Cherish life and live in the moment

Friday on March 18th is a day that I will not easily forget. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info At half past eight in the morning, when I was crossing the zebra crossing, I was hit by an off-road vehicle and fell to the ground while walking. The moment I was hit, my brain went blank, and I knew I was alive when I fell to the ground. It was a complete survival instinct, my first second reaction was to look at the car that crashed into me, I saw the car stop next to me, and at this second I knew I was okay. The next second, I didn't dare to move easily, and I calmly felt my body's reaction. Fortunately, I didn't feel very unwell, and I quickly stood up amid the exclamations of passers-by.

At this time, I didn't have any thoughts in my mind and was ready to leave and get out of my car. I glanced at the driver as I passed by the car that hit me. At this moment, I lost control---- the dignity of my life was trampled on! I raised my hand and slapped her sitting in the car: "How can you hit someone on a zebra crossing? How can you still act like nothing after hitting someone? What do you want to do?"

She emphasized, "I really didn't see you?"

Her unreasonable words reminded me. In my mind, I asked myself, "Why didn't I see her car either?"

I waved to her: You go.

It's a bit desperate to sit in the car and think about it. I feel how impermanent life is, and my life and death are controlled by others. If she doesn't stop the car within two seconds, what will happen if she's not driving an off-road vehicle, and I'm so tall, I should fall to her car and then fall to the ground according to inertia, even if she brakes the car within two seconds, what will be the consequences?

I didn't rejoice that my life was so great, I just blamed myself deeply: Why was I careless? If something happened, my life in this world would be the only necessary treasure for him, and how pitiful he would be. It occurred to me that I had not done my duty to him, and that he could not do without me. I felt sad and scared when I thought of this, and I sweated a lot on my back.

In this world, I still have so many worries, so many unfulfilled responsibilities, so many things that I can't let go, so many my own future plans, so many dreams that I want to realize, so many beautiful mountains and rivers that I want to enjoy, so many ......

All of this can change in an instant. At that moment, in fact, they were all forced to let go! Think about how terrible it would be, what a pity. I didn't even have a chance to say goodbye to my relatives, so I hurriedly said goodbye. How painful it will be for my living relatives, and how reluctant I will be......

At this time, a phenomenon that I had not experienced in the past appeared: I felt very weak, pitiful and helpless, and I really wanted a hug for me to lean on. When I took out my phone and found that I needed comfort, there were people I couldn't tell. Because, I don't need to worry about them, this part is precisely our blood relatives, so it is not them who can share with me in the first place. At this time, the first thing that came to my mind and what followed was actually just a few people, and they were the people I thought I could share with me. Turn on your phone, look through the long address book, and the last person to send a message is the person who thinks of it first, and the order is the same. Now that I think about it, how lonely people are.

So on weekdays, I used to think how important I was to others, for fear that my words and deeds would hurt others, but now it seems that none of them are so important. Just as you can let go of others, so others can let go of you. The difference is that they have different feelings for you and react differently. The difference in reaction is also the difference in cherishing, and it is this difference that makes you deeply moved. And what really sheds tears for you is precisely what you can't let go, and it's the only one.

There is a phenomenon that is more illustrative, because when I had an accident, a colleague happened to see it from a distance, and the reaction of my colleagues also made you see a side that you can't feel on a daily basis. In the office, some colleagues asked with concern in their tones, some criticized me for being careless, and some felt unthinkable about the slap I made, and more curious about how I was hurt so lightly.......

Today, when I write about this experience in a completely calm voice, I remember that I always say that life is a journey. If it's a journey, then cherish the process. You should live a simpler life and make this journey easier. What you can do today, don't hope for tomorrow. What you want to do, you must be able to work hard. What you want to do for others, you must act as soon as possible. More importantly, cherish the people who are inseparable from your life, cherish the people you love and the people who love you. Only in this way, when the journey arrives on time, we will have fewer regrets.

So what is cherishing, my understanding is to give.

In the end, cherishing life is the greatest cherishing ......

I would also like to thank this day and thank me for the reminder that I will be more careful and cherish every day in the future.

The reason why I am writing about this experience is just to remind my family, my loved ones, my friends, and the readers of this article to be safe, to be careful, and to be careful. Your safety is my concern, just as you care about me. Bless you all!

Thank God, I'm still me, and I'm really your darling. Hehe......

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