1. From Mohan to Teacher Zhao

Today, Mohan, who is far away in Pakistan, left a message in Weizhong: "Teacher, I miss you, how are you?"

When I saw this, my heart was hot. hurriedly replied: "I'm fine, I miss you too." He said, "I really miss you, are you really?"

Haha, I laughed again when I saw this, and tears came out of my eyes. Laugh, one is that when he was in school, he would often use such sentences in front of me. The second is that his words touched the softest place in my heart, that is, the "really, really" feelings that can remain in my heart.

My atrium says it's not big, but it's also big. Along the way, there are many people coming in and out, and what is left behind is not necessarily the most wanted to preserve, but it must be the most real. Mohan is one of them. He was a simple, honest and affectionate student. He was met when I was playing sports on the playground. At that time, he had been studying abroad for less than a month. I asked him to practice spoken English for the students at home. When the child asked him for his compensation, Mohan said, "I don't want your money, we are all students." We were together, and you also helped me practice Chinese. And just like that, he walked into our home. Every Saturday, take him on an outing.

He studied in Xi'an for four years, and spent the Spring Festival with us for four years. He always accompanied me "uninvited" for the New Year, watched "Spring Festival Gala" with me, and went downstairs to set off firecrackers at 0:00. I will do this every year, and give him New Year's money. Later, when he graduated and left, he said to me, "I didn't spend the New Year's money you gave me." I brought it back to Pakistan as a souvenir forever. Forever grateful to you, I really, really love you. "Actually, it's me who should be thanked. After the child went abroad, because of him, the New Year's flavor became stronger.

After talking to Mohan today, the idea that I have been trying to organize my thoughts recently came to mind. What you want to sort out is the friends who have come along the way and met each other.

My personality has always been as "childish" as others have given me

However, I felt that I should go one more and simply that was all I had. It is this kind of personality that makes me immature enough, not being exquisite, and being overly serious about people and things. This results in a great deal of choice in making friends. When I met the same kind of item, I happily hugged and hugged again, and saw that the other party was comfortable and shining everywhere. Otherwise, you don't want to say more. It is precisely like this that also provokes a lot of idleness. This is the answer to the sentence: how tolerant you are, how happy you are!

However, I don't want to be happy with inclusion. Because my heart can't hold up, and I can't bear the pain when I grow up. So, I cherish you who come to me. But I won't easily walk towards you on the road, because I'm afraid that I will miss your intentions, miss your feelings, and delay your footsteps. I'm more afraid of being sentimental. Improper handwriting, not mistaking others, misleading yourself.

However, I will remember the heart-warming words you said when you paused in front of me. Whenever I think about it, my heart heats up. Then, I will silently pray in my heart: May you be well.

I'm glad that so far, all of you who have met me are all good at me. I see another self in you, we are all simple and good people, we are the same kind. There are many friends on the road, and I am also touched by a lot. It's just that a lot of walking and walking go away with time. Therefore, it is absolutely right to do it and cherish it.

The most recent impression came from two friends I met during my trip to Inner Mongolia.

One was Teacher Wei from Chongqing, and on the way to the Xilamuren Grassland, we sat together. The other is Mr. Zhao, whom he met in ********. I'll write about the latter first.

Mr. Zhao was met on the road behind the hotel where I was staying. That evening, because of a little unpleasantness with my companions, I went for a walk in the nearby streets. There are very few pedestrians on the streets. As he was walking, a female voice came from beside her, and she said in English, "Your dress is so beautiful." ”

I hurriedly turned around and saw a beautiful lady looking at me with a smile on her face. Her eyes are so bright. My first reaction was that she must have recognized the wrong person. So, I smiled and said, "Hello, I just came from Xi'an."

She paused for a moment and said, "Well, yes."

Then, she enthusiastically said that she was a teacher at a university in the city. She hit me off at first sight. We just stood on the side of the road and talked. Of course, I was following her thread. It's just that ******** evening is windy and cool. I was wearing a skirt, and after chatting for more than half an hour, my legs were a little cold. I hope the conversation ends soon. It may be that my expression made Mr. Zhao, who has a good cultivation, notice. She said that her home was nearby and warmly invited me to her house.

At this moment, compared to Teacher Zhao, I really don't have her open-mindedness, and I resolutely don't go. But Mr. Zhao was enthusiastic and resolute. So I changed the subject and said: Let's add WeChat.

Teacher Zhao said with some disappointment: "That is, it is a bit abrupt to let you go home when we meet for the first time. Her expression made me a little embarrassed, I felt that it hurt her sincerity, and I was a little at a loss for a while. She immediately said: I don't have time for something tomorrow, we can meet again the day after tomorrow, let's get together the day after tomorrow.

I'm sorry to say: I'm going to the grassland early tomorrow morning. It was a bit cold and I had to go back to the hotel.

After agreeing to be in touch again when we returned to ********, we separated. Walking around the corner, I looked back and saw Mr. Zhao, who had long hair flying, waving far away to me in the wind, and I waved back to her and walked out of her sight. At that time, I regretted it in my heart, why didn't I hug Mr. Zhao when we broke up just now?

On the way, I thought, no wonder people call me naïve. Today's behavior of Mr. Zhao can be regarded as naïve in the eyes of others. When you meet by chance, you are enthusiastic like an old friend. However, I clearly felt that she was happy. I was touched by her sincerity and thanked her for this moment. Because, at that time, I was very unhappy about my companion's affairs. Mr. Zhao who met on the road made my originally unhappy mood feel much better all of a sudden. It's like an angel sent by God.

The next day, when I went to play in the Xilamuren grassland, I thought about whether to invite Mr. Zhao to go with me, but after thinking about it, I gave up this idea. Later, I didn't go back to ******** and went straight to the desert to play.

After returning to Xi'an, I received a WeChat friend request from Mr. Zhao. I haven't added it a few times and really don't want to go any further. Because, I am always worried that after adding WeChat, I will see her unexpected life situation. I just want to leave the beauty of meeting on the side of the road. As a result, Mr. Zhao's repeated requests forced me to let go of my worries. Sure enough, I saw it in WeChat and I speculated. The background of Teacher Zhao's avatar should be her home, and there is a big statue of a god on the wall, which god I don't know.

The reason why I speculated about this was that she kept touching on this topic when she spoke to me.

Since the addition of WeChat, Mr. Zhao will often send greetings, and more articles are shared with kindness. I rarely reply to her. Teacher Zhao still passed on what she thought was beautiful to me. That's what she's tolerant of, so she's so happy. I can't do it. I can't do it, it's because I have a taboo in my heart. Because of his straightforward character, when he always meets someone who is good to him, he will go down all of a sudden, regard the other party as his own incarnation, and ask others to synchronize with him. As a result, most of them said goodbye to each other because they "couldn't" accept each other, which made each other sad. In particular, it is a little unfair to the other party. Originally, it was because people were kind to them that they became friends. After becoming friends, I hope that the other party has the same "three views" as myself everywhere and respects the beliefs of others.

Therefore, I basically avoid other people's friendliness to me now, and I am really worried about hurting them. Rather than that, it's better to have a light relationship. Of course, I also understand that it is not easy to become friends with each other. If you have a good impression of each other when you meet, it must be a place where you see each other's appreciation, or something similar, that is, "the same kind of item".

Mr. Zhao and I hit it off at first sight, and the same is true. Not long ago, she said: The reason why I want to make friends with you is that I see you as I used to be. You are so empathetic that it makes me feel like you are a good person. At that time, I recognized the wrong person, and when you heard my words, you looked back with a bright smile on your face, and your eyes were so bright, and it lit up my heart at once. You were so sincere when we talked, I really liked you.

Haha, I wish this friend I met on the street, she made me feel that as long as I am sincere, there are friends everywhere.

Second, Chongqing's wise and beautiful teacher Wei

Leave ******** go to the Xilamuren grassland to play, and get on the bus in front of the hotel. Next to me is a middle-aged teacher from Chongqing. Because of motion sickness along the way, we didn't communicate much. Just with her inquiry, told each other about the age. She is Teacher Wei.

When I got to the Hira Muren steppe and was about to ride a horse, she asked me how far I would ride, and I said it was the farthest. Teacher Wei said that she also chose this way. Then they each found their own companions.

After lunch, everyone was waiting for the horseback ride. Teacher Wei, who is in his fifties, takes a selfie next to the yurt in front of him. I've seen a lot of selfies, but it's rare to see a girl like her in a no-man's land, a girl who is as confident as a show, and who performs like a performer. She tied a beautiful red silk scarf in this way and that, and suddenly had a thousand charming beauty.

Looking at her appearance, I have always been full of confidence and beauty, and I sincerely like her and frustrate myself. The frustration comes from my very bad mood and bad state. The reason for this came from a companion who came with me this time. Facts have once again proved how important it is to travel with companions. The whole trip to Inner Mongolia was completely rotten on this terrible colleague, which disappointed everyone who went to the meeting with him. It's also my own fault, a similar problem happened during last year's trip to Russia, and I always thought she would pay attention. Looking at it now, she is indeed in a distorted mentality, and she can't see that others are better than her (she thinks). Be self-centered, if you are unhappy, you all don't want to be happy. What kind of logic is this? For this kind of person, it is better to be out of sight.

Mr. Wei returned to everyone after taking the photo. She looked at me, and I got up and asked if I wanted me to take a picture for her.

So, we took another shot at that position. Her movements were natural, and I couldn't let go. When she started riding, when she knew I was alone, she said, "You should be with your colleague." I smiled and didn't answer.

When she rode a horse to rest on the grassland of the reserve, Ms. Wei asked her colleagues to take pictures of her. It's beautiful!

After riding back to rest, I went to the grassland with a few other colleagues to play, and saw two people taking pictures from a distance. is also posing with a green silk scarf. The colleague looked at it from a distance and said, "It must be a pair of young people playing." Later, I learned that Mr. Wei was still a teacher who loved beauty.

We didn't communicate much during the horseback ride, and the relationship warmed up after dinner.

I was in a terrible mood and left the dining place. As soon as I left the door, my companion, who was disturbing my mood, stopped me and prevented me from leaving. During the dispute, Ms. Wei and her two colleagues watched from the sidelines. I was very annoyed, but I couldn't get out. At this moment, Teacher Wei said, "Teacher Gao, the grassland is beautiful, let's go see the sunset." "Thank God that another angel has been sent.

The impasse was thus opened. I left with another colleague of hers, while her older colleague was there to persuade my companion. I am very grateful to Mr. Wei for letting me out of this predicament. The first thing she said was, "Oh, I can see why you choose to ride long distances alone, because you don't want to see them." ”

Teacher Wei's words make me think that she is an extremely smart person. The teacher who followed me told me that Mr. Wei was their principal. People, very nice.

His colleague was right, she was a very good person. He is a kind person, but also a person with a beautiful heart. At that time, it could be said that I came out of the restaurant with the front foot, and they followed closely behind. During the dispute, she had been listening quietly on the side, pretending to be looking at the goods on the side, and did not come up to persuade the fight. She must have understood what was going on to bring me out of an embarrassing situation.

On the prairie she said: "At first I didn't know what was going on, but after listening to it for a while, I found that you couldn't get out, so I decided to intervene." Come out to play, companions are very important. ”

As if grasping at a life-saving straw, I said urgently: "At that time, I wondered, why don't you come to persuade me to fight." ”

Teacher Wei listened, grabbed my arm, and said with an embarrassed expression on his face, "Yes, I should have taken you away earlier." "Alas, she is kind.

She probably saw that I had not recovered, so she took my hand and said, "I used to be like you, and I get angry when others force me to be angry." Now that I'm gone, we can't let others spoil our mood, life is so good, why don't we live happily. After thinking about this truth, my mood suddenly brightened up, and my worries were less. In addition, we can't choose what kind of people we meet around us, but we can choose what kind of people we don't want to be with. There is a type of person in this world who is jealous of others and thinks that make them unhappy. Don't try to change them, it's just going to make you angry. And this kind of qi is very unworthy of life. ”

It was so important to hear these words at this time, and I was so moved that I was about to cry. Teacher Wei, a wise and beautiful woman!

Then, she made me as happy as she could. Taking pictures like this on the grassland, she is still very beautiful posing. And because my mood has not adjusted, my expression is a little stiff. She put down the two colleagues and pulled me to jump and hug me together. I was so impressed by her enthusiasm that I wrapped my silk scarf around her neck, hoping that she would be more beautiful.

And so, on this evening of sunset on the prairie, because of her and her colleagues, I had a very bad moment, and it became beautiful. We happily watched the sunset on the grassland together, brilliantly. I would like to thank her and her two colleagues from the bottom of my heart.

In my eyes, Teacher Wei is a beautiful woman. Her beauty responds to the sentence: "A woman is beautiful because her heart is beautiful!" Her body is filled with a positive beauty, atmospheric beauty, full of positive energy.

Later, I found more pretty photos of her in her WeChat. Looking at her beautiful figure, I feel that it is really good to be a woman like her. At the same time, I really applaud her in my heart! Because being able to make beauty and show beauty is itself a kind of beauty from the bottom of my heart. It's more than half a hundred years old, but it's as beautiful as the flower season!

The heart is beautiful, everything is beautiful! Mr. Wei completely explained!

Here, thank you very much, Mr. Wei. Because of you, my grassland trip is more meaningful. And because of you, my heart is warm when I recall my grassland trip. Your understanding, your atmosphere, your calmness, and your wisdom will all be beautiful memories that I will never forget.

I would like to be like you, always have the mood of flowers, the season of flowers!

Along the way, friends on the road have gathered and scattered, and every encounter is unforgettable. Some got lost while walking, and some changed their tune while walking. Whether you are with us all the way or stop at the same place, Duo'er is grateful to you. We have walked through the past years. Share the joy of life together and enjoy the glory of the years together.

All this beauty lives up to the fate of encounter. Here, I wish every friend I meet!