the future, you see how happy we live! We can't grasp the future, maybe one day we are exhausted, but we cherish it today, and there will be no regrets at that time." I hugged her and said.

"I know, this year, I am very happy. You have to go to bed early......" Ah Hua cried.

"Don't worry about me in the future, you have come to see it, my life is in good shape. Don't fuck me. "I say sincerely.

"You are stupid, we are happy to care about you. Ah Hua hugged me tightly and said.

The car was about to leave, and Miki got in the car. She cried in the car, I cried under the car, and Xiao Wenwen also cried.

I don't understand what Ah Hua is crying about, I cry sadly. Looking at my friend who was about to leave me, I suddenly wondered: After the past few years, will this be the last time we will meet......

I would like to use this document to my dear friend Ah Hua, and I also thank God for letting the two friends who care about me the most 'meet' me during this holiday season. Thank God I am your darling!

2012-10-7

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