Chapter 235 of the first chapter: The four stages of mature love

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The next morning, a plane took off from Seoul's Gimpo Airport and headed for the Chinese capital.

A few hours later, at the capital airport. Lin Xi and Lin Jun, who were carrying backpacks and a suitcase, walked out of the airport exit, got into a taxi waiting on the side of the road, and drove towards the city.

"Brother Jun, does the professor know if you're coming back today?" In the car, after Lin Xi sent a message to someone, he turned his head to look at Lin Jun and asked. But in his opinion, it should be a fight, going home for the New Year, it's not big, it's not small, you can't always play any sudden attack.

Unexpectedly, Lin Jun really shook his head, and said with a wry smile under Lin Xi's unexpected gaze, "When I called the old man yesterday, I didn't say anything about going home, he didn't know where he guessed, and he actually told me again that I didn't bring my girlfriend home." Then he didn't give me a chance to speak, and hung up my phone. What else can I say about such a situation? ”

Faced with Lin Jun's bitter situation, Lin Xi couldn't help but look at him carefully. Then not only did he not comfort his eldest brother, but he also said in a downland, "Seriously, Brother Jun." With your current age, the professor probably wants you to get married as soon as possible, so don't wander around outside all day. After a long time, I'm afraid that you won't have the idea of getting married in the future, and it will be troublesome. ”

This time, I didn't wait for Lin Jun to answer. The old driver who was driving in front of him glanced in the rearview mirror, and then Lin Xi talked about the topic eloquently, "Little brother, what you said is really quite right." Like the bastard boy at my uncle's house next door, he is now in his 30s, and he is still alone. If this were someone else's, the children would all be in elementary school. Even if you get married later, you can say that you are at this age to consider getting married. But he just didn't listen to what he said, and he went crazy in the last two years. As a result, I heard from his uncle not long ago that the bastard boy said that he didn't plan to get married, so he lived alone, comfortable. Tsk, why are young people so ignorant nowadays? ”

When he said these words, the old driver's eyes kept staring at Lin Jun with disdain from the rearview mirror. However, in such a situation, Lin Jun was embarrassed to refute something. He has been very strict with his family education since he was a child, and he has always had the patience of respecting the old and loving the young, or being humble and listening. So after hearing the old driver's words, his face suddenly became depressed. turned his head and wanted Lin Xi to save himself, but what he saw was Lin Xi's snickering expression. Regarding this situation, Lin Jun also continued to smile helplessly, and did not plan to continue to speak.

In this way, under Lin Xi's snickering and playing with his mobile phone, Lin Jun's depression and helplessness, the taxi finally sent the two to their destination. As soon as he got out of the car, Lin Jun rushed directly to Lin Xi and strangled his neck, "I made you laugh, snickering, it was obviously you who provoked the topic, but it turned out that I was the one who took the blame." ”

Although Lin Xi was strangled, he didn't get angry, but laughed and laughed, "Brother Jun, let's let go first, if you have something to say, why do you need to do it." As the saying goes, a gentleman doesn't use his hands. Brother Jun, you also have a homonym, don't be such a scoundrel. ”

"As the saying goes, try not to do anything if you can do it, and waste it. Hearing Lin Xi's answer, Lin Jun strangled harder, and then laughed.

However, the fate that is very fond of playing tricks on people has come again. Just when Lin Jun was about to continue to take revenge on his brother, a loud voice came from behind him, and his voice was full of anger, "Stinky boy, what are you doing." ”

As soon as this voice came out, Lin Xi's eyes froze, and the smile on the corner of his mouth became even worse. But compared to Lin Xi's bright smile, after Lin Jun heard this voice, the refreshing smile after the revenge was frozen all of a sudden, and then quickly let go of the arm that was holding Lin Xi. Turning his head a little embarrassed, the corners of his mouth pulled out a smile that was difficult to see crying, and said, "Old man, what a coincidence." ”

A loud sound came from Lin Jun's arm, and then Lin Jun's face was also a lot red all of a sudden, and his eyes were full of pain and depression.

"What a coincidence, as soon as I went out, I saw you stinky boy doing things here, and I didn't know any rules. After slapping Lin Jun's arm, the old man with the voice glanced at him as if he ignored it. Then, after seeing Lin Xi standing next to him, his face changed suddenly, revealing a faint smile, and his smile was full of care, "Xiaoxi, that stinky boy didn't hurt you." Tell me if I don't let him try how low the temperature is in the early hours of Beijing tonight. ”

Looking at this old man, Lin Xi also laughed happily, then stepped forward to take the bag in his hand, and said, "It's okay, professor, you just came back from shopping for vegetables? ”

"Haha, you can't eat it. After hearing Lin Xi's words, Lin Tianyou also laughed happily, and then took Lin Xi's hand and walked home. didn't forget to turn around and shout coldly to his little son, "Why are you still stunned, why don't you hurry up and take this luggage to keep up, do you want me to help you get it?"

Seeing the attitude of the old man in his family towards Lin Xi and himself, Lin Jun also smiled bitterly, and then pulled up the suitcase next to him and followed. During this period, he didn't forget to mutter, "I don't know who your biological son is." ”

Along the way, Lin Tianyou pulled Lin Xi and chatted a lot. But most of the time, it was Lin Xi who was talking. talked about some interesting things and situations in South Korea in the past six months, and at the same time did not forget to bring a few words about the topic of Lin Tianyou, the old man, so as not to be bored. Finally, when the two of them walked to the door of Lin Tianyou's house, the old man also looked back at Lin Jun, and shook his head helplessly, "This stinky boy dragged you back here, and I must have decided that I won't let you stay outside the door." ”

"Hehe, Professor, I know you want Brother Jun to get married early. However, Brother Jun is only in his early 30s, and as the saying goes, a man is 40 a tweed, which is still early from this age. And he has just taken over a new position, give him some time to sort out his situation first, anyway, now I'm by his side, I'll help you watch him. If there is any trouble, I will definitely report to the professor. Lin Tianyou's words also made Lin Xi chuckle. However, he also knew Lin Jun's situation in the past six months, so he still opened his mouth to explain to Lin Tianyou.

"It must have been that stinky boy who asked you to be a lobbyist. Lin Xi's explanation not only did not reassure Lin Tianyou, but also glared at him, and then glanced at Lin Jun, who came to him with his suitcase. This situation made Lin Jun have a kind of crying and laughing thoughts, what is the situation, I didn't do anything, why did I make the old man angry again.

Lin Xi didn't answer, but his smile clearly told Lin Tianyou what he meant.

Everyone was gathered, and Lin Tianyou didn't continue to wait, opened the door and walked in. As soon as he entered, he shouted, "Wife, I don't have the next rice, if I don't have it, put more of it, that stinky boy is back today." After saying this, Lin Tianyou thought about it, and then turned back to Lin Jun, who had just walked in, and shouted, "Call your eldest brother and ask if you have time to come back for a meal." ”

"Old man, it's not like you don't know the boss's job. Do you think he will have any free time to run home for dinner and go out again?" When Lin Jun heard this, he immediately replied without thinking about it. The result was very simple, and he received a few more chestnuts from Lin Tianyou, which made Lin Xi tremble a little.

Just as Lin Xi was returning to his professor's house, somewhere in Seoul, several girls were looking at the little one among them with surprised expressions and shouting, "What?"

Listening to the shouts of her teammates, Kim Taeyeon was also startled, her neck was slightly tilted back, and then she reacted before she glanced at her coquettishly, "Ah, what are you shouting so loudly all of a sudden, it scares me." ”

"You scared us, I didn't say you, it's just Valentine's Day, and then you told us that Lin Xi returned to China. Ah, what are you kidding? "Yesterday, I was still envious of Kim Taeyeon and Lin Hee's love period, but today I heard the news that the two were separated. And it's a big distance between countries, which makes her have a kind of idea about whether to continue to believe in love.

"It's like, when couples come to Taeyeon, don't you always strike while the iron is hot, and then meet and eat every day, no matter when and where you always want to get tired of being together?" R looked at Kim Taeyeon and said everything he thought in his heart at once. And this statement was also approved by N and Cui Xiuying. Even SNN and Xu Xian, two single people, did not refute anything.

Shaking her head, Kim Taeyeon shook her head gently after hearing this. Then he thought of something, showed a faint smile, and asked a question that seemed unrelated to the topic, "Yuli, do you think that a mature relationship will probably go through a few steps to mature." ”

This question was asked so that the only three people who were in love here were stunned. In the end, Choi so-young reacted quickly, thought about it, and replied, "What Taeyeon want to talk about are the four stages of the relationship that the psychologist once said?"

This answer, N and R are still confused. On the contrary, SNN and Xu Xian showed a sudden appearance after thinking about their memories.

And Kim Taeyeon also nodded when she heard Choi so-young's answer, and responded, "Hmm." ”

"What, what are you talking about? n saw that Kim Taeyeon was playing dumb riddles with Choi so-young, and he didn't want to guess or inquire by himself, so he asked directly, "What are the four stages, don't say half or not, you guys are so annoying." ”

"Coexistence, anti-dependence, symbiosis, these are the four stages that a psychologist once said must go through to mature and truly love a relationship. Coexistence is actually the period of love, and anti-dependence is actually the time period when you feel that the other party is snubbing you, and after trusting the other party, there will be no more days when the other party snubs your thoughts and gives the other party space. In today's society, most people can't get through the second or third stage, so they choose to break up. Those who can go to the third step can be regarded as a love that I will not regret in my opinion. ”

Cui Xiuying was in her girlhood, and her family background could be regarded as the kind of person who was everyone's best girl. So in some ways, the intellectuality and atmosphere really gradually crept into her temperament. When she said this, her two temperaments were also intertwined, although they were very subtle, but they still existed.

After listening to this, he was stunned for a long time, and then muttered, "So according to what Xiuying said, am I the kind who is now in the second stage and then can't go on?"

"It depends on your personal thoughts and feelings, and the opinions given to you by others are all wrong. Even if his thoughts are wishing you well, his opinion is also wrong. Because outsiders never know what you think, even if you can guess what you think now, but he can't guess what you think in the next second. So, I've been talking to Pani about the opinion. Just listen to it, don't take it seriously. Cui Xiuying couldn't help but sigh lightly when she saw N's cute appearance gradually quieting down.

The road has always been to walk by yourself, and it may be easy to walk the way that others point out, but then you will become a manipulated toy doll. Of course, there are times when there is really no way out, so you should not have seen the previous words.

"What are you trying to illustrate about the situation you just pointed out to Taeyeon?" the somewhat messy R slowly pulled back his thoughts and returned the question to Kim Taeyeon.

"The situation is, I think my current stage should be on the first and third stages. In the second phase, I don't think it will happen to us. So I don't have any idea about what you and Pani just said. Kim Taeyeon was also unambiguous, and announced her answer very happily.

I don't know if it's because after falling in love with Lin Xi, my mood has become much happier. Kim Taeyeon, who was quiet and silent in the past, has gradually changed back to the lively and talkative Kim Xiaoyan who has been talking for a few years. It's just that now she has a lot less cute convulsions in middle two and more mature and sexy charm.

And as soon as Kim Taeyeon's answer came out, the eyes of the five people present flashed their respective gazes. SNN, in particular, bowed his head and muttered in a voice that only he could hear, "Do you trust?"