Chapter 239: Since You're Not Sure
Xiao Yan, don't look at him, he always likes to keep a straight face, with few expressions, in fact, just like his mother, in front of familiar people, he doesn't want to hide his thoughts at all.
Seeing that after he learned that his mother-in-law did not agree to this family matter, he was first hit hard, and then, he slowly breathed a sigh of relief, as if this was normal, Lin Yi secretly held his breath in his heart.
Thinking of her mother's admonition a while ago, asking her to clean herself and know how to be reserved, saying that men are so virtuous, and if it is too easy to get, they will not cherish it, and now it seems that it is very reasonable.
Although her mother was referring to other things, and applied to other things, the same reasoning was the same.
At that time, she felt that Xiao Yan was not that kind of person, even if she didn't go through his thousands of pursuits and begging, she would automatically send her to the door, and he would not look down on her because of this.
Unexpectedly, he still looked down on her because of this.
At this time, she is like a vegetable seller, in order to save trouble, she wants to sell it early and go home, so she sells it cheaply, but the person who buys the vegetables suspects that she is short of catties and two, or that there is a problem with her food, and she is not sure to take advantage of it.
It was as if it was too easy for them to establish a relationship, and her sincerity was discounted.
Originally, she still thought about showing her attitude and telling him that her mother's opinion could not play a decisive role, the key depended on her meaning, her mother's place, she would handle it.
Now it seems that why bother to embarrass your own mother for a man?
Let him feel the power of his mother-in-law, and how difficult it is to experience his daughter-in-law, presumably he will no longer think about it in the future, and his heart will not be steady.
Besides, if he can't even handle his mother-in-law, can he be reliable when he encounters other problems in the future?
So, Lin Yi first called He Xiulian and said that she wanted to bring her boyfriend to her, but after being rejected as expected, she naturally pushed Xiao Yan out and asked him to negotiate with his mother-in-law by himself.
In the first round, Xiao Yan politely proposed that she wanted to visit her, but He Xiulian politely refused, politely saying that she had nothing to say to him, and asked her daughter to answer the phone.
Lin Yi took the microphone, and He Xiulian's roaring voice could be heard even next door, let alone Xiao Yan standing on the side:
"What time is it? There are no elders in the family, you are a girl's family, leave a man to live at home! You are not afraid of others poking you in the back! You have lost the faces of me and your grandmother! Such a man who is not proportionate and does not know how to think about you, I will not agree to you being with him if I die!"
Smack, the phone hung up.
was sprayed wildly, Lin Yi held the microphone, feeling that the illusory saliva covered her head and face, and she felt a little unable to raise her head.
The two looked at each other and looked at the clock on the wall, which was just after nine o'clock in the evening.
Xiao Yan's face turned red at a speed visible to the naked eye.
He really didn't think that the first point of his mother-in-law's thorn would be this.
The two of them each live in a room, and they have never crossed the thunder pool on weekdays, he thought, if it goes well, they will get the certificate next year, and they will be a legal husband and wife, so there is no problem.
What now?
Seeing that he looked like a child who couldn't solve the problem, his face was confused, Lin Yi smiled secretly in his heart, but he looked entangled on the surface, anyway, it was "you look at it!".
Lin Yi didn't take the persuasion of her neighbors to heart before, she thought that she would be worthy of her heart, how would she live, and what did it have to do with others?
In this day and age, every family closes its door and lives its own life, who has the kung fu to meddle in things?
Now he has changed his mind, but he feels that it is too cheap for him to break through his door so easily.
While she doesn't mind those so-called fame, she doesn't mind what he thinks.
Since he is not comfortable with the smooth road, let him climb the dangerous peak!
On the big night, in order to protect his girlfriend's reputation, Xiao Yan wore slippers and carried a bag, and strategically retreated from his girlfriend's house.
When I got home, the old lady was happily discussing the engagement of her little grandson with her son and daughter-in-law, and was talking about which one to set on the dress, when she saw him come back suddenly, she noticed that something was wrong, and hurriedly asked:
"Didn't you say you'd come back tomorrow? This is ......" was brought back?
"Did you two quarrel? Xiaoyi didn't agree to get engaged to you?"
Compared with the euphemism of his mother-in-law, Dr. Su is quite straightforward.
"It's not that she doesn't agree, it's that her mother doesn't agree. ”
Throwing away the luggage, Xiao Yan thought that he was not good at dealing with this kind of thing, and he had to learn from his elders, so he simply sat down next to his grandmother and told his mother-in-law that he was against them being together.
"What's going on?"
I hadn't thought about Lin Yi's mother before, mainly because He Xiulian had already remarried, thinking that they had nothing to do with each other, but now when I heard my grandson say this, it didn't seem to be the same thing.
Since her mother had never ignored her before, and often sent money back, it was only because of geographical reasons that communication was inconvenient that she would see each other less, so her affairs, no matter how reasonable she was, could not leave her mother. ”
The old man knocked on the armrest of the sofa, twisted his eyebrows slightly, and also participated in the discussion.
"Isn't it our business to get married, as long as we like it?"
The elders talked a lot, and the more they talked, the more complicated it became, and the more Xiao Yan listened, the bigger his head became, and he couldn't help scratching his head.
"Heh, this marriage is different from falling in love. Marriage is a matter of two families, falling in love is a matter of two people, if you plan to talk for ten years, eight years and a lifetime, then we didn't say it. ”
Xiao Jianguo saw him scratching his head and smiled.
How much effort did it take him to marry a wife and hold a baby! The youngest son has smooth sailing and no sense of crisis, and every time he calls, he is so embarrassed!
If you don't experience wind and rain, where can you see a rainbow?
This is the normal situation~
"Dad wanted to teach you, but unfortunately he never had the chance. If you want to marry a wife, the most important thing is to protect her! Her face is your face, her mood is your mood! Her relatives are your relatives......
Xiao Jianguo seized the opportunity to say for a moment, and concluded when he finished: "I have already told your mother in private, Xiao San is not good like this, let's teach him more......"
Dr. Su secretly looked at her husband, thinking about it, but still didn't demolish him.
After all, she also thinks that her youngest son is not very good at relationships, even if he is lucky enough to take shit luck and bump into such a good daughter-in-law, if he doesn't open his mind and doesn't know how to maintain his feelings, sooner or later there will be problems.
Young people, it's always good to experience more.
Grandparents are conservative and talk about rules, but they didn't think about that for a while because they didn't have daughters for two generations, and now they find their own rudeness, and hurry up to catch their grandchildren and educate them.
Xiao Yan hurriedly listened in a proper manner, for fear that he had missed something crucial.
As for unscrupulous parents......
Dad is a simple leash love, it's already good not to smoke him, say something unpleasant, and forbearance will pass, as for the mother who was taught by the knife, don't expect her to hold her own heart.
Lin Yi didn't know how the Xiao family spent this night, but he knew that early the next morning, the old lady brought her grandson over with gifts.