Chapter 33: The Weak Are Not Guilty?
If they are angry and want to hit someone, then they must be the last unlucky ones.
Once and twice, it was accidental.
But after many times, they are hairy in their hearts, and they are not very willing to go out.
Later, they found that if they were honest at home, or study, they would be much better.
It made them want to cry without tears.
Is this to keep them from going out all the time?
The parents originally planned to invite someone to see what was going on with the children.
How could it be so unlucky?
Later, I saw that as long as the child honestly did not go out to look for trouble at home, it would be fine.
I don't invite anyone to do it.
Just let them stay at home and learn to learn.
The first is to save money, the second is to save trouble, and the third is to learn something well, they always have to grow up.
Anyway, parents found that the unlucky ones were themselves, and at most the wear and tear of clothes and pants increased, and parents could bear it.
It's better to save money than going out to find trouble.
Parents have no opinion on this.
They wish their children would stop.
After several years of this, they gradually lost those anomalies.
The police followed up on the clues provided by the young people, and soon found that the people who contacted the young people were particularly cunning and had fled to other countries.
Then the clue is broken, and it cannot be traced for the time being.
The police can only make a note and see when the suspect will come back and investigate.
In the end, Yu Ying knew about this matter, and when she wrote this down in a small book, she always had to settle accounts when she had the opportunity.
As for the unscrupulous Dr. Chong, he has been dismissed by the hospital.
She was left with a bad record in her file, and her medical license was revoked.
Then, it means that she can't continue to work as a doctor.
As a client, she never admitted that she was bought to frame the patient.
There is no monetary exchange, there is no way to prove it.
In fact, the money did not go to her account, but directly to the account of the hospital where her son was treated.
In this regard, she insisted that it was a loan, and even took out an IOU.
In addition, regarding Nan Nan's misdiagnosis, this Dr. Chong did not admit that it was his own fault.
just said that he didn't think that the patient was plotted.
How did she know that a patient was drugged?
Nan Nan, who was recruited, is indeed a bit like a mentally ill person: irritable and aggressive.
Even, at that time, her eyes were a little dull.
Yu Ying and the hospital didn't believe what she said, there were too many loopholes.
The hospital is more professional and thinks that she mishandled the patient after taking it.
Dr. Chong is not a new doctor and has a lot of experience.
In the process of picking up patients, it is possible for a doctor to misdiagnose.
However, the patient's subsequent behavior, as a doctor, should find that it is possible to make a mistake, and there is still a difference between a normal person and a mentally ill person.
I didn't even want to correct my mistakes, and then I gave medicine to the misdiagnosed patients.
This is not a quality that a doctor should have.
No matter how you look at it, it seems to discredit the image of the entire medical staff.
And her motivation is more likely to be to work with others to design others, which is absolutely unbearable.
The people in the hospital persuaded her again and again to confess her mistakes, apologize to the victim, and see if she could get lost.
But Dr. Chong is a dead pig who is not afraid of boiling water, and he insists that he is just a misdiagnosis.
The hospital couldn't bear it anymore and could only fire her.
I followed the hospital and sent someone to discuss with Yu Ying about Nan Nan's compensation.
As a hospital, they know that no matter what, if their employees do something wrong, they will have to pay.
Even the hospital had to grit its teeth and bleed, intending to give hundreds of thousands of compensation to the victims.
The only hope is that Yu Ying will not sue and try to be as private as possible.
After Yu Ying found out, she didn't plan to sue the hospital, because she knew the suffering of the hospital better.
Of course, before replying, she deliberately talked to Nan Nan once, she is a victim, it is necessary to listen to her opinion, and others will also come to observe.
"Nan Nan, the hospital plans to compensate you, do you want it?" asked Yu Ying.
And Nan Nan happened to be writing a thesis at that time, and she had a headache when she wrote.
So he ran out and chatted with Yu Ying and a few of them.
Unexpectedly, grandma asked this question, she thought for a moment and said, "Grandma, you just decide, I don't care." ”
After saying that, she shrugged her shoulders, she didn't value money much in her heart.
Because she has not been short of money since she was in elementary school, she naturally doesn't care much about money.
"I think it should be necessary to let the people in the hospital have a long memory, how can you use that kind of person as a doctor. Lulu said.
"Well, yes, I hope that the people in the hospital will take precautions and find out the problem early. Fei Fei said.
Lulu's father also nodded, he didn't care about the money.
He was more concerned about whether the hospital could accept that lesson, in case it happened again that ordinary people were treated as patients.
"Well, since everyone agrees, I agree with everyone. ”
Yu Ying looked at a few people with a hint of a smile.
"However, I don't plan to ask for a high price, the hospital is quite formal, and the biggest problem is that she hired a person who can't adhere to medical ethics as a doctor, and as a result, the reputation of the hospital was almost ruined by her. ”
"......" Lulu pouted, grandma is just too kind.
"Don't blame me for letting go of the hospital gently, Nan Nan also said that the other medical staff are still good. It's rare to have a relatively good hospital, but it's too rare for other patients. ”
"Yes, I stayed there for a few days, and I felt that the other medical staff were still more serious, so the woman didn't dare to overdo it. Nan Nan said.
The treatment in the hospital was normal, at least the kind of electroshock therapy did not appear.
That Dr. Chong is here, and there is no way to use other means.
After all, when doctors prescribe medicines, they have a certain share, and they are distributed by nurses.
It's just that Dr. Chong wants to do more hands and feet, but he can't do it, after all, many places in this hospital are quite formal.
"Well, that's what I thought too. ”
"It's good that Nan Nan can think about it, but now the medical workers are having a hard time. Yu Ying said.
The other staff in the hospital were not involved in this matter, and they should not be blamed together because of Dr. Chong.
"If the management of the hospital is really chaotic, I am afraid that Nan Nan will be branded with drugs and become addicted, which is a very troublesome thing. ”
Speaking of this, Yu Ying paused, and suddenly remembered something.
Will this matter be plucked and passed out?
Then someone will ask Nan Nan to forgive Doctor Chong magnanimously?
With Yu Ying's feeling, even if the surname Chong knows the consequences, he will still do it.
Because she needs money to save her children.
As for the lives and deaths of others, she doesn't care.
Maybe she has good medical skills, but a doctor without medical ethics has the best medical skills for nothing.
She gave Nan Nan a preventive injection first, and said: "Nan Nan, you have to pay attention, some people may say that Doctor Chong is forced to do it, she has harmed you for the sake of her son, you are okay now, you should forgive her." ”
"Anyone else thinks like that?" Lulu said, her eyes wide.
And Nan Nan thought about it for a while, and said very seriously: "Grandma, I won't forgive her." ”
"Even if people say I'm stingy, I still won't forgive her, she's not qualified to let me forgive. Her son is human life, so my life is not human life?"
Yu Ying applauded Nan Nan's words.
Is a victim willing to forgive the abuser who hurt them?
That's your own business, and it's definitely not someone else's turn to educate.
In fact, many of the so-called 'moral pacesetters' are the kind of double standard.
Put forward requirements for others one by one, and take the standards of saints as benchmarks, and if you can't do it, your quality is low.
And they are much more relaxed in their requirements for themselves, they can be as comfortable as they want, and even let themselves go.
Before giving advice to others, don't you ask yourself if you can do it?
If you can't do it yourself, you have to ask others to do it, it's really funny.
The problem is that they themselves are convincing and feel justified.
"Nan Nan, you are right, you have the right not to forgive the people who have hurt you, some people are simply boring, always pointing out other people's things, very annoying. ”
Others were thoughtful.
Yu Ying said to the others: "There is another reason why I chose to reconcile with the hospital this time. ”
"It's sad to find that it's a mistake made by just one person, or a few, to have an entire profession pay for it. ”
There was some annoyance in her voice.
"In every profession, there are people who think about their work wholeheartedly, and there are also people who forget their professional ethics for personal gain and selfish desires. ”
"Especially in the doctor-patient disputes in hospitals, there are many rumors that there are indeed that kind of scum among doctors, but it does not mean that all doctors are like that. ”
Speaking of this, Yu Ying looked around at the others, and her voice became more stunned.
"Do you see it now? Now the relationship between the doctor and the patient has become very strange, and both sides are wary of each other. ”
"Patients are afraid of encountering that kind of confused doctor, who will spend a lot of money and not say anything, and will not be able to cure the disease, or delay the disease. ”
"And doctors are also afraid of encountering that kind of unreasonable patients and their families, and the scolding is light, and even more serious will be hurt by some people. ”
Speaking of this, Yu Ying's voice was a little heavy.
"Some of the patient's family members are really inexplicable, and when the patient dies, they regard the medical staff who participate in the treatment as enemies. Medical workers are indeed the ones who save lives, but it does not mean that they are immortals who can save everyone. ”
"I agree on this point, doctors and nurses are also mortals, how can they save all the patients?" said Lulu's father.
Fei Fei also interjected: "Now some family members are very powerful, and they feel like miracle doctors." As soon as the doctor makes a recommendation, it will beep and make it feel like those people are better than the doctor. ”
"Yes, if the doctor doesn't want to listen, then the family and the patient will do exercise together, and the whole family will go into battle together, and the whole family will fight the doctor. “
Yu Ying was referring to what happened not long ago, when the whole family went into battle and beat the doctor, just because the doctor recommended that they not need to have labor.
For this reason, the family went into battle together and beat the doctor to the bone.
Is this a patient there?
Obviously, they are all cattle.
If the advice is not heard, he will become a 'martial artist' who beats people up if he disagrees.
It's really lawless.
Implement the idea that if you can beat people, you won't beep.
"I know this, this incident was exposed on the Internet, which made the general public angry. ”
It is a normal diagnosis, but it is described by the patient, and it becomes a bad thing.
This kind of behavior of patients and their families is really chilling, and the number of medical students who are really willing to work in that line after graduation has decreased.
If one day, everyone will not study medicine, or change careers after studying medicine, then there will be no doctors and nurses in the hospital to see everyone?
At this point, Yu Ying is a little worried.
Then she said, "If reasonable medical advice is made like this, then doctors still dare to make decisions based on the situation? They all have to listen to the patient, and the patient and his family can do whatever they want." ”
Because the end of disobedience is to become an unlucky doctor.
Even if the doctor is injured or may even lose his ability to work, there is no place to complain.
Who made him a doctor?
"What's even more surprising is that the work unit of the victim's doctor did not allow the public to forward it, thinking that this matter should not ferment, and it would be better to pass it so so-so, I don't understand this. Lulu said.
In her eyes, doctors are also human beings, and they are the kind of ordinary people with joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
There are also a lot of troubles.
Yu Ying smiled and said, "Is this all to blame on the hospital?"
Nowadays, we often see that many people have to pay some fees to deal with the sudden blackmail after the idea of the hospital. ”
"Even if the medical staff is not wrong, it still bleeds. ”
"Who makes it between the patient and the hospital, it looks like the patient is weak. ”
"In the hearts of the public, the weak deserve sympathy. ”
"Even if the strong are not wrong, many times, they still have to listen to the call of the public and give part of the compensation to the weak. ”
"This situation has made those who show weakness, that is, have an example, and there have been medical troubles, so that hospitals have to develop the habit of calming things down. ”
"So you have to remember that not all weak people deserve sympathy. ”
It's like falling down by herself, because she has no money, she relies on the person who helped her up, saying that it is someone else's fault, which is destroying the kindness of others. ”
Yes, everyone else is nodding.
Since the emergence of a case, everyone has a big taboo about helping people who have fallen.
So much so that the wounded appeared lying on the ground, and no one dared to move forward.
Everyone only dared to watch from afar.
And the injured can't get anything for emergency due to various reasons, so they can only beg that they really fell down by themselves and will not blackmail others.
The situation has evolved to this point, which probably makes many people feel very sad.
But who let some of the weak succeed in blackmail?
Sometimes, regardless of whether public opinion is right or wrong, it always tilts in favor of the weak.
And when there is no evidence to prove innocence, good people can only swallow dumb losses.
You can only let yourself be careful and don't be a good person next time.
Fortunately, now everyone is a mobile phone or something, and you can suggest people who do good deeds and take videos.
Then Yu Ying continued: "The reason why I plan to go private and not pursue the responsibility of the hospital is because the hospital is responsible, but the weight is not large. ”
"I want that hospital to know that there are still reasonable patients. ”
Fei Fei said loudly: "Well, it's true, people I know, before going to work, I have to hope that I won't meet any evil guests." ”
She even told me that every time she wanted to treat patients and their families as uncles, she was worried that she would be beaten up when she went to work. ”
Yu Ying was silent for a moment and sighed silently.
Then she said, "Maybe someone thinks it's a good situation, after all, patients can feel like they are God and can be in charge of everything." ”